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Nancy and I wanted to come on to explain some changes we're making to the show's format going forward. We feel like we lost some of our mojo over the past few years and want to regain our power by telling our full story, from the beginning up until now. There will still be amazing guests, but we also want to share the ups, downs, laughs and tears from our relationship and family. We hope it inspires others going through tough times. Episode Highlights: [00:07] Poking fun at Nancy's sick voice and a surprising squirrel visit. [02:05] Podcast format change announcement. [02:43] Recently feeling like we lost some of our power and value after traumatic events. [04:48] Share our goal to tell our full story to inspire others who are feeling stuck. [06:26] Describe feeling trapped in sadness before realizing our power never left. [07:44] Discuss learning to accept and adjust to loss. [09:23] Promise to still have amazing guests on sharing success and failures. [10:00] Nancy jokes about wanting to get over her cold before recording. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. Until next time!

I had an enlightening talk with Bree about the importance of forgiveness in healing and moving forward. We discussed the freedom that comes with forgiving those who have hurt you, even if they can’t reciprocate. Bree shared her journey with an abusive mom and how becoming a parent herself opened the door to forgiveness. We explored how forgiveness is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Episode Highlights: [02:14] The weight lifted after forgiving an abusive mom. [05:20] Did her mom understand the damage she caused? [06:16] Bree’s mom's excuses for her behavior. [07:22] Reaching out to my absentee dad for forgiveness. [08:30] Getting sent away after acting out as a teen. [10:26] Why do the hurt ones extend forgiveness? [12:39] Acting out for attention from Bree’s dad. [14:42] Barely finishing high school amidst the chaos. [16:02] Moving to Colorado with Bree’s new husband. [18:30] Having a colicky newborn with no support system. [20:17] Finding jobs quickly out of necessity. [22:35] Struggling mentally amidst becoming a new mom. [24:00] The value of going through hard times together. [25:39] Recognizing the cycle repeating. [27:10] The need for continuous forgiveness in marriage. [29:39] Wanting kids to know the good in their Grandma. [33:08] Forgiveness is an ongoing process, not one-time event. [35:12] Be patient in your own forgiveness journey. [37:40] Still fighting despite the challenges. [49:21] Take it easy on yourself through the forgiveness process. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. Until next time!

In this raw, explicit podcast, we interview our coworker Beto about his life-changing experience training for and completing the Chicago Marathon. Beto takes us through his journey from the moment a casual invitation planted the seed to him suddenly signing up on a whim to run his first-ever marathon. We get an inside look at the mental and physical rollercoaster of marathon training and race day as someone doing it completely on his own. Beto shares invaluable lessons on overcoming self-doubt, the struggle of commitment, why we sometimes need to lean on others when we feel most alone and how to stay focused in the present moment during an enormously grueling task. His story serves as inspiration that no matter how impossible a goal seems, taking things one step at a time can lead to crossing unimaginable finish lines. Episode Highlights: [1:18] Beto explains his spontaneous decision to sign up for the Chicago Marathon despite no prior running experience. [3:30] Beto realizes the months of grueling training required and starts having doubts. [4:10] Beto begins a 6-month training plan, fitting in solo runs before and after work. [11:09] Beto opts to train alone instead of joining the marathon group at church. [12:58] Beto struggles through hot summer 10+ mile training runs, reaching mental and physical breaking points. [17:28] Beto considers quitting but persists to avoid letting down donors and finish what he started. [21:08] Beto explains the mistake of doing a 20-mile training run downtown in the blistering heat. [24:06] Beto’s training partner and support system unexpectedly pulls out of running the marathon. [25:47] Beto starts the Chicago Marathon surrounded by others but realizes he'll ultimately be alone. [31:46] On race eve, Beto’s partner confirms he is officially not running, leaving Beto emotionally devastated. [34:09] Up to 40,000 fans lining Chicago streets contrast Beto's isolated mental state on race day. [35:01] Beto gets a wave of pre-race adrenaline and bursts off the starting line. [43:51] Beto remains lost in his thoughts, blocking out fatigue and hitting the wall around mile 13. [47:42] Beto disassociates around mile 19/20, forcing his mind to focus on positivity. [50:06] Beto passes struggling runners late in the race but stays motivated to cross the finish line. [56:25] Beto's constant mental rollercoaster mimicking life's ongoing ups and downs. [59:29] Beto reflects on the enormity of finishing something he previously thought impossible. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. Until next time!

