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The Stacking Benjamins Show

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Named the Best Personal Finance Podcast by Bankrate.com and Kiplinger, The Stacking Benjamins Show features a light and friendly tone. Hosts Joe Saul-Sehy and OG aim to make financial literacy fun for all as they sit around the card table in Joe's Mom's half-finished basement and talk with experts about personal finance, saving, investing, and important money trends. As Fast Company once wrote, the Stacking Benjamins podcast "strikes a great balance of fun and functional." So join Joe and OG every Monday, Wednesday and Friday as they read your letters, discuss major headlines, and throw in some trivia and laughs for free.

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Named the Best Personal Finance Podcast by Bankrate.com and Kiplinger, The Stacking Benjamins Show features a light and friendly tone. Hosts Joe Saul-Sehy and OG aim to make financial literacy fun for all as they sit around the card table in Joe's Mom's half-finished basement and talk with experts about personal finance, saving, investing, and important money trends. As Fast Company once wrote, the Stacking Benjamins podcast "strikes a great balance of fun and functional." So join Joe and OG every Monday, Wednesday and Friday as they read your letters, discuss major headlines, and throw in some trivia and laughs for free.

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The Money Basics That Save You When Life Goes Sideways (SB1782)

12/31/2025
As we close out the year, we're bringing back this powerful 2023 conversation with financial educator Tiffany Aliche (The Budgetnista) because it resonates even more today than when we first aired it. Joe Saul-Sehy and OG sit down with Tiffany for a conversation about financial wholeness. Not just having the right accounts, but building a money life that supports you when life doesn't go as planned. Tiffany shares what the past year taught her about preparedness, community, and resilience after the sudden loss of her husband, and why the systems she had in place mattered more than any single perfect financial move. This isn't a story about fear or worst-case scenarios. It's about confidence, clarity, and giving yourself grace while still doing the work that protects the people you love. Along the way, Joe and OG pull practical lessons every Stacker can use without overwhelm or guilt. The money basics that quietly make everything else easier: beneficiaries, insurance, wills, and the difference between having a plan and having peace of mind. If you've ever wondered whether you're focusing on the right financial priorities, or how prepared you really are, this episode offers reassurance, perspective, and a clear path forward. WHAT YOU'LL TAKE AWAY: What financial wholeness really means beyond budgets and spreadsheets Why having basic systems in place matters more than chasing optimization The quiet power of beneficiaries, insurance, and estate documents How preparation can reduce stress not just financially but emotionally Why community and education are essential parts of a strong money life How to enter a new year with confidence instead of pressure THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: You've ever wondered whether you're focusing on the right financial priorities, you want to make sure your essentials are covered without overwhelming yourself, you're thinking about what really matters as you head into a new year, or you believe the smartest financial move isn't always doing more but making sure the basics are handled. This is one of those episodes that makes you pause and ask: If something unexpected happened tomorrow, would my money make life easier or harder? You don't need to answer that perfectly today, but it's a great conversation to start. Sometimes the smartest financial move isn't doing more. It's making sure the essentials are handled so you can live fully the rest of the time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:23:17

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The Money Mindset Tweaks That Actually Change Results (SB1781)

12/29/2025
What if the biggest upgrade to your finances wasn't a new strategy but a new way of thinking? Joe Saul-Sehy and OG unpack the small but powerful money mindset shifts that separate people who know what to do from people who actually make progress. This isn't about motivation posters or vague positivity. It's about practical mental frameworks that lead to better decisions, fewer regrets, and more confidence with money. The team walks through their top five money mindset tweaks. How to focus on strengths instead of endlessly fixing shortcomings. Why taking action beats overthinking every time. How playing long-term games with the right people changes everything. Along the way, they connect mindset directly to real-world choices, like how thinking clearly about value, longevity, and opportunity cost affects something as everyday as buying a car. That's where Carl Brauer from iSeeCars joins the conversation with insight into which vehicles deliver the best long-term value. It's a perfect case study in mindset-driven money decisions. Not chasing shiny objects, but choosing options that quietly compound in your favor. If you've ever felt like you're doing most things right but not seeing the results you want, this episode helps you zoom out, recalibrate, and move forward with intention. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: The five mindset shifts that consistently lead to better money outcomes Why progress comes from doing rather than perfecting your plan first How understanding compounding changes the way you view time, effort, and money Why focusing on your strengths beats trying to fix every weakness How to think about purchases like cars through a long-term value lens The power of playing long-term games with people who think the same way THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: You feel like you know what to do with money but struggle to actually do it, you're tired of motivational content that doesn't translate into real change, you want to understand why some people progress faster with less effort, you're making a big purchase soon and want to think about it more clearly, or you believe the way you think about money matters as much as what you do with it. Sometimes the most profitable move isn't changing your plan. It's changing how you think about the plan. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:03:16

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David Greene: How to Build Real Wealth (Not Just Chase Hype)

12/29/2025
What separates people who build lasting wealth from people who just chase the next hot investment? David Greene from BiggerPockets has a clear answer, and it's not what most people want to hear. Joe Saul-Sehy and OG revisit a standout 2023 conversation with David that still resonates today. His story isn't about shortcuts, hacks, or getting lucky. It's about skill building, discipline, and learning to turn everyday work into long-term opportunity. From scooping ice cream at Baskin Robbins to building a successful real estate career, David breaks down what actually creates momentum over time and why "passive income" still requires serious intention. This episode showcases the kind of conversation that belongs in the vault. David explains what makes work feel worth it, how to develop skills that compound, and why the unsexy fundamentals matter more than the flashy strategies everyone's talking about. If you're tired of hype and ready for substance, this interview delivers. The show also tackles two critical protection topics. Adam Barowy from UL's Fire Safety Research Institute joins to explain the real (and often overlooked) risks of lithium-ion batteries in e-bikes, scooters, and everyday devices. He shares practical steps every family can take to reduce fire risk without panic or overreaction. Then Joe and OG field a listener question about keeping family property in the family. The discussion explores estate planning tradeoffs, communication challenges, and how to think through shared ownership without creating future conflict. Every segment connects to the same core idea. Building a life that's not only financially strong but resilient, safe, and meaningful. What You'll Walk Away With: • David Greene's framework for building wealth through skill mastery, not investment shortcuts • Why "passive income" is never truly passive and what actually makes work sustainable long term • Practical fire safety guidance for lithium-ion batteries you probably already own in your home • Simple steps to reduce household fire risk based on real research, not fearmongering • Thoughtful estate planning insights for preserving family property across generations • How to think about money not just as growth but as protection and stewardship This Episode Is For You If: • You're tired of wealth-building advice that sounds too good to be true • You want to hear how someone actually built success through discipline and skill development • You've got lithium-ion batteries around the house and never thought twice about fire safety • You're thinking about how to pass property or wealth to the next generation without creating conflict • You believe the smartest money moves involve both growing and protecting what you have Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's one area of your financial life where you're focused on growth but might need more protection or structure? Share your thoughts in the Spotify comments or bring the discussion into the Basement Facebook group because this episode tends to spark great follow-up conversations. Sometimes the smartest money move isn't about earning more. It's about keeping what you've built safe and aligned with what matters most. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:20:38

