3-21 NoKiddin' Gambling Addiction Recovery Podcast

634 Embarking on the path of addiction recovery is a courageous step towards a healthier and more fulfilling life. As you navigate this transformative journey, it's crucial to focus on finding happiness to support your healing and long-term well-being. In today's episode of 3-21 No Kiddin' Recovery Podcast, I am joined by Marina Shakour Haber. She is known as the ‘Happiness Guru’, and seeks to convey deep insights into higher awareness so that all people can live happier and more fulfilling lives while contributing to the greater good of all. Marina is a life coach who works with individuals, groups, and corporations and offers virtual and online courses. She is also an inspirational and motivational speaker who combines her profound insights into life's greatest mysteries with her keen sense of humor and lightheartedness causing her audiences to tune in, engage, and leave with a greater understanding of wellbeing and empowerment. Here are some of the topics that we talked about during this episode: Remember, finding happiness in addiction recovery is a continuous process. It's about embracing self-discovery, self-compassion, and the journey of personal growth. Allow yourself to experience joy, celebrate your accomplishments, and stay committed to your well-being. The happiness you seek is within reach—embrace it and let it guide you toward a life of fulfillment and purpose. Check out Marina's books, all available on Amazon: ‘Dream A Better Dream’,‘Your GPS to HappinessWant to connect with Marina? Visit her: Website: https://dreamabetterdreamnow.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DreamABetterDreamNow Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marina_shakour_haber LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marina-haber-b0 Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

IF YOU SEE THIS, IT MEANS YOU WERE QUICKER THAN ME. Please diregard. I am checking on my tech. Support the show9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

Support the show9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

Day 18 of the #Fearless30Challenge: I don’t normally talk like this, but it has to be said! I can’t hold it back anymore today! It’s all coming out… If you desire to have: 1. Fulfillment 2.Joy & Happiness 3. Great Relationships 4. Presence 5. SERENITY In your life… Then it’s time that I call BS on escaping! Specifically- ADDICTION Here’s the thing: Whether it's… Gambling 🎰 Drinking 🍷🍻 Technology/ Phone 📲🖥️ Food/Sugar- 🥓 🍨 Sex/Porn-🍑 🍆 Exercise-🏌️🏀 Bad Relationships- 💑 Your negative thoughts- 🧠 In my combined 8+ years of experience in recovery, I have found one thing to be true- EVERYONE IS IMPACTED BY ADDICTION! So, if you want to start living and thriving you have to STOP ESCAPING! PERIOD. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

“Day 17 of the #Fearless30Challenge: My Tale of Resilience… Today, I’m going to fearlessly share my entire journey with you… Once upon a time, I embarked on a remarkable journey, a journey that shaped me into the person I am today. It all started when I faced my greatest challenge, ADDICTION. Through the years, I knew it was destroying me. I knew I had to summon my courage and confront it head-on. Throughout my journey, I encountered numerous obstacles and setbacks, like stealing money from ex husband, getting in trouble at work for being too drunk at events, and dealing with many deaths and losses through the years. Each relapse tested my fortitude and ability to overcome. There were moments when I doubted my abilities, but I refused to let fear hold me back. With every urge conquered, I discovered newfound strength within me. In rehab, I learned to embrace vulnerability, step outside my comfort zone, and harness my inner power. Along the way, I met extraordinary mentors, allies, and guides who provided guidance and support when I needed it most. Through my journey, I transformed from drunken gambaholic to Bobbie the Awesome, changing my ADDICTUDE to GRATITUDE! It was a profound metamorphosis that unleashed my true potential and awakened my purpose, 3-21 NO KIDDIN- RECOVERY PLAYGROUNDS. Now, I stand here, fearlessly sharing my journey, because I want you to see that the bleakest times can turn into the precursors to the brightest times in your life. Remember, within you lies the power to conquer anything that comes your way. Embrace your journey, for it will lead you to extraordinary places. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 16 of the #Fearless30Challenge: I AM WORTH IT!! 💪 This goes for me and YOU!!! Today, I am going to fearlessly reflect on the old beliefs I used to have, beliefs that may resonate with many of my friends and readers. I used to believe I was unlovable and just not worth it. Not worth to be in healthy relationships Not worth having more than welfare cheese and processed food Not worth becoming a leader Not worth having a LIFE BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS!. It was a deeply ingrained belief that held me back from realizing my true potential although I didn’t learn I felt this way until I found recovery. My subconscious theory was that if my own biological father didn’t love me enough to be present and parent, how could anyone else love me and see my value. I now have the understanding that he was a product of addiction too and he just didn’t know better. But as I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and growth, my perspective shifted. I now firmly believe I AM WORTH IT! This new belief has allowed me to dream bigger, take care of myself, and empowered me to reach for the extraordinary. I understand that many people impacted by addiction may also hold similar limiting beliefs. That's why I am passionate about guiding them towards a transformation in their thinking. I believe that everyone needs a chance and everyone is WORTH taking a chance on. Through my expertise, support, and proven strategies, I help my listeners and tribe of people challenge and overcome these old beliefs. Together, we create a new narrative that empowers us to embrace our value, our potential and achieve ANY FUCK#’G THING WE DESIRE!!! It's time to break free from the shackles of old beliefs and step into a world of limitless possibilities. Join me on this fearless journey of personal transformation and let's rewrite the script of our lives. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

