The Boundless Show

Being salt and light when you’re mostly around Christians, plus hope for those who lack career ambition, and making career and family work. Featured Resource: Know Your Why: Finding and Fulfilling Your Calling in Life Featured musical artist: Danen Kane Roundtable: Finding the Lost Around You If you go to church and small group and have mostly Christian friends, you may need to be really intentional about seeking relationships with those who don’t know Christ. Our guests have lived in various aspects of the “Christian bubble” but have gotten creative when it comes to befriending and sharing Jesus with non-Christians. Listen in to learn from their example and gain courage to represent Christ where you live, work and play. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: I Don’t Have Career Goals You have a job but you’re not ambitious, and you can’t really think of any lofty career goals. Is something wrong with you? Ken Lane has transitioned multiple times in his career. From technology to non-profit to executive coaching, Ken answers whether you have to be passionate about your job, what it looks like to be open to opportunity, and how to trust God in the process of crafting your career, regardless of how excited you are about it. Inbox: Do Career and Family Mix? How do you balance a desire for a career with settling down and having a family? Bry Shirin weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Tips for adulting well, plus Rebecca George on why waiting on God is worth it, and good interpersonal skills you need to succeed at work. Featured musical artist: Ginny Owens Roundtable: Things You Need as an Adult We could all learn a million things, but what do you actually need to know to be a mature adult? We interview a panel (in their 60s and 70s) on the necessary skills you need to function well in life. They’ll share about what it was like for them as young adults, and things they’ve learned from seeing their kids reach adulthood. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Waiting on God–It’s Worth It! After being in twelve weddings herself, Rebecca George wondered, “When is it my turn?” Now as a married woman, she looks back on seasons of waiting, and what God taught her during those times. If you feel like you’re in a waiting period–let’s face it, we all are–you’ll be encouraged by Rebecca’s story. She’ll also give some ideas for how to handle rejection well. You’re Not Too Late: Trusting God’s Timing in a Hurry-Up World Visit Rebecca’s Website Inbox: Interpersonal Skills You Need We’re all trying to grow in people skills, but what are the things that matter most for helping you succeed in your career? Career expert Ken Lane weighs in. Find us on YouTube If you enjoyed listening to The Boundless with Lisa Anderson, please give us your feedback.

Joy and purpose in singleness, plus a single guy’s take on being unmarried, and is it ever time to give up on marriage completely? Featured musical artist: James Peden Roundtable: What to Love About Being Single Singleness isn’t a death sentence. The Bible considers singleness a noble calling, so whether you’re content as a single or you’re praying for a mate, use your single season to grow, serve, build relationships, learn and embrace adventure. In honor of National Singles Week, our guests, all single, share their best stories and advice for embracing singleness with confidence and joy — and taking time to enjoy the ride. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Making the Most of Singleness Bob Wheatley was a pro baseball player. He’s now a brand strategist, author, speaker — and single guy. He recently wrote a book about navigating life as an unmarried man in his early 30s, and what it looks like to walk in faithfulness today while hoping for marriage in the future. Bob uses everything from the words of Paul to lessons from his own life to outline the advantages of singleness, the need for accountability and friendship, and the blessings of trusting God with your single season. Single-Minded: Finding Purpose & Strength in Your Season of Singleness Visit Bob’s Website Inbox: Is It Time to Become a Nun? Our listener is discouraged and wants to know if she should give up on marriage and consign herself to a nunnery. Lisa Anderson weighs in. Find us on YouTube If you enjoyed listening to The Boundless Show with Lisa Anderson, please give us your feedback.