In this episode, Nancy I got into how fast time flies as you get older. Seems like just yesterday we were kids, now the holidays are already here again. The years go by quicker when you're stuck in repetition instead of learning and experiencing new things. I need to start doing more exciting stuff if I want to slow down Father Time. That led into how we get aggravated at people not meeting our expectations. But our expectations are just something we made up in our heads. People are not going to understand where we're coming from if we don't take the time to understand them. We're all going through our own sh*t every minute of the day. I can't expect someone to just automatically know what I want them to do. Gotta be more specific in my communication if I want different results. My perspective and experiences aren’t universal. If I keep treating people based on my expectations instead of who they really are, I'm just going to end up pissed off and pushing them away. Time to rethink this egocentric nonsense. One example is how I thought I was raising my son to be happy and healthy, the opposite of my childhood. But then we were told he's traumatized and I couldn't understand it. Had to realize he's his own person who went through things I'm not aware of. My expectations of being a good dad didn't match up with his reality. That was a tough pill to swallow but it helped me become more open-minded. Overall, we got to stop assuming everyone should inherently understand us and do things our way. They’re on their own path. Best thing is to share, listen and try to understand each other's perspectives. Easier said than done when you been through real shit and had to figure life out on your own. But staying closed off with expectations, assumptions and ego will just lead to more pain. Time to peel back the layers and connect as human beings. Timeline Summary: [00:50] How time passes quicker when you get older. [02:22] Backing cars into each other shows being on autopilot. [04:02] Our expectations have alienated people. [07:13] Getting aggravated at people not meeting expectations at work. [13:19] Building walls to avoid dealing with emotions. [15:37] Expectations lead to disappointment. [18:58] Can't expect people to inherently understand us. [20:24] Didn't see my strictness as expectations. [22:33] Really noticing these patterns now. [27:08] Importance of human connection. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. Until next time!

In this solo episode, I’m going on an impassioned rant about my personal frustration with Christians who claim to be open and accepting but fail to follow through on their word. Listen to me vent about the hypocrisy of Christians who preach openness but refuse to have authentic conversations with people different from themselves. I’m challenging Christians to walk the walk, not just talk the talk. This unfiltered monologue will give you a raw look into my true feelings. Timeline Summary: [00:26] The backstory on our "Me Mondays". [02:00] Reaching out to guests with great convos, but they ghost. [04:52] The ironic thing is the ghosters are Christians! [06:48] The meaning of our show is being open and authentic. [08:44] Rant against Christian hypocrisy - claiming openness but judging others. [12:30] This podcast is based on respecting differences, but Christians are too scared. [15:11] Plea for real, authentic Christians to come on the podcast. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. Until next time!

