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Helping you build loving BDSM relationships

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Episodes

Getting Kinky on the Cheap

3/27/2020
Buying new BDSM gear and toys is a lot of fun. And we both buy and sell kinky fuckery items all the time. But you don’t need money to get kinky. Your own imagination... The post Getting Kinky on the Cheap appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:46:23

The Impact of COVID-19 on D/s Relationships

3/20/2020
It’s still early days for many of us in terms of working from home, social distancing, and the impact of COVID-19 will have on us as individuals and in our D/s relationships. Consider this... The post The Impact of COVID-19 on D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:07:03

Being Friends First in D/s Relationships

3/13/2020
This week’s topic was inspired by a conversation with one of our kinky patrons who decided to focus on friends in the kink community while she’s single. While “friends first” isn’t a requirement for... The post Being Friends First in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:38:26

SAMs, Brats, and Sassy Submissives

2/28/2020
How did it take us 200-plus episodes to FINALLY discuss smart-ass masochists (SAMs), brats, and sassy submissives? We don’t know either! But here we are! In this episode: Subscribe to our newsletter! What is... The post SAMs, Brats, and Sassy Submissives appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:02:33

Codependency and D/s Relationships

2/21/2020
Quick content note: While we do not go into details about abuse, trauma, or addiction, it does get mentioned in the episode a few times. Several weeks ago we were tagged in a conversation... The post Codependency and D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:51:01

Love and D/s Relationships

2/14/2020
Since this episode goes live on Valentine’s Day 2020, we thought it was time to talk about love as it relates to D/s relationships. We’re not offering tips or objective information. These are our... The post Love and D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:12:24

Sex Acts aren’t Automatically Dominant or Submissive

2/7/2020
It’s the month of love and lust, so we’ve got sex on the brain. This topic comes from comments and questions we see all the time. “Can I do this sex act to my... The post Sex Acts aren’t Automatically Dominant or Submissive appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:55:44

Holding Each Other Accountable in D/s Relationships

1/31/2020
Accountability looks different for all of us, but ultimately, it’s making sure that everyone involved in your D/s relationship does what they say they will — and if they (or you) don’t, you deal... The post Holding Each Other Accountable in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:45:07

Micromanagement vs 24/7 D/s

1/24/2020
Let’s be very clear and set expectations up front — we’re not giving a lesson on how to add micromanagement to your power exchange. We’re not qualified to do that, although we know it’s... The post Micromanagement vs 24/7 D/s appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:14:09

Inclusivity, Identity, and the Principles of Your Kink Is Not My Kink

1/17/2020
This week’s episode is a response to things we’ve seen online and things said to us — and it’s our line in the sand and our flag in the ground. The Loving BDSM community... The post Inclusivity, Identity, and the Principles of Your Kink Is Not My Kink appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:14:35

Stalled Plans, Disappointment, and Moving Forward

1/10/2020
Everyone goes through times when things don’t go according to plan, from vanilla life to your kinky fuckery. Disappointment is universal, but it’s what we do next and how we think about it that... The post Stalled Plans, Disappointment, and Moving Forward appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:37:56

A Big Ole Bonus Section

12/20/2019
It’s episode 201, the last one before the holidays, and the last one before we take a couple of weeks off. So we took the easy way out and made this a giant bonus... The post A Big Ole Bonus Section appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:42:06

Celebrating 200 Episodes by Answering Your Questions!

12/13/2019
O…M…GEEEEEEEE, we reached 200 episodes of the podcast! Also, it’s nearly the holidays, so we gave ourselves a break. We asked for your questions — on social media AND during the weekly live stream.... The post Celebrating 200 Episodes by Answering Your Questions! appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:02:16:57

Our Favorite Sex Toys: 2019 Edition

12/6/2019
Long time listeners will know this topic right away — we’ve done it every holiday season for the past four years! We’re breaking down our favorites from all the sex toys we’ve tried this... The post Our Favorite Sex Toys: 2019 Edition appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:47:43

Answering Listener Questions: Vanilla vs D/s, Open Relationships, Trust

11/29/2019
Happy holidays! We recorded the day before Thanksgiving, and the podcast goes live on Black Friday, so neither of us had the mental space to come up with a deep topic. So we answered... The post Answering Listener Questions: Vanilla vs D/s, Open Relationships, Trust appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:31:29

Goal Setting in D/s Relationships

11/22/2019
We geek out over setting goals, achieving them, and making progress on the things we want to do in life. And yes, that includes in our D/s relationship and our kinky fuckery. Even if... The post Goal Setting in D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:39:04

Independent Submissives: Earning Trust and Navigating D/s Relationships

11/15/2019
What it means to be independent is as unique to each of us as what it means to be submissive. But for anyone trying to win the affection, trust, and submission of a person... The post Independent Submissives: Earning Trust and Navigating D/s Relationships appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:49:35

The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom

11/8/2019
We get asked all the time what the difference between a dominant and submissive vs a top and bottom is. We’re not claiming to have all the answers, and labels are inherently personal. At... The post The Difference Between Dom and Sub vs Top and Bottom appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:19:31

On Aging and BDSM

11/1/2019
This week’s episode was recorded on Kayla’s 40th birthday so it seemed appropriate to talk about getting older when you’re kinky. (Yes, I know, 40 isn’t old, but it’s still a milestone, mkay?) In... The post On Aging and BDSM appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:51:04

The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission

10/25/2019
A big thanks to our kinky patron, Cdc, for suggesting this week’s topic — the subtle side of Dominance and submission. What (we think) we mean by that is that the longer you’re together,... The post The Art of Subtle Dominance and Submission appeared first on Loving BDSM.

Duration:01:38:20