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A Story That Changes the Way You See Wealth When Bruce and I sat down with Michael Cole for The Money Advantage Podcast, the conversation didn’t just scratch the surface of wealth management—it went straight to the heart of what wealth really means. Here’s a man who has advised families with an average net worth of more than $500 million, co-founded the largest network of centimillionaires in the U.S., and written the bestselling book More Than Money. https://www.youtube.com/live/DTWacmQHhSU And yet, when we asked him about retirement, he smiled and said, “I don’t plan on retiring. I’m finally doing the work that’s closest to my life purpose.” That one statement reframed everything. Because if someone with Michael Cole’s track record and access to the ultra-wealthy believes that life purpose—not just money—is the real destination, then we all have something to learn. A Story That Changes the Way You See WealthWhy This Matters to YouMichael Cole’s Journey to the Top of Wealth ManagementWealth Is More Than Money – The Six Forms of CapitalThe Impact of Wealth – Purpose Over PossessionsBuilding a Culture That Outlasts YouWhat the Ultra-Wealthy Invest in Right NowOvercoming Cultural Narratives About WealthWhat Michael Cole Teaches Us About WealthBook A Strategy Call Why This Matters to You Whether you’re just starting to build wealth, sitting on a successful business, or thinking about how to transfer assets to the next generation, the insights from Michael Cole matter to you. Here’s why: Michael has spent decades inside family offices, helping entrepreneurs, centimillionaires, and billionaires not only grow their capital but also grow their impact. He’s seen firsthand what works—and what fails—when it comes to preserving wealth and legacy. In this article, Bruce and I want to unpack the conversation we had with Michael Cole so you can walk away with: A clear understanding of why wealth is more than money How to think about the impact of wealth on your family and community Practical insights into what the ultra-wealthy are investing in right now How to create a family culture that outlives you Most importantly, you’ll see how Michael Cole’s perspective can empower you to stop chasing money as the end goal and start building a legacy that truly matters. Michael Cole’s Journey to the Top of Wealth Management Michael’s resume reads like a roadmap of the private wealth industry: Merrill Interest Trust Company, Wells Fargo’s Abbott Downing, Ascent Private Capital Management, and Crescent Capital Management. At each stage, he wasn’t just managing billions in assets—he was rethinking what it means to be a steward of wealth. And eventually, he co-founded R360, a peer-to-peer community of centimillionaires and billionaires built on one core belief: Wealth is more than money. That perspective didn’t just come from financial spreadsheets. It came from listening. Michael Cole is the kind of leader who pauses before he answers, considers both sides, and responds with wisdom. That’s why Bruce said during the episode, “Talking with you is like talking to my little brother. You think deeply, you listen, and you answer with both intellect and empathy.” Wealth Is More Than Money – The Six Forms of Capital Michael Cole teaches that wealth stewardship requires diversification beyond just financial assets. His model highlights six forms of capital: Financial capital – the money itself Intellectual capital – the knowledge and learning culture of a family Social capital – networks, relationships, and giving back Human capital – the character, skills, and wellbeing of family members Emotional capital – resilience, connection, and healthy communication Spiritual capital – purpose, values, and meaning Just as investors diversify portfolios, families must diversify their approach to legacy. As Michael told us, “If you’re only focused on the money,

How a Campfire Call Sparked a Financial Movement It started with a campfire. Lucas and I were out camping when I made a phone call that would unknowingly change the course of our lives and the lives of thousands of families:“Bruce, want to start a podcast?” https://www.youtube.com/live/GKrk_LOMwI4 As we looked back over the years, a theme emerged. The conversations that mattered most weren’t about rates of return, product comparisons, or clever tax tricks. That single conversation planted the seed for what is now 400 episodes of The Money Advantage Podcast—a platform that’s helped people understand how to take control of their financial lives through Infinite Banking and smart stewardship. We had no idea what it would become, but we knew we were called to do more than just manage money. We were building a mission. And here we are today, looking back on eight years of podcasting, thousands of conversations, and one shared belief: You are your greatest financial asset. How a Campfire Call Sparked a Financial MovementA Look Back: Why 400 Episodes MatterThe Power of Podcasting: Why We Started and What It’s DoneFinancial Influence Starts with CharacterJeff’s Story: It’s Not About Life Insurance—It’s About BankingWhy You’re Always Borrowing—Whether You Realize It or NotSimplicity Over Complexity: Becca’s InsightLucas’s Principle: Save Before You InvestBruce’s Wisdom: Behavior Beats DesignRachel’s Realization: It’s Not Just About the MoneyWhat This Episode Really Taught UsReady to Learn the Top Lessons About Wealth, Legacy, and Serving Families?Book A Strategy Call A Look Back: Why 400 Episodes Matter You’re constantly being sold financial products—mutual funds, IRAs, 401(k)s, high-yield savings accounts. But what if the real question isn’t “What should I invest in?” but “How do I control my money?” That’s where Infinite Banking comes in. In this blog (and podcast), Bruce and I are reflecting on the top lessons about wealth, legacy, and serving families that we’ve learned after 400 episodes. We’ll cover: Why saving before investing matters more than flashy returns What really makes Infinite Banking work (hint: it’s not just the policy) The difference between debt and liability How to build a family-centered financial system that creates freedom for generations This isn’t just about strategies—it’s about empowering you to think differently, behave differently, and lead your family with clarity. The Power of Podcasting: Why We Started and What It’s Done We didn’t start podcasting to build a platform. We started to create a space for truth in finance—real conversations without the fluff. From day one, we set out to talk to you like a friend who’s learned the hard lessons, found a better way, and wants you to have access to it too. Podcasting gave us the ability to educate, build trust, and invite people into the deeper work of financial stewardship—not just financial performance. Financial Influence Starts with Character Bruce hit the nail on the head: “High competence without high character is dangerous.” It’s not enough to be an expert. You’ve got to care more about helping people than making a sale. That’s the standard we’ve held ourselves to—and what we believe every financial guide should strive for. If you’re listening to someone online or in your life, ask yourself:Do they have both competence and character? Are they searching for truth or just selling a tactic? Jeff’s Story: It’s Not About Life Insurance—It’s About Banking When Jeff Jessee joined our team, we got more than a brilliant mind—we got someone who sees money like a game. And he’s right: life is a financial game, and banking is the rulebook. Jeff was already successful in the traditional financial world. But after reading Becoming Your Own Banker—twice in one night—he saw the problem: most people focus on products instead of systems. He said it best:

