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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email diane@cpdilemmas.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

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There are at least two sides to every conflict, and when it's between divorced or separated parents, sparks can fly. In each episode, co-parenting experts Diane Dierks and Rick Voyles answer listener questions and talk about the benefits and risks of letting go vs. holding on to the conflict in a variety of complex topics facing co-parents today. Do you hold on for the sake of the children or let go for the same reason? Episodes are released every Sunday at noon. Listeners can email diane@cpdilemmas.com and pose a question/dilemma that may be answered on an upcoming episode. What do you do when the other parent won't be flexible with the parenting schedule? How do you respond to a co-parent who is constantly blowing up your phone with texts? Is it really important to talk to your children when they are at the other parent's house? And what about the parent who won't share important information with you about the children? Do you give in to the other parent's antics or should you hold your ground? Get answers to these questions and more on Co-Parent Dilemmas, wherever you get your podcasts.

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E5.E26. Narcissists in Co-Parenting & Time for a Pause

3/16/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Today, we are replaying one of our most popular episodes entitled “Narcissists in Co-Parenting.” We also want you to know that starting this week, we are taking a podcast pause for a little while to re-evaluate where we go from here. There is a lot of content for you to listen to while we’re on pause. If you are a new listener, this will give you time to catch up. You might want to start with episode one and work through all of them at your own pace. If you're one of our many faithful followers, we thank you for your weekly participation with us on our journey, and encourage you to go back and re-listen to some episodes. We know that as co-parents grow in their journey, they are more prepared to hear certain things after some growth than they were when they initially heard them. For our Patreon listeners, we will be communicating directly with you about your subscription and about the Hump Day Help Group, so look for messages about that this week. Thanks for listening and please continue to message us through the website if you have questions or feedback. Much love to you all. Support the show >>>>CONTACT US >>>>RATE THE SHOW >>>>VISIT OUR WEBSITE CO-PARENT RESOURCES: Subscribe to Diane’s DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS and get a 7-day FREE trial OR give it as a gift D.R.A.G.O.N. method , I AM NON-IMPOSSIBLE THE CO-PARENT TOOLBOX CLICK HERE for FREE communication resources for co-parents visit our Non-Impossible STORE! BetterHelp FOR DIVORCE PROFESSIONAL...

Duración:00:53:40

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S5.E25. Falsely Accused

3/9/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick discuss the issues that arise when a co-parent is accused of parental alienation or child abuse. What drives the accusation, and what can be done to enlighten court professionals? THIS WEEK’S GOOD NEWS STORY Faith That Challenges. Conversations that Matter. Laughs included. Subscribe Now! Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the show >>>>CONTACT US >>>>RATE THE SHOW >>>>VISIT OUR WEBSITE CO-PARENT RESOURCES: Subscribe to Diane’s DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS and get a 7-day FREE trial OR give it as a gift D.R.A.G.O.N. method , I AM NON-IMPOSSIBLE THE CO-PARENT TOOLBOX CLICK HERE for FREE communication resources for co-parents visit our Non-Impossible STORE! BetterHelp FOR DIVORCE PROFESSIONAL...

Duración:00:36:36

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S5.E24. The Dangers of Secret-Keeping

3/2/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick answer listener Rachel’s question about how to respond to her kids when their dad has asked them to keep a secret from her. They explore different ways kids are put in the middle with secret-keeping and the risks associated with it. FIRST TWO WEDNESDAYS IN MARCH: Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for FREE by coming a Patreon member. This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! OUR SHOW HAS GONE VIDEO! VIEW THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE! This week’s GOOD NEWS STORY WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group Faith That Challenges. Conversations that Matter. Laughs included. Subscribe Now! Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Diane@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:35:00

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S5.E23. “Is There A Case Worse Than Mine?”: Cringeworthy Co-Parents

2/23/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick discuss some of their most difficult co-parent cases after listener Devin emails, wondering if any case is possibly worse than his! They discuss the importance of professionals working with the non-impossible parent OUR SHOW HAS GONE VIDEO! VIEW THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE! This week’s GOOD NEWS STORY WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group Faith That Challenges. Conversations that Matter. Laughs included. Subscribe Now! Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Diane@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit https://www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:33:35

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S5.E22. When Children Parrot the Other Parent’s Extreme Opinions

2/16/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Thomas asks how to respond to his 13-year-old son, who declares extreme political ideology that Thomas knows is coming from the other house. Should he respond? Stay silent? How do you counteract extreme ideas or values that go against yours when it comes from your kids? Diane & Rick break it down. OUR SHOW HAS GONE VIDEO! VIEW THE VIDEO OF THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE! LINKS FROM THIS EPISODE: S3.E23Between Two Worldschameleon color pageThis week’s GOOD NEWS STORY WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practi Faith That Challenges. Conversations that Matter. Laughs included. Subscribe Now! Breaking down faith, culture & big questions - a mix of humor with real spiritual growth. Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:33:08

