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Same Sex, Same Sht

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Queers, queens and in betweens. We're Rochelle and Maddy. Fiances who love to chat all things lesbian. Each week we will be sharing conversations that show us queers do the same sht as everyone else. Whether you're queer, straight or somewhere in between, we are going to be oversharing on all things lesbian life, queer dating, what it’s like being two mums, Australian queer IVF journeys, how to support a friend or family member who is coming out and whatever other unfiltered lesbian chats happen in between. Follow along with us on Instagram and TikTok @those.twomums for daily life and behind the scenes x

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United States

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Queers, queens and in betweens. We're Rochelle and Maddy. Fiances who love to chat all things lesbian. Each week we will be sharing conversations that show us queers do the same sht as everyone else. Whether you're queer, straight or somewhere in between, we are going to be oversharing on all things lesbian life, queer dating, what it’s like being two mums, Australian queer IVF journeys, how to support a friend or family member who is coming out and whatever other unfiltered lesbian chats happen in between. Follow along with us on Instagram and TikTok @those.twomums for daily life and behind the scenes x

Language:

English


Episodes
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Using a Known (sibling) Sperm Donor with Kayla

4/15/2024
Kayla sheds some much needed light on what it is like going through IVF as a same-sex couple, using sibling sperm donation. Kaylas wife Ingrid carried their three kids using her egg, and Kaylas brother as their sperm donor. Kayla shares the early conversations around their IVF journey, how they made the decision to use her brother as their donor and every other aspect that comes with that decision. Kayla presents this topics so well and is such an inspiration for anyone considering going down this path on their own IVF journey, as well as those who are unaware of the process of using a known donor. Her story is a MUST listen! Follow us @those.twomums to stay up to date with the pod and our daily queer life x

Duration:00:32:55

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Navigating Being The Non Birthing Mum with Georgia Hinkley

4/8/2024
Being the non birthing mum in a same sex relationship is something that I never thought I would have trouble navigating, but I did, and I know I am not alone. This week we bring Georgia Hinkley back on the podcast to talk about how we have both navigated becoming a mum, as the non birthing women a same sex couple. THIS is the episode I needed when my fiance was pregnant. I thought how the hell am I going to bond with the baby? How do I deal with comments (that I can't answer) about pregnancy and birth when out in public with my baby? How do I stop feeling like I'm not the real mum? We are here to help you through it all. Follow us @those,twomums to stay up to date with the pod and our queer daily life x

Duration:00:37:30

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Chapstick What?? Chatting Gender Expression and Lesbian Labels

4/1/2024
This week, we are unpacking how we label ourselves and chat all things gender expression. Grab a coffee, beer or beverage of your choice, sit back and enjoy the rouge, unfiltered lesbian conversation that is ahead. Rochelle has a problem that she wanted to unpack on the mic so Maddy (and you guys) are her therapists for the week. We talk about labels within the lesbian community and what gender expression means to us. Rochelle and Maddy have very different journeys with sexuality and gender expression and how they've navigated both together. This is their take on this topic, everyone has their own experiences and remember labels are only fun if they feel GOOD and RIGHT for you x Follow us at @those.twomums to stay up to date with the pod and our queer daily life

Duration:00:30:02

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Season 2: Our IVF Journey For Baby Number 2 Has Started!

3/25/2024
Queers, queens and in-betweens! Maddy and Rochelle sit down to discuss in detail, their second ivf journey for baby #2. They talk on how they went about it second time around, why Maddy is carrying again, their experiences with navigating different highs and lows for the first time, using the same donor / limited donor sperm as well as Maddy going through IVF for the first time. AND they have some very exciting news!!! Follow at @those.twomums to stay up to date with the pod and their daily queer life x

Duration:00:33:50

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The inner workings of a two-female relationship? We share it all!