632 Are you searching for the secret to a life that truly fulfills you? Look no further. The key to unlocking a life of deep meaning, joy, and satisfaction lies within you, waiting to be discovered. It's time to embark on a transformative journey and embrace the power that resides within your own hands. Our guest for today's episode is Sara Ting. She is a Visionary, Diversity & Inclusion Trainer. Sara is also a TEDx speaker and author. Aside from these, Sara is the founder and president of World Unity, Inc., a non-profit organization dedicated to making a continuing and lasting contribution towards the elimination of all forms of racial, ethnic, religious, and cultural bigotry, prejudices, discrimination, and biases. Some of the topics that she discussed during our chat are: A fully fulfilling life demands self-care and well-being. Take care of your physical, mental, and emotional health. Prioritize self-care practices that rejuvenate your mind, body, and soul. Nurture your body with nourishing food, exercise regularly, and get ample rest. Explore mindfulness and meditation to find inner peace amidst the chaos of life. Embrace hobbies and activities that bring you joy and recharge your spirit. Remember, the key to a fully fulfilling life lies within you. Embrace self-discovery, set meaningful goals, cultivate gratitude and positivity, foster authentic connections, prioritize self-care, and make a difference in the world. Unlock the door to a life that fills your heart with purpose, joy, and fulfillment. Your journey starts now. Want to connect with Sara? Visit her: Website: http://www.worldunityinc.org/ http://asthesun.net/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sara.ting1/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-ting-08448b2/ Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

