Joe & Jay Outspoken

Have you ever cared about someone so much that the thought of losing them hits you before anything actually happens? Not because they’re pulling away. Not because they’re doing anything wrong. But because somewhere deep inside… you’re terrified you’re not enough to keep them close. Men don’t talk about this. We talk about loyalty, strength, responsibility — but not the fear that sits in our chest when someone we love goes quiet. Today, we’re going to talk about the fear of losing people. Not just partners — anyone. Friends. Family. Mentors. Brothers. The people who matter. And we’re going to talk about the cycle that fear creates… and how to break it…. Welcome to Outspoken. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #atw #adamthewoo #mentalhealth #menshealth

“If I had known then what I know now, I would’ve walked right past a whole lot of people.” That’s a heavy truth, man. Because hindsight cuts deep—it shows us the faces we should’ve passed by, the voices we should’ve tuned out, and the paths we should’ve never taken. Exactly. And yet, every wrong crowd, every wasted moment—it all taught us something. It sharpened our vision for the kind of love, the kind of friendship, the kind of life we refuse to compromise on now. So this episode isn’t about regret—it’s about clarity. It’s about realizing not everyone deserves a seat at your table, not everyone deserves access to your heart, and not everyone is meant to walk beside you. And when you know better, you love better. And when you love better, you live freer. “Walk past the wrong people… so you can walk into freedom.” This is Outspoken!! #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #happynewyear #merrychristmas

Join Joe & Jay this week as they discuss the meaning of Christmas, some of the origins of the ways we celebrate and how Christmas celebrations overall through the years have changed. Don't forget to like, subscribe & share the show. We love and appreciate you all so much! #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #christmas #christmastime

The "Christmas Blues" (or holiday blues) are temporary feelings of sadness, loneliness, stress, or anxiety during the festive season, stemming from financial worries, grief, unmet expectations, or family issues, that often end up easing after the holidays... #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #holidayblues #christmasblues #rudepeople

Given foreigners intrigue for American history and cultural storytelling, people always found America’s early expansion—marked by the Wild West, pioneering adventures, and legendary figures like Wyatt Earp—especially fascinating. The frontier spirit played a crucial role in shaping the nation’s identity, and uncovering those stories feels like stepping into the past, however… In the midst of political and social division, we often lose sight of the privilege of calling this nation home. While some criticize what it stands for, many outsiders—both visitors and residents—admire its cultural diversity and the beauty found within its borders. Perhaps those who were not born here see America through a different lens, appreciating opportunities and freedoms that those accustomed to them may take for granted. What separates their perspective from ours? Is it the absence of complacency, a deeper sense of gratitude, or simply the contrast between their past and this new reality? #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #usa #americathebeautiful #proudamerican #mannykhoshbin

Join Joe & Jay this week as they dive into the Thanksgiving holiday and it's many iterations as families gather and decide to get along or, argue over who made the best pumpkin pie. Is Thanksgiving a holiday to be celebrated or, is it just another celebration of consumerism and gluttony. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #thanksgiving #stolenland #patriotism

You ever feel like your past is chasing you? Like every mistake, every wrong turn, every empty connection… it’s still there, whispering that you’re not enough? For years, that was me. Chasing pleasure, chasing attention, chasing something I thought would fill the void. But the void didn’t get filled — it got louder. Until something changed. Something bigger than me. Faith stepped in. And suddenly, the things I thought mattered… didn’t. The desires that once ruled me… didn’t. This isn’t just a story about dating or lust. It’s about a heart rebuilt. A man learning that real love doesn’t burn fast — it lasts. Real love doesn’t take — it gives. This is the journey from flesh to faith. From lust to love. And it’s where peace meets purpose. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #menshealth #spiritualrelationships #couples #dating #relationships

Join Joe & Jay this week for their special report on the genocide happening in Nigeria & other parts of Africa. Christian persecution in Africa, particularly in sub-Saharan Africa, is a severe and escalating issue, with the region identified as the most violent place in the world for Christians as Muslim extremists continue to hunt Christians and eradicate them all in the name of Islam. Nigeria is considered the epicenter, though violence also affects countries like the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC), Mozambique, Burkina Faso, Mali, and Niger. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #christianpersecution #muslimextremists #killinginthenameofmuhammad #prayfornigeria #godblessnigeria