Connecting with old friends, plus “Duck Dynasty’s” Mia Robertson, and wanting invites from families at church without being awkward. Featured musical artist: Ellie Holcomb Roundtable: Friends From the Past Childhood friends, high school friends, college friends — even friends from places you’ve lived in other parts of the country or world. You have shared memories, but is there value in actually reconnecting with pals from the past? Our guests talk about their successful and unsuccessful attempts to reach out to old friends, plus what they gained from doing so, and what they learned. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Mia Robertson From “Duck Dynasty” Daughter of “Duck Dynasty” stars Jase and Missy, Mia Robertson grew up in the Hollywood spotlight. Born with a cleft palate and the subject of public scrutiny, her personal journey hasn’t been easy. Now in her 20s and with multiple surgeries behind her, Mia is focusing on her college studies, fronting a busy charity, and living out her faith in the ups and downs. You’ll make a new friend in Mia as you hear her inspiring story. Hold Hope: Encouragement for Christians with Chronic Pain Visit Mia’s Website Inbox: Can I Hang With Your Family? You want to be invited into the lives of families at your church, but is there a way to indicate interest without being awkward or invasive? Counselor Kari A weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Standing for your convictions without losing a relationship, plus hope for alcohol addiction, and should non-drinkers only date other non-drinkers? Featured musical artist: About a Mile Roundtable: When Friendship Tests Your Faith As Christians, we’re called to be lights in a dark world. But when you have to stand up for truth among friends and colleagues who challenge your beliefs, how do you stay strong? What’s the motivation and means of making and growing friendships with those who are apathetic or hostile to biblical truth about life, sexuality — even the gospel itself? Guests Glenn and Kat have found a way to keep their faith front and center in friendships with non-Christians. You’re guaranteed to find their stories inspiring and challenging as you ponder how to love God and love others without selling out. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Straight Talk About Booze Dr. Trent Langhofer has long been a licensed therapist and addiction recovery counselor — after years of being an addict himself. He knows the temptation that drugs and alcohol present in a culture where isolation, busyness, comparison and anxiety have a hold. So what’s the straight story on booze? What’s OK and what’s too much? Do your reasons for drinking matter? What about social drinking? How do you know you have a problem, and what’s the first step to doing something about it? Trent joins us to dole out facts, and more importantly, offer hope and healing steps for those ready to take a new look at their relationship with alcohol. Love Life Sober: A 40-Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind Article: The Latest Buzz Around Christians and Alcohol Link to Counseling Services Dr. Trent’s Bio Inbox: Can You Ask Your Date Not to Drink? As a teetotaler, she’s wondering if she should only date guys who don’t drink. Or if they do, can she ask them to stop? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Enjoying sports without letting them own you, plus career experts on common problems at work, and developing a Scripture-reading habit. Featured Resource (GOAA): Grace at Work: Redeeming the Grind and the Glory of Your Job Guests: Jesse Florea, Jonathan Jenkins, Rachel Pfeiffer, Marshonda Dixon, Bryan Gilman, Jenn Scheck, Lisa Anderson Featured musical artist: Jonathan Cain Roundtable: Sports Fandom Gone Too Far Fall is synonymous with football, so consider this your friendly reminder that in addition to your commitment to your favorite team, you also have a job, friends, family and a life. Seriously, whatever your sport of choice, it’s easy to get caught up in your team’s schedule, stats, players and performance. Sports are fun, but is there a way to be a fan without compromising your emotional, relational, financial and even spiritual health? This week we’re hearing from almost-addicts who’ve learned to temper their love for the game with a sense of priority and balance. They’ll talk their favorite teams (and athletes and events), but also strategies for staying grounded in a sports-filled life. Guests: Jesse Florea, Jonathan Jenkins, Rachel Pfeiffer Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Dealing With Problems at Work Workplace relationships can be tough. Even if you work from home and your only coworker is your cat, you still have bosses, vendors, clients and competitors. Most of us would love to be part of a healthy work culture, but what does that entail? How do you handle issues with a fellow employee or client? Should you confront them directly? Get your boss involved? Take it to HR? What’s a strategy for addressing office gossip or sabotage? How can you assert yourself at work without being labeled a jerk? Our panelists are experts in workplace performance and relational dynamics. They’ll share their best tips for winning at work — interpersonally and beyond. Guests: Marshonda Dixon, Bryan Gilman, Jenn Scheck GOAA Offer: Grace at Work: Redeeming the Grind and the Glory of Your Job Inbox: Discipline for Reading Scripture How do you cultivate a consistent habit of Bible reading? Do certain tactics work for some and not for others? How do you find a good rhythm and stick to it? Lisa Anderson weighs in. Guest: Lisa Anderson Find us on YouTube

