Dudes In Progress

We discuss Matthew Kelly's book 'The Fourth Quarter of Life,' offering practical advice for navigating the later stages of life, while emphasizing the importance of physical activity, mental stimulation, social engagement, finding purpose and more. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Ever hesitate to offer advice, fearing it might be taken the wrong way—or ignored altogether? In this episode, Joe and Curt delve into the art of sharing wisdom in a way that resonates. From tough conversations with loved ones to navigating the fine line between helpfulness and intrusiveness, the Dudes break down when and how to speak up, the importance of humility, and why wisdom delivered with care can change lives. Key Takeaways Listen First“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”Ask for PermissionLead by ExampleSimplify Your AdviceExtend Grace Joe's Stuff for the Week WinResource“The Fourth Quarter of Your Life” by Matthew Kelly and Alan HuntQuoteZig Ziglar Curt's Stuff for the Week WinResourceQuoteDouglas MacArthur Sharing wisdom isn’t just about knowing what to say—it’s about knowing when and how to say it. With humility, patience, and intention, your words can leave a lasting impact on those you care about. Remember, progress, not perfection, is the goal. Website: dudesinprogress.com Email: dudes@dudesinprogress.com You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

This week we dive into the significance of Christmas, exploring the story of God becoming human through the birth of Jesus, and reflect on themes like humility, kindness, joy, and hope. We discuss the importance of generosity, share personal anecdotes about family traditions, and emphasize the everlasting impact of the Christmas spirit. Additionally, we highlight the importance of faith, the history behind Christmas traditions, and the joy of giving over receiving. The episode aims to uplift listeners as they transition into the New Year while maintaining the Christmas spirit. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

As 2024 wraps up, Joe and Curt take a thoughtful dive into planning for 2025—but not with traditional goal-setting. This episode is all about aligning your life with your core values. The Dudes discuss how prioritizing values over arbitrary goals can create a meaningful year, fostering deeper connections, intentional living, and personal growth. With practical insights and relatable stories, this episode is your guide to living a values-centered life in 2025. Key Takeaways Understand and Prioritize Your ValuesBuild Habits for ConsistencyTime Management with PurposeMaintain Motivation and AccountabilityEmbrace Flexibility and Progress Over Perfection Joe’s Stuff for the Week WinResource"Things That Matter" by Joshua BeckerQuoteWarren Buffett Curt’s Stuff for the Week WinResourceYouTube for Pallet WoodworkingQuoteMahatma Gandhi As you gear up for 2025, take time to reflect on your values and how they can shape your year. Whether it’s building habits, deepening connections, or pursuing meaningful projects, focus on progress over perfection. Remember, every small step counts toward a life aligned with your values. Website: dudesinprogress.com Email: dudes@dudesinprogress.com

Dive into holiday chaos and laughter with us! In our latest episode, we explore the timeless hilarity and heartfelt moments from 'Planes, Trains, and Automobiles' and 'National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation.' Perfect to get into the holiday spirit! You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Thanksgiving—a time for turkey, pie, and the wild gauntlet of family dynamics. Whether you’re dodging controversial conversations, dealing with that one uncle who overshares, or sitting next to your least favorite cousin, there’s a way to not only survive but thrive. Today, we’ll dive into tips for keeping the peace, finding gratitude in the chaos, and laughing through it all. Because even when things get awkward, there’s still plenty to be thankful for. Key Takeaways Prepare Your Mindset“This is temporary, and I’m thankful for this experience.”Redirect ConversationsReframe the MomentFind Gratitude Joe's Stuff for the Week WinResourceportable cordless air compressorQuoteMelanie White Curt's Stuff for the Week WinResourcePetSafe Easy Walk Dog HarnessQuoteMichael J. Fox Thanksgiving may bring its challenges, but it’s also an opportunity for connection, gratitude, and great food. Approach it with a positive mindset, a sense of humor, and a focus on making memories. Progress, not perfection—just keep moving forward. Website: dudesinprogress.com Email: dudes@dudesinprogress.com You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Introducing Transformative Practices Habits vs. Transformative Practices Defining Transformative Practices Examples of Transformative Practices The Importance of Lifelong Learning Learning Through Side Hustles Seven Tips for Transformative Practices Managing Your Energy Levels Starting Small and Being Consistent Setting Clear Intentions Creating a Routine Reflecting Regularly Seeking Support Celebrating Small Wins Weekly Wins and Resources Inspirational Quotes You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