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse, rape, drug abuse, and suicidal ideation that some listeners may find disturbing or traumatic. Listener discretion is advised. Our guest faced immense hardship and trauma starting from a very young age. By her mid-teens, she had endured more than most do in a lifetime. Her powerful story illustrates the human capacity for resilience and redemption. Listen as she recounts her journey through unimaginable obstacles and how she reclaimed her power. Though the road was long, she offers hope and perspective for others traveling their own difficult paths. This profound conversation explores the depths of trauma and healing. Timeline Summary: [02:39] A confusing diagnosis at a young age. [08:31] Another life-altering diagnosis the following year. [13:26] When the unthinkable started happening. [16:55] The moment the truth was revealed. [21:36] New struggles emerge in middle school. [25:16] Immense pressures young women face. [25:56] A period of feeling good before tragedy strikes. [29:24] Blindsided by someone she trusted. [32:52] Spiraling downward before deciding to turn life around. [39:25] The seminar that changed everything. [43:12] Where to turn to start the healing process. [44:50] Giving back to others on a similar journey. Resources: Pathways to Successful Living Seminar - pathwaysseminars.com Kaylee's journey demonstrates that no matter what hardship you face, you have the power to take control back and transform your life. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Your support helps more people find this podcast and know they're not alone. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Nancy and I reflect on our recent road trip and how saying "yes" to new adventures sparked powerful insights. We talk about the power of saying YES to unfamiliar experiences. Pushing past our comfort zones brought out our playful sides and challenged us to live more authentically. Timeline Summary: [01:05] Discussing how Nancy talked much more in the last episode. [02:30] What was at the end of the rainbow? [03:20] This road trip was a shift in attitude, finding the power of saying “yes” to more. [05:50] Crossing sketchy bridges in Niagara Falls had my anxiety ramped up and how I related it to life. [10:59] Our trip reminded us not to get stuck in the robotic rut of everyday life. [12:00] We share how we carve out sacred time for "me" and "we" during the week. [15:50] Our newfound "power of yes" has spread to our designated we-time on Wednesdays. [18:10] Nancy opens up about really listening to my feedback. [21:10] Letting go of control and just living in the moment was so freeing on this trip. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Get transported to gorgeous fall scenes, cozy coffee shops, and mouthwatering meals on this journey through Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, and upstate New York. From covered bridges to mountain summits, we bring you along on an unforgettable autumn adventure. Timeline Summary: [00:18] Taking an unplanned road trip and embracing spontaneity. [02:07] Disappointed by lack of charming coffee shops in Indiana. [03:29] Finding hidden covered bridge gems in Ashtabula County, Ohio. [07:14] Meeting a man whose grandfather built the historic Olin Covered Bridge. [13:18] Discovering that Google Maps isn't always accurate. [14:39] Amazing Mad Max restaurant in Eerie, PA. [16:34] Driving into Adirondack Park and seeing incredible fall colors. [18:11] Having a "spiritual moment" surrounded by beautiful autumn hues. [23:15] Climbing Lookout Mountain on all fours near the summit. [27:48] Shoutout to Blue Line Coffee in Old Forge, NY. [29:23] Arriving in the former Winter Olympics village in Lake Placid. [30:15] Eating a heavenly steak at Jimmy's 21 restaurant in Lake Placid. [33:24] Driving up Whiteface Mountain and reaching the summit. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Nancy and I are popping in from the Adirondack Mountains to remind you how important self-care and self-love are. We are going on a hike, and we will talk to you guys soon! If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

