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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T
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Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T

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Episodes

FMQ 125 A quick fix on GUILT - podcast

10/14/2017
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A quick fix on GUILT - the podcast We have all felt guilty for doing something to somebody and then made the movies in our mind go into overdrive and continue to make what didn't happen even worse. We then live with this guilt and usually add this to other areas or event in our life and make them worse too! This is how guilt can grow and get out of control. Here's my thoughts on the subject in this 5 minute quickie podcast. I promise you if this is something you do, changing your...

Duration: 00:06:41


FMQ 124 Revisiting what we've learnt makes us grow - podcast

10/11/2017
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Revisiting what we've learnt makes us grow - podcast To know what you know, that is, to remind yourself of what you have learnt already can be the biggest ways of learning more. So how does that happen? well it allows you to get more confident in what you already know so you can be more confident of learning new things that you thought were a little too hard. Also by revisiting the books you have read it frees you up to learn the things in those books that you didn't notice because...

Duration: 00:08:53


#75 A fearful story - a podcast

10/7/2017
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A fearful story - a podcast Fear only exists because of what's not there. Far from the acronyms made up, sometimes so demeaning, I'm taking another snippet and seeing the gold in it wanted to take it further and deeper. Let's move from the days of the sabre tooth tiger. Yes and we'll be needing our old 'Jenny' Journal and explore what's not there in the areas that give you fear and more importantly what we can do when we discover what's not there. What's not there in those contexts...

Duration: 00:18:46


FMQ 123 You talkin' to me over there? podcast

10/4/2017
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You talkin' to me over there? the 5 minute podcast Let's have a talk, a chat, about a different way of using your self talk inspired from as usual listening to someone else (on the Art of Charm podcast which is brilliant!) and taking a snippet and developing it further. Using the third person, talking to your self in the third person can remove emotional tie. This is not surprising when you think about it as we have been using dissociation to remove the emotional connection. Using...

Duration: 00:12:13


Oh Dear! What have I done #2 - Free hypnosis

10/3/2017
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Oh Dear! what have I done #2 - Free hypnosis My second effort to make amends and to correct a silly thing I forgot It all makes sense as you listen The hypnosis track is all about attracting your goals using hypnosis and your unconscious mind to work even more deeply on attracting what you want So......... have a goal in mind and get going on realising your dreams Shine brightly Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback. If...

Duration: 00:24:16


FMQ 122 Attracting your goals while you sleep - podcast

9/30/2017
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Attracting your goals while you sleep - the podcast In this 5 minute quickie podcast I have been influenced by reading a book by Wayne Dyer which I added a couple of my own thoughts. In theses five minutes I'll explain one way to go to sleep peacefully and use your sleep to allow your unconscious mind to integrate you wishes and goals and find ways to incorporate them into your waking world. It's using the feeling of the wish fulfilled together with feeling joy and gratitude as a gentle...

Duration: 00:06:54


#74 It's not always about adding that makes the difference - Podcast

9/27/2017
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It's not always about adding that makes the difference - podcast Got a great story for you, a metaphor that might make you think and is a great intro into what we are discussing today. Let's have a fresh look at where we are, where we have come from and how we're going in getting to that place(s) We'll also be 'De-hypnotizing' as a way of clearing a bit of 'stuff' - 'stuff' that's still holding you back. It's like cleaning the lenses which we experience our current world, our...

Duration: 00:21:50


FMQ 121 The width of a thunk - podcast

9/23/2017
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The width of a thunk - the podcast How deep is deep thinking? I love thinking and Cal Newport coined the term 'deep work' and his book on the subject is really very good and has given me ideas and food for so much thought. Yet some seem to think if you're not a 'deep thinker' you're not thinking in the correct way, it's like a club and it's not. Having said all of this thinking and using that thinking muscle is the way forward and you can do it the way that works for you and then...

Duration: 00:08:18


FMQ 120 Yep - You're broken ' n' need fixin'-podcast

9/20/2017
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Yep - You're broken ' n' need fixin' the podcast Are you really broke, are you broken and need a fix or are you perfect? Or in an other way do you feel broke or a little broken? I know many of my clients feel this way and isolated or lonely and being to wonder "can I be fixed?" Now whether you are (and you're not) or you feel you are that's your world and reality and who's to say different. The thing is either way you are totally fixable and can be better than you can imagine AND it...

Duration: 00:07:45


#73 Let's feel more confident

9/16/2017
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Let's feel more confident - the podcast Let's play with a couple of NLP processes ~ you up for that? Now this is not simply about being more confident and getting over confident oh no! It's about being confident in your competence and that's when we excel because we're aligned. You are going to need your knuckles and we are gong to do something we call 'anchoring' that stimulus and response. You will also need specific memories of being totally confident, competent AND...