In this episode, Joe and Curt dive into side hustles you can start for under $500. Whether you’re looking to boost your income, explore a new passion, or add some flexibility to your retirement plans, there’s a side hustle for you. Join the Dudes as they discuss practical, affordable business ideas, offer tips to make your hustle successful, and share personal wins for the week. Key Takeaways Start Where You Are: Whether you have skills in a craft, tech consulting, or even walking dogs, start with what you know and explore ways to monetize it. Focus on Low-Cost Businesses: From online course creation to print-on-demand designs, many side gigs require minimal upfront investment. Keep Your Goals in Mind: Are you looking for extra income, a new career, or a creative outlet? Knowing your goals will help you focus on the best side hustle for you. Consider Passive Income Opportunities: Some side hustles, like creating online courses or print-on-demand products, offer the potential for income that can grow over time without constant effort. Joe's Stuff for the Week WinResourceSide Hustle SchoolQuoteLeonardo da Vinci Curt's Stuff for the Week WinResourceQuoteArthur Ashe You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Curtis and Joe delve into various horror movies' significant impact and thematic elements, discussing their favorite films and the lessons they glean from them. They explore how horror movies like 'Jaws,' 'The Exorcist,' 'Halloween,' 'Silence of the Lambs,' 'An American Werewolf in London,' 'The Ring,' 'The Skeleton Key,' 'Evil Dead 2,' and 'The Shining' convey deeper themes of courage, survival, mental health, and the importance of respecting boundaries. They also share personal anecdotes about their experiences with horror movies and reflect on the broader significance of Halloween. The episode wraps up with both hosts celebrating their wins for the week and offering practical resources and tips. Joe’s Stuff: Win for the week: Weekend at my daughter’s house Resource: https://www.netflix.com/browse/genre/8711 Quote: "All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." – The Shining Written obsessively by Jack Torrance, underscores the importance of balance and the dangers of losing oneself to obsessive pursuits. Curt’s Stuff: Win for the Week: I finished the luxury vinyl flooring install in my bathroom. Resource, Tip or Hack: Luxury vinyl flooring from Home Depot Quote: "You’re going to need a bigger boat." – Chief Brodie - Jaws Symbolizes the need for preparation and resourcefulness in tackling big challenges. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

