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Change is one of the only constants in life, but a lot of people are really adverse to it. TBH, I actually thrive in change and chaos, I’m always seeking newness, so this week I’m sharing how I overcome fear of change to approach it with a growth mindset. Tim Ferris says “People would rather be unhappy than uncertain.” Change is hard because it comes with a loss of control, and it often means letting go of how things are to embrace something new. But what is the safety and comfort of remaining the same costing you? And how do we get better at such an important, but uncomfortable, life skill? Tune in as I chat about: If you’re toying with changes in your life right now, just remember that people often regret what they didn’t do more than what they did. You got this. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. TBH dating can be stressful and exhausting if you’ve been on the hunt for “the one” for a while. Whether you’re newly single or a seasoned app swiper, we gotchu! We’re throwing it back to the most important lesson we learned from relationship coach Lauren Zoeller: The non-negotiables you should establish going into any relationship, and an insightful exercise to help you figure out your needs in a relationship, and how to give them to yourself, first. Consider this the healthiest dating pep talk you’ll hear, in 7 minutes. Lauren is a CTA certified Love & Relationship Coach, motivational speaker and podcast host. She’s the creator of The Aligned Love Experience™, a coaching program that teaches women how to attract love. She’s been featured in international publications like Prevention, Shape, Business Insider, Thrive Global, Money Inc., and more. Believe us when we say love is her language! Listen to our full episode with Lauren here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. For show notes and more adulting tips, visit: teachmehowtoadult.ca Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultpodcast @yunggillianaire @cailynmichaan Follow Lauren: laurenzoeller.com @laurenzoeller PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

WTF happened to job security? A new round of tech and media layoffs are announced every week (looking at you, Tesla and Microsoft) and booming industries go bust faster than Tswift tickets sell out. But on the flip side, with layoffs becoming the new norm, we’re starting to detach our worth and loyalty from a corporate job. Gone are the days when quitting a job and jumping between companies was frowned upon: We’re not down with toxic work environments and underpaid gigs. So how do you prepare for the ending of a job, whether by choice or by layoff? Join Carolyn and I as we chat about: Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed. It's Mental Health Awareness month, so we're throwing it back to some potent advice from therapist Megan Rafuse on how to battle stress and burnout, and the key exercises she does to find balance and build up her toolkit of fulfilling and nourishing activities. Megan is a mental health innovator who specializes in millennial wellness. She’s the owner of the Toronto-based therapy clinic, Shift Collab, which offers one-on-one therapy and mental health workshops, catering to busy, highly-driven young adults. Track your mental health toolkit with our free downloadable Emotional Bank Account and Life Balance Worksheet. Listen to our full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

If you’ve dreamt of travelling the world while you work and living that #DigitalNomad life, it’s time to stop dreaming and start planning, because it’s more possible than you might think. For remote WFH employees, freelancers and entrepreneurs, our ability to work from just about anywhere is wildly underused. There’s a whole world out there that we can enjoy between meetings, with better views than our kitchen table. So shoot your workcation shot and tune into this updated throwback episode with Gill and Cailyn on all the tips and planning hacks to kill it in your career while travelling to epic places. Prepare for takeoff as we chat about: Travel on a budget with Kindred’s members-only house-swapping! Earn free credits with my invite code: GIL.BER1 Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed. If you’ve been feeling sluggish, tired, negative and like you're sleepwalking through your life, you've come to the right place. Sometimes the fix to low mood and energy is lifestyle tweaks, the proper supplement protocol (listen in for the surprising supplement that can help with depression), and direct sunlight. So I called in the biohacking pro, Chloe Deutscher. Chloe is a chemical engineer who has dedicated her career to the intersection of science, consciousness, and mental health. She’s the co-founder and the CEO of Liquid Culture, a biotech company focused on novel fungi manufacturing and developing innovative products for optimal wellbeing. She shares her actionable tips, knowledge, and experience in the fields of biohacking, mental health, and psychedelics on her popular TikTok account, where she empowers people to overcome mental health challenges like ADHD, anxiety, and depression. Listen to our full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Corporate culture is changing faster than ever before. We have quiet quitting and AI, mass layoffs and Gen-Z disruptors, side hustles and WFH warriors. How do you stand out, and how do we even figure out what we want from our careers? I'm joined today by TMHTA team member Carolyn Schissler for a roundtable on our experiences, successes, and failures in the workplace, the state of work, and how we can make it work for us. Tune in as we chat about: Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from past episodes that you might have missed. It's Earth Day, and sustainability is extra top-of-mind today.,, but it matters everyday. So we're throwing it back to this breakdown of how you can easily go green, the realities of recycling, compost, and waste, and how we can grow produce even in the smallest of condo spaces. We hope this helps you make some simple swaps and changes in your life that will make a big difference for our beautiful planet! Listen to our full episode here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

