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I Have ADHD Podcast

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The I Have ADHD Podcast is a clear, concise, and FUN podcast for adults with ADHD. Listen to learn about how ADHD impacts every area of your life from the boardroom to the bedroom...and how you can begin to overcome your symptoms by accepting who you are, flaws and all. Host Kristen Carder is a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of of people with ADHD worldwide. Kristen's extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. ****OBVIOUSLY the content in this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for medical advice. Kristen Carder is not a medical professional.

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The I Have ADHD Podcast is a clear, concise, and FUN podcast for adults with ADHD. Listen to learn about how ADHD impacts every area of your life from the boardroom to the bedroom...and how you can begin to overcome your symptoms by accepting who you are, flaws and all. Host Kristen Carder is a dually certified coach who has supported thousands of of people with ADHD worldwide. Kristen's extensive experience working with ADHDers began in 2012, and she now leads a global community of adults with ADHD in her coaching program, FOCUSED. ****OBVIOUSLY the content in this podcast is not meant to be a substitute for medical advice. Kristen Carder is not a medical professional.

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Episodes
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337 BITESIZE | How to Manage Life Interruptions (and Not See Them as FAILURE)

9/25/2025
Love this clip? Listen to the full conversation in the original episode HERE. Following through is hard enough with ADHD—and when life throws interruptions, it can feel impossible. In this episode, I share how I handle setbacks, why self-compassion matters, and how to start again without shame.

Duration:00:19:50

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336 Why the Bare Minimum Might Be Your Biggest Win Yet

9/23/2025
Do you skip over your wins like they don’t matter? Feel weird or embarrassed when people cheer you on? Yep, that sounds about right. Adults with ADHD often struggle to celebrate themselves… but it’s a skill worth learning. In this episode, I’ll show you why celebration feels so uncomfortable—and why it’s actually essential for your mental health, motivation, and identity. We’ll unpack how to embrace positive emotions, honor your effort (even the “bare minimum”), and finally let yourself feel accomplished. If you’re tired of living in hamster-wheel mode and ready to slow down long enough to say “look at me go”… this episode is for you. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok

Duration:01:08:44

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335 BITESIZE | ADHD, Work, and Civil Rights: Protecting Yourself

9/18/2025
Love this clip? Listen to the full conversation in the original episode with Meghan Brown-Enyia HERE. I know how overwhelming it can feel to decide whether to disclose personal information at work. In this conversation, I remind you that you deserve to feel safe while seeking the support you need. SIGN UP FOR THE TIME MANAGEMENT WEBINAR HERE!

Duration:00:16:49

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334 Feeling Stuck? Awkward Relationships? Listen to Kristen's Coaching in Action

9/16/2025
Ever wondered what it’s really like inside FOCUSED? In this special episode, you’ll get a front-row seat to an actual coaching call. You’ll hear me coach Bob through feeling stuck, and Heejung as she navigates awkward relationships with her coworkers. And here’s the thing—this isn’t just about seeing what FOCUSED is all about. You’ll walk away with insights you can apply to your own life (I mean, who doesn’t feel stuck or have awkward relationships, am I right?). These conversations show how ADHD challenges run much deeper than quick-fix hacks—and why real coaching makes all the difference. Don’t miss this behind-the-scenes peek! Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:01:05:41

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333 Want to Stay Behind Forever? Keep Ignoring Your Capacity

9/9/2025
Think your problem is poor time management? Think again. If your color-coded calendar keeps failing you, the missing piece isn’t another app, planner, or hack—it’s capacity. In this episode, we’re digging into why ADHD brains chronically overbook, underestimate, and run ourselves into the ground. You’ll learn: If you’re tired of chasing unicorn days and shaming yourself when reality doesn’t match the plan, this conversation will change how you see time management forever. Hit play and start planning for real life—not the fantasy version of it. This Episode's Resources: ihaveadhd.com/time Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok

Duration:00:50:54

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332: Stop 🛑 Adding to the Planner Graveyard: One Tool to Improve ADHD Time Blindness NOW

9/2/2025
You’ve tried planners and reminders, but time still slips through your fingers. This episode explains why ADHD makes “now vs. not now” so hard—and what to do about it. In plain English, I break down the executive functions behind time blindness and share the quick story that shattered my own drama cycle (spoiler: the dishes took seven minutes). Then I give you the one tool that can change your week fast: a shame-free Time Audit that replaces schedule fantasy with reality so you finally start (and finish) what matters. If you’ve ever felt “bad with time,” don’t miss this—your whole approach could shift in a single day. Grab the free template here, and literally improve your time blindness TODAY. This Episode's Recourses: https://ihaveadhd.com/time/ Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens Cozy Earth

Duration:00:54:48

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331 ADHD Medications: What’s Fact, What’s Fiction, and Why They’re Not “Basically Meth”

