LOVE SMARTER WITH TODD ZEMEK

Interview with Robert Glover - author of No More Mr Nice Guy drglover.com integrationnation.net toddzemek.com

In this episode you'll meet one of Todd's mentors, Dr Jacqui Winship to discuss a relational style of psychotherapy. Changing your relationship patterns psychology requires you to experience relating with others and yourself differently. A relational style of psychotherapy supports and challenges you to do this live with your therapist by examining what is happening between you as a team.

"Why should I stay in this relationship?" Is a question typically asked when you're hurting and fearful about ongoing disappointment and pain without a clear path forward. Doubting your relationship and whether you should have entered it at all is not uncommon. In fact, some people say the real relationship doesn't fully start until you're asking these types of questions! In this episode Todd shares how you can embrace these doubts and grow through this.

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https://www.thebodywiseprogram.com/ Binge Eating Disorder: The Journey to Recovery & Beyond Amy Pershing LMSW, ACSW, CCTP-II is the Founder of Bodywise, the first binge eating disorder treatment program in the United States, founded in 1995. She is the Director of Pershing Consulting, which offers training to clinicians treating BED around the world. Amy is also the creator of “Hungerwise™,” a 9-week program for ending chronic dieting and weight cycling, offered online. Amy also serves as Vice President of the Board of the Center for Eating Disorders in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Based on over 35 years of clinical experience, Amy has pioneered a treatment approach for BED that is strengths-based, incorporating Internal Family Systems, somatic trauma techniques, Attuned Eating and Movement (AEM), and a “health at every size” philosophy. She lectures and keynotes internationally and writes extensively on the treatment of BED and her own recovery journey for both professional and lay communities. Amy has been featured on numerous radio, podcast, and television programs speaking about BED treatment and recovery, relapse prevention, weight stigma, and attuned eating and movement. She is a founding member and Past Chair of the Binge Eating Disorder Association (BEDA), and is the winner of BEDA’s Pioneer in Clinical Advocacy award. She is the author of the book Binge Eating Disorder: The Journey to Recovery and Beyond (Routledge/Taylor and Francis, 2018) and many articles and chapters about BED treatment and advocacy. Amy maintains her clinical practice treating BED in Ann Arbor, MI.

Owen Marcus is the co-founder of Evryman.com - an organisation that assists men in learning to have better relationships. His approach is to help men access the truth, and practice being themselves more fully through taking part in supportive groups. Owen's TedTalk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tQQGWry_7k&t=671s What is Evryman? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWUzNz4Jw4Y&t=60s What Men Say About Evryman https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DN8udbgb22I Grow Up : A Man's Guide to Masculine Emotional Intelligence https://www.audible.com.au/pd/Grow-Up-Audiobook/B00R56HB9A?qid=1641036826&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=CDGVJR559WERRK0SDG63

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Diana Richardson lives near Zurich, Switzerland and is considered one of the world's leading authorities on tantric sex. She is the best-selling author of eight books on how you can experience a more fulfilling and connected love life, including Slow Sex and The Heart of Tantric Sex. Diana has been teaching couples with her partner since 1993, in their Making Love Retreats. Diana's Ted Talk - The Power of Mindful Sex Slow Sex - The Path to Fulfilling and Sustainable Sexuality The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment

Narcissism originates from people not having been valued for who they are. They have typically been loved or appreciated for a role they perform or results they provide. This presents relational challenges for them and the people they are close to. I typically recommend Wendy Behary's book Disarming the Narcissist to help partners and family members. This book will help you understand and become creative so relationships have a better chance of heading in a healthier direction. Wendy is the founder and director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC and DC. She has been treating clients, training professionals and supervising psychotherapists for more than 20 years. She is also on the faculty of the Cognitive Therapy Center and Schema Therapy Institute of New York, where she has trained and worked with Dr. Jeffrey Young since 1989. Wendy is a founding fellow (and supervisor) of The Academy of Cognitive Therapy (Dr. Aaron T. Beck). She was also the President of the International Society of Schema Therapy (ISST) from 2010-2014. Wendy Behary has co-authored several chapters and articles on Schema Therapy and Cognitive Therapy. She is the author of “Disarming the Narcissist…Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed” (New Harbinger Publications—2008 & 2013). Now translated in 10 languages. Wendy has a specialty in treating narcissists and the people who live with and deal with them. As an author and an expert on the subject of narcissism, she is a contributing chapter author of several chapters on Schema Therapy for narcissism (Wiley and APA Press, 2011, 2012, 2013). She lectures both nationally and internationally to professional and general audiences on the subject of Schema Therapy, and the subject of narcissism, relationships, and dealing with difficult people. Her work with industry has included speaking engagements focused on interpersonal conflict resolution. Her private practice is primarily devoted to treating narcissists, partners/people dealing with them, and couples experiencing relationship problems. She is also an expert in coaching individuals in interviewing, public speaking, and interpersonal skills enhancement. You can learn more about Wendy and her work at the website https://disarmingthenarcissist.com/

Suzanne Iasenza is a sex therapist in New York City who specializes in human sexuality, sex therapy for individuals and couples, sexual orientation and gender identity. She is on the Faculties of the Institute of Contemporary Psychotherapy, the Ackerman Institute for the Family, and Adelphi University’s Derner Institute Postgraduate Program in Psychoanalysis. Suzanne's Book... TRANSFORMING SEXUAL NARRATIVES: A Relational Approach to Sex Therapy https://www.suzanneiasenza.com

George Haas is the founder of Mettagroup - a Los Angeles based centre offering guided meditations, intensive classes, retreats and one-on-one mentoring to help you see more deeply and clearly into your life and relationships. His teachings combine the principles of attachment theory and insight meditation. www.mettagroup.org www.mettagroup.org/morning-meditation www.mettagroup.org/classes admin@mettagroup.org Listen to George’s podcast - Meditation x Attachment... https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/meditation-x-attachment-with-george-haas/id1125066071

George Haas is the founder of Mettagroup - a Los Angles based centre offering guided meditations, intensive classes, retreats and one-on-one mentoring to help you see more deeply and clearly into your life and relationships. His teachings combine the principles of attachment theory and insight meditation. www.mettagroup.org www.mettagroup.org/morning-meditation www.mettagroup.org/classes admin@mettagroup.org Check out his Meditation x Attachment...

Janet McGeever is the co-author of Tantric Sex & Menopause: Practices for Spiritual Renewal. She is a TedX speaker with a deep devotion to helping women and men heal, connect and grow. If you feel in any way called to connect with her, I strongly encourage you to reach out... www.janetmcgeever.com https://makingloveretreat.com.au Janet McGeever's TedX Talk - It's Called Making Love Isn't It? www.youtube.com/watch?v=E29ELBiOdCI Tantric Sex & Menopause: Practices for Spiritual Renewal Janet McGeever & Diana Richardson The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment Diana Richardson Slow Sex: The Path to Fulfilling & Sustainable Sexuality Diana Richardson

Steven Kessler has been a psychotherapist in the San Francisco Bay Area for almost 30 years, teaching both locally and internationally. He is the bestselling author of The 5 Personality Patterns: Your Guide to Understanding Yourself and Others and Developing Emotional Maturity. More information and descriptions of the patterns are available at... www.The5PersonalityPatterns.com. Steven can be reached at Steven@The5PersonalityPatterns.com. Your Sample Chapter is available at... http://the5personalitypatterns.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/SampleChapter.pdf