Unbridely - Modern Wedding Planning

Jamila Musayeva is a certified etiquette teacher, a 3x author on etiquette, and a YouTube creator with nearly 1 Million subscribers, whose main focus is modern international etiquette. Jamila’s approach intertwines personal development, female empowerment, and cultural appreciation, and strikes a delicate balance between progressive living and preserving traditions. In part 2 of Camille’s interview with her, Jamila will teach you: Resources Mentioned: Ep22: These 3 Important First Steps In Your Wedding Planning Change Everything Jamila Musayeva YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JamilaMusayeva Jamila Musayeva Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamila_musayeva/ Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Have you ever felt like your wedding planning is a test that you didn’t study for? OR That there are rules and expectations about weddings that you had no idea about until you got engaged? If so, you are not alone. The unspoken etiquette of weddings trips up a lot of unsuspecting couples and trust me when I say that more than a couple of disagreements have happened because of cross-communication and hurt feelings that come from someone intending one thing and a friend or family member taking it completely another way. I am excited to share Part 1 of my interview with Jamila Musayeva who is a certified etiquette teacher, a 3X author on etiquette, and a YouTube creator with nearly 1 Million subscribers, whose main focus is modern international etiquette. Jamila’s approach intertwines personal development, female empowerment, and cultural appreciation, and strikes a delicate balance between progressive living and preserving traditions. Today Jamila is going to teach you: · What part modern etiquette plays in weddings, · Who defines the rules of etiquette, and · Who pays for and/or organises the engagement party and wedding events. Resources: Ep22: These 3 Important First Steps In Your Wedding Planning Change Everything Jamila Musayeva YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JamilaMusayeva Jamila Musayeva Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamila_musayeva/ Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

There’s a saying in the wedding industry: “if you don’t have a venue booked, you don’t have a wedding date”. It’s all about putting a where to your why. If you, like me, have decided to plan your own wedding and can't afford to take advantage of a professional wedding planner’s immense knowledge, experience and contacts list, then you want to go into the search for your wedding venue with your eyes wide open. I have created a checklist for you to go through with each of your wedding venues so you know that you are asking the right questions and recording the answers so you don’t forget them too! And you can DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE WEDDING VENUE BOOKING CHECKLIST PDF HERE. But today you’re going to learn about 5 extra questions. 5 Qs that are over and above the basic, but are pretty important when it comes to you and your guests, enjoyment, safety, ease of setup and matching your vision with the reality of what your venue can truly offer and will look like with your budget in mind. RESOURCES DOWNLOAD YOUR FREE WEDDING VENUE BOOKING CHECKLIST PDF Tita Ascencio Celebrant from Por Vida Ceremonies Planner and Stylist Emily from The Modern Approach Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Is A Seating Chart Absolutely Necessary For Your Wedding? The short answer is, it depends. While I know that’s not what you want to hear, it’s pretty freeing when you work out that ultimately, it is up to you, your fiancé and just a few other considerations as well. Today, I’m going to teach you: · the pros and cons of having allocated seating and a seating chart, escort cards or place cards for your wedding reception, · the pros and cons of having an unallocated seating arrangement where your family and friends can choose where they want to sit and with whom, and finally, · the 3 things you need to consider before you decide on which way is best for you, your fiancé and your guests. Resources Mentioned: Unbridely Pinterest Board: Wedding Seating Plan & Escort Cards Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