In this episode, Joe and Curt dive into why starting a side hustle can be more than just an extra income stream—it can boost your life satisfaction, provide more control over your time, and even enhance your mental and physical well-being. Inspired by Joe’s passion for creating fulfilling income streams and Curt’s personal experiences, they lay out the top 10 reasons why a side hustle is worthwhile, especially as retirement nears. Whether you're just starting or looking to expand, this episode will get you inspired to hustle for a healthier, happier future. Key Takeaways: Flexibility & ControlFinancial BenefitsSkill DevelopmentIncreased Life Satisfaction Joe's Stuff for the Week: Win: Joe had a blast taking his grandkids to Kings Island, where they experienced big roller coasters for the first time. Spending quality time with his family made for a fantastic, memorable weekend. Resource: Joe found a deal on solid-state storage: a 128GB thumb drive for $12. With portable storage becoming so affordable, it's easier than ever to store important files on the go. Quote: "The best way to predict the future is to create it." – Peter Drucker Curt's Stuff for the Week: Win: Curt celebrated a great week in fantasy football, securing wins in all three of his leagues, plus his beloved Yankees are in the World Series—a win on all fronts! Resource: Curt’s Halloween-themed resource is a top 10 list of classic Halloween movies, including "Halloween," "The Nightmare Before Christmas," and "It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown"—perfect picks for the spooky season. Quote: "Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle." – Abraham Lincoln Tune in to hear Joe and Curt discuss how starting a side hustle could be the key to a fulfilling life, retirement, or new career direction. The journey to a happier, healthier you starts with just a small step—so get hustling! You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Imagine standing at a crossroads after selling your successful T-shirt business, unsure of your next move. This was Mike Dooley's reality. Faced with three “crappy” options, Mike chose to take small actions in each direction. Through this exploration, his true talents and passions emerged. By embracing the unknown and following the clues revealed by his actions, Mike built a thriving career that has inspired millions worldwide. His journey shows how even “crappy” choices can lead to discovering your talents and true path. Let's explore how you can uncover your own potential and navigate your next career move, even when the options seem less than ideal. In this episode, Curt and Joe dive into the often confusing and challenging journey of finding your true passion and career path. Inspired by the story of Mike Dooley, who turned three seemingly dead-end options into a thriving career, the hosts share personal stories, practical tips, and deep reflections on how to embrace uncertainty, take small actions, and ultimately discover your unique talents. From volunteer work to seeking feedback and staying patient, they cover nine actionable steps to help you move forward, even when the road ahead seems unclear. Tune in for an insightful conversation that will motivate you to take that first step—because progress is better than perfection. Key Takeaways: Joe's Stuff for the Week: Win: Joe implemented the first steps of a new European strategy at work and stayed committed to the process, despite pushback. He reinforced the importance of consistency and following through, even when things feel redundant. Resource: Joe’s Android phone has a built-in recorder that transcribes meetings, differentiates between speakers, and even provides action items. It’s been a game-changer for note-taking and follow-up at work. Quote: “What man actually needs is not a tensionless state, but rather the striving and struggling for a worthwhile goal, a freely chosen task.” – Viktor Frankl Curt's Stuff for the Week: Win: Curt finally had three potentially dangerous trees removed from his yard and has been cutting and stacking the wood. It’s physical work that brings a sense of accomplishment, despite being a reminder of how out of shape he feels! Resource: Curt used Chrome Remote Desktop to help a friend troubleshoot computer issues. It’s an easy tool to remotely access another computer, reducing the frustration of trying to guide someone over the phone. Quote: “Talent is luck. The important thing in life is courage.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson You can support the show by visiting. dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Let’s be honest—how many of us have bought something we thought would make us happy, only for it to sit in a closet collecting dust? Yeah, we’ve all been there. But you know what never collects dust? Memories. Today, we’re diving into why the time you spend with the people you love is so much more valuable than anything money can buy. Whether it’s a road trip or just a backyard barbecue, those moments last forever—and trust me, they’re way more satisfying than another “thing” You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our X page HERE