In this raw and authentic episode, Nancy and I have an honest conversation during an evening walk about the pain of feeling estranged from our son and granddaughters. We open up about the lessons we’ve learned through this difficult experience, like living more in the present moment, realizing we were good parents because we raised a strong leader, and finding the positives that came from the negative. Even when family relationships get complicated, focusing on personal growth can help you move forward. Timeline Summary: [00:20] Taking an evening walk to have an authentic, deep talk. [01:14] Recalling the quality time spent with our granddaughters before the rift. [02:25] The pain of estrangement comes in many forms. [03:01] Our situation is different, but pain is pain. [04:53] Cherishing every moment now in case it’s the last time we see them. [06:06] Being present in each moment is a big lesson learned. [07:43] Having more meaningful conversations by being authentic. [09:45] We’re focused on being truthful now. [10:31] Living in the moment encompasses it all. [10:47] Realizing we were good parents despite our flaws. [11:33] Our son had to make some tough decisions. [13:09] As parents you want your kids to tell you anything. [13:36] He told us off and that takes balls. [14:48] Our son is finding himself. [15:59] This gave us momentum to move our lives forward. [16:33] Forgiveness comes in all kinds of forms. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Alright, today we've got a unique guest with me. It's not Nancy, my usual 'sidekick'; it's Kelsey, my massage therapist. We've been talking a lot over the past year, and I've come to realize that Kelsey has quite the story to share. So, here we are. Kelsey's story begins with rejection, a feeling many of us can relate to in some form or another. She opens up about her early life, where rejection was a constant theme, even within her own family. Her sister's bullying and her mom's inability to connect left her feeling alone and disconnected. But here's where it gets interesting. During her teenage years, Kelsey stumbled upon a lifeline: writing. She had a moment when she considered self-harm but chose to write instead. Writing became her escape, her way to disconnect from the negativity surrounding her. What's remarkable is how Kelsey's ability to observe people and understand their true selves started to evolve. She began to see the facades her family members put on and realized how little they knew about her. We dive deep into the themes of vulnerability, self-discovery, and resilience in this episode. Kelsey's journey is a testament to the inner strength that can emerge from facing rejection and adversity head-on. We also discuss the vital importance of mental health awareness and the power of sharing one's story. Kelsey's journey is a reminder that even in our darkest moments, we can find potential for growth and resilience. Timeline Summary: [00:05] Rejection and disconnection from church and family. [02:55] Rejection, bullying, and personal growth. [08:45] Mental health, writing as therapy, and generational differences. [13:17] Family dynamics and unresolved conflicts. [20:06] Family dynamics and control. [28:12] Family dynamics and personal growth. [36:15] Parenting, trauma, and healing. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Join us as we challenge the traditional notions of achievement and instead, encourage everyone to embrace the unique path to a fulfilling life. In this episode, we explore the fluctuating nature of progress as we talk to a real-live millennial who happens to also be one of our favorite podcast hosts, Gabby Ianniello, from the Corporate Quitter Podcast. We reflect on the idea of transitioning from a structured corporate job to a life brimming with variety and creativity and Gabby’s realization that rigid schedules and ceaseless productivity were affecting her well-being. Once fixated on maximum productivity, she now treasures connections, joy, and personal fulfillment. This discussion touches upon the pressures to adhere to conventional educational and career paths and the courage it takes to diverge from expectations. We discuss the fluctuating nature of progress and how it is embraced by our different generations. Gabby talks about how her structured yet spontaneous approach to her days fosters creativity and better results. When the true cost of conformity is revealed, we reach an understanding that personal and creative fulfillment can outweigh financial gains. We invite you to reflect on your definition of success and to prioritize joy, connection, and f*ing authenticity on your journey to self-discovery. Timeline Summary: [01:04] How Gabby went from teaching to finance to building her brand [03:19] The meditation retreat that re-sparked Gabby’s spirit [04:46] Where the “F*ck it” energy came from? [05:44] Why structure caused Gabby intense anxiety in college [07:15] How Gabby finally silenced the “squirrels” in her brain [11:20] Gabby’s advice on breaking conditioning for older generations [15:49] Gabby’s definition of success in business and life [21:41] Toxic school system pushing out burnt out teachers like Gabby [22:49] Exposure to possibilities through the internet [24:45] It’s not knowledge we need - it’s deprogramming [27:35] Failing enough times makes you invincible [30:43] Overcoming deep relationship rejection [34:10] What’s next for Gabby Connect with Gabriel Ianniello: Gabby’s consulting agency: SheLikesToGab.com Corporate Quitter: corporatequitter.com If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

We welcome our “sister” to join us on this episode to get her perspective on the cult we grew up in. She’ll tell us about her childhood, which included abuse in her home as well, and we’ll discuss the influence of the church on her life. Despite growing up in the same environment, we had different experiences and challenges to face after leaving our sheltered church community. While our childhoods had moments of camaraderie, we all suffered shadows of abuse and strict religious influence. High school brought its own set of challenges, with strict church attire leading to awkward social interactions. She’ll share how being thrust into the outside world without proper social skills and support led to a period of recklessness and depression. But fear not, her journey did not end there. She found helpers along the way who offered guidance, leading her to make positive decisions for her future. She talks about pursuing college and a successful career. As friends, we leaned on each other to find the courage to explore life outside our sheltered childhoods and we persevered! This authentic conversation will shed light on the power of seeking help, learning from mistakes, and understanding diverse perspectives in the journey of life. Timeline Summary: [6:52] - Comparing the extreme abuse in our “sister’s” household to mine. [13:23] - How she still got to have a relationship with her dad despite the church's rules. [17:11] - Finding out her mom actually supported her college plans at first before caving to the church elders. [24:08] - Getting kicked out of the church at 17 and going off the rails. [26:47] - Moving away from our hometown crew entirely at 25 to start over after imploding. [35:24] - Why our “sister” took till almost 40 to get married. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