Day 15 of the #Fearless30Challenge: The MOST Powerful Investment I Ever Made! Today, I want to take a moment to fearlessly reflect on a significant investment decision that has had a profound impact on my life. This post may be as cliche as the come, but it is my truth! The most POWERFUL Investment I ever made was into my dream of Recovery Playgrounds! I made the decision to invest in myself, the podcast and the 3-21 Dream. It was a leap of faith, as it required me to get past my fears and keep fighting!. Many around me question my choice, but deep down, I knew it was the right path for me. This investment decision has been a game-changer in more ways than I could have ever imagined. The person I am becoming on this journey is someone I thought I would never know… The mission itself created a 🔥in me that is indistinguishable The Podcast 🎤 has allowed me to meet and connect with many knowledgeable experts and amazing people 🌟 Learning to podcast, to be an entrepreneur, marketing, technology all of the coursework and recovery work that I have done has challenged me, developed my mindset and contributed to me living the BEST LIFE EVER! 💪♥️ NONE of this would be possible without committing to myself and the mission. Spending on courses, seminars, events, travel and all the things that go with that, is SO FLIPPING WORTH IT! I share this story not to boast about my success, but to encourage you to fearlessly explore investment opportunities in your purpose, aligned with your vision and values. Trust your instincts, do your due diligence, and be willing to take calculated risks. Remember, the most powerful investments often extend beyond financial gains! Let's fearlessly embrace the world of investing, leverage our resources, and make choices that have the potential to create lasting impact and fulfillment. Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 11 of the #Fearless30Challenge: Giving Back is Part of the Plan! I'm fearlessly declaring my biggest giveback goals today, because it fuels me to be more, do more and create more! In everything I do, my vision is to increase recovery from addiction and help people live playful happier lives! I aspire to create a world where people heal for themselves and for future generations. To fulfill this vision, giving back and a non profit side of the business is an integral part of my mission. One of my biggest giveback goals is transitional housing for the folks coming out of rehab & prison, veterans and people living on the street. People will be able to train for jobs, have resources like food, shelter, interviewing clothes and training that will enable a smoother transition back into everyday life. Coming out of rehab or jail, most people will be going back to the circumstances they came from. If where they came from contributed to the addiction or using was a way to cope with those environments, why would we send people back there? We need to give everyone a chance, WITH THE RESOURCES TO DO SO VERY AVAILABLE, and expect their Best and expect that they will fail. Let’s help them have a better chance of succeeding! Share your own giveback goals and let's inspire each other to make a meaningful difference. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 12 of the #Fearless30Challenge: This ONE Failure ( Misconception) Shaped Who I Am Today and How We Are Going to get the 3-21 Dream to Fruition. Today, I want to fearlessly open up and share with you my biggest failure: Trying to do it ALL ALONE!!! We tell people all the time that you can’t recover alone… what in the world made me think that I could execute a plan that would impact millions of lives alone? 🙄 Pretty much nothing went as I imagined or tried for. I don’t like to think of this all as failing. I believe I was learning! Failing to me is defined by GIVING UP! I have not given up yet, so I can’t have failed. I just have a lot more knowledge, skills, relationships, clarity and resources than I did before. Embrace your failures/ LEARNINGS, GROW, and let them guide you toward a brighter future. #Fearless30Challenge # wecandoit #recoveryrocks #failing Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 10 of the #Fearless30Challenge: Why I do What I do… Today, I want to fearlessly share with you why I do what I do: I am driven by a deep sense of purpose and passion for recovery, mental wellness & life options. It fuels my every action, motivates me to go the extra mile, and reminds me of the impact I can make in the lives of others. I KNOW that this is my mission and it will impact the world and save lives. I believe that everything that has happened in my life and is happening, is for this purpose. This belief propels me forward, inspires me to overcome obstacles, and pushes me to continuously strive for excellence. I am committed to redefining recovery and expanding the choices to achieve it. I am committed to teaching adults how to play again I am committed to reaching those who have been discarded, ignored or who have given up on themselves. I am committed to making the world a better place for my beautiful niece and the army of others that haven’t been shown all that is POSSIBLE! The ones who can’t dream outside crime, addiction, darkness, abuse and all the other things that are causing depression, suicide, cutting, addictions and anxiety. I am committed to figuring out how to make it all work by being the big mouth, mistake making, risk taking advocate that does things differently than they have been done before… no matter how hard it gets… no matter how many people say I can’t and no matter how much I feel like just can’t crack the code on making it come together. I won’t be doing it alone. There are many of you out there that want the same things. When we UNITE and start working together, it WILL happen! I invite you to fearlessly reflect on your own why. What drives you? What ignites your passion? Embrace it, nurture it, and let it guide you towards a purposeful and fulfilling life. Together, let's fearlessly pursue our why and create a meaningful impact that reverberates far beyond ourselves. Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

“Day 9 of the #Fearless30Challenge: Who I am NOT Through my personal development journey the last 6 + years, I have really evaluated who the humans I best align and connect with and want to share my life & time with. These attributes are not conducive to who I am anymore. 1. Lying & Dishonesty 2. Manipulation & Victimhood 3. Laziness 4. Tardiness 5. Averageness- settling. 6. Quitting 7.Inauthenticity or being superficial 8. Closemindedness 9. Selfishness 10. EGO- driven This is where I am today on my values and personal integrity. I actually start a course on Saturday to learn more about values and I am sure I will have more to share after that! Thanks for hanging with me during this 30 day challenge, where I am sharing, practicing writing & tech, as well as learning an growing each day! Much ♥️to all you Beautiful People! #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