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The Perfection Trap: Why Striving Less Might Help You Save More (SB1779)

12/26/2025
Is the constant push to be great quietly making life (and money) harder than it needs to be? This vault-worthy episode from 2023 hits differently, especially during a season when expectations run high and energy can run low. Joe Saul-Sehy is joined by Len Penzo, Paulette Perhach, Diania Merriam, and special guest Stephanie O'Connell Rodriguez for a candid roundtable about ambition, procrastination, perfectionism, and the surprising freedom that comes from choosing good over exhausting. Instead of chasing flawless systems or ideal outcomes, the conversation explores what actually moves the needle in real life. Building momentum. Removing friction. Letting go of the idea that every decision has to be optimized. Whether it's money habits, career goals, or simply getting unstuck, this episode offers a calmer, more sustainable way forward without lowering your standards or your future. Along the way, the group shares personal stories, practical strategies, and a few moments that only happen when smart people stop pretending they've got it all figured out. It's thoughtful, honest, and exactly the kind of perspective many Stackers didn't know they needed. What You'll Take Away from This Episode: • Why perfection often slows progress more than fear or lack of knowledge • How "good enough" can be a powerful financial strategy, not a compromise • Practical ways to break through procrastination without burning out • When delegation and automation actually help and when they just add complexity • How to balance ambition with contentment without feeling like you're settling • Why consistency beats intensity in both money and life Questions Worth Sitting With: Where are you chasing "perfect" when "done" would be better? What would improve immediately if you lowered the bar just a little? Which money habit could become easier if you stopped optimizing it? We'd love to hear your take. Share your thoughts in the Spotify comments or bring the conversation into the Basement Facebook group, especially if this episode gave you permission to ease up without giving up. Sometimes the best financial move isn't pushing harder. It's choosing progress that actually fits your life. This one's a quiet classic, and those tend to age the best. Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:07:46

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Doug and the Three Ghosts (SB1778)

12/24/2025
One snowy Christmas Eve in Texarkana, Neighbor Doug settled into bed in his snazzy Superman Footie PJs (Amazon affiliate link), still buzzing on Joe’s Mom’s eggnog… Today’s special holiday episode recounts a completely original tale of Doug and the money lessons learned when he’s visited by three ghosts—past, present, and future. Especially when it comes to past credit mistakes, what’s done is done. Whatever method works best for you (debt snowball or debt avalanche), do that one. Come to terms with your bad money habits and realize that you can’t outearn them. It’s on you to fix the bad money habits of your past. Focus on what’s current and fix what needs fixing today. Don’t get caught in the trap of lamenting your past nor only planning for the future. Our only truly limited resource is time. Balance living for today with planning for the future. Remain in the present – especially when spending time with your loved ones – while keeping a vision in mind for your longer-term future plans. Be intentional about your plans and actions today and timeline what you want to achieve in what time you have remaining. Communicate on a regular basis with your “team” (loved ones) about your financial goals, progress, and situation. We recommend scheduling a weekly Family Budget Meeting. Automate as many of your financial decisions as possible today so you never have to think about them again in the future. Commit to paying off that mortgage early, ramp up those retirement savings contributions, stack those Benjamins for your kids’ college savings. Decide where you want to be financially in the future; face reality of where you are currently (we like our sponsor, Monarch Money, to track where you are); and take the necessary step to make that future a near certainty. Remember that time is the one commodity that’s finite for all of us. Value your time and experiences while staying responsible to your present and future self. Remember and learn from the sins of your past to build on your strengths; focus on living in the present and building your financial foundation; and head into the future with more confidence than Joe’s Mom’s Neighbor Doug during the annual Sun’s Out, Guns Out El Camino Competition at the Sizzler. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://stackingbenjamins.com/doug-and-the-three-ghosts-2025-holiday-special-1778 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:08:23

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The Holiday Kickoff Special: 2025 Lessons, Risky Bets, and an Alaska Surprise (SB1777)