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REBROADCAST: The Impossible Dilemma

2/9/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Bethany calls in with a frustrating dilemma, and Jeff emails about a similar frustration. Diane & Rick discuss how difficult it is to be placed in a position of choosing your own peace vs. your child’s emotional welfare. This seemingly impossible dilemma is quite common among high conflict co-parents, and it requires a logical view of multiple variables to makes sense of what feels senseless. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:35:19

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S5.E21. Parent/Pediatrician Meet-Up: Brainstorming ideas to assist non-impossible co-parents

2/2/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick bring together a group of pediatricians and moms who have difficult co-parents to discuss innovative ways to work together. Kids of divorce often get stuck in the middle when a high-conflict co-parent weaponizes the medical community, leaving the other parent feeling marginalized and misunderstood. They discuss various ways parents use medical professionals to their legal advantage and what professionals might do to minimize the conflict instead of unwittingly making it worse. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:01:31:12

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S5.E20. When Dad and Teen Explode: Who’s Hurt & Who’s at Fault?

1/26/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Utah listener Heather wonders what more she can do to protect her two sons from their verbally abusive father. The 14-year-old explodes with dad, while the 13-year-old son witnesses the drama and tries to keep things from getting worse. Diane& Rick discuss the different roles children play in the family system and what Heather can do to help each child feel emotionally safe (while also complying with the court-ordered custody arrangement). WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This Week’s GOOD NEWS STORY If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on January 28th (on Zoom) at 2:00 pm (EST), sign up HERE! Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:45:36

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S5.E19. Plan B Challenges! When Plan A is Not an Option

1/19/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Texas listener, Christa, answers a challenge Diane made in a previous episode to give her any dilemma, and she would suggest a viable Plan B. Diane & Rick discuss whether or not what Christa presents are co-parenting dilemmas or general parenting issues, and they provide suggestions accordingly. They also discuss the DRAGON method of devising a Plan B. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This Week’s GOOD NEWS STORY: An arrest has been made in connection with a murder in Australia 27 years ago, in the Port Cartwright cliffs in Queensland (above). Police have confirmed to Meshel Laurie, the host of Australian True Crime ▸, that it was a listener to her podcast who provided information leading to the arrest last Thursday of Keith Lees, now aged 72. Lees was the subject of an Australian True Crime episode released on Dec 23: he had gone on the run after being questioned by police in June. Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. To purchase the journal, CLICK HERE. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on January 28th (on Zoom), email Diane Create Harmony This is a podcast about setting an intentional rhythm, savoring life’s blessings and... Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:39:59

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S5.E18. “My Feelings Matter!”: Does Every Feeling Need Validation?

1/12/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Todd asks if he should validate his child’s feelings, even when she says she doesn’t like him? How far does a parent go, and are feelings valid (representing truth) or simply experiences to be understood? Diane & Rick suggest it’s important to explore the root of feelings, including assumptions, misinformation, mood, and delusions, before judging them. They also discuss the responsibility of both the sharer AND the hearer in communication. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This Week’s GOOD NEWS STORY Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS has been released. To get a free 7-day trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on January 28th (on Zoom) at 2:00 pm (EST), email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:01:01:38

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REBROADCAST: Do I Give In to My Child’s Request to Stay Away?

1/5/2025
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE This is a REPLAY of one of the show’s most popular episodes (S4.E17.). We’ll be back with new episodes next week. Diane and Rick look at a conflict that on the surface might seem easy to resolve for the Non-Impossible parent. But upon further exploration, they unpack the long-lasting consequences of giving in to a child’s request to stay away from school events and activities. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. To get 15% off, subscribe by Dec. 31st - CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on January 28th (on Zoom), email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

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S5.E17. Reunited after Alienation: Non-traditional Parenting is Key

12/29/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Ben has been awarded custody of his daughter after the court determined her mother was alienating her from dad. He asks how to best parent his daughter after the trauma of alienation. Diane & Rick break it down and provide helpful, non-traditional advice to help him climb this daunting mountain. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. To get 15% off, subscribe by Dec. 31st - CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/400000-kids-now-have-legos-to-play-with-thanks-to-parents-donating-1-2-mil-pounds-of-used-bricks-so-far/ Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

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S5.E16. Commit or Don’t Reconnect: Kids Need Consistency and Dependability

12/22/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Kristen asks advice about her 9-year-old reengaging with his dad, who has been an extremely inconsistent parent. Diane & Rick discuss the harm to children when a parent consistently disappoints them by moving in and out of their lives. They discuss ways the listener can engage professionals to promote long-term success for the child. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: CLICK HERE to access the AFCC website. Call (608)664-3750 or email afcc@afccnet.org to find a member in your area. This week’s GOOD NEWS story Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. To get 15% off, subscribe by Dec. 31st - CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

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S5.E15. Who is Served by the Right of First Refusal?