7/31/2023
If you have ever wanted to know the inner workings of a two female relationship, todays episode is for you. We delve deep into and confirm (or deny) any and all lesbians stereotypes and myths and you might be surprised by our answers.Also in todays episode we unexpectedly let you all in on something that we had never spoken about before this episode, you will hear the rawness and honesty in our voices as we both realise how each other feel on a particular topic. In todays ep we chat about: AND SO MUCH MORE!! Remember these are all our opinions, our experiences and don’t represent all queer relationships x

Duration:00:33:41

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Being intimate with women vs. men - with Nic and Jac from Adventure Wives

7/24/2023
This ep is your one stop shop on being a lesbian!... kidding, but really. This week we sit down with two of the most beautiful humans, same sex couple - Nic and Jac, as we explore life through the eyes of 4 lesbians. Want to know how often 2 girls under the same roof argue? We got ya covered. Want to know if we would sleep with a straight girl? We'll spill the tea. Want to know how lesbians have sex? Naive, but we still tell you!Today we chat about: AND SO MUCH MORE!!Follow Nic and Jac and their beautiful outback adventures through the NT on @adventure.wives and follow us at @those.twomums on instagram to stay up to day with our day to day life and behind the scenes x

Duration:01:00:41

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So I like girls.. now what?

7/17/2023
Why is coming out so difficult and how to be more confident with your sexuality. As a queer person, coming out never stops. To the doctor, a new colleague, the friendly stranger at your kids swimming lessons. And while over time, it can get easier, it can also still be hard, and scary and awkward. On this weeks episode we delve into just WHY is coming out so hard? and so scary? and so awkward? We chat about: AND SO MUCH MORE! Follow us at @those.twomums on instagram to stay up to date with our day to day life and behind the scenes x

Duration:00:40:27

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Q+A: Who wears the pants in our relationship? Do we fight? Are we gold stars?

6/5/2023
We answer all of your juicy questions and help you get to know us a little bit better. This is such a fun, light hearted and easy listen. We chat about: AND MUCH MORE!! Follow us at @those.twomums on instagram to stay up to date with our daily life and behind the scenes x

Duration:00:40:33

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What is it like being the "other" mum? Becoming a mum as the non-birthing parent with Georgia Hinkley

5/22/2023
This week I chat with Georgia Hinkley who is one half of a same sex couple from WA and has two beautiful daughters, that her wife Kayla carried. Georgia is so open and raw in this conversation about the thoughts and real life situations that she has faced being the non-birthing parent.What does it feel like becoming a mum but not actually giving birth?? or not being the one to carry the baby? How on earth do I bond with it? THIS is the episode that I needed going through mine and Maddys own IVF journey and as the "non-birthing" parent, I struggled with how I was going to bond with the baby when Maddy, my fiance', gave birth. Georgia and I discuss:AND SO MUCH MORE!!

Duration:00:57:04

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Our (very different) coming out stories

5/15/2023
We get very vulnerable in this episode, sharing both of our (very different) coming out stories. How did we know we were gay? and when? What do we identify as? We also chat about why representation is SO important in the lgbtqi+ space and share some stories about times we have been assumed straight.This is a safe space and we hope that this conversation helps, educates or speaks to someone.

Duration:00:41:56

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Our reciprocal IVF journey as a same-sex couple

5/8/2023
In our third episode we get deep and chat about something near and dear to our hearts and that is our IVF journey. We keep saying "this is the episode we needed when we were going through our journey", so if you're planning on starting IVF, currently going through it or just interested in the whole process.. this is the ep for you! We chat about: and so much more! We don't delve into all parts of fertility treatments as we can't speak on that behalf but we hope you find this episode super informative and get a few good tips out of it!

Duration:00:53:30

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Maddys birth story | Two Mums

4/24/2023
WE LOVE A GOOD BIRTH STORY!! This week, for our first ep, we are bringing you Maddys birth story with our daughter Macklyn. We talk about: And so much more!!Follow us on instagram to stay up to date with all future episodes at @those.twomums

Duration:00:43:59