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Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (

Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (
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Each week, comedian Billy Procida sits down with former hook-ups to talk about sex, dating, sexuality and gender. Plus special guests from orgy organizers to sex researchers! RetroFuture by Kevin MacLeod ( Album Artwork by Branson B. II (




Ep. 197: When Fans Overstep Boundaries with Foot Fetish Queen Becky Berardi

Becky Berardi is the foot fetish queen of New York City. Feet have been a core part of her dating life ever since high school! Something newer in her life is having a boat load of fans thanks to her popular YouTube Channel The Bad Ass Becky Show. But with success comes the occasional overenthusiastic admirer. Becky and I get off her feet to discuss having boundaries with your fans. She’s arguably way better at setting limits than I am. With sexually charged shows like ours, strangers get a...

Duration: 01:30:30

Ep. 196: Gym Orgasms, Sex Toys, and The Rough Sex Checklist

Sometimes a dude with a big dick is just a big dick. Diana returns to The Manwhore Podcast sharing the worst sex she ever had. “He had a bigger than average penis. And I could tell that he knew it and held a lot of his self-esteem in that extra inch or so.” Diana made the decision/mistake of sleeping with me again since she first came on the show back in 2014. We discuss all of the faux pas I made this second time around and how she’s gotta be in a certain mood to fuck me. “It’s a little...

Duration: 01:47:47

Ep. 195: Hands Off My Dry Clitoris!—Emily Varnam (The Fifth Vital Sign)

“When someone puts a hand on my dry clitoris, I’m like, ‘Who raised you?’” says Emily Varnam on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. Fuckbois beware! This feminist has a social justice test before she lets you anywhere near her period panties. The 5th Vital Sign co-founder shares the joys, delights, and mehs of being a birth doula. She typically coaches women through birth control selection, pregnancy, and raising children. Needless to say, Billy learned a lot about the female body this week!...

Duration: 01:27:40

Ep. 194: Recreating Your Virginity Loss with Jamie Loftus

Jamie Loftus lost her virginity on August 15, 2010. It’s not just a statement of fact—it’s the name of her one-woman show! To celebrate the anniversary of the night she lost her V-card, the Bechdel Cast host reenacts it in front of a paying audience while the lucky fella Skypes in to co-host. Loftus tells us all about that show as well as her movie podcast The Bechdel Cast where she analyzes the portrayal of women in film. ALSO: a listener asks how I ended up identifying as “polyamorous”...

Duration: 01:35:00

Ep. 193: From Stripper to Gigolo to Guru with Nick Hawk

I’m not sure if Nick Hawk is a gigolo or a life guru after chatting with the Showtime star. “The ego is part of you. Embrace it,” he says on an all new Manwhore Podcast. “We confuse confidence with arrogance a lot.” I walked into his midtown hotel room convinced we would discuss the ins and outs of selling sex, but we entered a higher plane discussing creativity, confidence, and anxiety. What do those topics have to do with being one of America’s leading male escorts? Apparently...

Duration: 01:19:28

Ep. 192: Hacienda Drama, Rejection, and Sugar Baby Clients

“I usually drug myself before I have sex with him,” says this week’s Manwhore Podcast guest. Dove is a sugar baby. She’s a sugar baby who detests her clients. “I like them when they’re losers because they’re easy.” Hear how this young woman went from dating me to making $30,000 this year off of just one guy! If I’m the cause, shouldn’t I get a cut? ALSO: I got yelled at by a strange man at a sex party on Saturday. If he wanted me to run out of the house crying, all he had to do was call me...

Duration: 01:34:20

Ep. 191: How to Reach Sexual Enlightenment with Daniel Saynt

“Everyone wants to steal your mind space,” says Daniel Saynt, the Chief Conspirator and Founder of New York City’s hot new sex club NSFW—the New Society For Wellness. “Everyone wants to steal your attention. Especially if you’re doing something that’s pushing something forward.” Saynt is not without his haters, but he pays them no mind. The bisexual sex party mischief-maker hopes to help his members realize sexual enlightenment through kink demos, consent workshops, and cannabis cooking...

Duration: 01:20:02

Ep. 190: Lap Dances, Happy Endings, and Crying Men with comedian Amber Rollo

Amber Rollo left the glitter-ridden stripper stage for a different stage with a less sturdy pole and a solid brick wall. Amber and I exchanged dirt to prepare for our roast battle at The Stand Comedy Club in New York City. I learned that she was an awkward bisexual youth with dead parents. She learned that a bunch of idiots with questionable taste used to pay me to take my clothes off on webcam. This week’s Manwhore Podcast ends with the critique of a listener’s sexting novellas—upon his...

Duration: 01:27:31

Ep. 189: Are GIFs the Best Tinder Opening Line?

Online dating consultant Steve Dean is so good at dating that he went on a first date…that lasted 17 hours! “I like to think of my dates as having chapters to them,” Dean says. But what happens if I want to skip the boring chapter with a bunch of flashbacks of her father?! The polyamorous “digital nomad” returns to The Manwhore Podcast to discuss the terrifying topic of dating, from how to open conversations on Tinder to how to pick a first date location. When in doubt? “Gifs,” he...

Duration: 01:25:37

Ep. 188: Chasing Orgasms, Younger Men, and Connection

Maya attended a sex party to get her mojo back. Instead, she found me. What a bummer! Maya dropped me because I was too young for her—a mere 12-year age gap. On this week’s Manwhore Podcast, I challenge her to find one of a plethora of valid reasons to not date me. As she does so, we talk about escaping an abusive marriage and searching for intimacy in a city of fuckboys. She’s done chasing meaningless orgasms! This woman wants a connection! Pffft, I got a guy at Best Buy who sells...

