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Co-Parent Dilemmas

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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email 1234Dilemma@gmail.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

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Episodes

S3.E12. The Ultimate Boundary for the Narcissist

3/26/2023
Jenny shares her frustration with her narcissistic co-parent, who would rather she disappear than exercise her parenting time. But Jenny isn’t giving up, despite her physical limitations due to a brain injury. Diane & Rick share powerful words of encouragement for Jenny and anyone who is willing to think of what children need instead of how to combat the narcissism. They remind listeners that custody does not equal good parenting. The ultimate boundary for Jenny has already been...

Duration:00:29:06

S3.E11. But Things Were Going So Well! Enter the girlfriend…

3/19/2023
Chris writes in and says things were going very well for him and his co-parent until he started dating seriously after several years post divorce. He did everything right, but now things have gone horribly wrong. What is happening to his co-parent relationship? Diane & Rick break it down. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group BECOME a Patreon VIP and get special discounts on upcoming workshops and...

Duration:00:33:33

S3.E10. Help! I’m Stuck Between a Borderline Co-Parent and an Enraged Spouse

3/12/2023
Diane & Rick address John’s email about how to help his 16-year-old son when he and the son are stuck between mom and step-mom’s conflict. Discussed in this episode are ways to build a relationship with a teen who isolates to avoid conflict and the importance of strengthening the marital bond to deal with the stresses of a blended family. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group REGISTER FOR OUR 2023...

Duration:00:34:44

S3.E9. Is it Worth Going to Court?

3/5/2023
How do you know when it’s a good idea to seek the court’s help with co-parenting issues? Diane & Rick discuss four things to consider as they process listener Jess’s questions about her uncooperative co-parent. She was hoping he would be more agreeable after divorce, but is finding that he shuts down every request, including moving from homeschooling to public education for their young daughter. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the...

Duration:00:32:45

S3.E8. What to Do with All That Anger! Putting your narcissistic co-parent in perspective

2/26/2023
Kelvin rants about how his narcissistic co-parent steals his credit as a parent and is constantly inserting herself into his life. He asks what he should do with all of his anger. Diane & Rick explore managing expectations, finding humor in the narcissist personality, and visualization techniques to manage negative emotions in the present. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group REGISTER FOR OUR 2023...

Duration:00:32:14

S3.E7. Romance and Co-Parenting: It’s Complicated!

2/19/2023
Eva emails the show and asks how to move forward with the love of her life and maintain both of their children’s school and activity schedules. The issue is, they live 90 minutes apart from one another. In order to move in together, they either must get their co-parents to agree to a custody change or put their dreams on hold. Diane & Rick discuss the importance of prioritizing children’s needs even if that means putting personal desires aside for a time. Want to talk about this episode...

Duration:00:32:27

S3.E6. The Impossible Dilemma

2/12/2023
Bethany calls in with a frustrating dilemma, and Jeff emails about a similar frustration. Diane & Rick discuss how difficult it is to be placed in a position of choosing your own peace vs. your child’s emotional welfare. This seemingly impossible dilemma is quite common among high conflict co-parents, and it requires a logical view of multiple variables to makes sense of what feels senseless. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the...

Duration:00:35:19

S3.E5. My Dad’s Gonna Buy Me a Car!

2/5/2023
Therapist Carol poses a question about a client’s narcissistic co-parent, who apparently wants to buy his 14-year-old’s love. Diane & Rick explore the complications of weaning from the parent/child bond in the teen years, as well as what to say to the teen, and maybe the other parent about this so-called promise. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group REGISTER FOR OUR 2023 VIRTUAL WORKSHOPS! Coming...

Duration:00:32:31

S3.E4. She’s Moving in with Her Lover!

1/29/2023
Gary wonders what custody plan can work for his two young children, given that their mother plans to move in with someone she had an affair with, who is a foster parent to four children. Diane & Rick discuss how to manage living in the same house during an angry divorce process and what to do when you have no faith the other parent will step up and be responsible. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook...

Duration:00:33:37

S3.E3. My Baby's Too Young for Sleepovers!

1/22/2023
A listener wonders if an infant should have overnight visits with the father while she is breastfeeding. Diane and Rick explore this common concern and discuss what is important at this tender age of development. For a deeper look into what the research says about parenting plans and very young children, follow this LINK. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group REGISTER FOR OUR 2023 VIRTUAL...

Duration:00:32:39

S3.E2. Manipulation or Child Abuse: How Do You Know for Sure?

1/15/2023
Diane & Rick address a difficult listener question about child abuse. Jennifer’s 5-year-old son doesn’t want to see his dad because dad is abusing him. Mom is worried about her son and wonders if she should withhold custody or make him go. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group REGISTER FOR OUR 2023 VIRTUAL WORKSHOPS! Coming soon: Friday, March 17 12:00-1:30 The Freedom of Plan B: What you need to...

