Life Notes from Chair 17

We've hit another milestone in our podcast journey: 75 episodes. At the same time, we find ourselves at a bit of a crossroads, which is leading us to prepare to take a hiatus. Join host CH as she reflects on the life journal podcast journey so far - sharing immense gratitude for our loyal community of C17'ers. She also shares the reasons why we feel we need to take a break and reassess the direction of the show as we navigate the ever-changing 2025 socio-political climate, and its impact on how we aim to share the personal narratives on which this podcast was founded. This episode is still in the vein of being a warm hug to our listeners, and still encouraging self-care and kindness amidst all of these very challenging times. Whether you are just finding us for the first time or have been with us from the beginning, we invite you to join us in celebrating our 75th episode ... even if it might be our last for a while. Show Notes Boston College professor and historian, Heather Cox RichardsonLetters from an AmericanYouTube channel

Taking control and redefining success. Two concepts much easier said than done, but often necessary when we hit a fork in our life journey road. Join us this week in another of our Share the Chair series as CH sits down with friend, former colleague and host of the AP Taylor Swift podcast, Jodi Innerfield, who shares the transformative journey she's been on since being laid off earlier in 2025 and of which has found her embracing not only her own entrepreneurial spirit but redefining what it means to be successful. Jodi opens up about how this career fork is a little bit different than those in her past, and how she has embraced the transition from a structured corporate role to carving her own path as an independent consultant fueled by a newfound sense of control and direction. Show Notes JodiBeth.comAP Taylor Swift PodcastJodiBeth.Substack.com"So you've just been laid off, now what?"You Are a BadassThe Obstacle is the WayDesigning Your LifeBe Ready When the Luck HappensNecessary EndingsYear of YesInside the Actor's Studiohere

Happiness. Specifically, life happiness. Or being happy in life. Or saying one's life is happy. In some instances, some of us can answer this easily and without hesitation. But in other instances, it's more nuanced. Join CH this week as she discusses how approaching happiness doesn't always have to be a large, lifelong, philosophical question. Inspired by listening to a recent interview with one of her faves, actress Jodie Whittaker, CH reflects on what it means to find happiness in simple, everyday moments rather than as a lifelong destination or philosophical life goal. At the end of the day, it can be about creating small spaces of joy and instant connection that, over time, weave happiness through the tapestry of our lives - which is especially important in times of stress, anxiety, challenge or struggle. Show Notes Big Finish Productions YouTube channel2020 Salon Talks InterviewForeign ExchangeDiary of a First Time Comic Con-er

As we round out June 2025, we did not want to leave it without reflecting on what Pride month means to us and to the LGBTQIA+ community. Join host CH as she reflects on what Pride has ultimately come to mean to her, and some of the key lessons it has taught her - namely, the importance of standing up for kindness, acceptance, and understanding in a world often divided by differences. It seems Pride represents even MORE to us this year than in recent years past. And, it serves as an important reminder about embracing diversity, learning from different life experiences, and the enduring importance of being an ally to each other. Show Notes Outside with Pride@OsloPride@kris.and.daveThe Stonewall Uprising of 1969

We're back with another in our Share the Chair series as we reunite with our good friend, the resilient Jen Phillips (and when we say resilient we are NOT kidding). Jen joined us in Fall 2024 just days before she would find herself in the wrath of Hurricane Helene, which would ultimately devastate her business and community in Asheville, North Carolina. After managing to rebuild her business in ... wait for it ... 60 DAYS (yes, really), then dedicating several months of her time volunteering with hurricane recovery efforts, the experience unexpectedly helped sharpen her focus to continue to find ways to create healthy workplaces AND ways of working. Listen in as she discusses the importance not only of resilience, but the power of community, connection and her new venture, The New Ambition, which is aimed at transforming workplace environments to be healthier and more supportive. Discover how being literally in the eye of a hurricane helped Jen further shape her mission to drive positive change and create cycles of good in both our lives AND at work. Show Notes The New Ambition@ThisIsTheNewAmbitionJen Phillips on LinkedInHeyNØLO.com@hey_noloShare the Chair - Jen Phillips (From Burnout to Burning Bright)Just Walk in that DirectionRecipe for Reinvention: Chef Lisa Brooks' Journey from Burnout to Thriving