I've got one hell of a story to share with you in this episode. In this episode, Nancy and I dive head-first into the shocking realities of the church I was raised in. We're tearing down walls, sharing gritty details of my childhood experiences living in constant dread of the rapture, chasing after salvation, sanctification, and the Holy Spirit. The church's insidious techniques of manipulation are laid bare as we dissect the daily regimented rituals that held us captive - from potlucks that weren't so innocent, to speaking in tongues and even exorcisms. Hold onto your seats as I reveal the disturbing prayers directed towards me and recount my own tumultuous actions as a teenager. An experience I believed to be my rebirth led me to question if I had truly been saved. This unfiltered, raw and real episode uncovers the sinister truth behind what seemed to be a religious group, but bore a striking resemblance to a cult. Come along on this journey of self-discovery, manipulation, and the pursuit of freedom. It's authentic, it's intense, and it's all in here. Buckle up! [3:57] - Discussing the concept of being 'saved' and its implications. [6:38] - Reflecting on the changing dynamics within the church community. [10:05] - Discussing the shift towards homeschooling within the church community [15:24] - My "aha" moment when I realized things were not as they seemed. [22:10] - Unveiling the disturbing prayers and my violent past. [28:45] - Sharing a transformative experience that made me question everything [35:19] - Exposing the cult-like nature of the religious group. [41:08] - My journey towards self-discovery and freedom. You've walked with me down some pretty gnarly memory lanes today, seen the good, the bad, and the freakin' ugly. Remember, life's a wild ride, and it's all about staying true to yourself, questioning everything, and seeking your own freedom. If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to rate us, follow us, share this with your friends, and leave a review. It's your support that keeps us going. Most importantly, stay f*ck’n authentic!

If you’ve been following our story up until now, this is the episode that lays bare our motivation for doing this podcast. From our own upbringings to the challenges we face as parents, it’s a journey through pain, love, and the relentless pursuit of doing right by our children. We never anticipated this level of estrangement from our son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughters, and it's been a challenging journey. We've faced anger, resentment, and hurt, but we've also discovered strength, resilience, and growth within ourselves. Our love for our family remains unwavering, and we'll continue to hope for reconciliation and understanding. We’ll grapple with the question of whether we did enough, while navigating the treacherous waters of parenthood. From overprotection to the struggle for independence, we examine every facet of our parenting style and choices. This episode is a powerful exploration of how even the most well-intentioned actions can have unforeseen consequences. Tune in as we recount the moments leading up to a pivotal event that would change our lives forever, forever challenging our understanding of family dynamics and personal responsibility. If you're going through a similar experience, please know that you're not alone. Reach out, share your story, and let's navigate this difficult path together. Timeline Summary: [2:47] Being taught there’s no “manual” for parenting [7:45] Making family time a priority [10:39] The pain of separation during COVID [12:11] Helping our son start his business [17:29] Respecting our son’s parenting choices [19:10] Constant communication in the family [23:36] Feeling our son wanted his own identity [27:24] The grieving process when estranged [30:39] The ongoing challenge of feeling human [33:12] Appreciating small moments with grandkids [38:34] A message of unconditional love If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

In this episode, Nancy and I hit the waters of the chain of lakes in Waupaca, Wisconsin. We're out here lookin’ to live it up, kayaking and capturing everything on-the-go. And we didn't just talk about it, we did it! Join us on this ride as we navigate the clear waters, dive into the unexpected, and sharing it all with you. This ain't your regular chit-chat podcast episode. We're out here in nature, doing the unexpected. So, gear up, press play, and dive into the adventure with us! Once you travel the waters with us, please rate and review our show. Make sure to hit the follow button too, so you don't miss our next adventure. And hey, if you think your friends could use a dose of authenticity, share this podcast with 'em. Stay f*ck'n authentic, folks!

Friends, this episode is gonna be a powerful one. Reflecting on some hard truths, we’ll land on how our family unit became disconnected. And the amazing thing is how after all these years, we are still learning about each other and ourselves. And that’s exactly what happens in this episode. We explain how we coped with life’s pitfalls when we made our careers a focus of our lives and how feelings of failure put a strain on our relationship with our son. We tell you how we at first felt about his wife and the grandchildren that we have come to fall in love with. We reflect on each other as parents and partners and the importance of making choices, learning from failures, and appreciating each other's support during difficult moments. You’ll hear how we’ve come to accept our past decisions and what our hopes are for the future. While we embrace each other’s different personalities and how we complement each other in raising our family, our love only grows deeper along with our admiration for each other. Timeline Summary: [00:36] We are sitting outside with nature as our backdrop for this raw convo. [03:24] Deciding to put our son in private school - bad choice in hindsight. [07:50] After two years, moved him back to public school - that's where he met his now wife. [13:50] Opening the restaurant - one of the biggest failures and pivots of my life. [16:47] Closing the doors on the restaurant dream - absolutely devastating and soul crushing. [22:03] Seeing a hummingbird - a sign to keep going and stay positive. [31:30] Nancy's epiphany [37:48] Loved giving our son and his family everything - I was stoked to provide. [39:55] Our biggest hardship is coming next episode - stay tuned. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Hey everyone, this episode was a real gut check for us. We got down and dirty, sharing the raw, the real, and the uncut truth of our experiences. We dove deep into topics of authenticity, survival, and the impact of life's trials and tribulations. We laughed, we got serious, and we opened up about the things that have shaped us. Buckle up for an intense and authentic ride through our lives and thoughts. This episode is a game-changer, folks. Don't miss it! Timeline Summary: [00:05] - I discussed the importance of being authentic and how it feels to record in the beautiful morning. [01:05] - I brought up how people often just go through the motions in life, merely surviving. [01:55] - Pondered on whether my talk was general or specific, sharing my feelings about life's unpredictability. [03:37] - The concept of freedom and how it's linked with validation. [07:22] - I found myself reflecting on the question, "what about me?" and was tempted to sing a song about it. [07:59] - How life can change when there's nothing to hold onto. [10:11] - My desire to use my voice more freely and authentically. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

We're back at it with part 3 of, "How We Met", diving even deeper into our story. This ain't just about our history, folks. It's about love, understanding, and the crazy shit we did. We're talking about the good old days, the suburban life, and the reality slaps that came with it. Now, we aren't just reminiscing here. We're getting real about the pressure, the stress, and how, like it or not, our past in that cult shaped our decisions as parents. So buckle up, hit play, and get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions. Timeline Summary: [00:17] - We're cracking up about that alien ship talk from the last episode. [01:02] - I'm getting real about how I turned into the protector. [04:26] - The big move to the 'burbs for our kid's future. [10:45] - All about my compulsive need to support everyone, no matter the cost. [17:55] - The emotional toll of feeling like I owe the world. [31:03] - The World Trade Center bombing and its impact. [36:44] - Nancy's battles in the man's world of construction. [38:17] - The day we lost our house. If you're digging our stories and loving the ride, do us a solid - rate us, follow the podcast, and share it with your crew. Your reviews mean the world to us and keep us bringing you more f*ck'n authentic stories. Until next time, folks, stay f*ck'n authentic!

Strap in for part 2 of our story, as we dive headfirst into the wild ride that was Nancy's pregnancy and our early days as parents. Buckle up as we recount the nerve-wracking birth, our battle with the dark cloud of churchgoers' warnings, and our unwavering excitement for our new bundle of joy. Life threw us into a whirlwind, but hell, we were ready to take it head-on. We navigated the storm, juggling responsibilities and turning our home into a sanctuary filled with love, all while staying fucking authentic. Our journey was a rollercoaster, full of unexpected twists, but we made sure our son was surrounded by nothing but love and care. Tune in as we share how we stared down the odds and embraced parenthood with a no-bullshit attitude. After all, life's more interesting when you keep it fucking real. [00:17] Throwing together a last-minute wedding with drunk underage friends partying in a limo [08:04] Buying cribs and baby items at 50% interest with no money or credit [14:22] Nancy going into 23 hours of labor with 19-year-old Nick having zero patience [18:18] Nancy freaking out seeing the baby's discolored head emerge, thinking it was an alien [23:17] Nancy going back to work just days after giving birth If you're digging our no-bullshit chats and raw outlook on life, do us a solid - rate us, follow us, and drop a review for our podcast. Until next time, keep it authentic, and we'll catch you in the next episode!