8/26/2025
Think ADHD meds are “basically meth”? Afraid they’ll turn you into a zombie? Wondering if you really need them—or if they’re even safe during pregnancy? In this episode, I’m busting through the most common (and most damaging) myths about ADHD medication—fast. No fluff, just clarity. If you’ve ever felt confused, judged, or pressured when it comes to treatment, this one’s a must-listen. By the end, you’ll know what’s fact, what’s fiction, and what might actually change your life. This Episodes Recourses: The Clinical Pharmacokinetics of Amphetamines Utilized in the Treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity DisorderDrug Fact Sheet: Methamphetamine ADHD Medication and the "Zombie Effect"Stimulant ADHD medication and risk for substance abuseMethylphenidate and Atomoxetine in Pregnancy and Possible Adverse Fetal OutcomesLong-Term Outcomes of ADHD: Academic Achievement and Performance Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:00:43:45

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330 ADHD-Proof Your Life: Real Tips from Real ADHD Brains

8/19/2025
Medication is great. Therapy is powerful. But is your life ADHD-friendly? In this episode, we explore how your environment can make or break your progress — and share genius, real-life strategies from adults with ADHD who’ve been there. From food hacks and med routines to productivity tricks and travel tips, this episode is loaded with ADHD-tested, chaos-reducing gold. You’ll leave inspired to set up your life in a way that actually works for your brain. No shame. No shoulds. Just smart, gentle support. Episode Recourses: Take the ADHD + Relationships Research Survey Here Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:00:51:15

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329 ADHD 101 for Neurotypicals: Why Your Loved One Struggles with the ‘Easy Stuff'

8/12/2025
This one’s for the ADHDers and the people who love them. In today’s episode, I do the heavy lifting of explaining ADHD—what it is, why it matters, and what it really feels like to live with it—so you don’t have to. If you’ve ever wished your partner, parent, friend, or co-worker just got it, this is the episode to send them. Inside: wishneedWhether you’re an ADHDer or a neurotypical ally, this episode is all about building bridges, deepening connection, and fostering real, loving understanding. 🎧 Press play, then pass it on. 🧠 Research of the Week: www.ihaveadhd.com/research 📞 Voicemail shoutouts included! This Episodes Recourses: Take the ADHD & Relationships Survey Here Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:00:59:08

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328 Did You Waste Your Summer? Here's Your 'August Panic' Survival Guide

8/5/2025
BE A PART OF ADHD RESEARCH! Take the ADHD Relationships Survey. Hey ADHDer, summer isn’t over over… and you haven’t wasted it. In this gentle, reflective episode, we’re talking about the emotional soup of August: regret over what didn’t get done, sadness that the magic is fading, dread of back-to-school chaos, and the last-minute urgency to squeeze it all in. If you're feeling a swirl of emotions right now, this episode is your soft place to land. We’ll: didsoADHD TIP: Your brain may want to fixate on what you didn’t do. But let’s pause and name what you did. Because it matters. You’re not behind. You’re not doing life wrong. You’re a beautifully wired human doing your best. Let’s mark this transition with grace, not guilt. How Immersion in Nature Benefits Your Health Associations Between Exposure to Nature and Health Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:00:51:58

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327 We Threw Out the Rulebook: How We’re Raising Our Neurodivergent Kids with Greg Carder

7/29/2025
I’m joined again today by my favorite human—my husband, Greg! Together, we pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to raise neurodivergent kids, how our parenting style has evolved over the years, and why we’ve chosen a low-demand, emotionally supportive approach in our home. We talk candidly about: ourselvesThis is a vulnerable, honest, and hopeful conversation between two very imperfect parents figuring it out as we go—and choosing connection over control as much as possible. Whether you're raising neurodivergent kids or just want a peek into our home life, we hope this episode leaves you feeling seen, supported, and a little less alone. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:01:14:12

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326 ADHD Nearly Broke Us — How We’re Still Standing After 21 Years with Greg Carder

7/22/2025
What does it look like to stay in love and on the same team when one partner has ADHD and the other doesn’t? In this episode, I’m joined by my husband Greg—my neurotypical partner of 21 years—for an honest, heartfelt, and often hilarious conversation about what it’s really like to build a life together in a neurodiverse marriage. We’re answering questions about everything from how Greg came to understand and accept my ADHD, to what helped us navigate parenting neurodivergent kids, to how we’ve held boundaries (without being jerks) and grown through the hard seasons—together. If you’re wondering how to help your partner “get it,” if you’re craving more acceptance in your relationship, or if you’re simply curious what goes on behind the scenes in our marriage... this episode is for you. We talk about: finallyThis conversation is raw, funny, and full of truth bombs (and yes, Greg absolutely roasts me a few times 😂). Whether you're married, dating, or just dreaming of a healthy relationship someday, I hope this episode reminds you that real love includes imperfection, growth, and mutual care. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:01:03:28