12/15/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick respond to recent social media posts about first right of refusal, a clause in some parenting plans that requires co-parents to give the other parent the option of being with the children when they are unable to fulfill their court-ordered parenting time. They explore the reasons behind this concept and question whether or not it is a good practice in high-conflict situations. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. To get 15% off, subscribe by Dec. 31st - CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:33:18

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S5.E14. Grieving the Holiday Split

12/8/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Kyle asks what the best holiday split is for teens. Diane & Rick ask a deeper question about what drives holiday negotiation in the beginning, when grief is most prominent. They discuss the importance of seeing the holidays through the children’s eyes instead of the parents’. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. To get 15% off, subscribe by Dec. 31st - CLICK HERE! To learn more about the professional training presented by the AFCC regarding parent-child contact problems, CLICK HERE . Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays via Zoom for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). This is a great way to get your questions answered personally by Diane or Rick! Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal. If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

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S5.E13. Donor Family Drama

12/1/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick address listener Laura’s dilemma with her ex-wife, who decided to introduce their two children to the donor dad’s family without her permission. They discuss the complications that come with divorce and adopted children, as well as the legal messiness when a biological parent decides to re-enter the picture after the kids have been adopted. Also discussed is what constitutes a “major” decision in co-parenting. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you’d like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:42:38

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S5.E12. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 3 - Why Using a Plan B Works

11/24/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE In this third of a three-part series of why critical co-parenting skills work, Diane & Rick explore the importance of utilizing a Plan B when conflict arises. Somewhere between Plan A (a successful negotiation) and Plan C (going to court), there is a child-focused solution that doesn’t require the permission or agreement of the other parent. CLICK HERE to access the Silver Bullet Survivor podcast mentioned in this episode. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PST If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you’d like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:42:15

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S5.E11. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 2 - Why Using a Structured Email Protocol Works

11/17/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Diane & Rick address Emily’s email about her know-it-all co-parent. They discuss the goal of utilizing a structured way of communicating and why it succeeds in managing the toxic co-parent, while ant the same time, adhering to a parenting plan that requires co-parents to share relevant information about their children. CLICK HERE To see the link to this week’s good news story. To see a copy of the instructions and court order language for a communication protocol as described in this episode, go to www.CPDilemmas.com/resources. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PST If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you’d like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:38:03

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S5.E10. CRITICAL SKILLS: Pt. 1 - Why Validating Your Kids’ Feelings Works

11/10/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Trenton wants advice on how to respond to his 10-year-old daughter when she expresses frustration about going between two homes. In this first of a three-part series on why critical co-parenting skills work, Diane and Rick discuss the feelings/thoughts/values triangle and what is foundational about its use for all parents. CLICK HERE to get the pyramid graphic mentioned in this episode. CLICK HERE to get the intersecting circles graphic mentioned in this episode. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PST If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you’d like to be notified about how to start a free trial, CLICK HERE! Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:57:13

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S5.E9. Is It “Wrong” to Move Out of State?

11/3/2024
Have a quick question to be explored on the show? Send us a text message! Include your email address if you would like a personal response. Click HERE Listener Georgina asks about the consequences of moving her 12-year-old daughter away from her dad. They discuss the reasons why she is feeling the need to escape and how helping her daughter develop appropriate coping skills may neutralize the moving dilemma. WHAT’S HAPPENING LINKS: This week’s GOOD NEWS story Holiday Harmony: Soberlink's Tools for Safe and Conflict-Free Co-Parenting, happening on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 9:30 AM PST If you’d like to be part of our Pediatrician/Co-Parent brainstorming session on Zoom, email Diane Diane’s new DAILY DEVOTIONAL FOR FRUSTRATED CO-PARENTS is releasing in January, 2025. If you’d like info on how to subscribe to this daily email devotional, email Diane Attend the weekly Hump Day Wednesdays for only $10/month (exclusively for Patreon VIPs). Purchase a one-year Patreon VIP subscription and receive the I Am Non-Impossible journal! IMPACT Training for Professionals - do you want to build a thriving team practice to help high conflict co-parents? Consider our IMPACT training for your practice group. Support the show Want to talk about this episode with Diane and other parents? Be part of the conversation on the NON-Impossibles Facebook group Find us on X (Twitter) and Instagram @CPDilemmas If you are a professional working with high-conflict co-parents, join our LinkedIn group. Have a co-parent dilemma? Email Dilemma@CPDilemmas.com Become a Non-Impossible VIP Listener for some really cool perks! To get a special discount on therapy through BetterHelp, visit www.BetterHelp.com/Dilemma RATE THE SHOW! CLICK HERE to subscribe to our monthly podcast email to get a sneak peak into upcoming topics

Duración:00:48:39