The Rising Leader

In this week’s episode, we delve into the evolution of leadership from a rigid, old-school approach to one that embraces empathy, compassion, and authenticity. My conversation with Will Keiper, an accomplished author and thinker, uncovers the transformative power of being present and aware of one's own thoughts and emotions, and how these principles are crucial for effective leadership both in the business world and in personal realms. Will Keiper is a celebrated author and leadership consultant with a rich background in transforming business dynamics through conscious leadership. Having been influenced by past mentors who valued financial success above all, Will experienced a profound shift toward a more compassionate and present-centric approach to leading others. His latest book, "Noticing," encapsulates his journey toward intentional living and the cultivation of a mindful presence within the ever-changing landscapes of modern work. "The essence of leadership is the ability to move others to a higher place, and this can manifest in even the simplest of one-on-one interactions."- Will Keiper Today on The Rising Leader: · The pivot from traditional, impersonal leadership to a style that values empathy and human connection. · An understanding that true presence and acknowledging the moment can profoundly affect personal well-being and leadership effectiveness. · How personal challenges and relapses can serve as critical touchstones for growth and self-reflection. · The need for leaders, now more than ever, to recognize the human aspect in their teams, especially with the changes forced by automation and remote work. · The concept of 'Noticing' as a transformative practice to still the mind and become fully engaged with life's moments. · The idea that everyone has the potential to lead, irrespective of their role—leadership is an action, not a position. · Embracing change requires leaders to create a culture of acceptance, care, and authenticity. · The power of sharing vulnerabilities and being transparent can transform relationships and foster trust. Connect with Will Keiper: https://willkeiper.com/ LinkedIn Medium Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Google Play | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Leadership is often discussed regarding its impact on organizations, teams, and the larger world. However, in this episode, I explore the dimension of leadership that I believe is the foundation for all other aspects: personal transformation through leadership. I share my insights into how stepping into leadership roles can be a catalyst for personal growth and can expand one’s own power and freedom in life. The stories and lessons I impart about my own experiences, especially as a father, provide a rich exploration into the transformative power of leadership, which I believe can resonate with many of you, whether you're new to leadership or have been a leader for years. “When you take on the mantle of leadership, a lot of your personal preferences, a lot of your personal idiosyncrasies have to be dropped for the mission at hand.” - Mark Silverman Today on The Rising Leader: · Leadership is not only about impacting others but also about personal transformation. · Embracing leadership roles can help individuals grow, become more powerful, and expand their freedom. · Fatherhood is highlighted as an entry into leadership that drives personal growth and responsibilities. · Through leadership, one tackles fears, bursts through limitations, and grows with every challenge. · Giving constructive criticism and setting boundaries can lead to significant personal development. · Leading up, across, and within teams shows leadership's multifaceted nature in promoting personal growth. · Being an 'imposter' is a natural part of the journey, indicating growth, stretching, and learning. · Vulnerability and speaking up are powerful steps for internal growth and confidence building, especially in a team setting. Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Google Play | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In today's episode, I delve into a topic that is seldom talked about yet significantly impacts countless lives: the damaging effects of pornography on the brain and life. Our discussion with Devin McDermott sheds light on his personal journey through addiction and the powerful strategies he's developed to overcome its grip, alongside the profound benefits he's observed in his life post-recovery. We explore how easy access to dopamine hits can derail our best intentions and the importance of retraining our response to urges and discomfort. Devin McDermott is not only a recovery and growth coach specializing in porn addiction and masculine growth, but he's also a testament to the strength and clarity that come from reigning in one of society's silent epidemics. With four years under his belt, aiding others in their recovery, he brings a wealth of experience, empathy, and a no-nonsense approach to tackling addiction head-on. Devin's mission is to empower men to become the best version of themselves by facing their internal challenges without judgment. "Your life improves exponentially when you deal with what's uncomfortable, instead of escaping into a temporary fix." – Devin McDermott Today on The Rising Leader: · The negative impacts of porn on brain function and overall energy. · The importance of awareness and cognitive strategies in overcoming addiction. · Utilizing meditation and mindfulness as tools for redirecting attention. · The development of Devin's program focused on emotional and urge management. · Building a fulfilling life as a strategy to reduce the need for escapism. · The