A friend called and said four words that changed the trajectory of a young family’s finances: Becoming Your Own Banker. At that moment, Jesse Durham was a former cop turned Spanish teacher in North Carolina. New baby. Second on the way. About $50,000 of debt. A man raised to do what most of us were taught to do: get the degree, get the job, ride the hamster wheel, and hope the math works out. https://www.youtube.com/live/kgT_7O5YHec He walked into a live presentation with an open mind and a hungry heart. He walked out with a new paradigm. Not a gimmick. Not a hack. A structure. That day marked what Jesse now calls his “renaissance year”. And it’s why we invited him onto The Money Advantage podcast. Because the Infinite Banking Concept isn’t just a strategy on paper. It’s a lifestyle of stewardship in practice. And your family deserves that. Jesse Durham’s Journey: From Debt to Becoming Your Own BankerFrom Hamster Wheel to Stewardship: The Jesse Durham PivotWhat We Learned From Jesse Durham: Infinite Banking Is a Lifestyle, Not a Line ItemCapitalization Is the Missing MiddleThe Four-Part Filter Jesse Durham UsesNelson Nash’s Principles In Plain SightFamily Culture and Modeling: Build the Bankers You Hope To BecomeStart With Yourself, Then Include ThemWeekly Executive Meetings Turn Values Into RhythmsDebt, Discipline, and DignityReal Life First, Then Cash-Flowing AssetsThe Right Person, The Right TimeHow Jesse Durham Onboards New LearnersFaith, Purpose, and The Big PictureStay Humble. Keep Learning.Book A Strategy Call Jesse Durham’s Journey: From Debt to Becoming Your Own Banker If you’re new here, I’m Rachel Marshall, co-hosting with my friend and colleague, Bruce Wehner. Our mission is simple and weighty all at once: help high-capacity families build a legacy of more than money. Today’s conversation with Jesse Durham is a clear window into how ordinary families step off the earn-and-spend treadmill and design a private banking system that funds real life, fuels investments, and forms character across generations. Here’s what you’ll gain as you read: How Jesse went from debt and drift to intention and design. Why Infinite Banking is a lifestyle, not a line item. The simple four-part filter Jesse uses to make clear decisions. How to capitalize first, then spend with control. Practical ways policies pay for property taxes, appliances, vehicles, and opportunities. Why modeling matters for your kids, and why you must start with yourself. How weekly family meetings turn values into rhythms. The difference between credentials and character in long-term wealth stewardship. What Nelson Nash’s principles look like in real life. A first step you can take today to begin becoming your own banker. If you’re ready to move from accidental inheritance to intentional design, keep reading. From Hamster Wheel to Stewardship: The Jesse Durham Pivot Jesse’s story isn’t sterile or airbrushed. It’s family, career change, and financial pressure in real time. He did what most of us were modeled to do. School. Degree. Career. Debt. He and his wife started from scratch, not from a family banking system or a multi-generational enterprise. In 2015, he opened his mind to personal growth, marriage, fatherhood, and money. Not in theory. In action. First exposure to Infinite Banking. Then Nelson Nash’s book. Then the decision to implement, imperfectly and persistently. Policies were started. Debts were repaid. And something else happened under the surface. Identity shifted from consumer to steward. That’s the engine. What We Learned From Jesse Durham: Infinite Banking Is a Lifestyle, Not a Line Item Most people have two moves with money: earn and spend. That’s not a system. That’s survival. Jesse Durham saw Infinite Banking as a third, critical move wedged between those two: capitalize. You earn.You capitalize.Then you spend.

What Most Families Miss About Whole Life Insurance Tax Strategies Most people miss the hidden power of whole life insurance tax strategies—and in doing so, they overpay in taxes and underfund their legacy. In today’s podcast episode, Bruce Wehner dives deep into how the tax code is designed to reward strategic behavior—and how you can align your actions to reduce your tax burden and redirect that capital into wealth-building vehicles like whole life insurance. https://www.youtube.com/live/Z4BEoTli--k In this blog, I’m going to walk you through the real, practical ways to lower your taxes, use the savings wisely, and fund your policy in a way that supports your family’s future. Whether you're a W-2 employee, small business owner, or investor, this episode breaks down how to build wealth with intention. What Most Families Miss About Whole Life Insurance Tax StrategiesWhole Life Insurance Tax Strategies Start with Tax Code IncentivesW-2 vs. Business Owner: Two Different Tax SystemsEmploying Your Kids: A Hidden GemS-Corp Strategy: Split Income, Save TaxesReal Estate Depreciation & Cost SegregationQualified Plan Repositioning: Turn Tax-Deferred Dollars into Tax-Free WealthRoth Conversions: A Strategic ShiftFunding Policies Through Parents and ChildrenThe Opportunity in Plain SightRepositioning Money Isn’t Just Smart—It’s Biblical StewardshipWant to Go Deeper into Whole Life Insurance Tax Strategies?Book A Strategy Call Whole Life Insurance Tax Strategies Start with Tax Code Incentives Congress doesn’t just collect taxes—they guide behavior through tax incentives. The tax code is filled with legal ways to reduce what you owe, especially if you understand its design. The goal is not to avoid taxes but to steward your resources wisely. Tom Wheelwright, CPA for Robert Kiyosaki, frames it this way: the tax code is a roadmap filled with incentives. It’s designed to encourage investments in real estate, energy, and business—moves that ultimately strengthen the economy. When you understand these incentives, you begin to ask a better question: “How can I reposition my taxable income into long-term wealth?” That’s where properly structured whole life insurance comes in. W-2 vs. Business Owner: Two Different Tax Systems There are two tax codes in America: one for employees, and one for business owners. If you're a W-2 earner, your options are limited. But if you own a business — even a small one — the deductions available to you multiply. Start with something simple. You don’t need an LLC to begin. A sole proprietorship qualifies you for deductions like: Home office expenses Business mileage Cell phone usage Meals and entertainment All of those deductions lower your taxable income and free up cash flow that can be redirected to fund a properly designed whole life policy. Employing Your Kids: A Hidden Gem One of the most overlooked strategies is hiring your children in your business. If they earn a legitimate wage (think: cleaning the office, organizing paperwork, or appearing in marketing photos), you can pay them up to $12,000/year tax-free. For you, it’s a deductible business expense.For them, it’s tax-free income under the standard deduction. That $12,000 could go directly into a whole life insurance policy for your child. You've just shifted taxable income into a tax-free legacy asset. S-Corp Strategy: Split Income, Save Taxes Another powerful tax strategy is the S-Corporation. If you operate your business as an S-Corp, you can split your income into a salary (subject to payroll taxes) and a distribution (not subject to self-employment tax). Example: Salary: $100,000 (pays payroll taxes) Distribution: $200,000 (saves 15.3% self-employment tax) That tax savings could be reallocated directly into premium payments for a life insurance policy. It’s a way to use the structure of your income to fund wealth transfer.

What’s Really at Stake When it comes to short-pay vs long-pay life insurance, the question isn’t just about convenience—it’s about control, options, and legacy. https://www.youtube.com/live/dPxt8Nui4g4 In this article, you’ll learn: The difference between short-pay and long-pay policies Why a long-pay design gives you more flexibility and cash value How reduced-paid-up life insurance contracts really work What to consider if you want to use your policy as a family bank How to align your design with your legacy goals and future self Let’s pull back the curtain on what really creates a robust, long-term infinite banking system. The Iceberg We’ve All MissedWhat Does “Short-Pay vs Long-Pay Life Insurance” Actually Mean?Infinite Banking System Explained—Why Long-Pay Is Often BetterReduced-Paid-Up Life Insurance Contracts—Built-In FlexibilityShort-Pay vs Long-Pay Life Insurance Policy—What’s the Real Tradeoff?7-Pay or 10-PayLong-Pay Whole LifeDesigning Life Insurance as a Family BankPolicy Design for Tax-Efficient Wealth GrowthFuture Self Planning with Life InsuranceBalancing Liquidity and Premium CommitmentWhat You Need to RememberLearn MoreBook A Strategy Call The Iceberg We’ve All Missed We’ve heard it so many times—"I want a 7-pay," "Just show me a 10-pay option." It sounds appealing, right? Pay for a short time, and then you’re off the hook. But here’s what we’ve found in real conversations with clients over decades: No one ever says 20 years later, “I wish I could’ve stopped paying sooner.” In fact, they say the opposite. They wish they could keep paying. Why? Because they’ve seen what a well-designed long-pay policy does for their capital, liquidity, and long-term options. What Does “Short-Pay vs Long-Pay Life Insurance” Actually Mean? This isn’t just semantics. It’s strategy. A short-pay policy is designed to have all premiums fully paid within a set period—typically 7 or 10 years. Think "7-pay" or "10-pay." After that, no further payments are required to keep the policy in force. A long-pay policy is structured to allow for premium payments for as long as possible—often up to age 100 or even 121. But here’s the kicker: you’re not required to pay that long. You just can. And that difference opens the door to flexibility, scalability, and legacy. Infinite Banking System Explained—Why Long-Pay Is Often Better Short-pay might look sleek on paper. But infinite banking isn’t about what looks good—it’s about building long-term capital access and control. Here’s what we’ve seen: Short-pay designs limit your contribution window You hit a ceiling on how much capital you can inject Your banking system stagnates when you stop funding Long-pay designs allow you to keep capitalizing your system for decades. That means: More compound growth More tax-efficient access to capital More opportunities to use your policy for real estate, business, or retirement If you think long range and don’t fear capitalization, you set yourself up to win. Reduced-Paid-Up Life Insurance Contracts—Built-In Flexibility Here’s a secret most people don’t realize: Every life insurance policy is a short-pay policy if you want it to be. Thanks to the reduced-paid-up (RPU) provision, you can stop paying premiums at any time after the MEC window (typically 5–7 years), and your policy will remain in force with a reduced death benefit. So why design short from the start? When you structure your policy as a long-pay, you maintain the ability to: Stop paying when you want Shift to paid-up status on your terms Keep your options open Short-Pay vs Long-Pay Life Insurance Policy—What’s the Real Tradeoff? Let’s compare: 7-Pay or 10-Pay Forces early funding Good for clients needing a limited-time premium window Restrictive if you want to contribute more later Long-Pay Whole Life Spreads premiums over time