For all the Bachelorette fans tuning in, today is a must-listen, as I got to dive deep on allllll of the things with Bachelorette alum Hannah Brown. We talk relationships, therapy, cheating, mental health, insecurities, success, and how to really define ourselves when the world tries to put us in boxes... because whether you’re a TV star or an everyday muggle, we’re all trying to figure how who we are outside of the expectations and conditioning that have been placed on us. Hannah has been through some insane life experiences… it’s clear that she’s really doing the work to overcome it all and to show up as her best self, and I’m grateful she could share some of that work with us today. Hannah is a Television Personality, Podcast Host, and NYT Bestselling Author of her memoir, God Bless This Mess. After winning Miss Alabama USA 2018, she was a fan favourite on The Bachelor and then The Bachelorette, she won Dancing With The Stars, and she crushed it on the FOX show Special Forces. She hosts a self-improvement podcast called Better Tomorrow, and she shares her authenticity and vulnerability with her millions of followers on social media. And now, she’s releasing her debut romance novel “Mistakes We Never Made” this May. Tune in as we chat about: Follow Hannah on Instagram and TikTok Get Hannah's new book, Mistakes We Never Made. This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. It's spring cleaning time, and I dunno about you, but after about an hour of disassembling my house to organize all the clutter I've hidden away, I succumb to overwhelm and lose motivation. So we’re throwing it back to the top advice we got from expert Megan Golightly, on why it's easy to accumulate clutter, how to rethink the way we deal with our possessions, and the order in which we should be organizing and cleaning . Megan is a professional home organizer and founder of Calgary-based business, Simplified, which helps people organize, pack and unpack their homes. Megan blends her degree in psychology and passion for neuroscience research with practical organization strategies. Listen to our full episode with Megan Golightly here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Follow Megan: go-simplified.com @gosimplified/ Organization Guides: ​​go-simplified.com/guides PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome back to my new series “I’m the problem, it’s me,” where I call bullshit on myself for the self-sabotage and mistakes I keep on making, because that’s the stuff that teaches us the most. Today is a vulnerable one. Remember that recent “show me you at 21” trend that circulated on social media? Well that deep-dive through old photo albums and Facebook timelines sent me into a certifiable spiral. Reflecting on who I was in my teens and early 20s, I was confronted with a tidal wave of self hate over how I looked and dressed, how much I drank, how obnoxiously and overly-sexualized I present myself, and how disconnected I seemed to be from who I really am. The judgment and shame towards my past self was overwhelming, until I realized that my current self is in fact the problem. It’s easy to be critical in hindsight, but when we were young, we were almost always doing the best we could with what we knew. I’ve spent a good chunk of adulthood resenting the versions of myself that came before this one. So it’s me, Gill, I’m the problem, it's me. And in today’s episode I’m rewriting my relationship with my past, and choosing compassion. Join me as I dive into: I hope we can all learn to love the past eras that brought us to this one, and in the meantime, know that I love you. Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

It’s earth month, and every April we find ourselves reevaluating our consumption habits and examining how we can lower our carbon footprint. But TBH, it feels hella stressful. It's overwhelming trying to track alllll the things we're “supposed” to be doing. Between buying sustainable food, conserving water, shopping secondhand, swapping to eco-friendly appliances and tech, composting, and reducing waste, the list feels never-ending, and it feels like we're just not doing enough. So we're throwing it back to an honest and tactical episode that changed our perspective on sustainable living, with the accidental environmentalist herself, Jules Grieve. Because it's easy to let perfect become the enemy of good, and being environmentally conscious is about finding realistic swaps that actually work with your lifestyle. Going green is a game of progress over perfection. Julia is a TV personality, entrepreneur, fashion designer, former international model, and founder of the incredible Preloved, North America’s leading sustainable fashion brand that has diverted over a million sweaters from landfills. She’s CityLine’s eco expert and regularly appears on Global News and in Canada’s biggest media outlets. Her mission is to show people how simple changes, over time, can have a huge impact, and she’s showing the world how we can take an eco-friendly approach to home design, health, food, fashion and lifestyle. Tune in as we chat about: Follow Julia: @prelovedjules juliagrieve.ca getpreloved.com PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

If an endless supply of “what ifs” are keeping you stuck in fear and inaction every time you need to make a decision or move forward, this tool could be a game-changer for you. In today’s episode, we’re diving into the valuable advice my career coach shared last year to help stop catastrophic thinking and get to the root of what’s actually causing you worry or paralysis. Because the answer to “what’s the worst that could happen?” usually isn’t as bad as we make it out to be, and even the worst case scenarios are almost always figureoutable. Whether you’re stuck in business decisions, dating, networking, trip-planning or big life changes, keep digging one layer deeper until you find out what’s at the core of your worries, and if that’s something you could handle. Tune in to hear more about: Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to this week’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip that you might have missed. There’s more than one way to succeed, and it doesn’t need to be the marriage-house-baby-corporate promotion-trajectory. But it's easy to get caught up in comparison when everyone else is racing down a similar path, and it feels like we're going a completely different direction. We're throwing it back to this potent pep-talk on radically accepting the season we're in, breaking up with comparison, and celebrating our own unique milestones. Listen to our full episode here! Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