comparison of dealing with temptations to a stream's movement around a rock. · A powerful strategy: focusing on answering life's callings instead of chasing goals. · The shared commitment to a non-judgmental approach in aiding others' growth journeys. To connect with Devin McDermott and learn more about his program and strategies, or to subscribe to his newsletter, visit his Website or reach out to him via Twitter. His insights and daily reminders are designed to encourage and support those on a journey to betterment. Resources Mentioned: - Website -Twitter - Newsletter Subscription - Your Brain on Porn: For anyone contending with or interested in addiction recovery and personal growth, today's dialogue is a crucial listen. Remember to share this episode and join our community of listeners who are committed to fostering their development. Follow me on social media and visit our website for more invaluable content. Remember, it's never too late to address the issues that hold you back and step into a more mindful and empowered version of yourself. Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this episode, Mark delves into the unspoken truth about being overwhelmed in the workplace. As we follow the preparation for a workshop on mastering overwhelm for a software company, we come to the realization that the inability to take on everything alone is a universal issue that needs to be addressed in today's fast-paced work environments. Mark Silverman is an experienced leadership coach who has worked with numerous high-level executives and teams, helping them navigate the challenges of leadership in fast-paced environments. With over 30 years of experience and insights from 4400+ conversations on leadership and overwhelm, Mark provides valuable perspectives on thriving in demanding leadership roles. “The attitude that you can work harder, faster and neglect other parts of yourself and other parts of your life in order to get things done is just b***sh*t.” – Mark Silverman Today on The Rising Leader: · Prioritize tasks strategically to achieve more impactful results. · Engage in open, honest conversations about workload, resources, and timelines. · Recognize and address the deep-rooted fears that prevent effective communication and prioritization. · Slow down and assess the true impact of overwhelming workloads on productivity and well-being. · Tailor leadership approaches to different personality types within the team. · Understand the common fears of different personality types to overcome barriers to effective communication. · Confront the myth that working harder and neglecting personal well-being leads to increased productivity. · Embrace rest and refreshment as essential components of productivity and success. Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this episode, I'm thrilled to bring a deep dive into the often unspoken nuances of workplace relationships with my esteemed guest, Michael Bungay Stanier. We explore the critical importance of communication, the power dynamics at play between a boss and their underlying, and the significant impact these dynamics can have on the willingness to engage in open, vulnerable conversations. As we unpack the complexities of these relationships, we also touch on practical strategies for effective feedback, the art of saying "no," and how focusing on what matters can catalyze personal and professional growth. Michael Bungay Stanier is an authority in the realm of coaching and professional development. A celebrated author and speaker, Michael's work revolves around enabling leaders and individuals to break through barriers and achieve extraordinary results. With his keen insight into human behavior and a unique approach to coaching, Michael has become a go-to resource for those looking to foster stronger, more resilient work relationships. His aspirations to sell 10 million copies of his books and infect a billion people with the "possibility virus" are testaments to his dedication to impactful, positive change. "Human connections in the workplace are not just about being vulnerable; they're about being tender and honest with each other." - Michael Bungay Stanier This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: · Understanding and navigating power dynamics are crucial for open communication in the workplace. · Engaging in conversations at any level yields insights that can strengthen working relationships. · Learning team members' preferences for receiving feedback can vastly improve communication and trust. · Strategic prioritization can lead to heightened productivity and a clearer focus on impactful tasks. · Building strong relationships in the workplace transcends personality types; it's about efficacy and mutual respect. · Fostering vulnerability or tender honesty within professional relationships encourages deeper human connections. · Repairing relationships is a vital skill for the health and longevity of personal and professional partnerships. · Keystone conversations about working together can pave the way for smarter, more effective collaboration. Resources mentioned: - Michael's upcoming book "How to Work with Almost Anyone" - mbs.works Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this episode, I share my personal struggle with the constant drive to improve and the overwhelming feeling of trying to keep up with the ever-changing demands of my coaching business, writing, and personal life. I discuss the importance of incremental improvement and share insights from a recent mastermind session with James Whitaker, host of the Win the Day podcast, on how to elevate the podcasting experience and reach a broader audience. James Whitaker, known for his excellence