The value of thoughtfulness, plus Dr. Gary Chapman on boundaries between young adults and their parents, and Lisa shares tips for going out alone. Featured musical artist: Love and the Outcome Roundtable: You’re So Thoughtful! An encouraging text message, a quick hug, or help with a difficult task. Some people are just thoughtful. We brought some of the most sincerely kind people we know into the studio for a conversation on how to show thoughtfulness to others. From handwritten notes to a listening ear to a helping hand, there are many ways to show others you care. If you’re someone on the giving or receiving end of thoughtfulness, you know what a difference it makes. Listen in for practical ways to strengthen your thoughtfulness muscle. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Watch This Segment on YouTube Culture: Boundaries With Mom and Dad One of the most challenging transitions of young adulthood is leaving home and redefining the relationship with your parents. In some cases the transition is a smooth one — others, not so much. What do your parents need from you as you stake your independence, and what does it look like to honor them while also forging healthy boundaries? Relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman shares from personal and professional experience how to have honest conversations with your parents to ensure the best relational outcomes. Your New Life with Adult Children: A Practical Guide to What Helps, What Hurts, and What Heals Learn About Dr. Chapman & The Love Languages Inbox: Hanging Out Alone You want to do things solo, but is that weird? And is there a better-than-average way to go about getting your alone time? Lisa Anderson weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Trusting God’s love when you don’t feel it, plus how skeptics strengthened Justin Brierley’s faith, and balancing reverence and honesty in prayer. Featured musical artist: Austin Stone Worship Roundtable: Does God Really Care About Me? It’s easy to say “Jesus loves me” in church or when things are going well, but how do you have the faith to say it when God feels incredibly distant? What if circumstances in your life challenge your perception of His goodness, and now you’re wondering if He’s even there? Our guests open up about difficult seasons they’ve been through, the lies they’re tempted to believe about God and themselves, and what it looks like to fight for faith. If you’re wondering if God cares — not in general, but about you in particular — you’ll be encouraged by their stories. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Why I’m Still a Christian When was the last time you shared your faith with a non-Christian? Justin Brierley has been conversing with atheists and agnostics (including Richard Dawkins) for years, and he’s passionate about equipping believers to examine secular arguments, test them with Scripture science, and common sense, and then be lights in our culture’s darkness. If you’re intimidated by unbelievers’ unbelief and what they have to say about it, Justin will help you find both courage and kindness for the conversation. Why I’m Still a Christian: After Two Decades of Conversations with Skeptics and Atheists–The Reason I Believe Watch This Segment on YouTube Visit Justin’s Website Hear Justin on the ReFocus Podcast Inbox: Yelling at God When life is hard and you’re sad, angry, disappointed or scared, how do you pray honestly to God while still showing reverence and respect? Pastor Mark Bates weighs in. Find us on YouTube

How dating impacts other relationships, plus navigating changes in your doctrinal beliefs, and a commitment-phobe’s guide to serving at church. Featured musical artist: Abandon Roundtable: Maintaining Friendships While Dating It happens all too often: You have great friendships and a robust social life. You’re involved in church and maybe even have a mentor. But soon after you start dating, things change. You spend more and more time with your bf or gf, and other relationships start to fade. You don’t think you have time for them. You’re so caught up in this new person that other people take a back seat. Some changes are expected, but what does it look like to date and navigate engagement in a way that still preserves the other important relationships in your life? Our panel weighs in. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Why Doctrine Matters A listener recently contacted us, saying some of their Christians beliefs on secondary issues have changed since childhood. Now they’re wondering how to have conversations about these topics (baptism, worship styles, election, etc.) with their friends and family members. Pastor Mark Bates shares how to approach doctrinal topics with grace while keeping your focus on unity in the body of Christ. True Community: The Biblical Practice of Koinonia Inbox: I Want to Serve but Am Afraid to Commit Our listener wants to start serving at church but is afraid to commit to a church home. What’s the core issue here? Pastor Vince Hoppe offers advice. Find us on YouTube