12/22/2025
It's the most wonderful time of the year in the basement, and we're kicking off the holiday season with our biggest, most packed episode yet. Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, and Neighbor Doug welcome Joel Larsgaard and Matt Altmix from the How to Money podcast for a year-end celebration of everything that mattered in money during 2025. Think of this as the holiday parade of personal finance episodes. There's a lot happening, it's all connected, and you'll want to stick around for the whole thing. First up, Joel and Matt join the crew for their Top 5 Lessons from the Events of 2025. From AI's real impact on everyday work to market surprises nobody saw coming, this segment unpacks the money moments that actually changed how we think about our finances. These aren't just headlines rehashed. They're the insights that'll help you make smarter moves in 2026. Then the show shifts to a fascinating trend everyone's noticing but nobody's quite figured out yet. Why is everyone suddenly betting on everything? Prediction markets are exploding, retail investors are taking bigger risks, and the line between investing and gambling feels blurrier than ever. Joe, OG, Joel, and Matt dig into what's driving this shift, whether it's brilliant or reckless, and how to think about risk when it seems like the whole world just discovered the casino. But wait, there's more. Nick from Alaska calls in with a real-world budgeting challenge that proves even the most prepared Stackers face seasonal money surprises. His situation sparks the kind of practical, helpful conversation this show does best. And because this is a holiday kickoff episode, we're wrapping with big news about the Stacking Benjamins Vault, the new tool designed to help you organize and protect your most important financial documents without the headache. This episode has everything. Big ideas, real questions, legendary guests, surprise calls, and the energy of a show that knows the best episodes are the ones where there's almost too much good stuff to fit in. Welcome to the holiday season, Stacker style. What You'll Walk Away With: • Joel and Matt's Top 5 Money Lessons from 2025 that actually matter going forward • How AI really affected work and income this year in practical, not theoretical, ways • Why prediction markets and betting culture are suddenly everywhere and what it means for investors • Whether the shift toward riskier investments is smart adaptation or dangerous groupthink • Nick from Alaska's budgeting challenge and the solutions the crew offers in real time • An inside look at the Stacking Benjamins Vault and how it helps you organize what matters most • The perfect energy boost heading into holiday episodes and a new year of smarter money moves This Episode Is For You If: • You want the year-end money recap that feels like a celebration, not a lecture • You've noticed everyone's suddenly betting on elections, sports, and markets and wonder what's going on • You love episodes with special guests, surprise calls, and enough happening to keep you engaged the whole way • You want to head into the holidays feeling smarter about money, not more anxious • You're ready to kick off the season with the Stacking Benjamins crew at their absolute best After You Listen, Share This: What was your biggest money lesson from 2025? And have you noticed yourself (or people you know) getting more comfortable with risky bets lately? Drop your thoughts in the Spotify comments or the Basement Facebook group because this episode kicks off our holiday run, and we want to hear what's on your mind heading into 2026. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://stackingbenjamins.com/year-end-lessons-with-the-runners-up-of-the-charity-challenge-1777 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:31:44

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What 2025 Taught Us About Money (And What Actually Matters for 2026) SB1776

12/19/2025
Before you charge into a new year with fresh goals, shiny spreadsheets, and unrealistic optimism, it's worth doing the one thing most people skip. Looking back honestly at what just happened. Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, Neighbor Doug, Paula Pant (Afford Anything), and Jesse Cramer (Personal Finance for Long Term Investors) gather for an end-of-year roundtable to unpack the financial, personal, and behavioral lessons that 2025 handed us. Sometimes those lessons arrived gently. Sometimes they shoved us face-first into reality. Either way, this episode isn't about predictions for what's coming. It's about understanding the patterns from what already happened. The team digs into what diversification actually meant this year when some of the old rules stopped working the way they used to. They explore why emotional reactions to headlines still cost investors real money, even when everyone knows better. And they examine how policy noise (tariffs, political drama, market freakouts) reminded us once again that short-term chaos rarely deserves long-term decisions. Along the way, the conversation touches on housing lessons learned, family priorities that got re-examined, and AI's quiet but growing influence on work, productivity, and opportunity. The thread running through it all? Financial planning only works when it serves the life you're trying to build, not the other way around. This episode balances big-picture thinking with real-life reflection. It's the kind of honest look back that actually helps you move forward smarter instead of just louder. What You'll Walk Away With: • The most important financial lessons 2025 taught investors, whether they actually listened or not • How AI quietly changed work, productivity, and opportunity in ways that matter for your money decisions • Why diversification looked different this year and what investment principles still held up under pressure • How market volatility exposed emotional blind spots you might not have known you had (and how to fix them) • What the housing market taught us about patience, expectations, and timing • Why year-end reflection beats year-end predictions every single time • How family dynamics, personal values, and money planning intersect more than anyone likes to admit This Episode Is For You If: • You want to learn from 2025 before setting goals you'll abandon by February • You made some money decisions you're proud of and some you'd rather forget • Market headlines changed your behavior this year and you're wondering if that was smart • You're tired of prediction content and want actual reflection on what already happened • You believe getting smarter about money means being honest about what you got wrong Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What money decision in 2025 are you most proud of, and which one taught you the biggest lesson? Going into 2026, what one financial habit would make the biggest difference if you actually stuck with it? Bring those thoughts into the Facebook group or drop a comment because your reflections might help another Stacker avoid learning the same lesson the hard way. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://stackingbenjamins.com/top-money-lessons-of-2025-1776 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:07:56

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How to Give Back Without Being Rich + Building a Smarter Retirement Plan

12/17/2025
What if "giving back" isn't about writing bigger checks but about using what you're already great at? Most people think philanthropy is reserved for people with their names on buildings. That assumption keeps them from realizing they already have something valuable to give. Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, and Neighbor Doug welcome John Studzinski, managing director at PIMCO and founder of the Genesis Foundation, for a conversation about generosity, purpose, and impact that actually applies to everyday Stackers. John challenges the whole concept of "philanthropy" as something for the ultra-wealthy and reframes giving as a muscle anyone can build using time, talent, and intention instead of just cash. The conversation reveals how you can create meaningful impact right now, regardless of your bank balance. Whether you're great at organizing, teaching, listening, or solving problems, those skills matter more than you think. John breaks down how to identify your personal talent for impact and why intentional giving beats reactive charity every single time. Then the show shifts to retirement planning, specifically how to design a glide path that works with your behavior instead of fighting it. Joe and OG break down how to manage risk as you age, why annuities keep showing up in retirement conversations, and why smart planning focuses less on chasing perfect returns and more on creating stability you can actually live with. Because the math might say one thing, but your ability to sleep at night matters just as much. Along the way, the crew takes a detour into ChatGPT's potential future, explores a few behavioral finance truths that hit uncomfortably close to home, and wraps with a pop culture review reminding us that money decisions never happen in a vacuum. This episode is about aligning your resources (financial and otherwise) with the life you actually want to live. What You'll Walk Away With: • Why "giving" is a better word than "philanthropy" and why that shift in language actually matters • How to identify your personal talent for impact even without significant wealth • Why generosity works best when it's intentional and strategic rather than reactive • How retirement glide paths actually work and why your behavior matters more than the math • The role annuities can play in reducing retirement anxiety without sacrificing everything • Why percentages can be misleading, real dollars tell better stories, and context is everything • How fear, FOMO, and age quietly shape your investment decisions in ways you might not notice • Permission to build a retirement plan around stability instead of maximum growth This Episode Is For You If: • You want to give back but think you need more money before you can make a real difference • You're approaching retirement and tired of advice that ignores how you actually feel about risk • You've wondered if annuities deserve their bad reputation or if there's something there • You want your money decisions to reflect your values, not just optimize for returns • You believe purpose and planning should work together, not compete Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's a talent you already have that could create more impact than money alone? And when it comes to retirement investing, what decision do you know is emotional but still struggle with? Drop your answers in the comments because John's perspective on giving and the crew's take on retirement planning might shift how you think about both. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:14:39

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The Fire Safety Steps You're Skipping (Plus: What the World Worries About in Retirement) SB1774

12/15/2025
Some episodes help you protect your money. Some help you protect everything your money makes possible. This episode does both. Joe Saul-Sehy and OG welcome fire safety expert Steve Kerber from UL's Fire Safety Research Institutes, who delivers simple, practical, "do this today" steps that dramatically increase your home's safety. From upgrading outdated smoke alarms to understanding lithium-ion battery risks to spotting hidden hazards most people walk past every single day, Steve gives everyday Stackers the tools to keep their homes and families safer. This isn't scare tactics. It's straightforward guidance from someone who's spent his career studying what actually prevents fires and saves lives. Then the show shifts gears for the headline segment. Joe and OG unpack T. Rowe Price's latest Global Retirement Survey to explore what savers around the world are most anxious about right now. How are people adapting to inflation? Are retirement expectations shifting across different countries? What can you learn from how others are handling the same fears you probably have? The data reveals patterns that might surprise you and insights you can actually use to build more confidence in your own retirement planning. Between these two segments, you'll get Doug's trivia throwdown, a TikTok detour through airport lounge mythology, and a few classic basement moments that remind you why this show mixes serious topics with serious fun. It's a wide-ranging episode packed with actionable takeaways and a good reminder that your financial plan works best when your home, your health, and your long-term outlook are all protected. What You'll Walk Away With: • The small home safety upgrades that make the biggest difference in fire prevention • Why smoke alarms fail more often than you think and how to pick the right replacement • Lithium-ion battery safety covering where to store them, what to avoid, and which myths to ignore • How real-world fire prevention thinking overlaps with smart financial planning habits • What savers around the world worry about most when it comes to retirement • How inflation, longevity concerns, and economic uncertainty are reshaping retirement expectations globally • Practical steps to feel more confident about your long-term retirement plan based on what the data reveals • Permission to take simple safety steps today that your future self will thank you for This Episode Is For You If: • You can't remember the last time you checked your smoke alarms (or know they're overdue for replacement) • You've got lithium-ion batteries around the house but aren't sure if you're storing them safely • You're curious what retirement worries look like around the world and how yours compare • You want retirement insights based on actual data instead of just one expert's opinion • You believe protecting what you have is just as important as growing what you're building Before You Hit Play, Ask Yourself: When's the last time you actually tested your smoke alarms or checked their expiration dates? And what's your biggest retirement worry right now? Drop both answers in the comments because Steve's fire safety tips and the global retirement data might address fears you didn't even realize were universal. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://stackingbenjamins.com/holiday-fire-safety-tips-steve-kerber-1774 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:08:19

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Does More Money Actually Make Life Easier? (Spoiler: Not Really) SB1773

12/12/2025
Does more money make life easier, or does it just give you more expensive problems to solve? Most people assume that once they start earning more, their financial life will finally calm down and organize itself. Then they get the raise or the promotion or the business success, and somehow things feel just as chaotic as before, just with bigger numbers involved. Joe Saul-Sehy is joined by Paula Pant (Afford Anything), Jesse Cramer (Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors), and OG to explore why "more" isn't always "simpler." The crew digs into early money mistakes they'd all like to forget, the weird psychological traps that show up as income grows, and why your brain doesn't automatically upgrade its money management skills just because your paycheck did. The conversation gets real about the hidden mental challenges that come with wealth growth. Decision fatigue gets worse, not better. Lifestyle creep sneaks in wearing a very convincing disguise. And suddenly you're agonizing over choices that used to be simple, because now you can afford multiple options and none of them feel obviously right. If you've ever wondered why your financial life didn't magically self-organize the moment you started earning more, this roundtable has your answers. The crew also tackles listener questions about building budgeting habits that actually stick, finding genuine financial confidence, and creating systems that scale with your life instead of working against it. Because the goal isn't just to make more money. It's to build a life that feels manageable and intentional at whatever income level you're at. Plus, Doug delivers a trivia showdown featuring fierce competition, questionable strategy, and what might be the most overthought trophy dilemma in basement history. What You'll Walk Away With: • Why more income doesn't automatically reduce financial stress and often creates new complications • The hidden mental traps people fall into as their wealth grows and how to spot them early • How Paula, Jesse, OG, and Joe think about building lasting financial confidence at any income level • Practical budgeting strategies that work whether you're making $50K or $500K • Why simple pleasures matter more (not less) as your money grows • The surprising ways earning more actually complicates everyday decisions • Listener Q&A on habits, organization, and creating systems that smooth out financial chaos • Permission to admit that making more money didn't solve everything like you thought it would This Episode Is For You If: • You're earning more than you used to but somehow don't feel more in control • You assumed financial stress would decrease with income but it just shifted to different problems • You're stuck between multiple good options and can't figure out why that's so paralyzing • You want to hear successful people admit that more money created complications they didn't expect • You're building wealth but want to make sure you're also building a life that feels good Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's one financial decision that got harder (not easier) as you started earning more money? Drop your answer in the comments because this roundtable proves you're definitely not the only one experiencing this paradox. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:02:59

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Magic and Logic: How Lou Frankfort Built Coach (Plus: Don't Make This Retirement Mistake (SB1772)