in podcasting, continually seeks to enhance his content by hosting in-person interviews in a studio setting, providing high-quality video content and implementing meticulous systems for guest interactions. While feeling inadequate compared to his professional setup, I am inspired to focus on incremental improvements by identifying the one crucial aspect to upgrade and delegate tasks effectively. "This is a marathon. This isn't a sprint. We're trying to get 1% incrementally better every day, and that's manageable." – Mark J. Silverman This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: · Embrace incremental improvement: Make small, consistent enhancements to achieve long-term success. · Identify one impactful change: Prioritize one significant improvement that will make a noticeable difference in your endeavors. · Delegate tasks effectively: Learn to delegate tasks and seek support to manage workload efficiently. · Ground yourself in the present: Shift your focus from overwhelming future goals to taking action in the present moment. · Embrace manageable progress: Recognize that improvement is a gradual process and avoid overwhelming yourself with rapid changes. · Let go of unnecessary tasks: Assess and delegate tasks that others can effectively handle to streamline your workflow. · Tailor your approach: Customize your strategies and workflows to accommodate incremental improvements without overwhelming yourself. · Embrace the journey: Understand that continuous improvement is a marathon, not a sprint, and celebrate each small victory. Resources Mentioned: · "The Now Habit" by Neil Fiore · "The Rising Leader Handbook" by Mark Silverman Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Today, we're diving into the realms of leadership development and self-discovery with the phenomenal Valari Jackson. Drawing from her significant transition from an aerospace engineer to a certified leadership coach and licensed type practitioner, Valari shares her invaluable insights on embracing vulnerability and adopting a growth mindset to harness one’s full potential. With over 25 years of experience, Valari Jackson stands out as a beacon of wisdom and guidance for those aspiring to lead with authenticity and strength. As a leadership coach, she has dedicated her life to helping others grasp the information necessary for sound decision-making and fostering real conversations that build confidence and meaningful choices. Valari's passion is evident in her practical approach to self-reflection and accountability, which she vividly captures in her 90-day journal. "We can choose to take responsibility and focus on what we can control to drive positive outcomes." - Valari Jackson This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: · Taking responsibility for one's actions is key to driving positive change and regaining personal integrity. · Small victories should be celebrated as they are stepping stones to greater confidence. · Trust in oneself is strengthened by learning from failure and embracing vulnerability. · Mindsets form the foundation of beliefs and behaviors; therefore, examining and adjusting one’s mindset is essential for personal growth. · A strong support system is crucial in overcoming self-doubt and reaffirming one's abilities. · Consistent self-assessment and resilience are vital for effective leadership. · Valari’s 90-day journal is an impactful tool for accountability and self-reflection on the journey to achieving personal goals. · External validation, while powerful, should not overshadow the importance of internal confidence and self-assessment. Connect with Valari Jackson: · LinkedIn Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Today, Mark reads the Introduction to The Rising Leader Handbook. The Rising Leader Handbook captures the essence of living life to the fullest, creating robust relationships, and savoring a satisfying life daily. Mark explores how high achievers can transition into effective leaders and provides essential insights for those rising through the ranks. "Your inability to let go of details is holding you back. Your inability to hold people accountable is holding you back." - Mark Silverman Today on Rising Leader: · Foster an intentional and systematic leadership approach, focusing on coaching and developing talent. · Accept the necessity of acquiring new skills to be an effective leader as you advance in your career. · Embrace up-leveling challenges, including taking 100% responsibility for your actions and circumstances. · Learn from real-world situations and reflect on internal shifts to become a more effective leader. · Recognize leadership as an internal job and prioritize self-regulation, composure, and thoughtfulness in handling situations. · Internalize the idea that leadership goes beyond one’s job and team—it's about taking ownership and recreating one's circumstances daily. Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