Duration: 01:27:22

Ep. 187: The Decline of the Porn "Star" with Porn Publicist Lainie Speiser

It seems like everyone and their sister is doing porn these days. Porn publicist Lainie Speiser remembers when the adult entertainment industry had true stars! “There are no superstars anymore,” Speiser recalls. “There’s no Jenna Jameson, Jesse Jane, Lisa Anne because everybody’s doing it and it makes it so not special.” In the Age of the Internet, anyone fill out a tax form, turn on their web cam, and get paid to get naked (or burp in their underwear) for strangers. “I definitely get...

Duration: 01:04:13

Ep. 186: It's Raining Dicks—and other songs by Rachel Schenk

Rachel Schenk was easily the star of the very first Manwhore Podcast: Live! Sadly, the Oct. 8th show is lost to time due to a botched recording. So I called (texted) Rachel to come back for a full episode! The comedian guest remembers nearly nothing of our *über romantic* evenings together years ago. We instead discussed her most difficult break-up…with her gay bandmate. Together they’ve made problematic music videos, sang about dicks, and stripped down naked. Schenk admits she wanted to...

Duration: 01:41:00

Ep. 185: Polyamory Comes With Homework (comedian Mindy Raf!)

Mindy Raf is ready to get back into the dating game. Her and her fiancé are still together, but the polyamorous comedian is finally making room in her life for a new partner! But polyamory comes with homework. Books, podcasts, think pieces—all aim to assist you with the emotional labor attached to having multiple romantic relationships. Poly problems have already arose in her introduction to online dating: does she disclose that she has a fiancé in her bio? Find out on this all new...

Duration: 01:34:05

Ep. 184: Pushing the Boundaries of Monogamy with Tao Ruspoli (Monogamish)

Tao Ruspoli is monogamish. After his very public divorce with a celebrity actress, the Italian prince (yes, literally a prince) set out on a journey to figure out society’s obsession with monogamy and marriage. That journey became the film Monogamish, out in theaters now. “Why do marriage and monogamy exist?” Ruspoli asks during this fascinating Manwhore Podcast. Hear us search for an answer in this discussion of polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy (and monogamy)! PLUS: relationship...

Duration: 01:25:40

Ep. 183: Hyde School Toe Sex and ManwhoreCon Recap

Morgan was one of my Hyde School crushes. I used to write her sappy love poems calling her my Wiccan Goddess. Oh, brother. We’ve got more wild boarding school sex stories involving ninja-like virginity loss and toe-banging under a picnic table! I also recount my feelings about ManwhoreCon and the special group of diehard fans who joined me. PLUS: Revel Furniture, bad boys, dating gay guys, pregnant, single mom, and nice guys! Follow me online: Twitter @TheBillyProcida Instagram...

Duration: 01:42:37

Ep. 182: Sex With Not His Mom (Cameron and KarenLee Poter) / Carsie Blanton tells The F'Ing Truth!

When KarenLee Poter found out her son had his first one night stand, she couldn’t have been happier for him! Not your typical motherly reaction to a son getting his dick wet from some casual sex. It’s not unusual for Karen and her son, comedian Cameron Poter, to have frank conversations about sex. In fact, they do it nearly every week on their podcast Sex Talk With My Mom. But if you talk about raunchy sex topics with your mother all the time, what does it take to make them uncomfortable?...

Duration: 01:18:55

Ep. 181: Big Dick Privilege with David Piccolomini (Tinder Tales)

David Piccolomini has big dick problems. The problem is he can’t relate to the average cock, I mean, guy. Raised in a “baptist co-op homeschool”, David’s goal at a young age was to be fantastic at sex. He researched. He studied. He practiced. And the Tinder Tales host is a polyamorous sexual pro. Oh, you don’t believe him? That’s fair. I suppose you’ll have to fuck him to find out. Yes, I realize that this is an episode with two straight, white men talking about all of the sex they have....

Duration: 01:34:54

The Oral Sex Auditions (Ep. 180)

My friend Roxanne complained for the umpteenth time, “Billy, I am having such a hard time getting laid!” Of course, she can find a man to stick it in her at a moment’s notice—just open a window. But my female friends tell me that finding a partner with a high sexual IQ who cares about her pleasure (without factoring in physical attraction and personality) is a frustratingly difficult experience. That’s why on this week’s Manwhore Podcast we are holding ORAL SEX AUDITIONS! Yes! Five male...

Duration: 02:01:37

Ep. 179: Betsy DeVos is a Twat—Tackling Title IX and Sexual Assault

Amanda has survived a sexual assault, a failed suicide attempt, and years of predatory grooming as a teenaged cosplayer surrounded by Nerd Kings of a certain age. Sexual assault continues to dominate headlines as victims and allies alike refuse to stay silent about rape culture in this country, especially on our college campuses. I don’t know how to fix the criminal justice system to honor the victims of one of the hardest crimes to prove. But so long as we don’t shut up about it, we just...

Duration: 01:34:26

Ep. 178: Hairy Porn and Age Play with Nikki Silver

Nikki Silver is hairy. Very hairy. Lives in the woods surrounded by feminist literature hairy. Nikki creates porn that caters to those who fetishize natural body hair! Her site, Naughty Natural, showcases sexy women with armpit hair, facial hair, leg hair, and big, beautiful bushes. “I was a little sex maniac,” the Long Island native shares when asked how she got into the porn industry. Nikki Silver joins me for an unshaven episode of The Manwhore Podcast! ALSO: my summer intern shares her...

Duration: 01:20:22

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