You ever notice how America loves its soldiers—until they come home? We wave flags, post hashtags, and hold parades… but when that same veteran’s sleeping under a bridge or waiting six months for a doctor, suddenly the country’s got amnesia. Yeah, we celebrate them in uniform but forget them in line at the VA. It’s like once they’ve done their part, we move on and they’re just… leftovers from a war we’d rather forget. And that’s the ugly truth—we love the idea of a soldier, not the reality of one. We’ll plaster their faces on beer cans and halftime shows, but when they need real help, the system ghosts them harder than a bad Tinder date. Think about it—we spend trillions sending them to fight overseas, then argue about whether we can afford to take care of them when they get back. We build monuments faster than we build housing. We thank them for their service while they’re trying to figure out how to survive the country they served. Exactly. And the real slap in the face? The same politicians who send them to war can’t even send a follow-up text when they’re broken, homeless, or drowning in medical bills. It’s performative patriotism—red, white, and fake. Tonight, we’re cutting through the lip service and talking about The Forgotten Warrior—how America uses its soldiers, drains them dry, and discards them when they’re no longer convenient. Because behind every flag-waving speech is a veteran who’s been left behind. So grab your coffee, your opinions, and maybe a little conviction—because this isn’t going to be a comfortable episode. This is where the sugar-coating ends. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #veteransday #memorialday #armedforcesday #forgottonwarriors #veterans

There’s a strange thing happening in America, man. The people screaming the loudest about justice, are usually the ones furthest from its consequences. You mean the folks preaching “equity” from zip codes that never see a mugshot? Exactly... You’ve got white progressives calling cash bail “racist” meanwhile, Black and Latino communities, the ones who actually live with the results of that policy, are begging for accountability. So who’s right? The theorists or the people in the line of fire? That’s the question we’re asking today. Because when good intentions collide with real-world consequences… somebody always pays the price. And it usually ain’t the activist. Welcome to Outspoken. Let’s talk about the justice illusion. Where ideology sounds righteous, but reality tells a different story. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #podcast #schoolchoice

Hey everyone, welcome back to Outspoken. If you’re new here welcome and if you’ve been listening for a while, you know we don’t shy away from the real stuff. Today, we’re talking about something that’s quiet, but devastating: Male loneliness. Not just being alone but feeling invisible, unwanted, and emotionally exiled. As social media and AI replaces real relationships, and digital validation takes the place of real intimacy, more and more men are finding themselves disconnected emotionally, socially, and spiritually. We’re exploring what’s behind this growing epidemic of loneliness among men: the decline of male friendships, the impact of screen addiction, and how tech culture is quietly starving men of purpose and connection. Stick around as we unpack the cost of being “always connected” and yet profoundly alone. This is Men's Isolation & the Digital Disconnect. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #mensedition #mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth #socialmedia

Join Joe & Jay as they discuss the "No Kings Protest" and how it is more of a money grab than a movement of any substance. "We all have the God given right & constitutional protection to protest, just know what the heck you're protesting for!" Jay- #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #nokingsday #nokingsprotest #adamcarolla #timpool

You ever notice how every few years, society picks a new buzzword to obsess over? Last decade it was “woke.” Now it’s “decolonize.” Yeah — apparently everything’s gotta be decolonized now. Your classroom, your church, your breakfast cereal — can’t start the day without a little anti-imperialist milk. And it used to mean something powerful — people breaking free from real oppression, real empires. Now? It’s been hijacked by people who think deleting Western civilization is somehow “progress.” Exactly. It’s not about justice anymore; it’s about dismantling the very systems that make freedom possible. So today, we’re peeling back the layers of the “decolonize” movement — where it started, how it got twisted, and why it’s not liberation anymore. It’s lunacy with a hashtag. Buckle up, folks. It’s time to decolonize your common sense — right here on Outspoken, where we don’t whisper the truth… we yell it at the woke! #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #decolonization #america #homeofthebrave #turningpoint #charliekirk

Welcome back to Outspoken, where we don’t just tiptoe around culture—we kick the door wide open. Today we’re asking a bold question: What if a society was actually built on Christianity? Not just lip service / not just “in God we trust” stamped on money / but a community truly shaped by the ethic of Christ. So, we did what most do today and asked Chat GPT! So, today we’ll be Imagining foundations like forgiveness, justice, humility, compassion, self-sacrifice, family, and treating people as image-bearers of God, through the knowledge of AI. The results will surprise you. According to AI, even non-Christians would thrive. Safety, fairness, community, dignity—those aren’t “Christian perks.” They’re the natural outflow when love for neighbor becomes the law of the land. So buckle up, because today we’re diving into what society could look like if we actually lived out the teachings we love to preach through the eyes of AI… this is Outspoken #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #christianai #society #constitution