Today, I'm honored to have Laurie Arron join me for an in-depth exploration of leadership development and emotional resilience. We delve into the philosophies detailed in my book, "Rising Leader Handbook," and discuss how these strategies can be implemented daily. Laurie shares her insights and experiences, reinforcing the idea that empowering yourself with the right tools and mindset is critical to becoming a competent and successful leader. Laurie Arron is an executive coach with over 27 years of experience at AT&T and a former Chief of Staff to senior executives. Laurie brings her deep expertise to her role as a trusted advisor to C-Suite leaders, focusing on leadership transformation and peak performance. Her coaching approach is about enabling leaders to pivot and thrive through personal development based on self-defined growth goals. Certified by the Coaches Training Institute and the International Coaches Federation, Laurie is also a proud member of 4PC, an exclusive community for top-tier coaches. When she's not coaching, Laurie immerses herself in community service, enjoys being part of the Texas Women’s Leadership Institute, and loves travel, cooking, pickleball, and family time. "I believe in sharing scars, not open wounds. It's about sharing your journey, not your pain." - Mark Silverman This week on Mark Silverman: ● Emotional resilience and its significance in personal and professional life ● Laurie's admiration for the practical applications of advice from "Rising Leader Handbook" ● My concept of "Rising Leader Handbook" as a rooted guide for those struggling with traditional leadership advice ● The philosophy of self-reflection, self-awareness, and introspection in leadership ● The power and creativity that come from taking 100% responsibility for situations ● The inevitability of failure, and embracing it as an opportunity for learning and growth ● The fine balance in leadership—asserting oneself without overshadowing others ● Laurie's perspectives on the relationship dynamics in corporate environments and the impact of understanding your boss Connect with Laurie Arron: ● LinkedIn ● Website Resources Mentioned: ● Book: Rising Leader Handbook Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this eye-opening conversation, Ivan Chocron shares his insights into the powerful transformation that can occur through plant medicine journeys and leadership coaching. As a passionate facilitator and teacher, Ivan's dedication to helping others unlock their true potential and find their life's purpose is nothing short of inspirational. Programs like the one he guided me through reinforced my leadership skills and led to personal and financial gains that I never anticipated. Ivan takes a pragmatic and accessible approach to healing, coaching, and self-discovery, challenging societal concepts and stigma around plant medicines. Ivan Chocron is a thought leader and guide in the space of transformation through plant medicine and coaching. With a strong presence across various platforms, he helps individuals connect with their purpose and unlock latent abilities, contributing to personal fulfillment and professional success. He transitions from traditional healing ceremonies to sharing practices that bring about healing without using plant medicines, believing in meeting people where they are in their personal and spiritual journeys. "A journey of transformation doesn’t necessarily require a journey to the jungle." - Ivan Chocron This week on The Rising Leader: · Interpreting the signs that may signal it's time for a medicine journey · The impact of societal beliefs and propaganda on our perception of drugs · Using plant medicine and psychedelics responsibly as tools to access and work through trauma · The importance of preparedness and facilitation in therapeutic experiences · Understanding the differences between using substances to escape and to confront personal issues · Personal motivations and the transformative experiences of medicine journeys · The role of leadership coaching and natural activities in healing · Ivan's transition from holding ceremonies to a focus on healing practices without the need for plant medicine Connect with Ivan: Website LinkedIn YouTube Facebook Instagram TikTok X Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Today we delve into the crucial topic of effective communication and influence in important conversations. I share one of the greatest communication tools I've ever learned—time, place, and space. This insightful concept has significantly impacted my personal and professional relationships and has made a noticeable difference in my enrollment and influencing skills. Diana Bonici, a brilliant angel on Earth, mentor, and relationship coach, taught me the power of time, place, and space in improving communication in my marriage. Even as a coach and communication expert, I've recognized the value of seeking external guidance to enhance my subjective conversations. As I reflect on the upcoming release of the Rising Leader handbook, I emphasize the significance of time, place, and space in various settings, including personal and business relationships. The concept of time, place, and space is a game-changer when navigating difficult conversations and aiming to influence change. It involves assessing the right timing, suitable location, and the mental readiness of all involved parties before engaging in critical discussions. It's essential to evaluate whether you are in the right mental space to communicate effectively and whether the other party is receptive to the conversation. This approach has transformed how I approach influencing and enrollment, personally and professionally. "Time, place, space, if you take the time, whether it's in your personal relationships, your business relationships, it's just a game changer in how your influencing skills and your enrollment skills will land." – Mark Silverman This week on Rising Leader: · Assess the timing, location, and mental readiness for important conversations in personal and professional settings. · Eliminate external distractions and create a conducive space for meaningful discussions. · Recognize and respect the preferred communication styles and processing pace of others. · Evaluate your own mental state and emotional investment before engaging in influential conversations. · Understand the impact of your message and ensure clarity and preparedness for effective communication. · Implement the time, place, and space concept to enhance influencing and enrollment skills in various relationships. · Embrace the use of external support and guidance to improve subjective and invested conversations. · Seek continual improvement in communication and influence to become a more effective leader. Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Today, I have a conversation with James Whittaker—an award-winning entrepreneur, best-selling author, and host of the "Win the Day with James Whittaker" podcast. In this insightful conversation, James will dive deep into his transformative "Win Method,” a powerful tool for living with intent and nurturing a fulfilling life. He’ll introduce us to the Win the Day Accelerator course aimed at helping business leaders synergize personal and professional success and share the Ten Commandments that underpin this philosophy. But James’s wisdom isn’t just theoretical; it's forged in the crucible of his own experiences, from confronting crippling anxiety in his youth to embodying a spirit of giving and compassion, attributes instilled by his supportive family upbringings. He’ll recount the moments of struggle that led to a shift in his mindset, allowing him to win each day despite the challenges thrown his way. We’ll explore how James applies the Win Method in his daily life, from simple actions like cold showers and morning coffee rituals to his focus on creating a legacy through his impacts on others, particularly his children. James’s approach to success goes beyond financial metrics, emphasizing the significance of vision, purpose, and the company we keep in our journey toward achievement. James Whittaker, originally from Brisbane, Australia, is a renowned figure in the realm of personal development and peak performance. After a successful corporate career in financial advising, Whittaker shifted gears following a profound personal transformation. He now dedicates his life to empowering others, having authored three bestselling books, produced a multimillion-dollar film, and hosted the "Win the Day" podcast. His content, reaching over 2 million people monthly, focuses on strategies for personal and professional growth, resilience, and achieving one's highest potential. Recognized as a best-selling author and award-winning entrepreneur, James shares actionable insights and rich wisdom in his endeavors. "When you embrace the rigors of today, you can reap the rewards of tomorrow." - James Whittaker Today on The Rising Leader: · Exploring the Win Method: Wonder, Intent, and Nurture are critical to a purpose-driven life. · Introducing the Win the Day Accelerator, a course designed to guide individuals in crafting a successful life strategy. · The benefits of developing resilience and the power of embracing challenges daily, exemplified by James' morning rituals and overcoming adversity. · How the act of journaling and engaging in consistent routines can anchor success and balance in life. · The influence of powerful literary works and figures such as Napoleon Hill and Jim Rohn in shaping James' approach to personal development. · The significance of prioritizing family and redefining success measures beyond financial gain. · James' candid sharing of his battles with anxiety and turning points that catalyzed his journey towards self-improvement. · Mark and James' discussion on personal care, mental health, and the transformational impact of mentorship. Resources Mentioned: - Jim Rohn's audio recordings - "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill - "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie Connect with James Whittaker: - Win the Day with James Whittaker podcast - James Whittaker on Instagram - The Win Method and Win the Day Accelerator program - LinkedIn

Do you feel stuck in a soul-crushing job? Maybe you work in a corporate office or are an entrepreneur trying to build a business, but you no longer have that drive and passion that once drove you to push forward. In the corporate world, there is a stigma that all corporate jobs are – or eventually become – soul-crushing. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, I discuss the stigma often associated with working in the corporate world and explain why I don’t believe anything has to be considered soul-crushing. I discuss how shifting your perspective on your current situation enables you to feel more free and joyful and the importance of living in the moment to set yourself free of these negative feelings. I explain how speaking your truth, asking for what you want, and setting boundaries can help you feel alive and help you reconnect with your true self. I also explain the difference between those ‘soul-crushing’ feelings and having the desire to do something different as well as explain how you can begin to live in the moment and start ‘skydiving in the office.’ “Everything’s an opportunity to grow. Everything’s an opportunity to be alive. And everything’s an opportunity to connect.” - Mark Silverman This week on The Rising Leader Podcast: ● The soul-crushing feelings and stigma often associated with working in Corporate America ● Why I don’t believe anything has to soul-crushing ● How being present in the moment enables you to feel the immediacy of life ● How shifting your views and perspectives in situations helps turn those mundane, soul-crushing notions into feelings of joy ● The difference between soul-crushing feelings and having a desire to do something different ● What it truly means to ‘skydive in the office’ Resources Mentioned: ● Book: The Lion Tracker’s Guide to Life by Boyd Varty Grab Your FREE Copy: Only 10s Book Are you a busy executive or organizational leader? Do you regularly feel overwhelmed