It's our 70th. Episode, that is. It's a milestone - both in podcast years and in age years. And it's the latter that is the focus this week as CH ponders what life at 70 might look like for her in just two (short) decades from now. While we can't predict the future, we know it won't look like it does for those already at that milestone age today. As such, CH offers a thoughtful and light-hearted reflection (or should we say hypothesis) on the keys she is focusing on should she get to that milestone herself while also trying NOT to predict the future or get too caught up in that which may be beyond her control. In CH's own words: "This was a surprisingly fun episode to record. It gave me a lot to think about." Show Notes Podcastpage.ioThis is Me Trying

Not sure we ever thought we'd connect 'Xena: Warrior Princess' and Mental Health Awareness Month in a single episode, but there is a first time for everything. Join CH as she takes a trip in the wayback machine to reflect on a life mantra she came across back in 1998 from actor Renee O'Connor during Renee's attempt to summit Mt. Kilimanjaro. In a story told to author Jane Treat, Renee's mantra, "Take a step and breathe," helped her push through the grueling physical and mental challenge of completing the trek even when her mother was forced to turn back. CH was inspired by the saying back then - so much so that she printed it out to have at her desk. Cut to today, it's a timeless and relatable mantra that can serve as a beacon of hope and a tool for self-care as we continue to focus on the importance of maintaining a healthy mental wellbeing. Show Notes Renee O'Connor - To The Roof of Africa | ROC's Trek Up Mt. KilimanjaroReneeOConnor.infoAUSXIP NetworkWikipedia entryK2Ok Not Being Ok

We've all been there: we know we need to have THAT conversation but somehow ... we just don't. And yet, we NEED to have them to either find us a path forward or bring us a sense of closure. Join CH this week as she discusses how the term "hard conversations" first came to her (hint: Project Management Day Life 101), and the importance of having these conversations in either a professional setting or our own personal sphere. Although they might be difficult, challenging, perhaps uncomfortable and maybe not always go the way we expect, they often lead us to growth and the recognition of key life lessons.

We are back with another in our "Rant, Rave, Really?" set of episodes where we lean into every day observations about something that we really want to give a shout out about, perhaps something that is a bit troubling, or something that is just plain confusing. In this episode, host CH gives a shoutout to a recent Instagram reel that crossed her feed discussing the importance of developing a code to communicate when we truly need support from our closest friend (or friends). In other words, NOT just treating it like any other reach out. And the interesting fact? It only takes 8 minutes of connection to help ease feelings of loneliness and isolation, and to create a sense of togetherness. (OF NOTE: This episode was recorded before we could source the author of the remixed Instagram reel. But we DID - its Simon Sinek. See our Show Notes below). Show Notes his full talk on YouTubethis Forbes article

It's April 2025 ... and that means it's national Jazz Appreciation Month here in the U.S.! Join host CH as she shares her own journey to not only coming to love the genre - particularly the classics and standards of the 1930s and 40s - but also how it has shaped her sense of musicianship when she resumed playing drums after a 10 year hiatus. She reflects on how the sounds of jazz surrounded her at a young age (even if she wasn't suuuuper interested at the time), and how her original love of playing pop/rock music evolved as her own musical leanings changed over time. She also reminds us of the importance of embracing music - no matter the genre - at any stage of life for the personal enrichment and inspiration it brings to us all. Show Notes National Museum of American HistoryKen Burns PBS documentary film, "Jazz"94.7 The WaveEpisode 62: Share the Chair - Tobi Stone (A Lifelong Journey of Jazz)Little Drummer Girl

It's Women's History Month 2025. And although we completely missed the moment LAST March (our bad), we definitely wanted to do a special episode this year honoring perhaps a lesser-known woman of history: Tamsen Donner. Join host CH as she reflects on why she feels drawn to Tamsen's story of enduring strength and resilience, as well as her appreciation of a pioneering woman who defied some of the more traditional norms of her era while also facing incredible personal tragedy not once but twice during her short life. Although Tamsen is perhaps best known for her selfless acts during the infamous Donner Party expedition, she is just one of many women in history whose unyielding spirit still resonates today, and helps to remind us of the challenges and sacrifices faced by women of the past - and the power of their perseverance that continues to inspire our present. Show Notes Tamsen DonnerTamsen Donner LettersTamsen Donner: Strong-willed matriarch of the Donner PartySearching for Tamsen DonnerThe Fateful Journey of Tamsen DonnerEthan RarickDesperate Passage: The Donner Party's Perilous Journey WesthereDonner State Memorial ParkI Hate it Here