Duration: 00:22:48


FMQ 119 Revisiting what we've learnt makes us grow

9/13/2017
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Revisiting what we've learnt makes us grow -podcast Jenny is needed, yep good old Jenny journal, to note and remind us of what we've learnt because it's so easy to forget. Even re-reading those wonderful books you've already read and find so much more. It's as if you missed the obvious but you didn't you just didn't know what you know now so you can take in even more now - hence the re-read. Maybe as you realise all the processes you have learnt and remind yourself to practice and...

Duration: 00:08:53


FMQ 118 Perfect or permanent- podcast

9/9/2017
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Perfect or permanent- podcast The 5 minute quickie podcast to make you think and only in 5 minutes or a little more From watching a video of a training workshop on The Hero's Journey came this sentence 'Practice makes Permanent' and made be think of the last two steps of mastery. Thank you Robert Dilts. Taking what you try to do consciously and making it an unconscious process and when we continue to practice we make thins both permanent and get better. Let's create habits of...

Duration: 00:08:35


Not a word ~ from our sponsor

9/8/2017
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Not a word ~ from our sponsor podcast The welcoming sound of not hearing "AND NOW A WORD FROM OUR SPONSOR" will always be pleasing to me. Please listen for around 10 minutes to now hear. It will all make sense when you do even if this doesn't Shine brightly even if a tad confused Paul Please remember you can leave a comment or email me with questions, requests and feedback. If you have enjoyed this or any other episode please share and subscribe. Just click on the iTunes logo or...

Duration: 00:10:16


#72 Let's deal with Anxiety ~ podcast

9/6/2017
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Letting go of ANXIETY & FEARS Let's have a chat about learning from our anxiety and how, if you were a client of mine, we would work at dealing with your anxieties and fears. Know your not alone in your thoughts and feelings, in fact probably over 90% of our clients (my two sons Luke and Joseph and I) suffer from anxiety and fears as the core of their issue. Let me explain my thoughts from my experiences of letting go of and dealing with anxieties and fears from both myself and my...

Duration: 00:20:17


Oh Dear! What did I do? ~ Free hypnosis

9/4/2017
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Oh Dear! What did I do? ~ Free hypnosis ~ podcast I've been having terrible trouble, really, I've been thinking about my values and a previous podcast "A Hypnotic Request". Things just didn't sit right and I feel I'd made an error of judgement. So if I'm going to be true to my values I have to make amends and this is my way of doing just that! So instead of asking your to share, spread the word and leave a review in iTunes about Personal Development Unplugged, letting me know you...

Duration: 00:20:16


FMQ 117 Let's get empowered - podcast

9/2/2017
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Let's get empowered - the 5 minute podcast It's time to get and be empowered! Let's look at the excuses our friends give for not following our dreams you may even know someone even closer - Look in the mirror if you want a clue ;0) I'm as big a culprit as the next person and the good thing is now we can recognise the words that come out of our mouths or that inner voice and STOP and make a considered choice and decision. When we do this and become responsible for our choices and not...

Duration: 00:09:05


A Hypnotic request

9/1/2017
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Will you help spread the word? If you do I have a hypnosis gift for you. Just let me know when you have via paul@paulclough.co.uk

Duration: 00:03:47


FMQ 116 Learning a new skill in 5 minutes - podcast

8/30/2017
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Learn a new skill in 5 minutes - a five minute podcast Let's learn a skill by asking one question "how'd you do that?" Everyone like giving advice and showing people how to, so if you see anything that you think 'that was cool, that was really clever' take the courage to ask in your way "teach me". This is the simplest way to learn from the world around you and there's a wealth of great things happening all around you and please don't be afraid to ask because you think this approach...

Duration: 00:06:28


#72 Don't miss out on your dreams and goals - podcast

8/26/2017
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Don't miss out on your dreams and goals -the podcast This isn't about goal setting but more about thinking of the goals you have, the goal you had and if you haven't moved on them or have missed them it's about wondering where they came from. You may even find they're not even your goals, maybe you have inherited them and it's time to decide if they're worth keeping. Also you may decide you need to tweak them to match who you are today, your beliefs and values. The thing is if you...

Duration: 00:24:21


Just a chat - a question really

8/25/2017
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I've been thinking a little lately and wanted to share my thoughts and ask a question or two of you. So................................ If you would spare a few minutes - the rest is up to you. Shine brightly Paul

Duration: 00:11:29

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