A beginner’s guide to camping, plus David Mathis on honoring God with our fitness, and should you date coworkers? Featured musical artist: Hollyn Roundtable: Camping for Average People Camping is a fun outdoor activity to do with friends and family, but if you don’t know what you’re doing it can be pretty intimidating. What should you pack? How do you cook food? Should you go with expert campers or strike out on your own? Our guests have experience pitching tents, sitting by campfires, and seeing the stars at night — but they all consider themselves “average” campers in ability and know-how. They’ll provide attainable tips for your next camping trip, especially if you’re a beginner. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: A Theology of Exercise Does God care if you’re hitting the gym? Or getting any exercise at all? According to David Mathis, part of us being equipped for service to God is having bodies that are able to do so. He shares scriptural reasoning for prioritizing movement as not only “taking care of your temple” but as an act of worship. He also tells the story of being convicted on this topic, how he started adding fitness to his life, and how staying active helps your body, brain and spirit. A Little Theology of Exercise: Enjoying Christ in Body and Soul Inbox: Should You Date a Coworker? Is it a good idea to date a work colleague? HR expert Marshonda Dixon weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Tips for getting a first date, plus lessons from a man’s spiritual deconstruction, and when your girlfriend hangs out a lot with her gay friends. Featured musical artist: Kerrie Roberts Roundtable: Want to Get Coffee? Asking a girl out isn’t easy; it requires courage. But for many men, their approach is awkward, ill-planned, and lacking confidence — if they summon the nerve to ask at all. Is there a way to ask a woman on a date without making it weird? Our panel of men offers helpful tips from the trenches. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Lessons in Deconstruction Nicholas McDonald grew up with a faith that was often formulaic: Do this and get that result from God. But after experiencing the death of his brother and going on a missions trip to another country, Nicholas grappled with the definition of true faith and what Christian beliefs are actually biblical, not just based on tradition or cultural norms. He shares his story with us and models what it looks like to follow Jesus even when you have difficult questions. Inbox: My Girlfriend Spends Too Much Time With Her Gay Friends Our listener is concerned about his girlfriend hanging out with her longtime guy friends who identify as gay. Is it time for a hard conversation? Jeff Johnston weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Tips for getting a first date, plus lessons from a man’s spiritual deconstruction, and when your girlfriend hangs out a lot with her gay friends. Featured musical artist: Kerrie Roberts Roundtable: Want to Get Coffee? Asking a girl out isn’t easy; it requires courage. But for many men, their approach is awkward, ill-planned, and lacking confidence — if they summon the nerve to ask at all. Is there a way to ask a woman on a date without making it weird? Our panel of men offers helpful tips from the trenches. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Lessons in Deconstruction Nicholas McDonald grew up with a faith that was often formulaic: Do this and get that result from God. But after experiencing the death of his brother and going on a missions trip to another country, Nicholas grappled with the definition of true faith and what Christian beliefs are actually biblical, not just based on tradition or cultural norms. He shares his story with us and models what it looks like to follow Jesus even when you have difficult questions. The Light in Our Eyes: Rediscovering the Love, Beauty, and Freedom of Jesus in an Age of Disillusionment Inbox: My Girlfriend Spends Too Much Time With Her Gay Friends Our listener is concerned about his girlfriend hanging out with her longtime guy friends who identify as gay. Is it time for a hard conversation? Jeff Johnston weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Your role as an aunt or uncle, plus lessons learned in climbing mountains, and house rules for when a roommate starts dating. Featured musical artist: David Dunn Roundtable: Influence Your Nephews and Nieces Having nieces or nephews is a tremendous amount of fun — but do you know you can also have a huge impact on their lives? Spending time with them, setting a good example, teaching life skills, and just letting them know they’re loved; these all make a huge difference in their development and sense of identity and belonging. Our conversation includes practical ideas for connecting as an aunt or uncle, plus how to stay in your nieces’ and nephews’ lives even if they live far away. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Climb Every Mountain (Or at Least One) July 30th is National Climb a Mountain Day, and we’re celebrating by chatting with hiker-adventurer Jen Smith. Jen shares how she got into mountain climbing, the benefits it provides, how she meets God (and others) on the trails, and lessons she’s learned from training and traveling (including a trip to Nepal!). She’ll also give preparedness tips for safe and successful hiking. Rooted in Wonder: Nurturing Your Family’s Faith Through God’s Creation Inbox: When a Roommate Starts Dating How do you adjust when your roommate starts dating and wants to hang out in your home with their boyfriend or girlfriend? Should you set ground rules? Boundaries? Kasie Ewing weighs in. Find us on YouTube