The Question That Changed Everything SLAT vs ILIT for High Net Worth Estate Planning isn't just a legal distinction—it's a strategic decision that could determine how well your wealth serves your family, both now and for generations to come. https://www.youtube.com/live/CzyssnZbzD0 We were deep into a conversation with Andrew Howell, one of the foremost estate planning attorneys in the country, when he casually dropped a statement that made us pause: "I haven’t drafted a new ILIT in over a decade." Wait… what? For those of us in the world of estate strategy, that kind of remark is the equivalent of a mic drop. And that’s when we knew: the conversation around trusts and legacy planning has shifted in a fundamental way. He wasn’t saying ILITs are obsolete—but that SLATs have become the preferred vehicle for families who want more than just a tax shelter. They want flexibility, values-based guidance, and multigenerational control. That one sentence reframed everything we thought we knew about irrevocable trust structures—and gave us a deeper commitment to educating families about their options. Why This MattersWhat Is a SLAT (Spousal Lifetime Access Trust)?What Is an ILIT (Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust)?SLAT vs ILIT for High Net Worth Estate PlanningAccess to FundsEstate Tax EfficiencyControl and FlexibilityLong-Term Legacy PotentialHow Dynasty Trusts Multiply the ImpactWhat This Means for YouBook A Strategy Call Why This Matters If you’re a high net worth individual navigating the estate planning world, you already know: it’s not just about minimizing taxes. It’s about maximizing impact. You want your wealth to do more than sit in a trust. You want it to: Empower your family. Pass on your values. Stay protected from taxes, lawsuits, and family fragmentation. Serve as a guiding structure for generational growth. That’s what today’s article is about. We’re unpacking SLAT vs ILIT for high net worth estate planning so you can: Understand the pros and cons of each structure. Learn how each trust operates in real-life scenarios. Discover which strategy aligns with your long-term legacy goals and family dynamics. And if you missed our previous post, The Pros and Cons of an ILIT, that’s a must-read companion to this piece. It sets the stage for why SLATs are now stealing the spotlight. The stakes are too high to leave this decision to a boilerplate legal plan or a one-size-fits-all document. You deserve a legacy plan as unique and dynamic as the family you’re building it for. Let’s get into it. What Is a SLAT (Spousal Lifetime Access Trust)? Bruce and I have seen this firsthand: a SLAT is one of the most powerful tools for families who want access, flexibility, and control—while also removing assets from their estate. With a SLAT, you gift assets into an irrevocable trust for your spouse’s benefit. This removes those assets (and any future growth) from your estate, reducing estate taxes and creating protection from creditors. But here’s the real magic: Your spouse can access the trust assets during their lifetime. You (the grantor) can indirectly benefit from those assets. You can build in trust protectors, distribution trustees, and managers for increased control and long-term accountability. And here’s where it gets even more powerful—many families are using SLATs as the foundation for their Family Bank strategy. That means the trust isn’t just a vault—it’s a lending institution. Your children or grandchildren can borrow from the trust to: Start a business Purchase a first home Fund their education But unlike a handout, these loans come with terms, accountability, and stewardship expectations. It’s not entitlement—it’s training. It’s a way to extend trust and responsibility. Andrew emphasized that in states like Nevada, South Dakota, and Delaware, the flexibility of SLATs increases even more.

The Power of a Love Letter When Shannon sat down to write her love letters to her children, she didn’t expect just how meaningful the process would be. What began as a simple act of putting words on paper quickly became one of the most profound steps in her family’s legacy journey. The letters reflected a lifetime of love, intention, and values that now had a permanent home. https://www.youtube.com/live/VzJGf5fD2Jk For Shannon and her husband, legacy planning for families wasn’t about cold documents or rigid legal structures. It was about love, clarity, and making sure their kids were taken care of—not just financially but emotionally and relationally. Not because of the words alone—though they were beautiful and heartfelt—but because those words captured something far deeper: a lifetime of intention, care, and values that now had a permanent home. For Shannon and her husband, legacy planning for families wasn’t about cold documents or rigid legal structures. It was about love, clarity, and making sure their kids were taken care of—not just financially but emotionally and relationally. This is the heart of legacy planning for families: making sure the people you love feel your guidance, presence, and blessing long after you’re gone. It’s not just about transferring assets—it’s about transferring identity, vision, and faith. And when done well, legacy planning becomes a source of peace, not pressure. Their journey through the Seven Generations Legacy process turned what they feared would be an overwhelming task into one of the most empowering experiences of their life. And they didn’t do it alone. They did it with guidance, structure, support—and a shared commitment to doing legacy differently. The Power of a Love LetterLegacy Planning for Families is More Than PaperworkStarting the Journey: A Shared Dream, Two Different PrioritiesBringing the Kids Into the ConversationWriting Love Letters: The Emotional Heart of the LegacyCreating a Structure That Feels Like Coming HomeWhy This Matters for Your FamilyLearn More in the Podcast EpisodeBook A Strategy Call Legacy Planning for Families is More Than Paperwork When most people hear "legacy planning for families," their minds jump straight to legal documents, trusts, and spreadsheets. But the truth is, your legacy isn’t built by lawyers alone. It’s not just about asset protection or tax strategy. As we learned from our client Shannon on the Money Advantage Podcast, the real work of legacy planning is deeply human. It’s about putting into words what matters most. It’s about facing the hard questions that too often get avoided. And it’s about making decisions now that reflect not just your net worth, but your heart. In this blog, we’re sharing the real-life story of Shannon and her family. You’ll walk through their experience of legacy planning with the Seven Generations Legacy coaching program, and come away with: A clear definition of what legacy planning for families actually involves A step-by-step account of how to design a plan that aligns money with mission A framework for engaging adult children in meaningful, productive ways Insight into why emotional clarity is just as important as financial clarity And encouragement to start your own journey before it’s too late Because this kind of work doesn’t just benefit your kids when you’re gone. It changes the way your family lives together today. Starting the Journey: A Shared Dream, Two Different Priorities When Shannon and David began this journey, they were on the same team but holding different blueprints. David’s background, having grown up with limited financial resources, made it important for him to build a financial legacy. For him, the goal was protection and provision. He wanted to pass along what he had worked so hard to build. Shannon’s focus was more relational. She wanted to ensure their kids had emotional security and that nothing about th...

I’ll never forget Bruce’s story about his car—check engine light on, a mechanic insisted it needed a $1,500 catalytic converter. Bruce knew better and fixed it by simply tightening the gas cap. That story isn't just about auto repair; it perfectly illustrates why questions a good financial advisor should ask matter. Without probing, you might be sold something you don't need. Competency—not just good intentions—matters. https://www.youtube.com/live/oyEbgdU1MGI It’s not about distrust—it’s about asking the right questions so you're not blindly following advice. And that principle applies fully when choosing a financial advisor, especially when your spouse might need to take over the reins someday. Why “Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask” Are Essential1. The Big Picture: Comprehensive Financial Planning2. Spouse Financial Preparedness: Including Both of You3. Risk and Protection: Insurance, Deductibles, and Peace of Mind4. Tax Strategy and Social Security Planning5. Legacy Planning: Aligning Values and Wealth Transfer6. Financial Alignment Between SpousesWhy You Need These QuestionsReady to Empower Yourself With Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask?Book A Strategy Call Why “Questions a Good Financial Advisor Should Ask” Are Essential Bruce makes a powerful point: finance isn’t limited to investment products. Just like a mechanic or doctor examines the whole system, a skilled advisor should ask questions that uncover your entire financial ecosystem. Without comprehensive inquiry, blind spots linger—insurance gaps, overlooked risks, or hidden fees can derail your legacy. Are you unknowingly trusting a financial advisor without knowing enough about your overall financial picture? In today’s complex financial world—from taxes and Social Security to estate planning, insurance, and cash flow—a narrow focus on one product is risky.Questions a good financial advisor should ask aren’t optional—they're essential. They give you clarity, align planning with your goals, and ensure your spouse is equipped to manage your shared financial future. 1. The Big Picture: Comprehensive Financial Planning Bruce sums it up: “You cannot make financial decisions in a vacuum.” Advisors who focus only on investments or insurance miss how those decisions affect cash flow, taxes, estate planning, and more. Ask: What are your current net worth and cash flow statements? How do your investments, insurance, and debts interrelate? Why it matters:Like a doctor who reviews your medical history before prescribing treatment, a competent advisor will want to see your full financial picture before making recommendations. 2. Spouse Financial Preparedness: Including Both of You Too often, one spouse is left out of discussions and can feel lost if the other dies.Key questions include: Who are your trusted advisors (financial, legal, tax)? Does your spouse know how to access online accounts, passwords, and digital assets? What’s your “Alternative Income Plan” for the surviving spouse? How comfortable is your spouse with the household financial framework? Bruce and Rachel discuss this as part of the LIFE framework: Liquid assets—money accessible within 15 minutes Income plan—monthly income goals Flexible investments—capital that can be reallocated Estate plan—how wealth transfers to future generations Both spouses should discuss and agree on how these pieces look today and tomorrow. 3. Risk and Protection: Insurance, Deductibles, and Peace of Mind Bruce shared his own experience with PNC: they asked about deductible choices and emotional tolerance for risk during the house fire recovery process.Essential questions a good financial advisor should ask include: What insurance do you have—life, disability, health, auto, home? Are deductibles appropriate to your cash reserves and risk tolerance? Are beneficiary designations updated and aligned with estate go...

I’ll never forget the moment my co‑host Bruce Wehner shared a powerful story: Nelson told his wife, Mary, “I need to teach you how to be a widow.” That striking phrase stopped us in our tracks. It wasn’t morbid—it was strategic. Nelson recognized that spouse financial preparedness is the cornerstone of true legacy planning. If your partner isn’t prepared to manage finances when the unthinkable happens, your careful planning unravels—and unintentional burdens form. https://www.youtube.com/live/bVBMnWHGp1Y In today’s fast-paced world, talking about money can be uncomfortable. But taking the time to ensure spouse financial preparedness isn’t just responsible—it’s transformative. As Rachel Marshall and Bruce Wehner, co-hosts of The Money Advantage Podcast, we’re here to walk you through why preparing your spouse is crucial, and how to do it effectively. By reading this article, you’ll discover: What “financial preparedness” truly means The critical pieces every spouse should know Practical tools we use with clients How to handle emotional differences in money habits A step-by-step framework to empower your spouse today Why Spouse Financial Preparedness MattersKey Areas for Spouse PreparednessIncome Plans—Now & ContingencyTaxes, Medicare & Social SecurityInsurance & ProtectionDigital Access & Password SharingEngaging Trusted AdvisorsThe LIFE Financial FrameworkManaging Emotional DifferencesTools & Rituals for PreparednessEquip Your Spouse. Protect Your Legacy.Book A Strategy Call Why Spouse Financial Preparedness Matters Bruce and I often see one partner “in the dark.” The hardworking spouse makes decisions—but the other may trust blindly, unaware of details. That puts them at risk—be it missing advisors’ phone numbers, not understanding insurance coverage, or worse: being blindsided by critical decisions. One case Bruce shared involved a wife who thought their net worth was minor—only to discover $30 million after her spouse had passed. Imagine the emotional shock—and legal busyness. That’s why spouse financial preparedness is a legacy necessity, not an optional extra. Key Areas for Spouse Preparedness To be truly ready, your spouse needs awareness and access across five areas: Income Plans—Now & Contingency Your spouse should understand both your current income strategy and what happens financially if one partner isn’t there. Bruce calls it having a “backup income plan.” Ask: what if I retire early? What if one income stops? Taxes, Medicare & Social Security One spouse passing makes tax filing switch to “single,” which can raise Medicare Part B and D costs by up to $500/month. Understanding IRMA brackets and how Social Security survivor benefits work is vital. A spouse who knows the rules won’t fall prey to unexpected costs. Insurance & Protection Life is unpredictable. Couples need clarity on life, health, disability, home, auto, liability—and how they work together. A clear policy keeps your spouse empowered and protected. Digital Access & Password Sharing In today’s digital age, locked-out accounts are a nightmare. Did you know iPhone allows a “Legacy Contact”? A shared password vault ensures your partner can access bank, utilities, email—and even that mysterious password for your favorite travel site. Engaging Trusted Advisors Make sure your spouse knows and trusts your financial, legal, insurance, and tax advisors. Ideally, they attend meetings together or at least meet face-to-face. That ensures seamless transition—and peace of mind—should something happen. The LIFE Financial Framework Bruce and I use a powerful acronym—L.I.F.E.—to frame preparedness: Liquid: How much cash is needed within minutes for emergencies? Income: Do you want fixed guaranteed income to cover essentials, plus variable funds for lifestyle? Flexible: Which assets can be repositioned for other goals—travel, education, emergencies?

How Much Life Insurance Do I Need? Why That’s the Wrong Question If you’ve ever asked, “How much life insurance do I need?”—you’re not alone. It’s a common starting point. But in this article, Bruce and I (Rachel) want to challenge that question and offer something better. Because "need" is often based on a survival mentality—what’s the bare minimum? But the real question isn’t about scraping by. It’s about what you want your life insurance to do—for you, for your spouse, for your children, and for future generations. https://www.youtube.com/live/xhGublGpz7w In this article, you'll learn: Why a needs-based approach might be leaving your family unprotected How to calculate a more empowering life insurance amount What insurance companies actually look for (and why you can't be "overinsured") The role of Infinite Banking in maximizing death benefit and legacy How to think long-term, strategically, and legacy-minded when it comes to life insurance How Much Life Insurance Do I Need? Why That’s the Wrong QuestionWhy My Husband’s First Thought Was Our Life InsuranceNeeds-Based Life Insurance Leaves You ShortThe Real Question: How Much Life Insurance Do I Want?Income Replacement + Future Value = What You’re Really ProtectingDeath Benefit Grows with Infinite BankingInsurability: Use It or Lose ItCost vs. Value: What Wealthy People UnderstandBuild a Life Insurance Strategy That EmpowersLearn More in the PodcastBook A Strategy Call Why My Husband’s First Thought Was Our Life Insurance Six years ago, I was in the ICU. My husband, Lucas, held our newborn baby girl as the doctors delivered updates that swung between hope and despair. One moment, it was "we stopped the bleeding," the next, "this is still serious." As he prayed through the fear and the unknown, one practical thought anchored him: We have life insurance. Not just any policy—we had as much life insurance as we could get. And in that moment, he knew he wouldn't have to make rushed decisions or shoulder financial pressure on top of emotional trauma. That policy was our safety net, our peace of mind. That’s why this conversation matters. It’s not just about numbers on paper. It’s about preparing for the moments you hope never come—and giving your family the ability to respond from a place of strength. Needs-Based Life Insurance Leaves You Short Most people approach life insurance with a checklist: Mortgage? Check. College for kids? Check. Debts? Check. Burial expenses? Check. And that’s how traditional advisors calculate the "amount you need." They total up obligations and say, “That’s your number.” But this method reduces life insurance to a bill-pay strategy. It doesn’t account for who you are, the value of your work, or the future your family deserves to continue building. In the Infinite Banking world, we don’t view life insurance as just a financial parachute. We see it as a tool for opportunity, a storehouse of value, and a means to start your family ahead, not just keep them from falling behind. The Real Question: How Much Life Insurance Do I Want? "Need" is survival. "Want" is vision. If your life insurance policy could fund your family’s future, preserve your estate, and launch the next generation into opportunity—how much would you want? Bruce and I often see families with grossly underfunded policies simply because they didn’t know what was possible. Insurance companies assess what’s called your human life value—a calculation of your income, age, and potential future earnings. Based on that, they allow you to apply for a corresponding death benefit. If you qualify for $4 million in coverage, it's because they believe your life’s economic value warrants it. You can’t be overinsured. The carriers won’t let you. So the real question becomes: If they’ll insure me for this amount… why wouldn’t I take it? Income Replacement + Future Value = What You’re Really Protecting