Anyone else feeling like the world - particularly the U.S. - is a bit of a hot mess right now? We are there with you. In one of our first truly unscripted episodes, host CH highlights the significance and power of shared experiences in building resilience during a time where the world seems fraught with political uncertainty and sudden, uncontrolled change. And she reminds us once again to focus on some key tenets that we DO have control over: 1) that which brings us joy; 2) remaining connected within our communities; and 3) avoiding doom scrolling of the news cycle echo chamber. She also shares what it has been like working inside a non-profit cancer research center in the U.S. during a time of great uncertainty over funding resources. It's a deeply personal episode, but one that aims to still find light and hope in some darker, challenging times. Show Notes

We are shaking things up a bit (we think, anyway) as we introduce a new set of episodes called "Rant, Rave, Really ...?", leaning into every day observations about something that we really want to give a shout out about, perhaps something that is a bit troubling, or something that is just plain confusing (because we've all been there, right?). Might be a direct life experience, but it also might be an observed experience. Either way, it's all still part of navigating life one story at at time. For this first one, and inspired by attending a live jazz and jam session performance by a drummer she admires, CH reflects on the importance of nurturing young passions WITH support of family and mentors. Show Notes official Web siteofficial Web site

In our first Share the Chair episode of 2025, we welcome talented jazz musician and educator, Tobi Stone. Tobi has played an important part of CH's own journey into jazz musicianship, and after almost a year's worth of planning (yes, really!), finally got the chance to sit down to talk all-things musical life journey - from Tobi discovering her passion for music at a young age; to knowing early on that she wanted to teach in addition to perform; to the key influences and experiences that have helped shape her career - including recovering from an early injury during her time studying jazz performance at the University of Washington. Tobi's uplifting approach to music education, and her ongoing efforts to support aspiring young musicians - especially female musicians - is all part of her goal to create an inclusive, empowering environment that blends the art of playing with the joy of teaching. Whether you're a jazz enthusiast, an aspiring musician, or simply curious about the life of a professional musical artist, this episode has a little bit of everything. Show Notes Tobi Stone Musictobistone.comfound under the About Tobi sectionfound under the Performances sectionBlack Box TheatreBert WilsonDarren MotamedyKindredBlueNotes.orgJazz Night SchoolAlexander TechniqueInside the Actor's StudiohereEpisode 20: Share the Chair - Nathan Waldvogel (Journey to Yoga Therapy)Little Drummer GirlI'll Take a LessonOk Not Being Ok

Picture it: London. December 2024. A trip 30-some-odd-years in the making. And one that will never be forgotten. Join CH this week as she reflects on her first-time visit to London, and the soul-stirring connection she felt within the city despite never having set foot in it prior. From iconic moments in Piccadilly Circus and Notting Hill (yep, THAT Notting Hill); to taking in the holiday splendor of Regent Street and Trafalgar Square; to the unexpected gift of connecting with jazz singer Emma Smith; to heartfelt visits with friends out in Worcester and up in Holmfirth. If you love London, or want to visit one day, or just appreciate sharing of a life story with a unique connection to a place and time, CH paints a vivid picture of her journey in this episode - one that truly captured her heart, and now has her affectionately referring to London as her soulmate city. Show Notes Regent Street || Piccadilly Circus || Trafalgar Square || Trafalgar Theatre || St. James's Square || Harrods || Camden Town || Dr. Martens Flagship Store - Camden Market || Primose Hill || Hampstead Heath || Notting Hill / Portabello Road || Big Ben || Covent Garden || Abbey Road / Abbey Road Studios || Warner Bros. Studio Tour London - The Making of Harry Potter || King's Cross Railway Station || Paddington Railway Station || London Underground Lock & Co. HattersWorcesterHolmfirthEmmaSmithMusic.co.ukBrown's HotelThe Crazy CoqsKeeping Up AppearancesAs Time Goes ByThe Thin Blue LinePrime Suspect'Absolutely Fabulous'Spirit of PlaceLife at the Midpoint