by your to-do list or constantly feel like you’re putting out fires instead of getting the right things done? Then, friend, you need to grab a free copy of my bestselling book, Only 10s: Using Distraction to Get the Right Things Done. This free copy is currently available to all U.S. residents. It’s time to get things off your to-do list and focus on the things that are important to you each day. To grab your free copy of Only 10s, visit www.markjsilverman.com/books Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this week's episode, I am thrilled to have my dear friend and frequent collaborator, Helen Appleby, join me once again. Helen is a New York-based executive coach with a remarkable leadership and commercial success track record. She has worked with CEOs, senior leaders, and senior women, focusing on women's leadership programs. However, her work has evolved to encompass the entire senior leadership team, bringing workshops on personality tests, trust-building, and efficiency to organizations. Helen's expertise lies in creating a culture of growth from the top down, helping leaders develop self-awareness, build trust, and have uncomfortable conversations. Her goal is to make teams healthier and unleash their full potential for high performance. Helen Appleby is a New York-based executive coach and author known for her leadership and commercial success expertise. Before becoming a full-time coach, Helen was a VP and global business leader for GlaxoSmithKline, where she led a billion-dollar respiratory health business in consumer healthcare. With experience working in six different countries and leading large teams, Helen brings a wealth of knowledge to her coaching practice. She is the author of "The Unwritten Rules of Women's Leadership" and is working on her next book, "The Leader's Health Check." Helen focuses on helping leaders and teams become healthier, fostering trust, and having uncomfortable conversations to drive high performance. "Teams need to be smart and they need to be healthy." ~Helen Appleby This Week on Rising Leader: Connect with Helen Appleby: ● Helen Appleby Coaching ● Book: The Unwritten Rules of Leadership: Step Into Your Power, Write Your Own Rules, and Succeed in Your Career ● The Unwritten Rules Podcast ● Helen Appleby Coaching on Instagram ● Helen Appleby Coaching on Facebook ● Helen Appleby on LinkedIn Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

Today, Mark delves into the concept of cutting your problems in half, discussing how we can shift our perspectives and address challenges with a more constructive mindset. Drawing inspiration from spiritual teachings and personal growth experiences, Mark provides practical insights and tools to help listeners navigate their inner dialogue and handle challenges more effectively. Mark is an executive leadership coach and speaker who has dedicated his career to helping high achievers become effective leaders. With a background in executive coaching and leadership development, Mark has worked with numerous rising leaders across various industries, guiding them on their journey to grow their leadership skills and responsibilities. "It's not natural to let go of that resentment, to let go of that anger, to let go of those judgments. It's something that we have to practice. It's something we have to work on." - Mark Silverman Today on The Rising Leader: · Understanding that most problems consist of the actual issue and our thoughts about the problem. · Embracing self-inquiry and self-reflection as essential practices in handling challenges. · Recognizing the impact of our inner dialogue on our emotional state and productivity. · Exploring the teachings of Michael Singer and Byron Katie as valuable resources for inner work and mindset shift. · Learning to shift from resistance and judgment to acceptance and proactive problem-solving. · Practicing tools like Hoponopono and Byron Katie's "the work" for releasing negative thought patterns. · Embracing the power of neutral thinking and its impact on our relationships and overall well-being. · Acknowledging that self-inquiry and mindfulness are ongoing practices that lead to greater clarity and emotional resilience. Resources Mentioned: - Michael Singer's "Living Untethered" podcast and teachings. - Byron Katie's book "Loving What Is." - Ho'oponopono practice for inner inquiry and mindset shift Contact Mark: For more inspiring insights and leadership guidance, visit Mark’s website at MarkJSilverman.com. Connect with Mark on Instagram and LinkedIn to stay updated on his latest podcast episodes and leadership resources. Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and start mastering the skills you need to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Laurie Aron, the founder of Aron Coaching LLC and author of the book "Who Has Your Back? A Leader's Guide to Getting the Support You Need from the Chief of Staff You Deserve." We delved into the vital role of a chief of staff and how they can be a trusted advisor to CEOs. Laurie shared valuable insights on the qualities of a successful chief of staff, the importance of being a candid truth-teller, and their impact on a leader's effectiveness. Laurie Aron founded Aron Coaching LLC, a premier executive coaching firm based in Dallas, Texas. With over 27 years of experience in corporate Fortune 10 companies, Laurie has gained expertise in sales leadership, operations, strategic planning, and business transformation. She has also served as chief of staff to senior executives and is recognized as one of the top 20 coaches in Dallas. Laurie's passion lies in being a trusted advisor and executive coach to C-suite executives, helping them navigate their roles