12/10/2025
Walking away from a secure city government job to eventually run one of the world's most recognizable handbag brands sounds like fiction. For Lou Frankfort, it became his career story, and the path between those two points is exactly what makes this conversation so valuable. Lou joins Joe Saul-Sehy and OG in the basement to break down how a combination of discipline, curiosity, and what he calls "magic and logic" shaped his journey from city hall to the corner office at Coach. This isn't just inspiration for aspiring executives. Lou's insights about making better decisions, taking calculated risks, and building a meaningful life apply whether you're 25 or 55, whether you're climbing the ladder or considering jumping to a different one entirely. Lou shares how preparation became his secret advantage, why curiosity beats confidence during major transitions, and what he learned about leadership while helping transform Coach into a global powerhouse. His framework for balancing intuition with analysis gives the Confident Explorer a practical lens for evaluating their own big moves, career pivots, or midlife reinventions. Then Joe and OG shift gears to tackle a different kind of transition. The first year of retirement. When excitement runs high and "go-go" energy meets newfound freedom, spending can spiral in ways that derail decades of careful planning. They break down the crucial financial decisions retirees face right out of the gate, why that first year can be surprisingly dangerous, and how to set yourself up for long-term stability without killing the joy of finally having time to live. Plus, Doug delivers trivia involving time travel and underwear, because even episodes about CEO wisdom and retirement planning need a reality check from the basement. What You'll Walk Away With: • How Lou Frankfort pivoted from city government work to leading Coach and what that path teaches about career reinvention • The "magic and logic" framework anyone can apply to big decisions and career moves • Why curiosity and thorough preparation matter more than confidence when making your next leap • Leadership lessons from someone who helped build a global brand from the inside • What retirees absolutely must understand about spending during that crucial first year • Why the "go-go years" of early retirement can wreck your finances if you're not careful • Strategies for aligning your early retirement excitement with long-term financial stability • Permission to reinvent yourself at any age, armed with both inspiration and practical wisdom This Episode Is For You If: • You're considering a career change but worried you're too far along to pivot • You want to understand how successful people actually made their big moves • You're approaching retirement and want to avoid the spending traps that catch most people • You're curious how to balance intuition with analysis when making major life decisions • You believe it's never too late to build something meaningful or try something new Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's one career move or life transition you've been thinking about but haven't pulled the trigger on yet? What's actually holding you back? Drop your answer in the comments because Lou's story might be exactly the perspective shift you need to take that next step. Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:06:35

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How to Actually Enjoy Holiday Small Talk (And Give Better Gifts for Less) SB1771

12/8/2025
Holiday parties make you want to hide behind the cheese tray. Gift-giving season makes your budget cry. This episode is your survival guide for both. Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, and Neighbor Doug welcome Pulitzer Prize-winning author Charles Duhigg to turn holiday small talk from awkward endurance test into something you might actually enjoy. Whether you're facing the office party, a family gathering with that cousin who won't shut up about crypto, or the neighborhood potluck where you know exactly three people, Charles reveals how to walk into any room with confidence, even if you're an introvert who'd rather be home watching movies. The secret? Super communicators aren't the loudest people in the room. They're the ones asking better questions, reading the conversation correctly, and making others feel heard. Charles breaks down the skills that turn painful small talk into genuine connection, and why introverts actually have hidden advantages at holiday gatherings (yes, really). Then the crew tackles the other holiday stressor of gift-giving that doesn't demolish your December budget. Joe, OG, and Doug explore the rising trend of secondhand gifting. It's not just about saving money (though your wallet will thank you). It can be more meaningful, more creative, and kinder to both your finances and the planet. From thrifted treasures to thoughtful "found" gems, they share how to give smarter instead of just spending more. Plus, Doug's toilet paper trivia arrives right on schedule (because what's a holiday episode without something unexpected?), along with stories about neighbors behaving badly and a brief tour through apps you forgot you're still paying for. What You'll Walk Away With: • Charles Duhigg's framework for turning small talk into actual connection without feeling fake • Why introverts have secret advantages at holiday parties and how to use them • Smart, budget-friendly gifting strategies that feel thoughtful rather than last-minute or cheap • The case for secondhand gifts and how to do it in a way that feels special • How to avoid blowing your holiday budget without looking (or feeling) stingy • Creative ways to personalize gifts without overspending or resorting to gift cards • Why communication skills affect both your happiness and your financial decisions This Episode Is For You If: • Holiday small talk feels like torture and you'd rather shovel snow • You want to give meaningful gifts but refuse to wreck your January budget doing it • You're an introvert dreading the season of forced social interaction • You're tired of generic gift guides telling you to "just spend less" without actual ideas • You believe better conversations and smarter spending are both learnable skills Before You Hit Play, Ask Yourself: What's the most meaningful non-new gift you've ever given or received? Think about why it mattered. That's the kind of gifting Charles and the crew are talking about. Drop your story in the comments because we're building the anti-Amazon holiday gift playbook together. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/how-to-actually-enjoy-holiday-small-talk-1771/ Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:09:40

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How to Save Money Without Making Your Life Miserable (SB1770)