631 In a world filled with diverse beliefs and ideologies, Christianity stands as a guiding light for millions of people around the globe. Rooted in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, Christianity offers a profound message of redemption, compassion, and the pursuit of a meaningful existence. Join us on a captivating exploration of Christianity, as we delve into its core principles, historical significance, and the transformative power it holds for individuals and communities alike. In today's episode of 3-21 No Kiddin', I'm joined by Roberta Grimes. She is a business attorney who had two extraordinary experiences of light in childhood. She then spent decades studying nearly 200 years of abundant and consistent communications from the dead, quantum mechanics, and the nature of consciousness, and she shares what she has learned about what actually is going on in an enjoyable and easily understood trilogy. She wrote several books that discuss early Christianity, death, and the teaching inside the Bible. Some of the topics that Roberta discussed during our chat are: Reflect on your spiritual journey: Take time for introspection and reflect on your own beliefs, values, and the questions that stir within you. Consider how Christianity's teachings and principles align with or challenge your worldview. Explore whether embracing aspects of Christianity may bring new meaning, purpose, or a deeper connection to something greater than yourself. Want to connect with Roberta? Visit her: Website: https://robertagrimes.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/robertagrimesauthor/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/roberta-grimes-12ba4a72/ Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

Since our last Chat, Bernie has updated his recovery group and become a 501C3. Him and his community can help get you literature and other resources that you may need. Below is the link to check it out! www.pghrfellowship.com On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/881073189775004 Email Contact: peoplegrowinghope@gmail.com Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

Another day that the Fearless Challenge I am participating in isn't quite relevant to you all. Instead, I read the reading for May 31 out of the One Day at a time book and shared my thoughts on that. Have a wonderful day beautiful people! Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

The fearless challenge theme wasn't a super fit for a bonus show, so I shared my stresses of the day and how I combated them. Thanks for tuning in! Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 6 of the #Fearless30Challenge: This Used to Scare Me A LOT! Today, I want to fearlessly share with you something that used to scare me: FAILING! There was a time when FAILING would send shivers down my spine and fill me with dread, and SHAME! It held me back in life/business, limited my potential, and prevented me from trying, nevermind excelling. It brought me to the point where I realized, there’s NO way I could continue doing this anymore to myself. I discovered that failing was merely an illusion. It was a self-imposed barrier that I could overcome once I reframed what failing really was. To me, failing is giving up. I used to think it was about checking the boxes to be accepted or revered by others. That shit was EGO! One of my daily goals is to not let any part of my life be dictated by ego, nevermind the definition of my success! Now, failure no longer holds power over me. Instead, it has become a catalyst for growth, a reminder that embracing the unknown leads to personal transformation. I CAN’T fail, if I DON’T GIVE UP! I encourage you to fearlessly confront your own fears. It may be failure, public speaking, the unknown, or even success. Embrace the challenge and unlock the incredible possibilities that lie beyond. Together, let's inspire each other to fearlessly step into the unknown and unlock our full potential. #Fearless30Challenge #gamblingaddiction #recovery #sober #recoveryispossible #bealivetolive Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 5 of the #Fearless30Challenge: “Biggest Mistake I Ever Made" Today I am supposed to share with you the biggest mistake I ever made. This is hard for me for 2 major reasons: 1-The list is too big for me to name just one 2-I no longer view mistakes as mistakes, but instead new milestones on my journey, to learn and grow from. Since I want to be complete in this challenge, I will share a HUGE MINDSET MISTAKE I made 4 years ago that could have cost me the 3-21 No Kiddin plan. When I left my day job in 2020 to work full time on my dream, I thought I could learn what I needed to, execute and make the money and do the things needed to launch my $50 million dollar vision… WRONG!!! What I have learned the past 4 years is that I can’t do everything, I can’t learn everything, I don’t know the solution to everything, nor do I have the time for all of the things! The last few months I have decided that I will build an AWESOME ARMY… ( Love that as a tribe name 😉) We are building a Facebook group that will be dedicated to the volunteers that want to help with the movement of changing how we do Recovery & Life. If you are interested in being part, please let me know! It was actually quite selfish of me to try to keep the mission to myself. Although I know it is still my responsibility, I am going to enlist the help of others who want to give back, who are in recovery and those who have skill sets that I don’t have. This will help 3-21 No Kiddin become the MAGIC initiative it is meant to be! Sooooo, it has become clear- Thinking I could do it alone was my BIGGEST Mistake! #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

