The Unspeakable Protocol

Resilience requires letting go of the desire for comfort! How does mindset and determination play a role in our personal resilience? It's actually the main parts of it. Join us as we visit with Sifu Barry Vanover, Entrepeneur; Interfusion Kung Fu- Owner/Instructor; and podcast host of The Interfusion Podcast. In this episode we look at how our mindset and the way we train ourselves to respond play a role in how we will fight when struggles present themselves in our lives. "You fight like you train" —George S. Patton, Jr. Thank you to Barry Vanover for sharing his amazing insight into this important topic. Please check out his links: Facebook---> Interfusion Kung Fu: Facebook Thank you to Warrior Garden Studios for the amazing recording space. Check out their Facebook. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Sometimes life can feel like it keeps piling it on! How is it that some people can thrive in the midst of and following a traumatic event or crisis situation? RESILIANCY! In this episode we hear from Marci Macari and how her personal journey has led her to being a resilience expert. Trauma to triumph is what we seek. Understanding the concept of what it takes to be resilient, will help us to bounce instead of break when these kinds of things happen. "Resilience is all about being able to overcome the unexpected. Sustainability is about survival. The goal of resilience is to thrive." —Jamais Cascio Thank you to Marcie Macari for sharing her amazing insight into this important topic. Please check out her links: Website: www.bouncedontbreak.com Facebook---> Bounce! Don't Break. | Facebook LinkedIn ---> click here TikTok ---> @Marciemacari Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Do you ever feel like you are questioning everything you have ever believed in or the beliefs instilled in you from childhood? Join special guest Cub Kuker and host Ruth Brown as we look into this journey of deconstruction. Described as the process of systematically dissecting and often rejecting the beliefs you grew up with, deconstruction is a process that we all experience at some point in our lives. The beliefs that we take a look at will vary for each of us, the process is unique, and each journey will look different. “Deconstruction is not meant to be a soft sighing of the future, but a way of deciding now and being impassioned in a moment.” -John Caputo Thank you to Cub Kuker and Cub Kuker Supernatural for sharing his amazing wisdom and insight into this important topic. Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Website TOPICS: DECONSTRUCTION, RELIGOUS TRAUMA, MENTAL HEALTH, MINDSET PATTERNS, MANIFESTATION, PSYCHOLOGY, SPIRITUAL, MIND BODY SPIRIT Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

REALITY IS CONSTRUCTED BY YOUR BRAIN! Join host Ruth Brown as we look at how the brain functions during trauma. Learning what happens when we experience a traumatic event allows the opportunity to better understand the ways we can interject stress reducers, implement better protective factors, and be clearer in our communication with those who support someone who experiences complications post-trauma. Women are more likely to experience PTSD than men. 8 out of every 100 women and 4 out of every 100 men will suffer from PTSD during their lifetime. Let's really learn how PTSD and similar traumatic experiences are processed within our brain and body so that we can do our best to implement counteractive measures to these processes. TOPICS: PTSD, MENTAL HEALTH, MINDSET PATTERNS, MANIFESTATION, TRAIN YOUR BRAIN, PSYCHOLOGY, BRAIN FUNCTION Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Childhood Neglect Leads to Adult Insecurities. Special guest Ilean McCarty, LCSW joins host Ruth Brown as we look into the pattern of how neglect (whether intentional or situational) in childhood can manifest as insecurities such as food insecurity, as an adult. "It's difficult for a patient to be able to focus on a therapy session or receive case management assistance when they are hungry! I can literally hear their stomach growling" Ilean McCarty. Basic needs must be met before we can focus on moving up Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Join us as we talk about multiple considerations in these unspeakable circumstances. TOPICS: FOOD INSECURITIES, MENTAL HEALTH, CHILDHOOD NEGLECT, MINDSET PATTERNS, CYCLE OF POVERTY, PREVENTION Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Compassion fatigue is more commonin people who work in professions where they are tasked with supportingpeople who have experienced trauma. With that being said, studies have shown that 28% of people in those helping careers never receive trauma-informed training or personal care solutions. This is certainly an issue we need to speak up about! Join special guest LeAnn Moses, Spiritual Wellness & Life Coach and host Ruth Brown, as we look at compassionfatigue vs. burnout and how we canbest recognize then subsequentlytreat (and hopefully prevent)! Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