Making mentorship matter, plus a practical look at financial stewardship, and growing spiritually as an individual and as a couple while dating. Featured musical artist: Nathan Tasker Roundtable: Meaningful Mentorship Part of being in community is teaching and learning from one another. Mentoring is a creative way to do this whether you’re the mentor or mentee. Mentoring relationships can be discipleship-oriented, skills-based, character-building, or all of the above. Our guests have led and learned from others in everything from Christian living to pickleball to marriage prep to financial counseling. They’ll inspire you to find opportunities to invest in others regardless of where you are in life. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Managing God’s Money You may say you don’t have much money, but do you ever think about how it’s all God’s, anyway? Too often we treat what we earn and spend as “ours,” but Scripture reminds us that we are only stewards of what God gives. This perspective shift is exactly what Bill and Dana Wichterman passionately impart to those they coach. Their thoughts on giving, saving, spending and eternal rewards will forever change the way you view finances and their presence in your life. Bill and Dana’s Website: StewardsNotOwners.com Stewards Not Owners: The Joy of Aligning Your Money with Your Faith Inbox: Spiritual Growth While Dating What are solid ways to keep up your own spiritual growth while dating? And how can you grow in Christ as a couple? Dr. Greg Smalley weighs in. Find us on YouTube Link to Counseling Services

Forgiveness according to Jesus, plus more tips on how to read a room, and if your boyfriend doesn’t budget, is that a red flag? Featured musical artist: Aaron Shust Roundtable: What Forgiveness Is and Isn’t July 7th is National Forgiveness Day, so we’re having a hopeful and practical conversation on how to walk in forgiveness as a Christian. Usually it’s a process, not just a one-time decision, but is there a “right” way to view the act of forgiving? What does the Bible say about it? We talk about how we’ve forgiven those who’ve hurt us, the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, and why forgiveness matters in the first place. Forgive for Real: Six Steps to Forgiving Watch This Segment on YouTube Link to Counseling Services Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: How to Read a Room (Part 2) Have you ever gotten an incorrect read on what’s going on in a meeting, friend group or social situation? Most of us have. Whether you’re an extrovert or introvert, emotional intelligence and discernment are relational muscles to develop. Our friend Dr. Mike Bechtle is an expert in career and professional development. His tips for how to read a room, assess a situation and win in social and business environments will save you years of trial and error. In part two of our interview, Mike outlines practical steps for how to communicate appropriately both verbally and in emails, texts, on social media and more. How to Read a Room: Navigate Any Situation, Lead with Confidence, and Create an Impact at Work Inbox: My Boyfriend Doesn’t Budget Her boyfriend doesn’t have a budget, but is this a valid reason to end the relationship? A counselor weighs in. Find us on YouTube Link to Counseling Services

Things we love about America, plus how to read a room, and what if you catch feelings for someone who isn’t a Christian? Featured musical artist: All Sons & Daughters Roundtable: What We Love About the United States Many people like to criticize the United States. Even US citizens love to bag on our country, and while many of our shortcomings are real and even serious, it’s also good to remember what’s good about this nation. As we celebrate Independence Day, we have a conversation about what the United States has gotten right, both now and in the past. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: How to Read a Room (Part 1) Have you ever gotten an incorrect read on what’s going on in a meeting, friend group or social situation? Most of us have. Whether you’re an extrovert or introvert, emotional intelligence and discernment are relational muscles to develop. Our friend Dr. Mike Bechtle is an expert in career and professional development. His tips for how to read a room, assess a situation and win in social and business environments will save you years of trial and error. In part one of our conversation he addresses the need for interpersonal experience, why “fake it till you make it” is a bad strategy, and how to avoid misreading someone’s intentions. How to Read a Room: Navigate Any Situation, Lead with Confidence, and Create an Impact at Work Inbox: Feelings for a Non-Believer Our listener is asking how she can work through having feelings for a guy who isn’t a Christian. Lisa Anderson weighs in. Find us on YouTube Link to Counseling Services

Successful small groups, plus what compatibility in marriage looks like, and what if your date was previously married? Featured musical artist: Love and the Outcome Roundtable: Church Small Group Success We all long for community, and as Christians one of the best ways to cultivate deep relationships is in a small group with others from your church. But what actually makes a small group successful? We interviewed pastors and small group leaders to discover how to find a small group, what to look for, how to plug in, and what to expect from the experience. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Visit Dani’s Website Vince’s Church Website Culture: Should You and Your Spouse Be Compatible? It seems like dating sites and relationship experts talk a lot about compatibility. What is compatibility, and does it matter in marriage? If so, in what areas, and how do you go about finding or cultivating it? And what about “opposites attract” or the benefit of being complements to each other? Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley separate fact from fiction when it comes to compatibility and relational dynamics, specifically in the search for a mate. Ready to Wed: 12 Ways to Start a Marriage You’ll Love Read Greg’s Article: 12 Questions Every Father Should Ask His Future Son-In-Law Listen to Greg and Erin’s Podcast: Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage Inbox: Dating Someone Who’s Been Married What do you do with concerns about your date having been married before? What should you find out on the front end? Erin Smalley weighs in. Find us on YouTube Link to Counseling Services