Lately, we’ve seen a troubling trend online. People—some well-meaning, some not—are sharing misinformation about mutual holding companies, claiming these companies are no longer mutually owned or that they’ve quietly abandoned their policyholders. That couldn’t be further from the truth. So Joe, Bruce, and I decided it was time to clear the air. Because when it comes to protecting your family’s legacy, clarity matters more than opinion. You deserve to understand the facts—not fear-based interpretations. And as we’ve seen too often, when confusion spreads unchecked, people start making financial decisions on the wrong foundation. That’s not stewardship. That’s reaction. Why We Had to Talk About Mutual Holding CompaniesWhat Is a Mutual Holding Company?Do Policyholders Still Have Ownership and Voting Rights?Why Would a Company Make This Change?Are Mutual Holding Companies Dangerous?What Does This Mean for Your Infinite Banking Strategy?What This Means for YouBook A Strategy Call Why We Had to Talk About Mutual Holding Companies When you use whole life insurance as a long-term asset—and especially when you're building a Privatized Banking System—you want to know the company you’ve partnered with is stable, aligned with your values, and built to honor policyholders for the long haul. That's why we recorded this episode: To define what a mutual holding company really is To contrast it with traditional mutual companies To explore how it affects voting rights, ownership, and trust And to provide clarity amid a cloud of online confusion Our goal is not to push any specific company, nor to attack those raising questions. But we do want to make sure the conversation is grounded in accuracy—because your stewardship depends on it. What Is a Mutual Holding Company? At its core, a mutual holding company (MHC) is a specific kind of corporate structure that allows a life insurance company to retain mutual ownership while gaining the flexibility to create stock subsidiaries. This means the parent company is still owned by policyholders, while the subsidiary has the ability to raise capital through stock offerings. Bruce broke it down this way: “A mutual company is owned by the policyholders... When it becomes a mutual holding company, it’s still owned by the policyholders, but they insert a stock company below that for reasons like expanding or raising capital.” This structural change is about flexibility—especially for future growth, acquisitions, or increased reserve requirements. It’s not inherently negative. It’s a strategic business decision, and it's one we should understand, not fear. Do Policyholders Still Have Ownership and Voting Rights? Yes—and this is where the misinformation gets loudest and most misleading. In a mutual holding company, policyholders still own the mutual holding company itself. That hasn’t changed. What has changed is that the operational insurance company underneath the holding company is now a stock entity—one that may have shareholders in addition to the parent company. Rachel explained: “There’s this perception that if a company becomes a mutual holding company, they’re no longer mutually owned... But that’s not true. The policyholders still own the mutual holding company. They still elect the board.” So yes, the structure is layered. But no, policyholders haven’t been stripped of ownership or voting rights. Joe added that this structure can even be a way for companies to avoid full demutualization, which would entirely sever mutual ownership. Why Would a Company Make This Change? There are many reasons an insurer might transition to an MHC: To raise capital for growth To meet solvency or reserve requirements To create a defensive structure to avoid hostile takeovers or future demutualization To diversify business offerings or form subsidiaries Bruce emphasized that mutual companies must act in the poli...

A few weeks ago, something special happened as we kicked off a podcast recording—Joe DeFazio held up a first edition copy of Becoming Your Own Banker by Nelson Nash. It had just arrived in his hands, passed down like a sacred trust. https://www.youtube.com/live/4MpwxirBpGA We weren’t in the same room, so Bruce and I couldn’t flip through the pages or feel its weight for ourselves—but even through the screen, we felt the gravity. Because legacy isn’t just a word. It’s a responsibility. A principle to be protected. A baton handed from one generation to the next. That moment with Joe sparked a powerful conversation—one that led us straight into one of the most debated and misunderstood topics in the Infinite Banking world: Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA). So we hit record. What This Article Will Help You UnderstandWhat Are Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA)?Why Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Sound So AttractiveThe Hidden Risks of SPUA-Focused Policy DesignWhat Nelson Nash Actually TaughtWhen Might Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Make Sense?Designing Policies with Stability, Not Just SpeedWhy This Matters to Your LegacyLearn More in the Full EpisodeBook A Strategy Call What This Article Will Help You Understand Whether you're new to Infinite Banking or already several policies in, the way your policy is designed will either set you up for long-term success or put you on shaky ground. In this article, you’ll learn: What a Single Premium Paid-Up Addition (SPUA) actually is Why it’s used and how it can be beneficial in certain scenarios The hidden risks of designing your policy with a large SPUA The difference between short-term cash value and long-term capital building What Nelson Nash really taught—and why his principles are more relevant than ever How to make smart, future-focused decisions about your family’s financial system This is for anyone who wants clarity, not confusion. Stewardship, not hype. And legacy, not just liquidity. What Are Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA)? Let’s define this clearly. A Single Premium Paid-Up Addition, or SPUA, is a one-time lump sum payment you make into your whole life insurance policy. This premium increases your death benefit and creates immediate cash value—without any future obligation to continue funding that specific rider. It’s often marketed as a fast way to “supercharge” your cash value in the first year of your policy. But here’s what we want you to know: while that may be true in the short term, SPUAs come with trade-offs that must be understood before you jump in. Why Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Sound So Attractive In theory, Single Premium Paid-Up Additions are incredibly appealing: You get immediate access to a large chunk of cash value You avoid the need to commit to an ongoing payment You increase the policy's death benefit right away You can “jumpstart” the banking process sooner If you just received a windfall—or you want liquidity right now—this can sound like the perfect fit. And that’s why it’s being marketed so heavily. But we urge you: don’t just ask what sounds good today. Ask what still works 30 years from now. Because when you dig into the details, you realize it’s not about how fast your policy can go. It’s about how well it can hold up when the storms come. The Hidden Risks of SPUA-Focused Policy Design Here’s where we need to slow down and talk about the bigger picture. When a policy is designed to accept a large SPUA, a few things must happen under the hood: The policy’s base premium is minimized A significant term rider is added to prevent MEC (Modified Endowment Contract) status The design often pushes the illustration right up to the IRS limits for tax-advantaged treatment This creates a fragile foundation. Think of it like this: if your policy is a sailboat, the base is the hull. The PUA is the sail.

In today’s post, Bruce and I (Rachel Marshall) want to bring you behind the scenes of a candid and educational conversation we had with Matt Ewald, Vice President of Life Insurance at Advisors Excel. If you’ve ever wondered when and why to use guaranteed universal life insurance (GUL) —especially in the context of estate planning—this one is for you. We’ve been having more and more conversations with families who aren’t just thinking about how to grow their wealth—but how to keep it intact for the next generation. And when estate taxes enter the picture, the stakes change. It’s not just about protecting income anymore—it’s about protecting impact. About making sure what you’ve built doesn’t get lost in fees, confusion, or government claims. Because when it comes to life insurance in the context of wealth transfer, you’re not just planning for protection—you’re planning for legacy. Let’s get into it. Why This Conversation MattersFrom Infinite Banking to Estate Strategy: A Shift in FocusGuaranteed Universal Life insurance 101: What It Is (and Isn’t)Estate Planning and the Tax ConversationThe Myth of “Set It and Forget It”What About Accessing Capital?Roth Conversions, IRA Taxes, and Legislative RiskThe Real Value: Peace of Mind, Not Just Rate of ReturnWhat We CoveredBook A Strategy Call Why This Conversation Matters If you’re like most of our clients, you’re already successful. You’ve created wealth, you’ve stewarded well—and now you’re asking deeper questions. Questions like: How do I pass on what I’ve built with intention? How do I shield my estate from unnecessary taxation? Is whole life the only tool for this? Or is there something else I should consider? In this blog, we’re breaking down exactly what guaranteed universal life insurance is, how it’s different from traditional IULs and whole life, and why it could be a strategic piece in your legacy plan. From Infinite Banking to Estate Strategy: A Shift in Focus We spend a lot of time on this podcast talking about whole life and its power as a privatized banking system—a way to store capital, access liquidity, and fund your life on your own terms. But not every financial goal calls for cash accumulation. Sometimes, the goal isn’t to use the money during your lifetime at all. It’s to transfer wealth efficiently, minimize estate taxes, and ensure your heirs receive more—without the friction and loss. And that’s where guaranteed universal life enters the scene. Guaranteed Universal Life insurance 101: What It Is (and Isn’t) Matt Ewald described guaranteed universal life insurance as a permanent term contract. That phrase stuck with me. Here’s what it means: GUL is designed to give you the most death benefit for the least premium. Unlike cash-rich whole life or traditional IULs used for banking or income, GUL is a protection-first strategy. The focus is not on growing cash inside the policy. The focus is on locking in a death benefit that will be there guaranteed—no matter what the market does. And what makes it guaranteed? The no-lapse guarantee rider. This rider is the linchpin. It says, “As long as you pay the premium exactly as illustrated, this policy will not lapse—no matter how the underlying market indexes perform, no matter what cap rates change, no matter what happens behind the scenes.” It’s simple. It’s predictable. And it’s ideal for estate planning when death benefit certainty is the priority. Estate Planning and the Tax Conversation Here’s the reality we’re facing: The estate tax exemption today is high—around $13 million per person. But it won’t stay there forever. Just 20 years ago, it was $1 million. And the political winds are already shifting toward reducing the exemption again. That means more families will face estate tax exposure in the future—even those who don’t consider themselves “ultra-wealthy.” And taxes at death are not just a theoretical prob...

There’s a story Buffy Ruthardt shared that still gives me chills. She and her husband Darren were on a drive, just processing life and legacy—wondering aloud what it might look like for their children to live in their inheritance while they were still alive. Not just financially, but spiritually, relationally, and generationally. It was a bold idea. But they didn’t know how to do it. No roadmap. No clarity. No strategy to get there. And then… they heard a Facebook ad for Seven Generations Legacy®. That was the nudge. They followed that moment of divine appointment to begin faith-based legacy planning, and today, their family is operating with a whole new level of clarity, unity, and purpose. “We were doing our best… but we had no tracks to run on.”Faith-Based Legacy Planning in ActionFrom Disconnected Assets to a Unified Legacy VisionThe Meaning: Writing Down the Culture That Was Already ThereThe Mechanism: Getting the Legal and Structural House in OrderThe Money: From Siloed Accounts to Stewardship StrategyThe Fruit of Faith-Based Legacy Planning: Family Meetings, Health Goals, and a Future PodcastWhat It Really Means to Align Wealth with ValuesWant to Build Your Own Legacy?Book A Strategy Call “We were doing our best… but we had no tracks to run on.” I’ll never forget this moment. Buffy and Darren sat across from me on Zoom, eyes bright with conviction, reflecting on their journey. They’d built a beautiful life—decades of hard work, provision, blessing. But as they looked at their children, now adults, they knew something deeper was stirring. “We had direction,” Buffy said, “but no map.” That’s when they found the Seven Generations Legacy® Coaching Program. And everything changed. They weren’t just searching for a way to preserve wealth. They were on a mission to steward something sacred: their faith, their values, and the legacy they knew God had placed in their hands for generations to come. Faith-Based Legacy Planning in Action When we talk about faith-based legacy planning, we’re not just talking about trust documents or estate strategies. We’re talking about shaping the kind of family culture that lasts beyond your lifetime. That’s what Darren and Buffy came looking for—and that’s what they built. They had wealth. They had faith. They had a vision. What they needed was a mechanism. At The Money Advantage™, we don’t talk about inheritance the way the world does. This isn’t about how much you leave—it’s about what you leave in the people you love. If you’ve ever thought… “I’ve built something valuable—but how do I pass it on with meaning?” “Our kids aren’t quite ready… but I want to guide them.” “We have the assets, but not the structure. Where do we start?” …then you’re not alone. And this story is for you. In this episode of The Money Advantage™ Podcast, we unpack their full journey—from feeling stuck with disjointed entities and unspoken hopes… to confidently stewarding their family’s meaning, mechanism, and money with purpose.We’ll walk you through Darren and Buffy’s real-life experience using the Seven Generations Legacy® process, including: Why they felt stuck, even after decades of success How they aligned their faith, finances, and family The power of creating meaning and mechanism—not just money What happened after they hosted their first Family Legacy Summit This isn’t theory. This is transformation. If you’ve ever wondered how to truly align your values with your wealth—or how to pass on something deeper than money—this story is for you. From Disconnected Assets to a Unified Legacy Vision Darren and Buffy didn’t come to Seven Generations Legacy empty-handed. They had two decades of successful business ownership, investments, and assets. But what they didn’t have was an integrated plan—or a way to ensure it wouldn’t all unravel when passed to the next generation. They weren’t falling apart.

Let me tell you a quick story. Imagine walking into your local grocery store, grabbing a can of peas, and sneaking out the back door without paying. It sounds ridiculous—maybe even unethical, right? Now, imagine the opposite: You pick up the same can, go to the register, pay for it, and walk out the front door with a receipt in hand. https://www.youtube.com/live/GZ7wNDb-ugY That simple act—paying at the register instead of sneaking out the back—perfectly illustrates one of the most misunderstood aspects of how to design a whole life policy for Infinite Banking. In the world of Infinite Banking, how you design your policy—how you pay into it, structure it, and use it—determines whether you’re building a self-sustaining system or just draining your wealth through the back door. Why Policy Design Isn’t Just Technical—It’s TransformationalWhy Most People Start Too Small—or Too FastHow to Design a Whole Life Policy for Infinite Banking That Lasts a LifetimeUnderstand the Balance: Base Premium vs. PUAYou’re Plugging Into a 200-Year-Old Business ModelCompound Interest Only Works If You Stop Interrupting ItLegacy Isn’t a Caboose—It’s the EngineWhat Happens When You Design It RightBook A Strategy Call Why Policy Design Isn’t Just Technical—It’s Transformational Most people hear about infinite banking and jump to the mechanics: “Just get a whole life policy, borrow against the cash value, and repeat.” But here’s what they don’t realize—the policy design is the difference between building a thriving family banking system and being stuck in financial frustration. It’s not just about having a policy. It’s about knowing how to design a whole life policy for infinite banking that supports liquidity, growth, leverage, and generational transfer. In this blog, we’re going to walk you through: Why policy design matters more than people think The difference between base premium and paid-up additions (PUAs) The hidden costs of “high cash value” quick starts How to build a system of policies, not just one Why thinking generationally changes everything By the end, you’ll understand exactly how to create a design that serves your financial life now and becomes a blessing to future generations. Why Most People Start Too Small—or Too Fast We see it all the time. Someone discovers infinite banking and gets excited. They want a policy with the most cash value right now. And that’s not wrong—it’s just shortsighted. Here’s the truth: Policies that prioritize high early cash value often sacrifice long-term performance. The reason? To make those numbers work, designers load up the policy with PUAs (paid-up additions) and sometimes minimal base premium. That means you get very high liquidity early, yes—but you may cap out your insurability and miss the long-term efficiency that comes from a well-balanced policy. As Joe put it: "The only truly bad policy is the one that uses up all your capacity and then handicaps you from fixing it later." The real win is designing a policy you can grow with—and expand into a system over time. How to Design a Whole Life Policy for Infinite Banking That Lasts a Lifetime Nelson Nash, the father of infinite banking, made it crystal clear: You’re not solving your entire banking need with a single policy. You’re building a system—a privatized family banking system that scales with your life. If you view your first policy as the only policy, you’ll over-optimize for short-term performance and miss the compounding tailwinds available when you structure for longevity. Instead, when you're considering how to design a whole life policy for infinite banking, think in terms of scalability. Start with one. Make sure it’s structured well. Then expand. Think of it like building a fleet of airplanes, not just one solo jet. Each new policy adds to your system's speed, altitude, and carrying capacity. Over time,

