Personal Development Unplugged
Trying to leave this little old world and the people I meet in a better place then when I first met them. Who am I and what do I do?………Paul Clough. I now love helping making changes in people and guiding them to create the life they really want. A personal look at me: The above sentence was not always the case and being the best in the financial realms of the building industry was my aim and getting there by any means. I now know this is, and was, the worst way ~ even if I did make director of one of the largest building companies in Cambridge by the age of 30. One of the major realisations came on my first ever training in hypnosis. I found that it’s not a win lose world and that a win win is only a low basis to live. Being true to your beliefs and coming from a place of integrity where service is paramount. This understanding together with lots of NLP skills helped create my last partnership in the building industry grow from a turnover of £800k to £16m in less than twelve years and that can only be done with giving more than expected. Another shaping of me came from two traumatic events in my life that happened within six months of each other which created a number of major changes in me and by beliefs in what is possible. I have written about my experience and how I dealt with it but more importantly it really showed me my love for my three boys and theirs for me and resulted in the step up to become a trainer of NLP (which I never intended) and my close and exciting work with two of my sons. In supporting Joseph and help create change in people in our training’s and his wonderful life changing ‘Be your potential weekend’ and with Luke the continuing development of Cambridge Hypnotherapy and Hypnosis processes. My relationship with my third son Daniel just keeps getting better and better too. Not knowing how good I had become in change work in the beginning I generally studied, practiced and saw clients then things started to happen when I started to work following just my instincts. T
FMQ 114 Let's get attentive - a really attentive podcast
My first anxiety course - Yay!
#71 There's a pebble in my shoe! a podcast
FMQ 113 They are so annoying until we learn - podcast
FMQ 112 From something that I couldn't speak about- the podcast
#70 Practicing to failure - NOT - the podcast
FMQ 111 Life - and changing what's important to you
FMQ 110 In knowledge there's power - Really?
#69 an apology first and the art of a great question
# 68 The stories we tell ourselves or are they fibs
FMQ 109 When it seems like everything is going wrong
FMQ 108 What am I saying???
#67 The stories we tell ourselves or are they fibs
FMQ 107 Make your day
FMQ 106 I gotta get out of here!
#66 Courage and life's messages
FMQ 105 Caught playing with my.........
FMQ 104 A reminder how far you have come
#65 Memories are made of this
My lie to myself and a San Diego retreat