*Topics: Addiction, Alcohol, Drugs, Suicide* *Editor's Note - It is mentioned during this episode that suicide is a "selfish act." Although mental health professionals understand that this is not the case, we don't want to hide real talk and common stigmas. Rather, we view every chance we get to confront stigmas as an opportunity to discuss and educate. Suicide is not a selfish act, but rather one of hopelessness and a feeling from the person contemplating the act that people around them would be better off without them or that they hate themselves so much that they don't realize that others still love them. Host Chip Orton and special guest Todd Thayer De Voe discuss the Critical Stress Debriefing (CSD) and why it works, or doesn't. As a 20-year emergency management professional, Todd De Voe and Chip Orton discuss CSD and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) as well as the seven stages of conducting a debrief. Personal stories and work experiences highlight the ways for first responders to explore mental health issues. There always "hope" to speak the unspeakable. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Manifestations of Codependency- how to devalue your mental health labels. Special guest Melisa Martinez, LCSW Trauma Therapist joins host Ruth Brown as we examine what these labels mean and how they affect our lives. According to studies, over 90% of American people demonstrate codependent behavior! Does this surprise you? Have you ever stopped to really look at what dependency is or how it's defined? Are those who claim to be in a "codependent relationship" self-labeling this? Join us as we discuss these labels that we place on ourselves and what it means to devalue them. TOPICS: CODEPENDENCY, ADDICTION, RELATIONSHIP STRUGGLES, MENTAL HEALTH Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

*Topics: Addiction, Alcohol, Drugs, Suicide* Host Chip Orton and special guest John Duddy discuss the effect of trauma and COVID on first responders. As a 30-year volunteer firefighter, volunteer fire department station Captain John Duddy tells of the ones that "took a toll" on first responders in a smaller New England beach community. We discuss the impact of witnessing and responding to trauma on first responders, unhealthy effects on workers, suicidal ideations, and ultimately healthy ways for first responders to explore mental health concerns Article Reference: https://www.psychiatrictimes.com/view/first-responders-and-mental-health-when-heroes-need-rescuing Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

*Topics: Intimate Partner Violence, Sexual Assault, Addiction, Suicide* Host Ruth Brown and special guest Melynda Bettis bring to the studio this week the topic of how we pack our traumas away. As a trauma survivor, Melynda shares how easy it was to pack the trauma experiences away in a box and how important it was to learn to unpack those things we are not meant to store and take up space in our lives. PTSD can occur for many different reasons and in this episode, we explore how intimate partner sexual assault and abuse takes its toll and can even be considered a C-PTSD event. We take a look at one of the other major traumas she experienced as she lived through the rollercoaster of emotions and events her child struggled with in addiction just out of high school. Learning to process and unpack the traumas we encounter in our lives is neccessary, and the supportive community we surround ourselves with is key in trauma recovery. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Co-Hosts Ruth Brown and Chip Orton welcome special guest Jason Riddlespurger as they tackle the topic of homelessness. Vulnerable populations are at an increased risk when it comes to the effects of trauma. Homeless is a form of trauma. Join us as we seek insight into the experiences of the homeless community and how mental health, addiction, and trauma might affect them, as well as, how we can best support the homeless and the mission to end this tragic endemic. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Host Ruth Brown, and Special Guest Speaker Sara Cain, a Licensed Massage Therapist (LMT) and owner of The Core Essentials, discuss how self-care is essential for maintaining our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Self-care is not about being self-centered or neglecting the needs of others; it's about recognizing that we cannot be of service to others if we are not first taking care of ourselves. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

In the first full-length podcast, hosts Ruth Brown and Chip Orton explore the trauma impacts that lead to burnout and compassion fatigue, especially for those in emergency response, caregiver, or mental health related fields. We also talk about expanding Chip's initial research on compassion fatigue and burnout, and how COVID changed trauma and the ability to cope. By implementing a protocol to integrate resilience and protective factors, we can use integrative therapeutic modalities to strengthen coping strategies, personal resilience, and introduce trends that are breaking the stigma of mental health. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!

Hosts Ruth Brown and Chip Orton offer an introduction to what The Unspeakable Protocol podcast will have to offer. They will explore the healing journey from all types of trauma. This podcast is for anyone who has experienced trauma: first responders, veterans, survivors, childhood trauma, and more. Visit our website ---> www.theunspeakableprotocol.com <----- Visit our Facebook ---> Facebook <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our Instagram ---> Instagram <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Visit our LinkedIn ---> LinkedIn <--- @theunspeakableprotocol Until next time...speak the unspeakable!