It started with a bold question that showed up in a public comment: "If infinite banking is so powerful, why wouldn't I just put all my income into a whole life policy?" That single comment sparked a deeply layered, thoughtful conversation that we knew needed more attention. It wasn't criticism. It was curiosity. And curiosity, when channeled with wisdom and humility, can be a catalyst for generational transformation. So today, we’re opening up that conversation—and giving you the full picture of what it really means to go "all in" with infinite banking. What You’re Really Asking When You Consider Putting All Your Income into a Whole Life PolicyShould You Really Put All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy? (The Real Answer May Surprise You)The Spirit Behind the Question Think Long Range: The Power of Time Don’t Be Afraid to Capitalize—But Be Strategic Policy Design: Base vs. PUA, and Why It Matters Understand Insurability and Premium Affordability Sustainability Is Freedom The Danger of Over-Leveraging and Poor RepaymentWhy All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy Shouldn’t Be Your Only StrategyBook A Strategy Call What You’re Really Asking When You Consider Putting All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy The idea of putting all your income into a whole life policy sounds bold—even radical. And in the context of the infinite banking concept (IBC), it’s a question worth exploring. As someone who's lived and breathed this philosophy, I (Rachel Marshall) have heard this question before. And in this conversation with my colleague Joe DeFazio, we wanted to approach it with both clarity and candor. Because here’s the truth: Yes, whole life insurance and infinite banking can be incredibly powerful tools for financial freedom, stewardship, and legacy-building. But like any strategy, the design and implementation matter. In this article, we're going to unpack the principles behind the idea of putting all your income into a whole life policy, the risks, the benefits, and most importantly—the mindset that helps you use this tool to its fullest, most sustainable potential. You’ll learn: - Why infinite banking isn't just about the numbers—it's about long-term thinking - The role of policy design and insurability - How to balance capitalization with sustainability - Why freedom comes through commitment Let’s dive in. Should You Really Put All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy? (The Real Answer May Surprise You) If you're asking whether to put all your income into a whole life policy, you’re not alone. It’s a question we hear often—and for good reason. The Infinite Banking Concept is compelling. It gives you control, liquidity, privacy, and long-term access to capital. It feels like the financial tool we’ve all been waiting for—and in many ways, it is. But let’s be clear: Infinite Banking is a system. Not a silver bullet. Going "all in" on a whole life policy without the right structure is like planting seeds without soil. Yes, premium matters. But without a clear understanding of how that premium fits into your broader wealth strategy, you could easily find yourself over-leveraged and cash-strapped. Nelson Nash taught us that capitalization is essential, but he never said to abandon wisdom in the process. That’s why our answer is almost always: no, don’t put all your income into a policy. Instead, fund it based on your long-term strategy, your liquidity needs, your investing rhythm, and your ability to keep the policy active through every season of life. Think marathon, not sprint. When clients ask this question, we gently guide them back to the deeper one: What are you really trying to build? Because when you understand the real vision, your policy becomes a tool—not a trap. The Spirit Behind the Question We weren’t offended by the question. Quite the opposite. It takes courage to ask, "Why not go all in?" But before we can even answer that,

Recently, Bruce shared a story that perfectly illustrates unexpected life challenges—his basement flooded, turning a peaceful Easter weekend into an emergency cleanup session. Just as unexpected problems can flood your home, unanswered financial questions can flood your business strategy, especially questions like: "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?" https://www.youtube.com/live/crKKtLvZ44k Tax questions, much like sudden home repairs, can disrupt your carefully planned financial landscape. Whether it's water damage or unclear tax regulations, not addressing the problem can lead to costly mistakes down the road. Today, Bruce and I aim to clear up one of these significant financial uncertainties for business owners. Why Understanding Life Insurance Deductions MattersUnderstanding the Deductibility of Life Insurance PremiumsCan You Deduct Life Insurance PremiumsThe Supreme Court’s Stance and Its ImplicationsStrategic Ways to Indirectly Deduct PremiumsAvoiding Short-Term Tax MistakesContracts vs. Accounts: Ensuring Long-Term CertaintyNavigating Complexity with Professional HelpThe Strategic Power of Life Insurance PremiumsBook A Strategy Call Why Understanding Life Insurance Deductions Matters The question "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?" isn't just a minor tax issue—it's central to building an efficient, effective, and robust financial strategy. Life insurance policies are powerful financial tools that, when used correctly, can significantly enhance your financial well-being. However, misunderstandings about their tax implications can lead to missed opportunities or even costly errors. In this detailed article, you'll gain clarity regarding the question "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?", the rationale behind IRS rulings, practical and legitimate strategies to indirectly achieve similar benefits, and the pitfalls to avoid in your quest for tax efficiency. By mastering these concepts, you'll be well-equipped to incorporate life insurance intelligently into your broader financial planning strategy. Understanding the Deductibility of Life Insurance Premiums Can You Deduct Life Insurance Premiums Bruce frequently encounters confusion among business owners about deducting life insurance premiums. Let’s clear this up immediately: in most cases, you cannot directly deduct life insurance premiums from your taxes if the business owner benefits directly from the policy. The IRS views this scenario as lacking genuine "economic substance," as the policyholder ultimately recoups these premiums through a tax-free death benefit, meaning there's no real economic loss to justify a deduction. The Supreme Court’s Stance and Its Implications Bruce highlighted a crucial Supreme Court ruling that set clear boundaries for tax deductions related to life insurance. This landmark decision explicitly stated that deducting premiums or interest on life insurance loans is generally not permissible when the insured party directly benefits. The reasoning is straightforward: since you or your estate will eventually receive these premiums back in the form of a tax-free death benefit, the premiums do not represent an actual financial loss or expense that justifies a tax deduction. Understanding this ruling can save you from potentially costly mistakes and help you align your tax strategies with IRS expectations. Strategic Ways to Indirectly Deduct Premiums Despite the restrictions, Bruce and I discussed legitimate and strategic methods to effectively reduce taxable income and indirectly finance life insurance premiums: Employing Family Members: Bruce pays his father for legitimate business-related marketing tasks. As his father falls into a lower tax bracket, this transaction reduces Bruce’s taxable income and generates additional cash flow, indirectly supporting life insurance premium payments. Paying Your Children: Another powerful strategy is employing your children within your bus...