The world feels darker, quieter, heavier. In just a few weeks, we’ve seen senseless violence in our cities, school & church shootings, and political attacks. Violence solves nothing—but it leaves a mark. This is Outspoken. We don’t whisper. We don’t tiptoe. We speak the truth—even when the world hates it. In times like these, we have to ask: why do people let anger, fear, and hate drive their actions? Today, we’re talking about a man whose convictions inspired admiration… and hatred so fierce, it cost him his life. They thought killing him would silence the problem. But it wasn’t his debates on campuses, in churches, or even at Cambridge that defined him—it was his belief in something greater than himself. That belief sparked a movement. That movement was rooted in Christianity. The man was Charlie Kirk. Not just a political speaker. Not just a voice that stirred a generation. A Christian brother who lived boldly for truth. He reminded us to be salt and light. Salt preserves truth in a world rotting with lies. Light exposes darkness. That was his mission—and now, it falls to us. Charlie never hated people. He hated sin. And because he stood against it, the world came after him. But he never wavered. The torch passes to us now. Speak boldly. Stand firm. Live without compromise. Shine in a world desperate for truth. This is the torch Charlie carried. And now, by God’s grace, it burns in our hands. Welcome to Outspoken. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #charliekirk #thechurch #healing #christians #christianpersecution

When a stolen plane became a mirror for America’s silent crisis in men’s mental health. This episode isn’t about a plane theft. It’s about the reality that men are dying in silence, and society’s response is to hand them a pamphlet and hope they don’t bother us again. The “Sky King” wasn’t just one man’s story… he’s the tip of an iceberg we refuse to see. Most people steal a plane to escape something. Richard Russell stole a plane to escape himself. And while the headlines called him a thief, I call him a warning — a warning about what happens when we keep telling men to ‘man up’ instead of ‘speak up. Yeah — and here’s the part no one wants to admit: if Richard had been a woman, we’d have seen documentaries, mental health campaigns, and candlelight vigils by now. But because he was a man, his pain became a meme. His death became entertainment. This episode isn’t about a plane theft. It’s about the reality that men are dying in silence — and society’s response is to hand them a pamphlet and hope they don’t bother us again. The ‘Sky King’ wasn’t just one man’s story… he’s the tip of an iceberg we refuse to see. And if we don’t start talking, more men are going to crash without ever sending a mayday. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth

Apparently, self-care is dead — or at least it’s been taken hostage by Instagram influencers and the “modern” wellness industry. Yeah, back in the day, self-care meant taking a nap, maybe soaking in the tub, or ignoring your kids for a respectable 20 minutes. Now? It’s goat yoga, $18 smoothies, and paying a stranger to hit a gong while you lie on the floor pretending your soul is healing. Welcome to America — where your mental health comes with a receipt. Today on Outspoken, we’re diving headfirst into the ridiculous, overpriced, and downright bizarre world of modern self-care… …and trust us, it’s going to smell faintly of lavender and desperation. So buckle up, because we’re about to peel back the cucumber slices and see what’s really underneath this so-called self-care movement — and spoiler alert… it ain’t pretty. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #selfcare #goatyoga #wellness

Please join us this week for a very special episode. Todays guest is Karen, a Clinical Therapist in the state of California working in the Youth Hospitalization Intervention Program. This episode is exposing the dark underbelly of government assistance programs and how it all effects real lives in real time... Welcome back to Outspoken, the only show where we call it like it is, and if you get offended well, maybe that’s a ‘you’ problem. Today, we’re talking about something that affects literally millions of Americans… but no one wants to admit how flawed it really is. Welfare, Food stamps, Medicaid, Housing. All that stuff we’re told is ‘fairly’ given out. But… is it? Because here’s the deal: These programs are run by states, not D.C. And the people approving or denying you that help? They’re just that: people. With their own political views, biases, and maybe even an ax to grind. So let’s ask the real question: How do we know these gatekeepers are being fair? Are the right people getting help or, just the ones who know how to play the system? This isn’t just about assistance, it’s about access, and who gets to survive. And around here? We stay Outspoken enough to say it. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #governmentassistance #clinicaltherapist #snap #specialguest #karen

“Welcome back to Outspoken, the show where we cut through the noise and say what everyone else is too afraid to. Today, we’re hitting one of those gut-punch topics: the mass shooting in a church that left families shattered, communities grieving, and a nation asking the same old questions. But here’s the thing, while people mourn, while Christians gather to pray, while the faithful cling to the only comfort they know in times like this, politicians and pundits can’t help themselves. Instead of respecting the dead, they mock the living for offering thoughts and prayers. We’re supposed to be silent. We’re supposed to stop praying because some reporter or senator thinks prayer is ‘pointless.’ But if there’s one thing we won’t do on this show, it’s bow to that kind of arrogance. So tonight we’re asking the tough questions: Why does faith suddenly become the enemy every time tragedy strikes? And what does it say about our culture when offering comfort is treated as an offense? This is Outspoken. And if you’re tired of empty political speeches and hollow soundbites, stick around — because we’re going to say it plain: prayer isn’t the problem, and silencing it won’t save a single life.” #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken #robinwestman #schoolshooting #thoughtsandprayers

Welcome back to Outspoken — the place where we speak truth louder than culture’s confusion. Today, we’re digging into something every believer has felt… But most don’t know how to name: Guilt vs Conviction. #joeandjayoutspoken #outspoken