
Other People's Words
Lissa Soep
An illuminating, intricately woven memoir about friendships, loss, and language—a stunning affirmation of the conversations that shape and sustain us, even in the presence of death
Lissa Soep lost two friends in quick succession. Christine died slowly, from a mysterious illness, while Jonnie died suddenly, too young. In the ten years since, Soep has found herself among those left behind—spouses, lovers, family, friends—whose grief could have rendered them silent, at a loss for words. Instead, she has discovered the opposite: a wild and inexhaustible dialogue unleashed by their absence.
Other People’s Words is an incandescent tribute to deep friendship, honoring this lasting bond that has no special name and showing us how we can both cherish and grieve our loved ones through the words that have described and defined our lifetimes. Soep traces intimacy and longing through everyday conversations, in fragments of text messages, letters, postcards, emails, poems, voicemails. Inspired by the Russian philosopher Mikhail Bakhtin’s idea that our language is “overflowing with other people’s words,” Soep realizes that her friends’ words, remembered and imagined, are portals to other times and places, to other versions of ourselves and the ones we love. Dialogues do not end when a relationship or person is gone; they accrue new layers of meaning, continuing to echo, speak, and guide us forward.
As Soep discovers through this tapestry of conversations, language—as with love—is boundless. Our words are never locked into a single moment or limited to a single lifetime; they contain an “inner infinity.” Other People’s Words is an intimate, original, and profoundly generous look at the power of language to nurture life amid the wreckage of loss, in this moment and beyond.
Featuring a bonus interview with the author, Mercy Carbonell and Emily Newmann.
Duration - 5h 11m.
Author - Lissa Soep.
Narrator - Lissa Soep.
Published Date - Tuesday, 16 January 2024.
Copyright - © 2024 Lissa Soep ©.
Location:
United States
Description:
An illuminating, intricately woven memoir about friendships, loss, and language—a stunning affirmation of the conversations that shape and sustain us, even in the presence of death Lissa Soep lost two friends in quick succession. Christine died slowly, from a mysterious illness, while Jonnie died suddenly, too young. In the ten years since, Soep has found herself among those left behind—spouses, lovers, family, friends—whose grief could have rendered them silent, at a loss for words. Instead, she has discovered the opposite: a wild and inexhaustible dialogue unleashed by their absence. Other People’s Words is an incandescent tribute to deep friendship, honoring this lasting bond that has no special name and showing us how we can both cherish and grieve our loved ones through the words that have described and defined our lifetimes. Soep traces intimacy and longing through everyday conversations, in fragments of text messages, letters, postcards, emails, poems, voicemails. Inspired by the Russian philosopher Mikhail Bakhtin’s idea that our language is “overflowing with other people’s words,” Soep realizes that her friends’ words, remembered and imagined, are portals to other times and places, to other versions of ourselves and the ones we love. Dialogues do not end when a relationship or person is gone; they accrue new layers of meaning, continuing to echo, speak, and guide us forward. As Soep discovers through this tapestry of conversations, language—as with love—is boundless. Our words are never locked into a single moment or limited to a single lifetime; they contain an “inner infinity.” Other People’s Words is an intimate, original, and profoundly generous look at the power of language to nurture life amid the wreckage of loss, in this moment and beyond. Featuring a bonus interview with the author, Mercy Carbonell and Emily Newmann. Duration - 5h 11m. Author - Lissa Soep. Narrator - Lissa Soep. Published Date - Tuesday, 16 January 2024. Copyright - © 2024 Lissa Soep ©.
Language:
English
Opening Credits
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Dedication
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Epigraph
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Itaru Sasaki Bought
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I Had Two
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You Should Come.mp3
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Mercy and I
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Mercy Sat Down
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In An Anthropology
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Roma Had An
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For Years When
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Emily and Jonnie
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Mikhail Mikhailovich Bakhtin
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Spring Break 1997
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There's Daddy's Bag
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There Was A
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In The Months
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When Mercy Was
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After Three Years
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One Of Bakhtin's
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Just Before The
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Five Years Later
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There's A Passage
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In The Months 2
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Time Passed
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If I Can
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Mercy Fell For
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I Had A
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Emily Has A
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Mercy and Christine
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Christine Moved To
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In 2013 Christine
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All Through Spring
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July 2013
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We Stopped In
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August 2013
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Fall Came
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September 2013
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October 2013
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The CAT Scan
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My Neurology Appointment
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Will Mail Your
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I Crashed On
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Jamie Went Up
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Christine No Longer
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Jamie Sensed That
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Hey Christine
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Christine Could Barely
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Fall 2014
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From Inside A
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You Should Come 2
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On That Visit
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I Have Heard
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Long Before Bakhtin's
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With Illness And
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One Night
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Filling Speech With
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There Was A 2
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Before All This
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In One Of
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Three Years After
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A Few Weeks
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Over The Years
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I Came Home
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I'd Finished A
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In 2022
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In 2023
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In The Essay
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Mercy Has A
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Author Interview
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Acknowledgements
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About the Author
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Closing Credits
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