When we first started talking about estate planning with life insurance, it was because we saw a massive disconnect in how families were thinking about their wealth. Not just the numbers. But the purpose behind it. https://www.youtube.com/live/sqVXY199ygQ Bruce and I were in the middle of one of our deeper conversations—talking through how most people think life insurance is just a “check the box” kind of thing. They get the policy, set up a will or trust, and assume their family is covered. But what they haven’t thought through is how that money will be used. What it’s meant to fund. What kind of mindset or framework their children need to carry it forward well. Bruce said it best in the episode: “You’ve got a bunch of people out there who are trying to do the right thing—but they’re buying the wrong tool for the job. Or they’re leaving out the whole reason they got it in the first place: to provide for their family in a way that actually works.” And that’s what this article is about. This isn’t just about life insurance. It’s about using the right kind of policy inside an estate plan that’s built for generations, not just legal compliance. It’s about creating a strategy that protects your wealth and prepares your children. It’s about designing a legacy—on purpose. What Is Estate Planning with Life Insurance—and Why Does It Matter?Why Estate Planning with Life Insurance Creates Immediate LiquidityWhole Life Insurance vs. Universal Life: Why Guarantees MatterUsing Life Insurance to Offset Estate Taxes and Preserve WealthPassing on More Than Money: Embedding Stewardship Into the PlanDesigning Your Policy Without Triggering a MECWhen Estate Planning with Life Insurance Is Part of a Bigger VisionWhat the 2026 Estate Tax Sunset Means for Your FamilyWhat Is an ILIT—and Why You Might Need OneQuick-Start Checklist: How to Begin Estate Planning with Life InsuranceFinal Thoughts: Don’t Let the Opportunity Slip AwayWant Help Designing Your Legacy Strategy?Book A Strategy Call What Is Estate Planning with Life Insurance—and Why Does It Matter? Estate planning with life insurance is one of the most overlooked but powerful ways to ensure your family is protected, your assets are preserved, and your values are carried forward with intention. It's not just about paying estate taxes or transferring wealth efficiently. Done right, it gives your heirs time, options, and guidance. It replaces financial panic with peace of mind. And it makes sure that what you've built doesn't just last—it multiplies. If you have real estate, a business, investments, or a vision for generational wealth, this is a conversation you cannot afford to postpone. Why Estate Planning with Life Insurance Creates Immediate Liquidity Here’s what most people don’t realize: When you pass away, even if your estate is “in order,” your heirs may be stuck needing to pay estate taxes within nine months. If your wealth is tied up in real estate, private equity, or business holdings, your family might be forced to sell those assets at a loss—just to pay the bill. That’s where life insurance for estate taxes becomes mission-critical. With a guaranteed death benefit, whole life insurance creates instant liquidity—giving your family the cash they need to cover expenses, hold onto appreciated assets, and stay out of financial distress. In the episode, Bruce shared, “The beauty of this strategy is that it gives you certainty. And certainty is a gift—especially when the world is reeling from loss.” This is what makes estate planning with life insurance such a foundational part of a healthy, functional legacy plan. Whole Life Insurance vs. Universal Life: Why Guarantees Matter Not all life insurance is built to withstand the test of time. Bruce and I have reviewed countless policies that looked good on paper—but were designed with the wrong product. Universal Life policies may seem attractive because of ...

Today, Bruce and I want to unpack a question we frequently encounter: Is cash value life insurance enough for retirement? It’s a compelling question, but one without a simple yes or no answer. The effectiveness of cash value life insurance as your primary retirement vehicle heavily depends on your personal discipline, your overall financial strategy, and, importantly, your understanding of what retirement means to you. https://www.youtube.com/live/rASx9CvIpbg When I started my financial career back in the late 1980s, a presentation caught my attention. It claimed that by consistently funding a whole life insurance policy, individuals could join the "Lucky 3%"—those who felt completely secure about their retirement. This idea was captivating, promising financial freedom through disciplined saving. Yet, over the years, I discovered something crucial: consistency, discipline, and long-term thinking significantly outweigh the choice of any specific financial product. The Retirement Dream vs. RealityIs Cash Value Life Insurance Enough for Retirement?Defining Retirement: What Does It Really Mean?The Importance of Consistent Savings and DisciplineWhole Life vs. VUL and IUL: Stability and GuaranteesThe Myth of "Zero is Your Hero" in Indexed Universal Life (IUL)Cash Value Life Insurance as Part of a Comprehensive Retirement PlanThe Infinite Banking AdvantageCan You Rely Solely on Cash Value Life Insurance?Book A Strategy Call The Retirement Dream vs. Reality By the end of this article, you will clearly understand whether cash value life insurance—such as whole life, variable universal life (VUL), or indexed universal life (IUL)—can sufficiently fund your retirement. We'll explore the advantages and drawbacks of using life insurance as your main retirement tool, emphasize the critical importance of consistent saving, and outline how to effectively integrate life insurance into a comprehensive retirement plan for optimal security and growth. Furthermore, you’ll understand why no single financial instrument is perfect for everyone, and why a diversified, well-balanced retirement strategy that includes guaranteed income, buffer assets, and growth-oriented investments can lead to lasting financial security and peace of mind. Is Cash Value Life Insurance Enough for Retirement? Defining Retirement: What Does It Really Mean? Many of us grow up envisioning retirement as a milestone where we stop working at age 65 and comfortably live off our accumulated savings. However, this traditional model presents significant challenges. The reality is that you're often expecting 40 years of work to fund potentially 30 or more years of retirement, especially as life expectancy increases. Rather than viewing retirement as an abrupt halt to working life, a more sustainable approach is to see retirement as a transition to financial independence. Instead of merely accumulating savings, focus on acquiring cash-flowing assets, such as rental properties, dividend-producing stocks, or profitable businesses, which can continuously generate income regardless of market fluctuations. The Importance of Consistent Savings and Discipline Bruce emphasizes that consistent saving and disciplined behavior are the foundation of successful retirement planning. Unfortunately, many people fall short in their savings efforts early in life, later attempting to compensate by chasing higher-risk investments for potentially greater returns. This strategy often introduces unnecessary risk precisely when financial security is most critical. Establishing disciplined savings habits early and maintaining them throughout your career is far more important than selecting the "perfect" financial product. Time and consistency enable compound growth, providing greater financial security in your retirement years than riskier, late-stage investments ever could. Whole Life vs. VUL and IUL: Stability and Guarantees

If you've ever tried leading a Zoom call while your screen goes black mid-sentence, you know the feeling of being out of control. That’s how many of us feel about our finances right now—like we're one loose cable away from a crash. But here's the truth: financial control is closer than you think. And in today’s global economy, understanding how tariffs impact your wallet is one of the most important steps you can take toward that control. https://www.youtube.com/live/h01G_m8bLZ8 Tariffs aren't just political decisions or international trade policy. They’re reflections of how governments try to create balance—or power—in global commerce. But more importantly, they create real ripple effects that reach your dinner table, your savings account, your job, and your family’s financial future. This blog unpacks what’s often misunderstood and overly politicized: how tariffs actually impact you, and what you can do about it. Loose Cords and Loose MarketsWhy Tariffs Are a Bigger Deal Than You RealizeWhat Is a Tariff, Really?The Global Game: Who's Tariffing Whom?How Tariffs Impact Your Wallet: The Ripple Effect on Main StreetWhy Infinite Banking Matters More Than EverAddiction to Consumption: The Root ProblemCapital is King: The Real Asset You NeedWhat This Means for YouGo DeeperBook A Strategy Call Loose Cords and Loose Markets I (Rachel) kicked off our latest podcast battling a finicky laptop cord, and Bruce teased me about Lucas not fixing it for years. It was a funny moment, but it carried deeper meaning. Because isn’t that how most people treat their finances? Wiggling a connection, hoping the lights come back on, but never really fixing the root issue. That feeling of financial "blinking out" is more common than you think—especially when tariffs and stock markets are headlining the news. You hear phrases like "trade war," "GDP contraction," or "market instability," and panic starts to creep in. But that’s why Bruce, Joe, and I sat down—to pull back the curtain and bring clarity to the chaos. Why Tariffs Are a Bigger Deal Than You Realize Tariffs aren’t just a headline. They directly affect your cost of living, your investment portfolio, the strength of the business you work for, and even the longevity of your retirement plan. It’s all connected. We broke down what tariffs really are, why they’re used, and how to navigate them strategically so you can: Stay calm in market turbulence Make empowered financial decisions with real data Build real, generational stability that transcends market noise If you're wondering how tariffs impact your wallet, you're not alone. You're also not powerless. Understanding is the first step to taking action. What Is a Tariff, Really? Joe reminded us that tariffs are nothing new. They’re simply taxes imposed on imported goods. Historically, they funded the U.S. government before income taxes ever existed. That’s how essential they once were. There are three main types: Per-unit tariffs Percentage-based tariffs Compound tariffs They can seem like just a cost. But the intent, often, is to level the playing field when other countries use low-wage labor, environmental shortcuts, or subsidies to artificially drive down their prices. Tariffs raise the cost of those goods to reflect what they would cost if they were made under more equal conditions. So when people ask, "Why pay more?" the better question might be: "What are you supporting when you choose cheap?" The Global Game: Who's Tariffing Whom? The global playing field isn’t level. Most countries impose heavy tariffs on U.S. exports, while the U.S. has traditionally kept the door open wide. For instance, Australia sold $29 billion in beef to the U.S., but the U.S. sold zero to Australia due to their sky-high tariffs. Our market welcomes their goods, but they protect theirs from ours. That creates a one-way street—and it impacts more than foreign relations. It hits U.S.