What do you think the most frequently repeated sentence about weddings is? I reckon I know what it is: “It all goes by so fast”. One of the most lasting ways to preserve your memories, emotions, thoughts and ideas is by writing it down. Today, I want to smash through the bullet journalling bullshit and the wedding binder bollocks and share with you: - the benefits and why you might want to journal during your engagement and wedding planning (HINT: it is SUPER worth your time) - how bullet journalling and wedding binders aren’t worth your time - the Unbridely way to journal (it’s non-restrictive and VERY simple). And stay listening to the end for a special Sassy surprise that I think you’re going to love. Resources: PositivePhsychology.com: 5 Benefits of Journaling for Mental Health Ep1: About Unbridely + 3 little known secrets to your best wedding celebration Ep15: The 3 biggest wedding planning time sucks (and how to avoid them) with WedSites Journalling About Stressful Events: Effects Of Cognitive Processing and Emotional Expression SassmouthAU: Unbridely Wedding Journals & Notebooks Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Last week in EP82, I broke down everything you need to consider, the pros and cons, before you decide to host your wedding in either your, or a very easygoing and generous friend or family member’s, backyard. And today I’m going to share with you the task list that you will need to work through to make this magic happen with the least amount of angst, stress and sleepless nights possible, including gold nuggets of backyard wedding planning advice from couples who have already done it themselves. And make sure you stay listening until the end for some additional expert tips from planner, coordinator and stylist of 12 years, Nicole Bailey, of Your Event Plannery. RESOURCES EP82: How To Work Out If A Charming Backyard Wedding Is For You Your Event Plannery Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Backyard weddings are back in a big way this season. And many engaged couples, or a generous friend or relative, with a decent size outdoor area, are considering planning their wedding in a backyard. There are heaps of benefits to planning your wedding in a familiar, accessible, meaningful and flexible venue. From the intimacy of keeping your loved ones physically close to you and spending more time with them to the relaxed atmosphere and convenience, backyard weddings seem to be an easy choice. But while deciding to have your wedding in your own or a relative's backyard can on the surface to be a brilliant plan, it requires very careful consideration and a weighing up of what it means in reality. Today I’ll teach you: And then in part 2 of our special on backyard weddings which (published on Tuesday 9 April 2024), I’ll share your checklist for what you’ll need to arrange, order, plan and coordinate to pull your backyard wedding dream together. Resources Mentioned: Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Recently, I've been chatting with some wedding planners and venue owners about the wedding vendor code and how it can impact engaged couples, just like you, as you go about choosing, booking in, questioning and receiving the products and services that are presented to you. I want you to be aware of some of the downfalls that the vendor code has so you can make sure you are getting the full story about your vendors’ capabilities, capacity and professionalism. I'd love to share with you today, first of all, what the wedding vendor code is, and secondly, the red flags you should be keeping your eye out for that might suggest that someone does not have your best interests at heart. Resources: Ep70: How To Book The Best Wedding Vendors For Your Style, Budget, and Personalities Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Does this sound like you? Writing your own personalized wedding vows is more popular than ever. I'm always more than thrilled to help engage couples and show them a simple way to write their very own unique and meaningful vows. And there are several reasons why I'm so passionate about this, which I'd love to share with you today. Personal, unique vows that no one else in the world could make but you, have so much power, value, intention and emotion, and are in fact, an investment into your relationship. What I'd love for you to realise from this episode is the amazing opportunity you have with your wedding vows, to actually be excited to write them and be proud to say them too. RESOURCES EP16: How To Write Vows That Really Wow in 20 Minutes Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

So you’ve booked in your wedding vendors. Now what? We want to go in with the best of intentions. We want to work seamlessly with them, have fun doing it and end up with a brilliant result, all while being as efficient as possible. Cause you're still working, right? This podcast episode is a guidebook for you, about how to get the best out of your wedding vendors for sure, but while motivating them, and empowering them to give their very best. You'll learn the 5 main touchpoints, and all about your communication with your supplier team, knowing your budget, understanding the fine print, your timelines and cutoff dates, and finally, how to get them excited, how to make them want to extend themselves over and above what they need to do to make your wedding something truly spectacular. Resources Mentioned: Ep70: How To Book The Best Wedding Vendors For Your Style, Budget, and Personalities Ep40: Wedding Vendor Meals Explained; How & When To Fuel Your Dream Team Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

It’s not always the things that you drop heaps of your budget on that will stick in your memory or make your wedding day special. Sometimes it’s just giving yourself the time and opportunity for things to unfold that will give you the most authentic and wonderful moments and memories of your day. So if you’re sick of dropping cash every second week towards a new trend just to make your wedding extra fun, unique or the most talked about wedding in your family or group of friends, why don’t you have a listen to these 9 trending wedding tweaks (rather than total and expensive overhauls) because most of them don’t cost a cent and yet are golden opportunities to have a more connected and enjoyable time. And make sure you stay listening until number 9, because I think that might be the very best trending tweak of all time. Resources: Ep11: How to choose the perfect wedding cake for the season, your guests and your budget with Lyons Den Cakes Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