A big focus in my life this past year has been improving my health and creating habits and routines that are better for me. But I still really struggle with creating structure and efficient routines around productivity. Thankfully, today’s guest Siff Haider is well-versed in both. As an entrepreneur in the wellness space, Siff has developed an impressive balance across her work life and health habits, and in today’s episode, she reveals the tips and strategies that she used to improve her health and build a wildly successful business. Siff is the co-founder of popular natural supplement and wellness brand, Arrae, which offers high-quality supplements that solve targeted issues like bloating, constipation and anxiety. She’s also the host of The Dream Bigger Podcast, where she interviews guests like Tinx, Glucose Goddess, Lauryn Bosstick, Miranda Kerr, and more, about health and wellness, entrepreneurship, beauty and self-care. Tune in as we chat about Follow Siff on Instagram Check out Arrae. Listen to Siff's Podcast, The Dream Bigger Podcast. Resources mentioned: The Five Minute Journal, The Artist's Way, Glucose Goddess. This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to this week’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. If you struggle with anxiety, this week's advice from neuroscientist Dr. Kristen Willeumier is a must-listen. Tune in for the exact supplement protocol Dr. Willeumier has studied for alleviating anxiety, and as always, be sure to consult with a doctor before making big changes. Dr. Willeumier has her PHD and Masters in neurobiology, Masters in Physiological science, and is an award-winning neuroscientist with expertise in neuroimaging and the genetic analysis of neurological disorders. She has led research on the impact of head trauma in sports with the NFL, and she’s published research on PTSD, autism, psychiatric treatment, and much more. Listen to our full episode with Dr. Kristen here! Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Follow Dr. Kristen: www.drwilleumier.com Read Biohack Your Brain Save on your next customized supplement subscription with Care/of This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

If you think your life isn’t full of little miracles, you might not be paying attention. The world is full of magic, if only we paused to notice it. And the more we recognize everyday magic and meet it half way, the more we receive it. I’m joined today by my dear friend Sophia Bentaher, one of the most magical souls I’ve met, who has developed a potent recipe for creating community, connecting beyond the robotic tendencies of corporations and customer service protocols, and manifesting the things we want. Sophia is a producer, talent manager to Spoken Word Artist IN-Q, a creative, a master baker, and a free spirit who has carved out her own unconventional path while living across multiple countries. Join us as we chat about: Our show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to today’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from one of our guests that you might have missed. We’re throwing it back to some key advice from Alyssa Davies, the mastermind behind award-winning Canadian personal finance website and YouTube channel, Mixed Up Money, where she dishes out financial content for women who care about their money. Alyssa published Her first book, The 100 Day Financial Goal Journal, in 2020, and launched a personal finance podcast with her husband, Learn From Us, where they make talking about money feel less awkward and more relatable by sharing their own tough lessons. Listen to our full episode with Alyssa here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Follow Alyssa: mixedupmoney.com instagram.com/mixedupmoney Budgeting Downloadables: mixedupmoney.com/shop PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Our relationship with food is so complex and important for both our physical and mental health. I’ve spent a lot of my adult life trying to deprogram diet culture and deal with guilt around certain foods, reprogramming the morality we place on how we eat. And I've spent the last few years trying to figure out how to use food to make me feel physically good... how can I nourish myself, how can I optimize myself with what I consume, and how food impacts my hormone imbalances. So today, we're diving deep with Amber Romaniuk on emotional eating, diet culture, food triggers, and the impact of hormones and cravings. Amber is an Emotional Eating, Digestive and Hormone Expert, with 10 years experience helping women create body confidence, intuition and optimal health through mindset healing, self-care and overcoming self-sabotage with food. Her podcast “The No Sugarcoating Podcast” has over a million downloads. Amber overcame her own emotional eating journey after gaining and losing more than 1000 lbs combined, spending over $50,000 on binge foods and spending 5 years balancing her hormones, digestion. Now she helps others achieve Body Freedom so they can experience true confidence and health. Tune in as we chat about: Follow Amber: https://amberapproved.ca https://instagram.com/amberromaniuk https://amberapproved.ca/podcast/ https://www.youtube.com/@amberromaniuk This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult

Welcome to this week’s ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip that you might have missed. All of us have baggage, and more often than not, these past traumas aren’t even our fault. But when we haven't healed, these past experiences can lead us to feel triggered AF, which can strain all of our relationships. So today, we're throwing it back to the biggest lessons we learned about how to take responsibility for our own triggers, and how to create space and boundaries between our emotions and other people's baggage. Listen to our full episode here! Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. This show is produced by: For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. PS: If you’ve been dreaming of pivoting into podcasting but aren’t sure where to start or how to grow, check our consulting services at teachmehowtoadult.ca/howtopodcast. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter: teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram: @teachmehowtoadultmedia @gillian.berner Follow us on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadult