
Where Compassion Begins
Jared Seide
Where Compassion Begins is an invitation to build the muscle of compassion, through exercises and practices that enhance our capacity to listen from the heart and, in so doing, take care of ourselves and those around us.
Compassion is sometimes confused with empathy, or even sympathy. It is neither, though it includes some aspects of both. Compassion begins when we allow ourselves to really hear and attune to suffering, that of others, as well as ourselves. And hearing and perceiving this anguish, we are moved to do something about it. What takes compassion beyond sympathy or empathy is that it includes action, action that is considered, skillful and beneficial.
When we listen differently to someone’s story, without judging, we create the conditions for compassion to arise. The practice of council, described and explained in this book, asks us to lean in, to learn ways we can skillfully attend to the pain we recognize in ourselves and others, and to do something helpful in response.
Jack Zimmerman, author of The Way of Council, writes: "Where Compassion Begins is exactly what is needed now to bring the essence of compassionate communication more fully into the contemporary world. Jared Seide has woven together the practices of council and meditation in a personal and accessible way that supports tangible life practices along the path of the heart. Where Compassion Begins is an imaginative bridge from the traditional roots of council and meditation to this moment in evolution, with contemporary references to science, medicine, and recent understanding of the human condition."
Duration - 5h 18m.
Author - Jared Seide.
Narrator - Jared Seide.
Published Date - Sunday, 22 January 2023.
Copyright - © 2021 Jared Seide ©.
Location:
United States
Description:
Where Compassion Begins is an invitation to build the muscle of compassion, through exercises and practices that enhance our capacity to listen from the heart and, in so doing, take care of ourselves and those around us. Compassion is sometimes confused with empathy, or even sympathy. It is neither, though it includes some aspects of both. Compassion begins when we allow ourselves to really hear and attune to suffering, that of others, as well as ourselves. And hearing and perceiving this anguish, we are moved to do something about it. What takes compassion beyond sympathy or empathy is that it includes action, action that is considered, skillful and beneficial. When we listen differently to someone’s story, without judging, we create the conditions for compassion to arise. The practice of council, described and explained in this book, asks us to lean in, to learn ways we can skillfully attend to the pain we recognize in ourselves and others, and to do something helpful in response. Jack Zimmerman, author of The Way of Council, writes: "Where Compassion Begins is exactly what is needed now to bring the essence of compassionate communication more fully into the contemporary world. Jared Seide has woven together the practices of council and meditation in a personal and accessible way that supports tangible life practices along the path of the heart. Where Compassion Begins is an imaginative bridge from the traditional roots of council and meditation to this moment in evolution, with contemporary references to science, medicine, and recent understanding of the human condition." Duration - 5h 18m. Author - Jared Seide. Narrator - Jared Seide. Published Date - Sunday, 22 January 2023. Copyright - © 2021 Jared Seide ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
Duration:00:00:31
02 dedication
Duration:00:00:27
03 forward
Duration:00:04:09
04 acknowledgements
Duration:00:04:46
05 introduction
Duration:00:04:09
01 part 1 what is council
Duration:00:00:06
1 what is council
Duration:00:06:36
2 guiding principles
Duration:00:03:31
3 the five basic elements of council
Duration:00:05:09
4 pointers on listening from the heart
Duration:00:01:50
5 pointers on speaking from the heart
Duration:00:01:22
6 key components and definitions
Duration:00:11:04
7 basic formats for council circles
Duration:00:11:07
8 meditation and council
Duration:00:09:01
9 worldwide cultural dialogic practices
Duration:00:03:33
10 a thought experiment
Duration:00:02:38
11 faces and voices of council
Duration:00:09:26
01 part 2 deepening the practice of council
Duration:00:00:10
12 seasons of awareness
Duration:00:17:57
13 physical awareness
Duration:00:00:26
14 body language
Duration:00:05:28
15 stress
Duration:00:07:27
16 sleep
Duration:00:05:33
17 breathing
Duration:00:05:34
18 slowing down
Duration:00:05:01
19 nutrition
Duration:00:07:14
20 mental awareness
Duration:00:00:31
21 inner critic negative thoughts
Duration:00:06:03
22 perspective and view
Duration:00:06:32
23 bias
Duration:00:11:19
24 changing your mind
Duration:00:05:55
25 attention focus
Duration:00:04:55
26 mind wandering
Duration:00:05:25
27 emotional awareness
Duration:00:00:28
28 emotion regulation
Duration:00:05:05
29 anger
Duration:00:06:43
30 gratitude
Duration:00:06:36
31 empathy
Duration:00:04:16
32 happiness
Duration:00:06:43
33 vulnerability
Duration:00:05:54
34 social and energetic awareness
Duration:00:00:48
35 insight
Duration:00:05:53
36 compassion
Duration:00:07:20
37 non judgement
Duration:00:06:34
38 community
Duration:00:07:12
39 awe
Duration:00:05:43
40 beyond us and them
Duration:00:07:34
01 epilogue
Duration:00:04:29
Appendix 1
Duration:00:19:55
Appendix 2
Duration:00:21:20
Appendix 3
Duration:00:20:27
Ending Credits
Duration:00:00:58