12/5/2025
Here's the problem with most frugality advice: it makes you feel like a monk who's taken a vow of joylessness. Joe Saul-Sehy and Neighbor Doug gather the roundtable crew—Paula Pant (Afford Anything), Jesse Cramer (Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors), and Andy Hill (Marriage, Kids, and Money)—to prove that frugality isn't about deprivation. It's about designing a life that feels good and costs less. The conversation gets real fast: what's the difference between thoughtful frugality and soul-crushing penny-pinching? How do you cut spending without cutting joy? And why do some people thrive on frugal challenges while others just end up resentful and burnt out? The crew shares their own tactics, from "shopping your fridge" (a shockingly high-ROI habit most people ignore) to the power of frugal sprints instead of permanent deprivation mode. They break down how to align your spending with your actual values instead of society's expectations, why raising income often beats shaving another $3 off your grocery bill, and how to turn frugality into something your kids actually want to participate in (no guilt trips required). You'll also hear about the expenses each of them refuses to cut no matter how frugal they get, because smart money management isn't about eliminating everything; it's about keeping what matters and ditching what doesn't. Plus: stories about mystery freezer leftovers, subscription fees that sneak in like cat burglars, and Doug's perspective on... well, whatever Doug decides matters that day. What You'll Walk Away With: • The difference between frugality that improves your life and penny-pinching that just makes you miserable • Why "shopping your fridge" might be the highest-return grocery habit you'll ever adopt • How to design spending around your actual values instead of just cutting blindly • The power of "frugal sprints"—short-term challenges that work without long-term burnout • How to involve your kids in frugal habits without making them feel deprived • Why focusing on raising income often matters more than obsessing over tiny budget cuts • Which expenses the pros refuse to cut—and why knowing your "worth it" list matters This Episode Is For You If: • You want to save money but refuse to live like you're broke when you're not • Traditional frugality advice makes you feel guilty about things that actually bring you joy • You're trying to cut spending but can't figure out where to start without feeling deprived • You want to model smart money habits for your kids without making them fear spending • You're tired of finance advice that assumes everyone should want the same lifestyle Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's the one expense you refuse to cut, no matter how frugal you get? And what does that tell you about what actually matters to you? Drop your answer in the comments—we want to know what's on everyone's "worth it" list. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/how-to-save-money-without-making-your-life-miserable-sb1770/ Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:02:33

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Morgan Housel: Why You Spend Money (And How to Do It Better) SB1769

12/3/2025
Here's something nobody tells you: knowing how to make money is easy compared to knowing how to spend it well. Morgan Housel, bestselling author and one of the sharpest minds in personal finance, is back in the basement with Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, and Neighbor Doug to tackle the question most financial advice completely ignores: why do we spend the way we do, and how can we get better at it? This isn't about budgeting apps or cutting lattes. It's about understanding the psychology underneath every swipe of your card. Morgan shares stories from his early days working valet for the ultra-wealthy—the spending patterns he observed, the misery he witnessed, and the lessons that changed how he thinks about money forever. Turns out, having more money doesn't automatically make you better at spending it. In fact, it often makes you worse. The conversation digs into what actually creates happiness (spoiler: it's not more stuff), why contentment matters more than your net worth, and how true financial independence isn't about the size of your portfolio—it's about the freedom to make choices that align with your actual values. Morgan also breaks down what Warren Buffett's retirement announcement reveals about staying grounded while building wealth, and why comedians might understand money better than most economists. Plus: Doug takes a trivia detour to a surprisingly risqué national park (because of course), and the crew wraps with binge-worthy recommendations for your next couch night. If you're tired of chasing more and ready to figure out what enough actually looks like, this episode is required listening. What You'll Walk Away With: • Why spending money well is a psychological skill, not a math problem—and how to develop it • What Morgan learned about wealth and misery from parking cars for millionaires in their driveways • The hidden drivers behind your financial decisions (and how to spot them before they derail you) • Why contentment—not consumption—is the real key to long-term happiness • What true financial independence actually means (hint: it's not a number in your bank account) • How Warren Buffett's approach to retirement reveals timeless principles about money and legacy • Simple guiding principles to help you spend smarter and live calmer This Episode Is For You If: • You've hit financial goals but still don't feel satisfied • You're tired of spending money on things that don't actually make you happier • You want to understand why you make the money decisions you do (even the questionable ones) • You're curious what actually separates people who enjoy their money from people who just have it • You believe there's more to financial success than just accumulating more Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's one purchase you made that brought way more joy than its price tag would suggest—and can you figure out why? That's the kind of spending Morgan's talking about. Drop your answer in the comments—the basement wants to hear what actually brought you happiness. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/the-art-of-spending-money-with-morgan-housel-1769/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:00:58:26

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The Tax Basics You Should've Learned Years Ago (But Nobody Taught You) SB1768

12/1/2025
Let's be honest: taxes feel like that thing you're supposed to understand but somehow never learned, and now you're too embarrassed to ask. Joe Saul-Sehy, OG, and Neighbor Doug welcome Hannah Cole—artist-turned-tax-pro and author of the brand-new book Taxes for Humans—to finally explain taxes in language that doesn't require a CPA license to understand. Hannah's built her career translating tax code for freelancers, side hustlers, and small business owners who just want to know what they can deduct, what'll get them audited, and how to stop drowning in shoebox receipts. She breaks down the real difference between a legitimate business expense and wishful thinking, how to track startup costs without losing your mind, and why the bookkeeping system that works is the one you'll actually use (spoiler: it doesn't have to be fancy). Whether you're launching a side gig, running a creative business, or just trying to keep the IRS from ruining your holiday season, Hannah's got the roadmap. Then Joe and OG shift gears to tackle the "AI bubble" conversation everyone's having—is this tech hype justified, or are we watching 1999 all over again? They break down how to think about market froth without panicking, why smart investors don't build their strategy around TikTok prophets predicting doom, and how to prepare your portfolio for volatility without making fear-based moves. Plus: Doug delivers trivia about Richard Pryor's Blazing Saddles days, because even tax talk deserves a palate cleanser. What You'll Walk Away With: • Tax basics explained in actual human language (finally)—what counts as a deduction and what's just wishful thinking • How to set up simple, sustainable bookkeeping systems for side gigs or small businesses that you'll actually maintain • The smartest way to track startup expenses without drowning in receipts or spreadsheets • Why the IRS isn't as scary as you think when you've got your basics covered • How to think about AI market hype without getting swept up in either the euphoria or the panic • Smart strategies for preparing your portfolio for volatility without making emotion-driven decisions • Why the right tax and investing systems buy you back time, creativity, and peace of mind This Episode Is For You If: • You've been winging it on taxes and know you're probably missing deductions (or making mistakes) • You run a side hustle but have no idea what you can actually write off • Tax season makes you anxious because you're never sure if you're doing it right • You're hearing AI bubble talk everywhere and wondering if you should be worried about your investments • You want systems that are simple enough to actually follow, not perfect enough to abandon by February Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's the tax mistake you wish you could warn your younger self about? Drop it in the comments—we're all learning here, and sometimes the best lessons come from what we got wrong the first time. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/tax-basics-for-side-hustlers-ai-market-tips/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:12:55