Duration:00:36:15

S3.E1. “Am I an Impossible Co-Parent?”: You might be if…

1/8/2023
A listener surprisingly asks if his ex might be right about him. Maybe he IS an impossible co-parent after all! Diane and Rick address this unusual question in a Jeff Foxworthy style - You might be an impossible co-parent if… Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group DON’T FORGET! The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible journal is NOW AVAILABLE on Amazon for a limited-time price of only $9.95 (Kindle...

Duration:00:32:55

BONUS: Why So Bitter After All These Years?

1/1/2023
In this replay of a 2022 episode (S1:E52), Diane & Rick talk about the personal value of forgiveness and the destruction of hanging on to bitterness. Listener Carolina wonders how it is possible to co-parent with someone who is such a bad actor. As usual, the hosts talk about what matters to the kids. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group DON’T FORGET! The print-version of theI Am Non-Impossible...

Duration:00:32:54

BONUS: A Kid with Two Homes: A Discussion with Bella Duncan

12/25/2022
In this replay of a 2021 episode (S1:E16), Diane & Rick address a listener dilemma about sticking to the parenting plan or being flexible with weekend time. Australian Blogger Bella Duncan (www.akidwithtwohomes.com), a child of divorce, weighs in with how kids feel about living in a high-conflict parenting situation and gives advice about seeing things from the child’s point of view. Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the...

Duration:00:41:46

BONUS: Doctor Office Drama - Slaying the Conflict D.R.A.G.O.N.

12/18/2022
In this replay of episode S1:E65, Diane and Rick discuss an email from Thomas in Ontario, who shares his dilemma about attending his toddler’s doctors appointments, while having to endure his co-parent’s drama or failure to inform him. Diane and Rick use the process outlined in their new journal (DRAGON) to unpack this complicated conflict and teach Thomas how to think differently about it. VISIT OUR HOLIDAY STORE, with Rick’s Picks and Diane’s Deals! You’ll see special Amazon discounts on...

Duration:00:31:38

BONUS: Responding to an Impossible Co-Parent

12/11/2022
In this replay from season 1, Diane & Rick get real about dealing with a narcissistic co-parent. Phrases like crazy-making, gas-lighting. twisting words, and avoiding responsibility, are just a few of the many complaints made by the co-parent who is frustrated with a narcissistic co-parent. Diane and Rick address Paul from Phoenix who wants help with his. Although changing someone with personality flaws of any type is nearly impossible, using protective boundaries in communication can...

Duration:00:24:47

S2.E6. Case from Hell: Sarah speaks out and a listener discussion

12/4/2022
Diane and Rick talk to a group of listeners about theCase from Hell and how it related to their own situations. Also, Diane speaks to Sarah, as she describes the hell she has been in for several years and the toll it has taken on her and her entire family. To view the Case from Hell timeline details and notes, follow this LINK. To read more about Bill McGee and his book, Half the Child, visit his website. The book is also available in our Non-Impossible store. FIND GREAT HOLIDAY GIFTS FOR...

Duration:01:07:07

S2.E5. Case from Hell: Our Dream Team Judge Slams the Gavel!

11/27/2022
In this final discussion with a Dream Team member, Diane & Rick hear from Georgia Superior Court Judge Angela Duncan. Not surprisingly, as a former family law attorney and GAL, Judge Duncan has strong opinions about the professionals who let this family down. She also discusses the limitations of the court when the attorneys fail their clients. Want your friends to listen? Send them to www.CPDilemmas.com/hell To view the Case from Hell timeline details and notes, follow this LINK. To get...

Duration:00:47:07

S2.E4. Case from Hell: Our Dream Team Custody Evaluator Gets Real about Abuse

11/20/2022
Diane & Rick explore the complexities of psychological child abuse with mental health expert Dr. Kelley Baker. Why did Sarah’s custody evaluator miss this tragic component? There are no clear answers, but important lessons to learn. Want your friends to listen? Send them to www.CPDilemmas.com/hell To view the Case from Hell timeline details and notes, follow this LINK. To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma We’ve created a special...

Duration:00:43:36

S2.E3. Case from Hell: Our Dream Team Attorney is On Fire

11/13/2022
Attorney Todd Orston joins Diane and Rick to break down what it means to zealously advocate for a client, and how Sarah’s attorney has missed the mark. To reach Todd Orston, visit him on his firm’s website HERE. You can also listen to his podcast, Divorce Team Radio, HERE. Want your friends to listen? Send them to www.CPDilemmas.com/hell3 To view the Case from Hell timeline details and notes, follow this LINK. We’ve created a special Facebook DISCUSSION GROUP to talk about this case...

Duration:00:46:51

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