2025. New year. New resolutions. Sorta. As the clock resets on another 365 days, and as we celebrate our 60th episode, join CH this week as she considers a more forgiving and flexible approach to looking ahead. She also offers a gentle reminder that success is not defined by our ability to adhere strictly to a set of resolutions that most of us abandon by mid-January. Instead, it's about focusing on the things that bring us joy, allow us to stay true to ourselves, and embracing the upcoming year with open-mindedness and self-compassion. Tune in for thoughtful conversation that urges us all to prioritize mental well-being and personal happiness. Whether you are a goal setter or someone who takes life as it comes, this episode reflects on how we can view progress and success throughout any given year - and adapt and thrive amidst the unexpected.

As they say, all good things must come to an end. As we close out 2024, join host CH as she reflects on the end of fairly significant chapter in her life's journey - that of a 20 year Pluto Moon astrological cycle that was rife with challenge and struggle while also amounting to significant personal growth. Listen in as she discusses how a start-of-the-year job layoff became the catalyst for some of the deepest introspection and self-growth she has ever done leading to greater understanding of personal strengths and aspirations. If you have felt perhaps this year has been a humdinger for you as well, this episode offers insights into embracing transitions and finding resilience in the face of uncertainty - no matter the year. Show Notes Pluto Moon Astrology MeaningWho's Afraid of Little Old Me?The Tortured Poets DepartmentFawkesdie by bursting into flames then be rebornThis Is Me StartingLiving Through A LayoffShare the Chair: Nathan WaldvogelWalk Through the FireThe (Unexpected) Summer Sabbatical

Fifty. 5-0. Half-century. However we want to call it, host CH hits that milestone birthday this month. And although she can't say she is exactly where she thought she'd be at this precise moment in her own life timeline, she also never put any arbitrary age accomplishments ON her timeline. Join her this week as she reflects on what this approach has taught her about the importance of embracing the whole of the life journey, and not defining success or failure if something has not been accomplished by a certain age - especially a YOUNG age. Show Notes definition of ageism by the World Health OrganizationYou Need to Calm DownAnxiety characterInside Out 2Terminator 2: Judgment Day" quote

Holiday Season 2024 is officially underway. And yet, we have to admit we're not feeling all that holiday-ish. And you know what? We're ok with that. Join CH this week as she talks about the importance of acknowledging the emotional challenges the holiday season can bring - especially when it might NOT be the most happiest or magical for everyone. She encourages us to remember that it is alright to forge your own path during this complex time of year, and to celebrate in a way that feels best for each of us in the moment we are at - whether traditional or not, whether all in or not. Show Notes Ok Not Being OkSoloing the Holidays

This is a bit of tough episode, folks, but we're going to give it our best shot at reflecting on the 2024 U.S. election. While this podcast is not a political or a current events show, the election's impact is impossible to ignore - and it is creating a life experience that is also impossible to ignore. While we might all be tired of hearing about the election (and news ABOUT the election), this episode is meant to be a personal reflection, not a post-mortem. Recorded only a few days after the election (on November 9th), CH shares her thoughts on what is perhaps the shifting political landscape, and its implications for individuals and communities that may feel marginalized or be adversely affected; and, the importance of community and connection when we find ourselves facing very polarizing differences of opinions and ideologies - including the challenge of reconciling with friends or family when we are on opposite sides of the political spectrum. She also encourages us to engage in a bit of self-reflection, and to perhaps find soft places to land in what can often be an increasingly harsh world. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that acknowledges the challenges ahead for some, while still aiming to inspire hope and collective strength. A special note from CH on this episode: "This was not an easy one to record. I have ultimately attempted to articulate the concerns that are quite personal to me, to those in my inner-circle and my community. Perhaps not everyone is going to understand these concerns or even agree with them. And that is fine. But maybe it will offer a perspective one might not have considered. In the end, I hope it will help us all think about how we continue to treat each other during very polarizing times. Also this was recorded only a few days after the election - on November 9th. Things continue to evolve and shift daily." Show Notes this articleProject 2025Agenda 47Project 2025 vs. Agenda 47