Ordering your life, plus how to build a relationship with your future in-laws, and should you wait until you’re married to buy a house? Featured musical artist: Hollyn Roundtable: Get Your Priorities Straight We’re all guilty of procrastination, wasting time, and over-cluttering our schedules. As adults, we know we should do better, but where do we start? How can we prioritize our lives to make time for what’s really important? Our guests share their own struggles and strategies for how to find time for God, family, friendships and responsibilities, while also making space for rest and fun. Watch This Segment on YouTube Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Know Your Future In-Laws A relationship with your in-laws can be wonderful, or it can be difficult and even complicated. Finding an appropriate relational balance is tricky, as is establishing boundaries and closeness. Most of these efforts start during dating and engagement, so what does it look like to pursue a healthy relationship on the in-law front? Relationship experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley explain how they navigated in-law relationships, what challenges they experienced, how they had hard conversations, and what loving an extended family looks like. Ready to Wed: 12 Ways to Start a Marriage You’ll Love Read Greg’s Article: 12 Questions Every Father Should Ask His Future Son-In-Law Link to Article: Myths and Realities of Extended Families Inbox: Should I Be Married to Buy a House? Buying a house is one of the biggest decisions you’ll make. Should you wait until marriage to take the plunge? Recent homebuyer Ryan Wall weighs in.

What makes someone a best friend, plus research on why men fall in love more quickly, and is our listener trying hard enough to find someone? Featured musical artist: Kerrie Roberts Roundtable: Who Is Your Best Friend? Who is someone you consider a best friend? Getting to that level of relationship with another person takes time, intention, and the willingness to resolve conflict and give grace. Our guests share about their best friends, what makes a best friend, ways to overcome relational barriers, and how to take friendship to the next level. Read Lisa’s Article: What is a Best Friend? Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Culture: Can’t Help Falling in Love Recent research indicates that men statistically fall in love more quickly than women. Why is this and how does it play out? Glenn Stanton is a family researcher at Focus on the Family. He shares findings from a study on the subject and what they mean for the world of dating and relationships. Watch This Segment on YouTube The Sacred Search: What if It’s Not About Who You Marry, but Why? Read Glenn’s Article: Who Falls in Love Faster, Men or Women? Inbox: Am I Trying Hard Enough to Date? Have you recently been asked why you’re still single? And does it make you wonder if you’re trying hard enough to find someone? A counselor shares some encouragement. Link to Counseling Services Find us on YouTube

Motivation for starting over, plus a marriage expert says when to tie the knot, and balancing Christian community with non-Christian friends. Featured musical artist: David Dunn Roundtable: National Start Over Day A breakup. A job layoff. An unmet goal. When failure, loss and disappointment happen, sometimes the best thing you can do is press reset. Today is National Start Over Day, and if you need a second (or third, fourth or fifth) chance, you’ll be encouraged by our guests’ stories as they share what it’s like to start over when life knocks you down. Send Us Your Show Ideas Leave Us a Voicemail Link to Counseling Services Culture: Is It Time to Propose? Some people date for years, others for only a few months. There’s not a one-size-fits-all approach to moving toward marriage, but there is wisdom in knowing when to get engaged. What should you know about your boyfriend or girlfriend? About yourself? How can you tell the difference between cold feet and red flags? Bob Paul is a marriage therapist with both expertise and cautionary tales aplenty. He’ll help you parse out what you must know before deciding to tie the knot. Ready to Wed: 12 Ways to Start a Marriage You’ll Love Link To Hope Restored Empowered to Love: Discovering Your God-Given Power to Create a Marriage You Both Love Inbox: Balancing Christian vs. Non-Christian Friends How do you know if you’re spending enough time with your Christian friends? How about your non-Christian friends and neighbors? Lisa Anderson weighs in. Find us on YouTube