“Day 4 of the #Fearless30Challenge: My Superpower Today, I want to fearlessly share with you my Superpower: well, I have a few, but I will focus on VISIONARY with my mission I discovered my Superpower when I was at an event in Dubai in 2021. The speaker said that “the reason others can’t see your vision like you do is because God gave it to you” It was a moment of realization, an inner awakening that revealed the unique gift I possess. The Chain of Recovery Playgrounds MUST be created and executed by me so that it comes to existence. It would be selfish of me not to persevere and learn and do whatever is needed to help the millions that need it. My Superpower enables me to have PURPOSE. It empowers me to make a difference, to bring joy, to inspire, or to create positive change in the world around me. I embrace my Superpower with gratitude and use it as a force for good. I channel my Superpower to uplift others and make a positive impact. I encourage you to discover and embrace your own Superpower. It may be having a dream or vision, taking the time to smile at someone,, or grammar correction like my friend Peggy. Embrace it fearlessly, nurture it, and let it shine bright. Together, let's celebrate our Superpowers and unleash our potential to create a better world. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show

"Day 3 of the #Fearless30Challenge: I believe these 3 things will help millions of people have better lives.. I fearlessly declare my unwavering belief that help for millions of people impacted by addiction is possible with these 3 things… I haven’t always felt this way and my recovery journey filled with inspiring mentors, informative connections and my evolving faith have changed my perspective on this and so much more. These 3 facets have helped me become a better human, leader, recovery ambassador and will help us make an impact on people struggling with addiction, folks who are without homes and living on the streets, and essentially any human we come into contact with. #1- GRACE & COMPASSION Using these 2 premises to allow people to be, including myself has changed my spirit, my relationships, my work life and everything related to people. Instead of my Addictude taking over and judging, I can offer empathy and support to others. #2- LOVE Love- unconditionally, even when it may seem hard is the biggest gift we can give ourselves and others. Love not only saves us from being in hate and negativity, but spreads a ripple larger than we can imagine. #COLLABORATION The last few years have taught me that I can’t do my mission alone. It would take me a few lifetimes to learn all I need to know about fundraising, addiction, recovery strategies, business owning, people, cultures, and all the other components that are need to make my mission possible. There is a story I heard recently about the Clydesdale horses… Separately they can pull 8000 pounds, HOWEVER, two together can pull 32,000. This is how business and life work. In a world where conformity often takes precedence, I choose to stand boldly in my belief in these 3 premises and their execution to make the world better, and I refuse to be silenced or swayed by doubt or criticism. #Fearless30Challenge Support the show 9 of us wrote about the concept of Belonging and share our individual stories about how we found belonging. Please check it out in the link below! Link to our book- BELONGING- Secrets to Soothe the Soul https://amzn.to/45qS6pl Get in touch with me! Questions or feedback or just want to connect? Email address : bobbie@321NoKiddin.com Facebook : www.facebook.com/321NoKiddin Instagram : www.instagram.com/bobbietheawesomest Pinterest : www.pinterest.ph/bobbiemalatesta LinkedIn : www.linkedin.com/in/bobbiemalatesta YouTube : www.youtube.com/channel/UCkUV58i4z2Se3jXuDldcXaA Website : www.321nokiddin.com **A super special thanks to Justin Furstenfeld for granting us permission to use his music on the show!Please support and follow the Blue October band on: Facebook : www.facebook.com/blueoctober Instagram : www.instagram.com/blueoctoberband Twitter : www.twitter.com/blueoctober Youtube : www.youtube.com/user/blueoctoberofficial Support the show