There are now Unbridely Podcast listeners in over 100 countries and territories all around the world. But you’re not staying still for a moment, are you? Many engaged couples are opting to go overseas and enjoy a destination wedding somewhere new and exciting. SO this week I’ve sought the help of celebrants and officiants from New Zealand, Canada, Ireland, England and the United States of America I’m sharing with you what the legal requirements are for marriage in these countries. I hope it helps you with your overseas wedding planning! RESOURCES New Zealand marriage requirements with thanks to Jade Whaley Celebrant: Timaru + South Canterbury with more info HERE. Canadian (provincial) marriage requirements with thanks to Cheryl Pedley Celebrant with more info here: Ontario British Columbia Alberta Irish marriage requirements with thanks to Romy McAuley Solemniser-Celebrant Ireland more info HERE. English marriage requirements with thanks to Claire Dunford - Celebrant with more info HERE. Northern American marriage requirements with thanks to Marie Gismondi at the Church of Ancient Ways - Long Island Wedding Officiants more info HERE And Australian marriage requirements HERE Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Picture this, the week leading up to your big day, the weather forecast goes from a slight chance of rain to an 80% chance. Sure, you might have a plan B, but that's why it's a plan B, right? A rainy wedding day can sometimes be just a blip in your plans or cause a full-scale meltdown. It’s all about your perspective and how organised you can be. So today, I'm going to break down: Resources Mentioned: Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Whether you’re a ‘sit by the pool all day with cocktails’ or a ‘ride through rural rice fields on a scooter’ kind of couple, chances are you’re one of the 75% of people who will go on a honeymoon after your wedding. There are endless options available to you, some at astronomical price points, so how do you narrow down your destination and accommodation and even more crucially, should you go on your honeymoon straight after your wedding or wait a while? Today I’m going to share with you: Resources: Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/kevin-macleod/beach-party License code: EIYQ4C2IRASCMNBF Ep22: These 3 Important First Steps In Your Wedding Planning Change Everything Nerd Wallet: https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/travel/how-to-book-your-honeymoon-with-points-and-miles The Knot: https://www.theknot.com/content/how-to-honeymoon-using-credit-card-points Brides.com: https://www.brides.com/story/tell-hotel-about-honeymoon-etiquette Zola Honeymoon & Cash registry: https://zola.pxf.io/hr-unbridely Gravy registry: https://www.givewithgravy.com/ Booking.com: Booking.com Vacationers in general are happier than non-vacationers, but Most are not Happier After a Holiday Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