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Board Games That Make You Smarter With Money (Without Feeling Like School) SB1767

11/28/2025
Here's a secret: some of the best financial education doesn't come from books or podcasts. It comes from a board game box. Joe Saul-Sehy welcomes Kylie Prymus, board game expert and owner of Pittsburgh's award-winning store Games Unlimited, for a conversation about the games that sneak money lessons into brilliant gameplay. These aren't boring "educational games" that make kids groan—they're genuinely fun strategy games that happen to teach supply and demand, resource management, risk assessment, and long-term planning better than most finance courses. Kylie walks through his top picks for economic games that'll make you (and your kids, and yes, your brother-in-law) think differently about money. From deck-builders like Dominion that teach portfolio diversification to Food Chain Magnate (basically an MBA in a box, but way more entertaining), these games turn financial concepts into actual decisions with consequences you can see play out in real time. But this isn't just about learning—it's about leveling up your holiday gatherings. Kylie shares his favorite cozy games for the season, from the absurdly cute cat-themed strategy game Boop to party games like Monikers that even Uncle Larry can't ruin. Whether you need something cooperative to bring the family together or competitive enough to settle old scores, this episode has you covered. Plus: you'll hear why game stores like Games Unlimited curate experiences (not just inventory), and how the right game can turn a tense holiday gathering into something people actually want to repeat. What You'll Walk Away With: • The board games that teach money concepts like budgeting, income streams, and resource management without feeling like homework • Why Dominion, Food Chain Magnate, and other economic games are secretly brilliant financial teachers • Kylie's top holiday game picks—from cozy strategy games to party games that work for any crowd • How game mechanics like deck-building and resource trading translate directly to real-world money decisions • What to look for when choosing games that work for both newbies and strategy enthusiasts • Why games teach financial lessons better than lectures—and how to use that with kids (or adults who need a refresh) • The surprising ways marketing, scarcity, and community building show up in tabletop games This Episode Is For You If: • You want to teach your kids about money in a way that doesn't feel like a lecture • You're looking for games that are actually fun but happen to build financial thinking • Your family game nights need an upgrade beyond Monopoly arguments • You're curious about board games but don't know where to start • You believe the best learning happens when you're having too much fun to notice you're learning What's Your Money Game? Drop your answer in the comments: What board game taught you a real money lesson, even if it wasn't trying to? Or if your financial personality were a board game, which one would it be? The basement wants to know—and we're always looking for new game recommendations. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/kylie-prymus-board-games/ Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:15:59

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Black Friday Tech: What's Worth Buying (And What's Just Hype) SB1766

11/26/2025
Black Friday's coming, your inbox is screaming deals at you, and you're trying to figure out: is this tech actually worth it, or will it be collecting dust by Valentine's Day? Joe Saul-Sehy, guest co-host CFP Anna Allem, and Neighbor Doug bring in Bridget Carey from CNET to cut through the holiday tech chaos. Bridget's spent her career testing gadgets, and she's here to tell you what's actually worth your money this season—from Nintendo's surprisingly strong lineup to handheld gaming devices like Steam Deck and Xbox Cloud that might replace your console. She also warns you away from AI-powered appliances that still feel like they're arguing with you instead of helping. Bridget breaks down the smart way to approach Black Friday and Cyber Monday without wrecking your December budget, which deals are real and which are manufactured hype, and why some tech gifts send a very specific message to your in-laws (and maybe not the one you want). Then the conversation shifts from tech temptations to investing platforms—specifically Robinhood. The confetti animations are fun, the interface is slick, but is it actually built for serious long-term investing? Joe and Anna dig into where Robinhood works, where it distracts, and why your retirement plan might need something more substantial than gamified stock trading and crypto side quests. Plus: Doug delivers Thanksgiving-adjacent trivia, and the crew takes a nostalgic detour through Skip-Its and Long Furbys that'll fuel your next holiday gathering conversation. What You'll Walk Away With: • Bridget Carey's insider guide to which holiday tech deals are legit and which are overhyped garbage • The best gaming and gadget gifts this season (from someone who actually tests this stuff for a living) • Why some AI appliances still feel like expensive beta tests you're paying to debug • Smart strategies for Black Friday and Cyber Monday that don't demolish your December budget • The honest truth about Robinhood: where it shines and where serious investors should look elsewhere • How investing platforms subtly influence your behavior—and whether that's helping or hurting you • How to stay grounded when shiny objects (tech or financial) start calling your name This Episode Is For You If: • You're staring at Black Friday ads wondering which deals are actually worth it • You want tech gift advice from someone who isn't trying to sell you something • You've been using Robinhood and wonder if it's actually helping your long-term investing goals • You're curious whether the flashy features on investing apps are making you a better or worse investor • You need a reality check before holiday spending turns into January regret Before You Hit Play, Ask Yourself: What's the worst tech purchase you've ever made? Bonus points if it broke before New Year's. Drop it in the comments—misery loves company, and we're building the ultimate "do not buy" list together. Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:09:10

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The Smart Person's Guide to Black Friday Deals (SB1765)

