Not Well | A Comedy Podcast

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into the unexpected announcement of President Biden stepping down, sparking a chaotic and humorous discussion about the political landscape. They express shock at the news, joke about Kamala Harris possibly becoming the next president, and comment on the absurdities of the political world, including Biden's physical struggles and Kamala's public persona. The hosts speculate on the implications of Harris's potential presidency, highlighting her public image and the comedic elements of her speeches. They also share personal anecdotes, including a recent wild weekend involving pool parties, bars, and meeting podcast listeners. The conversation shifts to their upcoming camping trip, where they discuss their insecurities, especially around body image and perceptions among their friends. The episode is peppered with lighthearted banter about their daily routines, such as the annoyance of morning rituals and the hilarity of public bathroom etiquette. Bobby and Jim also express their growing disinterest in straight spaces and the mundane nature of straight social events, preferring instead the freedom and excitement of gay gatherings. They end the episode with a humorous reflection on their shared experiences and a lighthearted sign-off. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. We kick things off with laughs and excitement, diving into a hilarious Ashley Tisdale video sighting. The conversation spirals into unexpected territory with mentions of bacterial vaginosis, stolen voices, and some notable cuts that keep everyone in stitches. Bobby then takes the stage to critique the Grammys, throwing shade at a four-time nominee and questioning the validity of music awards. The tea spills over Billie Eilish vs. Charlie XCX, societal biases, and some juicy personal anecdotes about cocaine use, high blood pressure, and the absurdities of workplace food theft. As if that wasn't enough, we also tackle political violence, the role of religion in society, and why certain political figures desperately need a reality check. Next, we dive into social observations and personal realizations, starting with tales of not noticing women and 'dick scanning' in Park City. The discussion shifts to the impact of transphobia and Matthew Shepherd's tragedy, interspersed with Aunt Lisa's hilarious 'ugly hot' celebrity game. We share our camping anxieties and excitement for 'Squirt weekend' at Camp Buck Wood, complete with public sexuality stories, 'sack diversity,' and 'ball painting.' We also humorously plan to call our campsite 'El Campground' for 'cis campers' and end with one of us feeling 'concrete legs' from being high, reflecting on life's novelty and excitement. The edible-fueled introspection continues with insights on autism, sensory overload during Notre Dame football games, and the beauty of solitude. We recount prime dining hall moments and the serenity of an overhead fan, blending humor with heartfelt exploration of personal growth and self-acceptance. Then, we tackle a beefy misunderstanding (not the food kind) and invite lesbians and gays to share their views on each other, aiming to compare notes and add some spice to the conversation. From there, we recount our bar outings, discussing social expectations and incidents like clapping at a bar, inquiries about Jimmy Carter, and a peculiar prayer to Helen Keller. Miscommunications, parade mishaps, and brunch party proposals highlight our social (mis)adventures, leading to reflections on organizing community events and improving social gatherings. Finally, we delve into vulnerability, body image, and social dynamics. We discuss the need for air conditioning, feelings of vulnerability in showers among friends, and personal grooming strategies. Observations on dental hygiene linked to sexual behavior, critiques of cycling attire and behavior, and whimsical musings about encountering Big Bird round out the fun. We conclude with an invitation for the LGBTQ+ community to share their perspectives, encapsulating discussions on personal vulnerabilities, societal observations, and the importance of community engagement. Join us for this whirlwind of laughs, snark, Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of 'Not Well,' hosts Bobby and Jim return from a pool session donning pink Speedos and dive into their usual humorous banter. They discuss everything from their forced poolside attire to the influence of their drunk sunglass escapades. Bobby identifies strongly with Hannah from the TV show 'Girls,' comparing himself to her while poking fun at the show's dramatic elements. They also touch upon various humorous topics such as gym etiquette, the peculiarities of cats, and the absurdity of fireworks celebrations. The podcast also features a voicemail rant that spirals into discussions on the absurdity of actor method performances, particularly criticizing character actors like Daniel Day-Lewis. The episode concludes with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their experiences at a recent Pride event, expressing their frustrations with their jobs, and diving into a discussion on social norms and expectations while humorously maintaining their trademark light-hearted tone. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this hilariously chaotic episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim kick things off with a nostalgic trip down memory lane, reminiscing about their childhood memories with Muzzy, the language bear. They humorously recount the bizarre yet endearing commercials that convinced American children they could effortlessly learn French. This blast from the past sets the stage for the duo's trademark blend of humor and irreverence as they segue into their recent adventure-filled trip to New York City. Their New York escapade is nothing short of unpredictable. From attending jock nights to indulging in Michelin star sushi, Bobby and Jim leave no stone unturned. They vividly describe the scene at the jock night, where modesty was nowhere to be found, and everyone was flaunting their assets. Bobby shares a particularly embarrassing moment involving a toe cap floating in a pool, while Jim talks about dealing with the aftermath of a shawarma feast that led to the infamous sulfur burps. Their detailed accounts of navigating Brooklyn’s quaint neighborhoods, braving unexpected thunderstorms, and dining under the Brooklyn Bridge paint a vivid picture of their adventure. The episode doesn't shy away from the raw and risqué aspects of their trip. From candid discussions about sexual encounters at nightclubs to humorous takes on the peculiarities of gay nightlife, Bobby and Jim keep the laughter rolling. They recount perusing different rooms in search of the perfect partner, the awkwardness of making eye contact with someone less appealing, and the barbaric yet thrilling nature of these experiences. Their unfiltered storytelling captures the essence of their spontaneous and adventurous spirit, offering listeners a rollercoaster ride of humor, irreverence, and candid commentary on the eccentricities of gay life and travel. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. ***Warning*** Bobby is hammered Hello, darlings! Buckle up for another electrifying episode of "Not Well" with your favorite disaster duo, Bobby and Jim! Tonight's show is serving up a cocktail of chaos, comedy, and maybe a touch of public indecency. As you hear this, we’re probably knee-deep in Pride festivities, or as we like to call it, "Jock Night," where our busses and dicks are out in full celebratory swing. 🌈 Happy Pride, everyone! While you might be waving your rainbow flags, we're out here reminiscing about my sixth-grade girlfriend, Dee Dee, who later revealed she was a lesbian. Shout out to you, Dee Dee! Isn't it wild seeing people live their authentic lives? It’s all about being true to yourself, folks. Now, speaking of authenticity, we’re breaking down what it means to be genuinely not well. Whether it's dodging overpriced vodka Red Bulls at VIP events or avoiding the soul-crushing mediocrity of a corporate Pride parade, we're here to spill the tea and maybe a few cocktails. Pride is all about embracing who you are, even if that means wearing a thong and chaps to a party and having a ball (literally) pop out. Who knew fashion could be so hazardous? And let's not forget the new trend of GMEs (Gay Man Magnets). We're ready to pull in every hot guy from here to New York! We also dabble in the absurdity of themed parties and the struggle of dressing up. Honestly, the effort is exhausting, but when you turn heads in a thong, it's all worth it. So, whether you're a muddy bottom or a dirty side, remember to speak your truth and live authentically. Join us in this absolutely unhinged episode of fun. And to all our listeners, happy Pride and happy straight Pride to those watching the airshow in Grove City. Stay fabulous, stay true, and we'll see you next time on "Not Well." Adios, amigos! 🌈✨ Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this outrageous episode of "Not Well," Bobby and Jim dive into a whirlwind of unfiltered hilarity and unexpected revelations. They start with Bobby's new venture, Sugar Daddy's Creamery, which prompts a bizarre yet amusing discussion on homemade ice cream flavors. The conversation spirals into chaotic territory, touching on everything from embarrassing nudist magazine photoshoots to their struggles with addiction, where Bobby hilariously admits to his gambling problem and past smoking habits. As they discuss body image and confidence, the duo doesn't shy away from poking fun at their own quirks and insecurities, leading to laugh-out-loud moments about bread bowls, dry mouth nightmares, and the awkwardness of hook-ups. They also tackle serious topics with their signature humor, including a heartfelt voicemail about autism and the challenges of growing up undiagnosed. The episode is peppered with random asides, such as bizarre encounters with elderly women at an ice cream shop, musings on human motivation driven by envy, lust, and jealousy, and a hilarious critique of Columbus trying to be a "big city." Bobby and Jim's dynamic banter, combined with their no-holds-barred commentary, makes this episode a rollercoaster of comedy and candidness. Bobby was out of control so get ready. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim celebrate Pride Month with a humorous and cringeworthy intro, discussing LGBTQ+ identity and a quirky butter shop deal. They share their reactions to a listener's voicemail, sparking a deep discourse on public harassment, emergency responses, and Pride Month's diverse reactions. The conversation also covers corporate pride fatigue, activism, and the impact of religious and community cults. This episode critiques societal values, freedom, and social constructs, with a humorous take on parenthood, social pressures, and personal stories. The hosts also delve into diverse perspectives on fitness events, the philosophy of existence, and life's interconnectedness, wrapping up with light-hearted banter and a call to support through merch purchases. 00:00 Introduction and Awkward Start 00:12 Pride Month Celebrations 00:19 Butter Shop Deals and Drawn Butter Discussion 00:47 Crab Legs and Seafood Talk 02:09 Sweating and Ear Irrigation 02:49 Google Voice Voicemail 03:07 Thatcher's Voicemail and Public Harassment 07:20 Pride Month Reflections and Corporate Pride Critique 12:51 Marjorie Taylor Greene Rant 22:03 Cult Documentary Discussion 34:12 Debating College Affordability 34:54 Armed Resistance and Self-Defense 38:22 Parents and Their Expectations 43:47 High School Memories and Senior Pictures 47:41 Rants on Public Behavior and Personal Preferences 57:45 The Reality of Running and Fitness Culture 01:05:08 Existential Thoughts and Reincarnation 01:07:29 Closing Remarks and Announcements Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this lively and unfiltered episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim dive into a myriad of topics, blending humor, personal anecdotes, and candid discussions on controversial issues. The episode kicks off with the hosts bantering about their recent experiences, including unexpected and awkward encounters with strangers. They recount a night out where Bobby found himself in an alley with a surprise penis in front of him, leading to a hilarious recounting of their adventures. The conversation then shifts to Bobby's attempts at playing a game of seduction, which he humorously admits is not going well. Jim teases Bobby about his direct approach to flirting and seduction, contrasting it with his own more coy and strategic methods. They discuss the concept of seduction techniques, drawing from the book "The Game," and how these tactics apply (or don't apply) in the gay community. Bobby shares his thoughts on the privilege and entitlement of celebrity children, particularly targeting Northwest and her Broadway debut, which he humorously compares to a "Make a Wish" performance. The hosts also delve into their own childhood memories, touching on moments that may have hinted at their sexual orientation from a young age. A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to a discussion on neurodivergence, with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their own experiences and traits that might suggest they are on the autism spectrum. This leads to a broader conversation about how they navigate social interactions and sensory overloads in crowded or noisy environments. The episode takes a serious yet comedic turn as the hosts express their frustration with societal expectations and the constant need to censor themselves to avoid offending others. Bobby passionately declares that he will no longer hold back and will speak his mind, regardless of potential backlash. The hosts wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to call in and share their most unfiltered thoughts and opinions, promising to protect their anonymity. They emphasize the importance of authenticity and honesty in their interactions, both on the podcast and in their personal lives. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. Hosts: Bobby and Jim Opening Remarks: Main Segments: Reacting to Political Drama:Commentary on Celebrity News:Personal Anecdotes:Cultural Observations:Listener Engagement:Future Topics:Closing Remarks: This episode features a mix of humor, personal stories, and social commentary, staying true to the podcast's theme of exploring diverse a Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. The latest episode of "Not Well" features a lively and diverse array of topics including biting parrots, unconventional mattress activities, the phenomenon of whiskey dick, and humorous pool party antics. Bobby and Jim also share their thoughts on circuit gays, their experiences in high school, and amusing stories from their past. The episode kicks off with Bobby and Jim reflecting on their recent conversations, touching on amusing incidents like biting parrots, whiskey dick, and even cucumber cutouts. They discuss the idea of becoming circuit gays, a subculture within the gay community known for their party-centric lifestyle, and question if they're inadvertently becoming part of that scene. They also delve into their high school years, with Bobby admitting to cheating his way through school and even creating fake progress reports. Jim shares his experiences in Mexico, emphasizing the ease of getting through customs and his various adventures, including balcony sex and mingling with fellow tourists. The episode wraps up with discussions on their upcoming trips, social events, and the realization that they might indeed be circuit gays, but with their own unique twist. Overall, it's a humorous and candid episode that showcases Bobby and Jim's dynamic and entertaining friendship. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "Not Well," the hosts engage in a vibrant and eclectic discussion that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting the podcast's signature mix of humor, candor, and edgy commentary. The episode kicks off with tales from a recent trip to Mexico, highlighting the hassles of dealing with customs and the quirky inconveniences of travel. This sets the stage for a deeper exploration of personal experiences and societal observations. A humorous and somewhat graphic segment unfolds as one host discusses the effects of eating a large quantity of grapes, which leads to an unexpected and uncomfortable digestive reaction, humorously detailing the trials of dealing with a stomach upset from seemingly innocent healthy snacks. This personal anecdote spirals into a broader discussion on how everyday choices, like diet or travel, can lead to unforeseen consequences. The conversation takes a playful turn with a discussion on physical discomforts associated with everyday objects, specifically the thumb pain experienced from holding Outshine bars too long. This lighthearted complaint is juxtaposed with a more serious contemplation of health and illness as they touch on the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge, bringing a moment of reflection on community support for diseases. Throughout the episode, the hosts weave a theme of interconnectedness, musing on how everything from personal health to travel experiences are linked, creating a tapestry of life's oddities and adventures. They philosophize about the universe's bizarre connections, suggesting that every action and decision is part of a larger, interconnected system, whether it's dealing with customs in foreign countries, dietary repercussions, or the simple act of eating an icy treat. Overall, this episode encapsulates the essence of "Not Well," blending the trivial with the profound in a way that keeps listeners both entertained and reflective, always coming back for more of the unique takes on the chaotic journey of life. GayTravel, LGBTComedy, QueerLife, GayHealth, DragCulture, QueerVoices, LGBTQPodcast, GayHumor, QueerReflections, GayCommunitySupport, LGBTQLifestyle, GayBanter, QueerJourneys, GayExperiences, QueerInterconnectedness Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. Tune in to this week’s episode of "Not Well" where hosts Bobby and Jim navigate the chaotic and often hilarious realities of gay life with unapologetic honesty and sharp wit. In "Embracing the Chaos: Humor and Real Talk," listeners are treated to a no-holds-barred discussion that spans the complexities of health, personal anecdotes from gay camps, and candid insights into relationships within the LGBTQ+ community. Episode Highlights: Medications and Mishaps:Life at Gay Camp:Unfiltered Sexuality and Social Interactions:Aging, Appearance, and Self-Perception:Casual Banter and Social Commentary:Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In this episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim engage in a candid and freewheeling conversation that spans a wide array of topics, reflecting their podcast's ethos of exploring hot topics and deep dives into various societal issues. Their dialogue traverses the lighthearted to the serious, offering both humor and insight. Key Subjects Covered: Lifestyle and Leisure Social and Cultural Commentary Mental Health and Emotional Well-being Travel and Adventures Humor and Edgy Commentary Detailed Exploration: Throughout the episode, Bobby and Jim maintain a dynamic and engaging dialogue that keeps the listener entertained and involved. Their conversation is punctuated with laughter, comedic timing, and an evident chemistry that highlights their long-standing friendship and shared history. They touch on the importance of authenticity in media and personal expression, subtly critiquing the often sanitized nature of public discourse. The episode is not just about sharing laughs but also about the deeper connection that comes from sharing real-life experiences and opinions, however controversial they may be. The hosts' discussion about mental health is particularly poignant, offering a blend of personal vulnerability and supportive camaraderie that many listeners might find both relatab Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements in medical understanding and treatment. This is juxtaposed with a lighter, though no less complex, exploration of bathhouse culture, where anonymity and adventure collide, offering a glimpse into the less-discussed corners of gay social life. As the episode unfolds, the conversation pivots to relational dynamics, particularly the caution advised when younger gay men interact with significantly older men. This topic opens a broader discussion on the nuances of mentorship, exploitation, and companionship within the community. In a shift towards the personal, the hosts share a humorous yet telling incident from a family group chat that surprises everyone involved, revealing the unexpected ways in which modern technology can alter family interactions. This familial theme is tenderly expanded as they reminisce about the bonding experiences between grandparents and grandchildren, illustrating the threads of connection that span generations. Midway through the episode, the dialogue takes a whimsical turn with discussions about living out a fantasy life with a hypothetical $10 million, and the comedic yet poignant mishaps during a karaoke session involving offensive language, highlighting the social sensitivities and the sometimes-blurred lines between humor and offense. The episode also delves into cultural trivia with a debate on what exactly corned beef is, proving that even the most mundane topics can spark engaging banter. As the hosts recount their adventures walking to a gay bar and the stark differences in perceived attractiveness standards in Columbus versus NYC, they unpack the complex interplay of beauty, body image, and self-esteem within the gay community. Concluding the episode, discussions become introspective and critical as the hosts discuss vacation planning around sexual adventures, punctuality in social engagements, and the evolving dynamics on platforms like Grindr regarding gender identity and tucking. These conversations not only reflect personal growth and community changes but also challenge the listeners to think about acceptance, respect, and the diverse ways of being within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. The episode wraps up with plans for a trip to New York City in June, promising more stories, reflections, and undoubtedly, a few misadventures, cementing "Not Well" as a podcast that both entertains and enlightens its audience. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo. Bobby kicks things off with an enthralling recount of his New York City adventures, from the vibrant gay nightlife at the Eagle to an unexpected experience of an earthquake. His stories of freedom, sexual exploration, and candid social interactions in the city's bars provide a deep dive into personal liberation and the complexities of identity expression in such open environments. Jim, not to be outdone, steers the conversation towards a lighter, yet equally thought-provoking direction, discussing the peculiar charm of candy cigarettes. This leads to a nostalgic journey back to childhood, questioning the impact of such products and the oddities of marketing strategies aimed at children. Front porch parties come under Jim's scrutiny next, where he humorously contrasts them with their backyard counterparts, drawing on personal anecdotes to illustrate the unique social dynamics they foster. Jim's reflections are a humorous ode to community gatherings and the subtle societal cues that dictate our social interactions in these spaces. The conversation takes another turn as Jim shares his musings on Shih Tzu dogs, adding a dose of humor to the episode. His comedic take on pet preferences and the personalities of different dog breeds elicits laughter while subtly questioning why we gravitate towards certain pets. Throughout the episode, a hilarious incident involving the TSA and a personal item of Bobby's offers a moment of comic relief, highlighting the absurdities often encountered during travel. This story ties back to the overarching theme of the episode: navigating the unexpected with humor and grace. 00:00:00 - Introduction and playful banter about upcoming trip and bear parties 00:03:09 - Reaction to a voicemail about JVN's appearance and past 00:10:34 - Allure and societal implications of candy cigarettes 00:16:49 - shih tzu and bacon. 00:19:57 - Reflections on front porch parties. 00:23:29 - Encounter with TSA over a personal item 00:23:51 - Coining the summer's hottest insult: "Creole banjee bitch." 00:39:29 - Exploration of sexual freedom and experiences at a gay bar in NYC. 00:45:33 - Earthquake experience in NYC, adding an unexpected twist to the trip. 00:52:00 - Delving into Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. Hey there, our fabulous "Not Well" listeners! It's your favorite dynamic duo, Bobby and Jim, back at it again with another episode that's sure to have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even clutching your pearls a little bit. So, let's dive right in, shall we? We couldn't resist starting off with the hot mess express that is the "plane lady" fiasco. I mean, come on, what kind of cocktail was she on? We're thinking a generous pour of Xanax, a splash of Ambien, and maybe even a sprinkle of meth for that extra oomph. But hey, we're not judging… okay, maybe a little. Moving on to the queen herself, Lizzo. Girl, what is going on? Taking a break? We need to talk about this. And don't even get us started on her dance crew and the desperate need for a "glow up." We're here to spill the tea, and trust us, there's plenty to go around. On a more personal note, yours truly just celebrated 12 years of living my best life in Columbus. Can you believe it? Leaving the nest and spreading my wings was the best decision ever. And speaking of leaving the nest, is it just us, or is it trippy to watch our siblings become parents? Like, suddenly they're all "mom" and "dad," and we're over here still trying to figure out how to adult. Okay, let's talk about something that really grinds our gears: the pharmaceutical industry. Have you seen the prices of drugs like Ozempic? It's like they're trying to bankrupt us while lining their own pockets. It's time for a reality check, folks. And finally, the solar eclipse. Are we excited? Meh. We've got mixed feelings. But you know what really eclipses our enthusiasm? When people in our community become parents and suddenly lose their spark. We said what we said. Alright, that's a wrap for this episode of "Not Well." If you're new here, buckle up, buttercup. We're not holding back. And to our ride-or-die listeners, we love you more than a drag queen loves a good wig. Until next time, stay fabulous and stay "Not Well. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. Hey everyone, it's your hosts Bobby and Jim here with another wild ride of an episode of "Not Well." We've got a jam-packed show for you today, filled with everything from personal anecdotes to societal musings. First off, we want to give a shout out to our sponsor, Dr. Scholl's Skin Tag Remover. If you're looking to get rid of those pesky skin tags, this might just be the solution for you. In personal news, Bobby's been living it up and embracing his inner "show pony," while I've had a bizarre encounter with a fashion designer/music mogul at a local restaurant. We also discuss the complexities of dating and relationships, especially when it comes to navigating the gay scene. We dive into some heavier topics as well, like the recent news surrounding P. Diddy and the implications of Cat Williams' explosive interview. It's a reminder that the entertainment industry has some dark corners that are often overlooked. On a lighter note, we laugh about the absurdity of words like "extrajudicial" and the concept of "dickies" as a fashion statement. And in a moment of reflection, we ponder the very nature of money and debt, inspired by a parable about a traveler in a small town. We wrap up with a candid discussion on body image and the challenges plus-size travelers face. It's a topic that's close to home for many, and we don't shy away from the tough questions. So buckle up, grab your Bulge Band (don't forget to use our promo code for a discount), and get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions. Whether we're talking about our latest escapades or the state of the world, we're here to keep it real and maybe even change your name to Bobette if the mood strikes. Until next time, stay "Not Well" and keep living your truth! #notwell #podcast #life #relationships #society #humor [00:02:33] Play date with another couple. [00:03:47] Midlife crisis unfolding. [00:08:07] Losing weight makes me slutty. [00:11:18] Tattoo discussions with Spencer. [00:15:18] Meeting a mysterious fashion designer. [00:20:02] Dickies fashion history. [00:23:20] Kate Middleton's body double confusion. [00:25:38] Dick pic pet peeves. [00:30:14] Puff Daddy's name changes. [00:34:27] Money and Debt Concept. [00:37:51] Is there excuse for being fat? [00:40:17] The mental aspect of overeating. [00:44:29] Supportive friendships and disappointments. [00:47:22] Exploring curiosity about body parts. [00:49:33] Hammerhead cock. [00:53:43] Group showers at bars concept. [00:56:54] Risk reduction with Doxypep. Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. "Grab Life by the Bulge: Unzipping the Secrets of Flaccid Confidence, Digital Flirting, and the Twists of Modern Gay Banter" embarks on an unabashed journey into the heart of contemporary gay dating, social dynamics, and self-empowerment. This episode doesn't just scratch the surface but dives deep into the fabric of what it means to find one's place and pride within the gay community today. The conversation opens up with a candid exploration of confidence, or as we playfully dub it, "flaccid confidence." We dissect the challenges and triumphs of embodying confidence in a world that constantly shifts the goalposts of what it means to be self-assured. Our discussion navigates through personal anecdotes and listener stories, revealing the nuanced layers of building and projecting confidence in both public and intimate settings. Transitioning to the digital realm, we pull back the curtain on the art of digital flirting through platforms like Grindr. The episode offers a humorous yet insightful critique of Grindr bios, highlighting the creativity, clichés, and sometimes cringe-worthy attempts at connection found within these digital hallways. We share tips and tales from the front lines of online dating, offering listeners a blend of advice, cautionary tales, and the undeniable humor found in seeking connection through screens. "Reverse gaslighting" emerges as a focal point of discussion, where we unravel the complexities of modern gay banter. This segment sheds light on the ways communication within the community can be both empowering and perplexing, leading to moments of misunderstanding, revelation, and laughter. Through a mix of expert insights and real-life scenarios, we explore how these dynamics play out in friendships, romantic entanglements, and casual conversations, offering a fresh perspective on navigating social interactions with wit, wisdom, and a little wariness. Throughout the episode, keywords like gay life, digital flirting, community connection, and self-expression serve as beacons guiding the narrative. They encapsulate the essence of the discussion, resonating with listeners' experiences and aspirations. In essence, "Grab Life by the Bulge" is more than just an episode; it's a manifesto for embracing the full spectrum of gay identity with boldness and authenticity. It invites listeners to laugh, learn, and lean into the complexities of contemporary gay life, armed with a deeper understanding of themselves and the digital and real-world arenas they navigate. GO GET A BULGE BAND USE CODE: NOTWELL Where should we go on our next trip? Needs to be a direct flight from Columbus Ohio Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. We kicked things off with a discussion about a political video that's giving off some serious "Handmaid's Tale" vibes. The eerie music, the dramatic speeches, and the over-the-top patriotic sentiments had us drawing parallels to Gilead and questioning the state of our union. From politics, we shifted to a more personal note, recounting our recent experiences and the aftermath of a wild night out. We reminisced about the good old days of partying and how age is starting to take its toll on our ability to recover from a night of debauchery. We also discussed the strange state of affairs in New York City, where an increased police and National Guard presence in the subway system has us feeling like we're living in a dystopian novel. The deployment of troops and the requirement for bag searches without any clear threat has us questioning the motives behind these security measures. In lighter news, we chatted about our recent vacation and how jumping back into work feels like we never left. We laughed about the absurdities of daily life and the never-ending cycle of work and brief holidays. As we continued, we delved into the peculiar world of celebrity behavior, specifically focusing on Amanda Bynes and her recent announcement about wearing wigs. We pondered what happened to the former child star and expressed our desire for a documentary to uncover the truth behind her transformation. Lastly, we wrapped up with a critique of bizarre fashion choices from the past, like the fox stole, and how these items are still somehow making a comeback. It's a mix of horror and humor as we try to make sense of why anyone would want to wear a dead animal around their neck. Remember, you can always reach out to us at 614-721-5336 or visit our website at www.notwellpodcast.com. And don't forget, life is short, so we're living it up as much as we can before we hit the big 4-0. Thanks for tuning in, and we'll catch you on the next one! Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell

Send us a Text Message. Episode Summary: Reflections on Post-Vacation Blues and Enneagram Personalities Hey everyone, it's your host Bobby here with another episode of "This is Not Well." Today, we're diving deep into the post-vacation blues that hit us after our recent trip to Park City, Utah. I'm feeling the weight of it all, and it's got me thinking about Enneagrams and how they play into our personalities and reactions to life's ups and downs. Post-Trip Depression and Enneagram Insights I'm a full-on Enneagram Six, the Loyalist, and I'm feeling super depressed post-trip. It's like all the dopamine from the fun times has just vanished. Last year was rough, but this year, I'm realizing how my Enneagram type contributes to the problems I create in my head. We're planning to dive deeper into Enneagrams next week, and we encourage you all to take the test too! The Highs and Lows of Travel Our return from Park City was a mess, with flight delays and mechanical issues causing chaos. We got trapped in Salt Lake City, which led to some unexpected adventures and a lot of walking in the airport. The need for a vacation after a vacation is real – the struggle to get back into the swing of things is tough. Encounters and Observations We discuss the interesting mix of people and places in Salt Lake City, from homeless encampments to snowball-throwing strangers. I share a personal mishap involving a hot tub and a near-injury, highlighting the importance of safety and maybe even waivers for future trips. Reflections on Personal Growth and Relationships I talk about the progress I've made personally and how it's reflected in my physical health. We touch on the dynamics of relationships and the idea of opening up to new experiences with partners. A Word on Rude People and Being Grateful A reminder to listeners: don't be rude, and don't take invitations for granted. It's about mixing new and old friends, and not everyone can be included every time. We call out some famous figures in the gay community who have been problematic lately, emphasizing the importance of integrity. Final Thoughts and Looking Ahead We tease a discussion about a movie called "Poor Things" and the concept of neurodivergence. I reflect on the idea that some people might use labels as an easy out rather than addressing underlying issues. That's it for this episode. Remember, life is a rollercoaster, and it's okay to not be well sometimes. Join us next time as we continue to explore the complexities of life, personalities, and the aftermath of vacations. Stay tuned, and take care! Support the Show. As always you can write us at nowellpodcast@gmail.com or call us at ‪(614) 721-5336‬ and tell us your Not Wells of the week Instagram Twitter Bobby's Only Fans Help us continue to grow and create amazing content, like a live tour or just help fund some new headphones when needed. Any help is appreacited. https://www.buzzsprout.com/510487/subscribe #gaypodcast #podcast #gay #lgbtq #queerpodcast #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #lgbtqpodcast #gaypodcaster #queer#instagay #podcasts #podcasting #gaylife #pride #lesbian #bhfyp #gaycomedy #comedypodcast #comedy #nyc #614 #shesnotdoingsowell #wiltonmanor #notwell