Today we dive into the revolutionary world of Hamilton. We’ll explore the powerful themes of ambition, legacy, and resilience that drive this groundbreaking musical. From Alexander Hamilton’s relentless pursuit of greatness to the poignant reflections on history and identity, we’ll uncover how Lin-Manuel Miranda’s masterpiece captures the essence of the American spirit and the timeless struggle for freedom and self-determination Here are 10 memorable lines from the Broadway show Hamilton that offer valuable lessons: Joe’s Stuff: Win for the week: Completed an important coaching project last week with fantastic results. . Resource: Ozark Mountain Stainless Steel Tumblers Walmart - Compared to YETI 10oz $9.00 - YETI 10oz 20.00 Quote: "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. We fought for these ideals; we shouldn’t settle for less." Thomas Jefferson - From Hamilton, Scene: Cabinet Battle #1 Curt’s Stuff: Win for the Week: New York City meet up Resource, Tip or Hack: Amazon Eero Mesh WiFi Quote: If you stand for nothing, Burr, what’ll you fall for?” - Alexander Hamilton You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Last week, we started counting down the top 10 movies that have made me a better human being, getting through numbers 10 to 6. Those films really hit home for me in so many ways—whether it was learning something new about love, resilience, or just seeing the world differently. This week, we're picking up right where we left off, diving into the top 5. These are the ones that really stuck with me, the ones that changed how I think and live my life. So, if you're looking for a little inspiration, stay put - these movies might just do the trick. In this episode of Dudes in Progress, Joe and Curt continue their countdown of the top ten movies that have had a lasting impact on their lives, moving through films 5 to 1. These are the films that have shaped their worldviews, inspired them to be better, and left them reflecting on life's big themes like resilience, hope, and courage. Along with the movie discussion, Joe and Curt also share their Win of the Week, Resource of the Week, and Quote of the Week, making this episode a treasure trove of inspiration and practical tips. Episode Breakdown: Forrest Gump (#5)Key ThemesHacksaw Ridge (#4)Key ThemesThe Shawshank Redemption (#3)Key ThemesRocky I & II (#1 & 2)Key ThemesRockyRocky Honorable Mentions from Curt: The Outlaw Josey WalesThe Cowboys Weekly Segments: Win of the Week: Joe’s WinCurt’s Win Resource of the Week: Joe’s Resourceportable monitor for travelCurt’s ResourceTurvis insulated water bottle Quote of the Week: Joe’s QuoteCurt’s QuoteThe Cowboys Why You Should Listen: If you're a fan of inspiring films that leave a lasting impact, this episode is packed with personal stories, reflections, and powerful quotes that will resonate with anyone looking to grow and be inspired. Joe and Curt’s picks span a range of emotional themes—from the simplicity of Forrest Gump to the gritty determination in Rocky—offering a unique perspective on how movies can shape who we are. Keywords: Inspiring movies, resilience, top 10 movies, life-changing films, personal growth, movie recommendations, Forrest Gump, Rocky, Shawshank Redemption, Hacksaw Ridge, underdog stories, hope, perseverance, faith, Disney World, Turvis You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Movies have a unique way of touching our hearts and shaping our minds. They inspire us, challenge us, and sometimes, they even change us. In this episode, I’m counting down the top 10 films that didn’t just entertain me but inspired me to become a better human being. From life lessons on love and kindness to stories of resilience and hope, these movies have left a lasting impact. Stick around—you might find your next source of inspiration. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Today we're busting that happiness bubble we’ve all been sold. If you’re expecting 24/7 rainbows and unicorns, you might want to check your GPS because sometimes we feel we’re in the Twilight Zone. Let’s not chase happiness—let’s chase meaning, even if it sometimes means chasing our tails. Sometimes we’re not happy because, well, we’re human and life is tough! But don’t worry, it’s not all doom and gloom. The things that make life worthwhile bring us a delightful cocktail of emotions—happiness, love, joy, fear, shame, and even a bit of hurt. It’s like a rollercoaster but with fewer safety regulations! Let’s discover your personal values—they’re like your life’s GPS. Instead of ‘recalculating’ every time you make a wrong turn, they’ll help you power through those moments when life feels like a game of Whac-A-Mole. Let’s face it, if life were meant to be easy, it would have come with instructions… and a remote control. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Imagine starting with a love for something as specific as an amusement park, then turning that passion into a thriving, close-knit group that feels like family. That’s exactly what one incredible person did, creating a space where friendships flourish and shared experiences become lifelong memories. Today, we'll explore the power of bringing people together, why it matters, and how you can build your own community of friends. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

“I have days where I hate my job, this little town, and the whole world too. Last Sunday when the Bengals lost, Lord, it put me in a bad mood.” These lyrics from Montgomery Gentry’s “Lucky Man” might resonate with many of us. We all have days where everything seems to go wrong, and our mood takes a hit. But recognizing these low moods and finding ways to improve them is crucial for our well-being. Today, we’re diving into the topic of low moods—how to recognize them and discover effective ways to lift ourselves up. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

At 13, Bethany Hamilton faced a life-changing moment when a shark attack left her with one arm. But just one month later, she was back on her surfboard, determined to conquer the waves. Through sheer willpower and unwavering resilience, Bethany adapted her technique and soared to new heights, even winning a national title. Her incredible journey of overcoming physical and mental challenges is a powerful testament to the human spirit. Today, her story continues to inspire millions, proving that with determination, no obstacle is too great. Today we explore two of Joe's favorite mindset sayings to reframe tough times. "This Too Shall Pass" and “What Does This Make Possible?" You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE

Imagine walking into a room full of strangers and leaving with a bunch of new friends. Sounds like a dream, right? Well, as a self-described introvert, I know firsthand how hard and even a bit scary it can be to enter a room full of strangers. It’s like being a cat at a dog show! But despite that, I love making new friends, and I’m sure many of you feel the same way. So, how do we navigate this socially awkward situation and actually have a good time? Today, we’re going to explore some tried-and-true techniques that will help you connect authentically with strangers. Who knows, by the end of this episode, you could be as charming as Ferris Bueller minus the charade and at least not hiding in the bathroom all night. You can support the show by visiting dudesinprogress.com/support. Visit our Facebook page HERE and our Twitter page HERE