When a bridesmaid says ‘yes’ to a bride, they must communicate clearly and early about expectations for commitment, assigned responsibilities and especially the costs. But it’s also essential for the bride to be aware of what she’s really asking of her family and friends when she excitedly proposes to them to be in her wedding party in the first place. The sentiment of friendship, closeness and fun that a bride may anticipate might not be reflected in real life and at the extremes, I’ve heard of many friendships and family relationships that have ended up destroyed beyond repair when the fairytale doesn’t match what happens when money, responsibilities, time constraints and close relationships all mix into one high-pressure and emotional life-altering event. The stakes are high, people. So this week, I’m going to delve deep into: RESOURCES Mama Mia: https://www.mamamia.com.au/average-cost-of-being-a-bridesmaid/ CBC.ca: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/costofliving/bridesmaid-costs-1.6870502 The Knot: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-bridesmaids-pay-for Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Have you ever asked yourself why you want to get married (with the subtext being, if nothing really changes anyway)? In 2019 according to the Pew Research centre: “The decision to get married is a personal one, but for most married adults, love and companionship trump other considerations such as such as the desire to have children someday, convenience or finances.” But there are some other legal aspects to consider too, including in Australia: that marriage revokes a will unless it was created ‘in contemplation of marriage’, marriage spouses automatically become each other's next of kin, income tax changes, and there could be changes in future property settlements, survivor benefits, health insurance payments and claims, custody of children, maintenance payments and even inheritance. But you want to know, when you wake up the day after your wedding, what happens then? Dating and Relationship coach, Beck Thompson, from The Relationship Circle is going to teach you: Resources Mentioned: The Relationship Circle: https://www.therelationshipcircle.com/ The Relationship Circle Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2220575 The Relationship Circle on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_relationship_circle/ The Pew Research Centre: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2019/11/06/why-people-get-married-or-move-in-with-a-partner/ Marriage and your will: https://tetlowlegal.com.au/marriage-changes/ What changes when we marry: https://www.celebrants.org.au/information/everyone/types-of-ceremonies/marriage-ceremonies/what-changes-when-we-marry Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Given that I believe 99% of couples want these four things, this is what I'd like to get down to the crux of in this episode: Calm, means an internal knowing that everything is going as it should. Being prepared means that you’ve designed a ceremony that fits you and your fiancé, rather than having something pushed upon you. Being able to assert yourself ahead of time, I think is absolutely crucial. Being present in your ceremony, emotionally and also in the way that you are reacting to things. So really seeing, hearing all the senses, touching, feeling, smelling, all of those things, drinking it all in. And receptive, as in being able to reciprocate and interact with your fiancé and your guests. So in this episode, I'm gonna go through lots of little checkpoints. Some of them will really stick with you and you'll go, oh God, write that down. And some other things you might go, "I don’t even care if it's gonna happen or not". This is a bit of a workshop episode for your wedding ceremony. I hope is super valuable for you. Resources: Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

I’m pretty sure I’ve shared my very own DIY wedding flower disaster story with you before on the podcast. But as the lessons are both timeless, relevant and in hindsight, pretty funny too, it bears repeating especially in the context of interviewing Liza from Fifty Flowers in the United States. Liza is a trailblazing entrepreneur, a hot yoga enthusiast and the owner-operator of one of the biggest, most education-supported, customer-centric and innovative farm-to-arms DIY wedding flower companies in the world. Today Liza is going to teach you: Plus she will share what she considers the biggest misconceptions and mistakes people make with DIY wedding flowers and how you can overcome them. RESOURCES Fifty Flowers website: https://fiftyflowers.com/ Fifty Flowers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fiftyflowers/ Send Unbridely a 90 second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely’s ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don’t Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔 AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪 Grab your instant pdf download of the Unbridely ebook 'How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck' for just $27 now! 🧡 https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtds ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

You want ease. You want to be surrounded by problem solvers. You want to have their technical expertise and people with great energy who will not only do their job, but help you to get excited too. You want to choose the right wedding vendor team the first time around because it’s also super uncomfortable to have to let a vendor go, and because of contracts, potentially costly as well. So to kick off this year, I'm going to teach you how to research, find, and book the best wedding vendors that align with your style, budget, and personality. Resources Mentioned: Ep22: These 3 Important First Steps In Your Wedding Planning Change Everything Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one. Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com

Ho Ho Ho Happy Engagement Season! If you’re getting, or have just gotten, engaged, congratulations beautiful! Drink it all in and revel in your love bubble. As I’m meeting and chatting with more experts in relationships and psychology and reading about studies about the financial health of marriages and those that are most likely to go the distance, it seems to me that: A) we should’ve been given the heads up on this stuff in school, and B) these crucial topics are something that everyone should be working through and thinking about well before they get engaged. Today you’ll learn about the 11 key topics to discuss with your partner before you get engaged according to the experts. Resources: Unbridely Podcast EP22: These 3 Important First Steps in Your Wedding Planning Change Everything: https://bit.ly/3uZTrFL She’s On The Money podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/shes-on-the-money/id1468033698 The Holistic Psychologist: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ The Holistic Psychologist on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/C037aBjvcf1/?img_index=1 https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.* ------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouples Are you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories? If you’re looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group! 🙋 ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Support the Show. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/ or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridely Email the Unbridely Podcast: hello@unbridely.com