11/24/2025
Black Friday is coming, and you've got two choices: get trampled at 3 a.m. for a discount air fryer, or learn how the pros actually save hundreds without the drama. Joe Saul-Sehy and Neighbor Doug kick off Black Friday week with the perfect blend of strategy and sanity. First up: Australian comedian Josh Liston tries to make sense of American Thanksgiving traditions and why we consider waking up before dawn to fight strangers over discounted electronics "normal holiday fun." Spoiler: he's not buying it. Then Regina Conway from Slick Deals drops in with the actual playbook. Regina breaks down when to shop during Black Friday week (different categories peak on different days), how to stack coupons with cashback and gift card deals for maximum savings, and why subscriptions and memberships might be the smartest budget-friendly gifts you're not considering. She also reveals how the Slick Deals community spots hidden bargains before they disappear—and how you can do the same. But here's where it gets real: Joe, Doug, and Josh tackle Buy Now Pay Later schemes like Affirm and Klarna. They're everywhere this season, and they're tempting. They're also the financial equivalent of eating Halloween candy for breakfast—feels great in the moment, regrettable by lunch. You'll learn exactly when these services make sense (rare) and when they're just a trap disguised as convenience. Whether you're hunting deals or trying to avoid holiday debt, this episode is your survival guide for coming out ahead. What You'll Walk Away With: • Regina Conway's insider strategy for when to shop during Black Friday week (hint: timing matters more than you think) • How to stack coupons, cashback offers, and gift card deals to maximize every purchase • Why subscriptions and memberships make surprisingly smart (and budget-friendly) holiday gifts • Grocery hacks that actually save money during the most expensive shopping weeks of the year • The truth about Buy Now Pay Later—when it's useful and when it's just expensive debt with good marketing • How community-powered deal sites like Slick Deals help you find and vet bargains before they vanish • Smart strategies to enjoy the holidays without the January credit card hangover This Episode Is For You If: • You want Black Friday deals without the 3 a.m. wake-up call or the crowds • You're trying to save money this season but feel overwhelmed by all the "deals" • You've been tempted by Buy Now Pay Later but aren't sure if it's smart or stupid • You want to give great gifts without blowing your budget (or your sanity) • You believe there's a smarter way to shop than fighting strangers for discounted TVs What's Your Black Friday Strategy? Are you a doorbuster warrior, an online deal hunter, or someone who avoids the whole thing? Drop your approach in the comments—and if you've got a Black Friday horror story (or victory), the basement wants to hear it. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://stackingbenjamins.com/how-to-save-big-this-black-friday-regina-conway-1765 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:22:09

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How to Actually Use Money Apps the Right Way (According to FinTech Pros) SB1764

11/21/2025
What if you could sit down with the people actually building the future of personal finance and just... ask them everything? That's exactly what happens in this episode. Joe Saul-Sehy gathers three FinTech insiders around the basement table—Peter Polson (founder, Tiller), Aaron Froug (founder, Grifin), and Ryan Ruff (longtime FinTech pro, Array)—for a rare look inside the industry that's reshaping how we handle money. This isn't about pitching their products. It's about understanding how FinTech actually works, where it's headed, and how everyday people can use these tools more effectively. Peter and Aaron share what they've learned building companies from the ground up, while Ryan pulls back the curtain on the infrastructure most people never see but rely on every single day. The conversation goes deep: What are most people getting wrong about money apps? How can you get more value from the tools you're already using? Where is AI actually making finance easier (versus just adding complexity)? And as creators, how can they design tools that genuinely help people instead of just creating more digital clutter? You'll also hear their take on what's coming next—the innovations that'll matter in five years, the trends that are overhyped, and the blind spots the industry still needs to address. Whether you're a FinTech skeptic or an early adopter, this conversation will change how you think about the apps sitting on your phone right now. What You'll Walk Away With: • The insider perspective on how FinTech tools are actually designed—and what builders wish users understood • How to get more value from the financial apps you're already using (most people only scratch the surface) • Where the industry is headed: what innovations are real and what's just hype • Why some tools work for some people but fail for others—and how to find your fit • The infrastructure that makes your financial apps work (and what breaks when it doesn't) • How AI is changing personal finance in practical ways, not just buzzword ways • What FinTech creators are trying to solve—and where they admit the industry still falls short This Episode Is For You If: • You're curious about what's actually happening inside the FinTech world • You want to use your money apps smarter, not just download more of them • You're wondering what's coming next in personal finance tech and whether it'll actually help • You've felt like financial tools are being built for someone else, not for you • You want the insider perspective without the sales pitch—just honest conversation from people who live this every day Before You Hit Play, Think About This: What's one thing you wish your money apps could do better? Drop it in the comments—these are exactly the kinds of insights that help creators build tools that actually work for real people. FULL SHOW NOTES: https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/the-current-state-and-future-of-fintech-1764 Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.StackingBenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:14:50

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How to Actually Listen (Not Just Wait to Talk) SB1763

11/19/2025
Be honest: When someone's talking to you, are you actually listening—or just waiting for your turn to speak? Joe Saul-Sehy and OG welcome executive coach Katie O'Malley, who's here to expose how terrible most of us are at paying attention—and more importantly, how to fix it. Whether you're trying to connect with your spouse, navigate a tough conversation with your kid, or just survive Thanksgiving dinner without the crypto uncle derailing everything, Katie's got the framework that makes you a better listener (and weirdly, a better decision-maker too). Here's the thing: better listening doesn't just improve your relationships. It improves your money decisions. When you're actually present instead of distracted, you catch the details that matter. You ask better questions. You make choices that align with your values instead of reacting on autopilot. Katie breaks down the reflective listening technique that changes every conversation—at work, at home, and yes, even about money. Joe and OG also dig into financial literacy for younger Stackers (because the skills you wish you'd learned earlier are the ones you should be teaching now), plus new research on all-stock portfolios and whether they're brilliant or just reckless depending on your risk tolerance. And Doug? Doug's got Halloween-adjacent music trivia and commentary that reminds you not everything needs to be taken seriously. What You'll Walk Away With: • The reflective listening framework that immediately improves how you communicate (with everyone) • Why "listening to respond" instead of "listening to understand" sabotages your conversations • Simple techniques to break free from distraction loops—especially the ones involving your phone • How better communication leads to better financial decisions (they're more connected than you think) • What the research actually says about all-stock portfolios and whether they fit your risk tolerance • Ways to teach young people the financial skills they need—even if nobody taught you • Strategies for staying present during stressful family moments (holiday season, we see you) Before You Hit Play, Ask Yourself: • When was the last time you listened to understand instead of just waiting for your turn to talk? • What relationships in your life would improve if you were actually present instead of mentally writing your grocery list? • Are you teaching the young people in your life the money skills you wish someone had taught you? • Does your investment strategy match your actual risk tolerance—or just what sounded good on TikTok? • What uncomfortable conversations are you avoiding because you don't know how to navigate them? Got a communication breakdown you're trying to fix—financial or otherwise? Drop it in the comments. The basement's got your back. Deeper dives with curated links, topics, and discussions are in our newsletter, The 201, available at https://www.stackingbenjamins.com/201 Enjoy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Duration:01:17:54