and maximize their impact. Her book, "Who Has Your Back?" provides valuable insights into leadership dynamics and the vital connection between leaders and their chiefs of staff. "CEOs are very busy people. They need the truth like they need oxygen." ~Laurie Arron This Week on Rising Leader: · A chief of staff is a relationship builder and must have the ability to build trust and rapport with the CEO and other team members. · Trustworthiness is a crucial trait for a chief of staff, as they need to be able to handle sensitive and confidential information. · A chief of staff should be able to speak truth to power and provide candid feedback to the CEO. · They should have strong communication skills and the ability to convey information in a way that is heard and understood by others. · A chief of staff should be action-oriented and can turn abstract ideas into tangible results. · They should have strong business acumen and understand how different parts of the organization are interconnected. · The chemistry between the CEO and chief of staff is essential, as they will work closely together and need a good working relationship. · A chief of staff's role differs from that of an executive assistant or a COO, and it is crucial to understand the distinctions between these roles when hiring or considering a chief of staff. Resources and Connections: "Who Has Your Back? A Leader's Guide to Getting the Support You Need from the Chief of Staff You Deserve" - Laurie Arron The Rising Leader Handbook (to be published in January 2024) Laurie Arron Website Laurie Arron LinkedIn Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be.

In today's episode, I dive into the essential levers that can help us achieve sustainable success. I discuss the importance of caring for our energy levels and health, ensuring we have the vitality to tackle our responsibilities. I emphasize the significance of focus and concentration, allowing us to direct our attention where it matters most. I also explore the role of efficiency in our pursuits, finding creative and effective ways to reach our goals. Courage is another key lever pushing us to go beyond our comfort zones and achieve greatness. Lastly, I highlight the importance of having a solid support system, including friends, family, and a team, to help us navigate challenges and reach our full potential. Join me as we explore these levers and discover how they can contribute to our personal and professional growth. "You need courage to go beyond who you think you are, what you think you're capable of, to do more, bigger, better, crazy, amazing things." ~Mark Silverman This Week on Rising Leader: · The levers for sustainable success include energy levels, focus, efficiency, courage, and a support system. · Pay attention to your relationships and make time for your friends and family. · Take care of your health by getting enough sleep, eating well, and exercising regularly. · Groundedness and centeredness are essential for navigating a noisy world. · Cultivate a sense of spirit or connection to something bigger than yourself. Believing in something greater can provide perspective and help you focus on what truly matters. · Prioritize creativity to keep your mind and soul engaged and enhance your problem-solving abilities. Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this week's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Henry Stoever, a principal at the Brentwood Advisory Group. Henry brings over 30 years of experience realizing growth at public companies and nonprofits. He is passionate about helping CEOs and CMOs provide value to their teams and customers. During our conversation, Henry introduced his TCPS model, which focuses on teams, customers, products, and strategy to drive positive outcomes and exceed stakeholders' expectations. We also discussed the importance of having fun in the workplace and the role of empathy in building solid relationships with team members. Henry Stoever is a seasoned professional with a track record of success in various industries. As a principal at the Brentwood Advisory Group, he leverages his extensive experience to help organizations grow and deliver value to their stakeholders. Henry brings a unique perspective to his work with a background in both nonprofit and public companies. He is particularly skilled in developing strong team dynamics, understanding customer priorities, and aligning product strategies to meet those needs. Henry's passion for creating positive outcomes and his commitment to fostering a fun and empathetic work environment make him a valuable advisor and consultant for CEOs and business leaders. "What I try to do is simplify the hard to the greatest degree possible. To me, that's around starting with outcomes in mind and working backwards by taking care of your teams, your customers, your products, and your strategies." - Henry Stoever This Week on Rising Leader: · The TCPS framework that can help organizations achieve positive outcomes. · Focus on developing strong teams with the TCPS model. · Deepening the understanding of customer priorities, crucial for addressing customer needs effectively, using the TCPS model. · Products should align with customer priorities and be positioned effectively. · TCPS model for team development, customer assessment, and product development and delivery. · Why building a strong partnership between the CEO and the board chair is essential for organizational success. · How the TCPS model can be applied to various types of organizations, including nonprofit professional service associations, trade associations, and small to medium-sized private companies. Connect with Henry Stoever: Phone: 301-787-9700. Email LinkedIn X Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In today's episode, I reflect on my journey from being a sales guy to a successful coach. I share how I started with no resume and faced rejection from every company in Silicon Valley due to my lack of experience. However, I persevered and eventually landed a position at NetApp, one of the fastest-growing companies in Silicon Valley. From there, I worked for other renowned tech companies, building an impressive resume in tech sales. I draw parallels between my sales career and my coaching business, emphasizing the importance of time and hard work in building a credible reputation. I also recount my early days as a waiter at the Four Seasons, where I initially felt terrified and out of my depth. However, with time and dedication, I became a trainer, helping new employees navigate the high-class environment. I encourage listeners to give themselves time to grow and learn, especially when transitioning to new roles or industries. By being patient, earnest, and believing in oneself, one can eventually become an expert in their field. I share my realization of the hard work I put in to reach where I am today and encourage those going through challenging times to keep pushing forward and building their success. "You can't be perfect, and you can't be great from the first minute." ~Mark Silverman This Week on Rising Leader: · Building a successful career or business takes time and work. · The importance of sticking around and getting better at what you do. · Why it's important to let go of old habits and embrace new challenges. · Why it's unrealistic to expect immediate perfection or greatness in a new role or industry. · The importance of believing in yourself and having confidence in your abilities. · Time is a key factor in achieving expertise and becoming a top performer in your field. · Hard work and going through challenging times are necessary to earn success. · How to keep moving forward and build your book of business. · Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become the leader your team needs you to be. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.

In this week's episode, I had the privilege of diving deep into the topic of self-acceptance and overcoming the never-ending pursuit of achievement with the incredible Dr. Mandy Lehto. We explored the journey of an overachiever, the struggles of not feeling enough, and the transformative power of self-compassion. Dr. Lehto shared her personal experiences and insights, shedding light on the importance of pausing to self-regulate, accepting our perceived flaws, and finding joy outside of achievement. It was a profound conversation that reminded me of the power of embracing our humanity and finding wholeness beyond the confines of success. Dr. Mandy Leto is a renowned executive coach and global leadership development expert with over 15 years of experience working with senior executives at top organizations. She has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, and Psychology Today and hosts the highly-ranked Enough podcast. Dr. Mandy's journey from being an overachiever to finding self-acceptance and purpose has shaped her unique approach to leadership development. With her deep understanding of the challenges high achievers face, she brings a compassionate and transformative perspective to her work, helping individuals navigate the complexities of leadership and find fulfillment beyond external achievements. "The most challenging thing you may ever do is to accept parts of yourself that you feel are unacceptable and unlovable." - Dr. Mandy Leto This Week on Rising Leader: · Overachievers often struggle with feelings of not being enough, which can lead to a constant pursuit of achievement and validation. · The pursuit of achievement can be exhausting and ultimately unfulfilling, as the bar for success keeps rising and the dopamine hit from accomplishments diminishes over time. · Self-compassion is a powerful tool for transforming self-judgment into self-acceptance. It involves being curious about our feelings, acknowledging them, and finding ways to make ourselves feel better. · Accepting parts of ourselves that we feel are unacceptable and unlovable can be challenging but is a necessary step towards self-acceptance and growth. · Pausing to self-regulate when triggered is a superpower. Taking a moment to breathe, gather thoughts, and respond rather than react can lead to more effective and mindful actions. · It's important to use difficulties as opportunities for growth and learning. Instead of avoiding or resisting challenges, embracing them can lead to personal development and resilience. · Building emotional capacity is crucial for navigating self-judgment and criticism. Developing the ability to doubt our own thinking and be present with our emotions can lead to greater self-awareness and self-compassion. · The journey towards self-acceptance and enoughness is ongoing and requires patience, experimentation, and a willingness to embrace imperfection. It's about finding joy and fulfillment outside of achievement and recognizing the value of our authentic selves. Resources Mentioned: www.markjsilverman.comwww.markjsilverman.comConnect with Dr. Mandy Lehto: LinkedIn Instagram Enough – The Podcast Website X Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook[1] Do you find yourself rising through the ranks of your company so fast that you wish you had a manual to becoming an effective leader? Then The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook gets published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your advanced copy and get started on mastering the skills you need to become...