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Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject. Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject. Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.
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Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject. Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

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Episodes

095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 Takeover

2/11/2018
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Part 2 This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute...

Duration:01:06:28

094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 Takeover

12/29/2017
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This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute joy to...

Duration:00:51:17

093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)

10/2/2017
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Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings. Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us in...

Duration:01:05:18

092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1)

10/1/2017
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After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend. We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu's intense shibari performance, though the word "shibari" alone fails entirely to do it justice. We also talk about our Saturday Night Play party, including Knotty with his florentine Hitachi act and someone fucking the bedpost after opening up for the Talking Stick. Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc &...

Duration:01:00:08

091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own Episode

9/29/2017
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While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves. They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans. Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now has...

Duration:01:00:30

090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan Taormino

9/4/2017
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Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it. This episode was originally intended mostly be about ethical pornography, on which Tristan is also an expert, but we had a little too much fun talking kink so we're going to save that topic for a later episode, maybe even for some spontaneous podcasting on resort. Less than...

Duration:01:14:26

089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet Life

7/9/2017
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We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Our Gourmet Life by Chef Chris Hubbard Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Duration:00:37:52

088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play Happen

6/8/2017
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While in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowers you. Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in San Francisco August 5-6, 2017 and New York City October 28-29, 2017 ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso August 11-13, 2017 and New York City...

Duration:00:55:31

087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity"

4/19/2017
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Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity." Click below to buy directly from his website, or wherever books are sold. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints CooperSBeckett.com Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show...

Duration:00:38:40

086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2

4/3/2017
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We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago Choice Social Club in Rhode Island We were also honored to be present for the closing night of Alter Ego in Rhode Island, and we're pleased to report that a filthy, kinky time was had by all. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you...

Duration:00:40:06

085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th Anniversary

3/17/2017
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In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279. Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November. Listen to this episode for a discount...

Duration:01:43:45

084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair Flea

3/8/2017
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During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and...

Duration:00:59:58

083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSM

3/2/2017
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During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week). We talk about lead/follow archetypes that can assist us deconstructing our kinky tendencies and desires in a way that allows for superior communication, followed up by a great conversation on her definition of BDSM, which is far more insightful than mere discussion...

Duration:01:02:46

082 PTSD & BDSM

2/28/2017
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Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question. Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our interview and thus do not have the benefit of the new studio's awesomeness. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme...

Duration:00:40:41

081 New Year, New Studio

1/4/2017
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After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think! This is a laid back episode full of sexy stories about sexy friends, as well as the announcement of our April group vacation, the Dark Side of Desire, from 4/15 to 4/20. Contact Jim@chartravel.com for pricing and more info! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on...

Duration:00:53:20

080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

11/20/2016
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On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to this...

Duration:01:07:19

079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

10/23/2016
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A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Duration:00:41:07

078 Orgasms On Command

10/6/2016
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A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Duration:00:52:13

077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

10/5/2016
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Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Duration:00:32:00

076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation

8/7/2016
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For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

Duration:00:34:04