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325 ADHD Burnout Is REAL: What A Physician With ADHD Wishes She Knew Sooner

7/15/2025
Smartass ADHDer alert! Kerry Shea, an OBGYN physician and beloved FOCUSED member, is here to share her journey as a doctor with ADHD. In this heartwarming episode, we discuss Kerry's ADHD diagnosis, experiences in medical school, the impact of early education, and the challenges of balancing professional success with personal chaos. The conversation delves into the stigma surrounding ADHD, the struggles with self-perception, chronic pain, and the importance of community support for individuals with ADHD. You can find Kerry at www.beautifulmessyself.com Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:01:03:51

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324 Why You Keep Failing at Goals (and How to Finally Stop)

7/8/2025
Ever made a huge, life-changing plan… and then totally ghosted it a week later? Welcome to the ADHD goal-setting struggle. If you’ve ever set a massive goal in a moment of motivation—only to burn out fast—you’re not alone. This episode is your permission slip to dream big and start small (like, really small). This episode is for you if you’ve: boringWe’ll break down: 💥 Why ADHD brains love fantasy goals 🎯 How to set actually doable goals (with zero shame) 🏁 Why slow, steady, and sustainable wins the race (yes, even with ADHD) You’ll learn: way smallerHit play and walk away with a goal you can actually stick to this week. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:00:55:40

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323 Emotional Regulation: The ADHD Skill You Can’t Afford to Ignore

7/1/2025
If you’ve ever snapped at something harmless, gotten lost in a scroll spiral, or felt way too much over a tiny text, this episode is for you. We’re diving into emotional regulation—what it is, why it’s so hard for ADHD brains, and how to actually get better at it. In this episode, you’ll learn: You don’t need to feel good all the time—you just need to know how to feel. Practice is the path. Let’s get into it. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:00:53:47

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322 Mini Emotional Regulation Practice (10-Minute Guided Reset)

7/1/2025
Feeling "off" and need a reset? This short episode is here for you. In just 10 minutes, I’ll guide you through a simple emotional regulation practice to help you pause, reconnect with your body, and calm your nervous system. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck in a scroll spiral, or just need a moment of grounding—this is your space to breathe and feel. Come as you are. No perfection required. Just press play. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok

Duration:00:09:53

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321 The 5-Minute ADHD Hack That Can Change Your Life

6/24/2025
Ever feel like your brain is a messy closet with the light off? In this episode, we flip the switch. I break down the simple but powerful practice of thought downloads—what they are (and aren’t), why they’re crucial for ADHD minds, and how they help you build self-awareness, emotional regulation, and clarity. This isn’t journaling. It’s not a productivity hack. It’s mindfulness for your messy, magical brain. You’ll learn: everythingGrab a pen. It’s time to meet your mind. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:00:48:58

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320 Rapid-Fire Adult ADHD Q&A

6/17/2025
Buckle up, because this episode is a fast-paced, wide-ranging Q&A where I answer as many of your ADHD questions as I possibly can! These questions were submitted on Instagram, and I had the best time flying through them and sharing real, practical insights from my ADHD brain to yours. We cover everything from medication, motivation, and prioritization to emotional regulation, rejection, brain dumps, and massage-induced thought spirals (yep, really). If you’ve ever felt stuck, scattered, or simply curious about how other ADHD adults navigate life—this one’s for you. It’s a fun, casual, info-packed episode that touches on so many of the topics we all wrestle with—don’t miss it. Some of the questions I answer: This is a great episode to play while cleaning, driving, or walking—casual, quick, and totally relatable. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens Cozy Earth

Duration:01:09:51

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319 “Why Can’t I Just START?!” - ADHD + Task Initiation

6/10/2025
Ever sat on the couch knowing you “should” do something… but just couldn’t? Welcome to the ADHD task initiation struggle. It’s real—and no, it’s not laziness. In this episode, we dive into: From micro-steps to dopamine rewards, we’re breaking it all down so you can stop spiraling and start… well, starting. This Episode's Resources: The Ultimate Guide to ADHD and Task Initiation Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok AG 1 by Athletic Greens

Duration:00:53:54

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318 The Real Reason You Can’t Get Organized (And What To Do About It)

6/3/2025
Struggling to get organized? You’re not broken — you’re just an ADHDer with a real, overwhelmed brain. In this episode, we’re ditching the shame spiral and unpacking why staying organized is so hard for ADHDers… and what actually helps. Spoiler alert: It’s NOT more bins. If your home feels like a disaster zone, this one’s for you. We’ll talk about: This episode is packed with practical strategies, permission slips, and empowering reminders that your messy house is not a moral failing. Listen now, take what resonates, and leave the guilt behind. Watch this episode on YouTube Want help with your ADHD? Join FOCUSED! Have questions for Kristen? Call 1.833.281.2343 Hang out with Kristen on Instagram and TikTok Cozy Earth

Duration:00:47:57