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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.

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United States

Description:

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.

Language:

English

Contact:

8174563235


Episodes

BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song

4/12/2021
Listen to this short clip on repeat to memorize Ephesians 6:10-17. Join our private community at husbandmaterial.app. Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:01:34

Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)

4/12/2021
We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear my special spiritual warfare song! Download a free one-page summary of this episode here: husbandmaterial.com/43 NOTE: In the middle of this presentation I started weeping. Don't be alarmed! It's okay. God was ministering to me. I believe my tears are not a sign of weakness, but strength. Text...

Duration:01:04:53

Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)

4/5/2021
In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sexual intimacy to be better than it ever was before. Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all over the world through...

Duration:00:34:57

Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)

3/29/2021
In a marriage devastated by porn, how do you rebuild trust? In part one of this two part series, Adam King and Karissa King share the 5 steps every couple must take to rebuild trust (for both spouses). Download the free PDF guide here: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all...

Duration:01:03:36

The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas)

3/22/2021
We believe practicing verbal affirmation is absolutely essential to outgrowing porn. In this episode, Drew and Stephen will tell you why, and share practical strategies for how (not) to do it. Qualities Of Effective Affirmation: We practice affirming each other every week inside Husband Material small groups! Apply to join an upcoming group here: husbandmaterial.com/group Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:46:18

Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno)

3/15/2021
How does porn relate to your father? If you have been under-fathered, what does it look like to be re-fathered? And how can we become fathers who reverse the curse of sexual sin and shame? Let this conversation with Chris Bruno open your eyes! Chris Bruno is the Founder and CEO of Restoration Project, a ministry restoring the hearts of men. He is also the leader of Restoration Counseling and a married father who enjoys mountains, rivers, and hammocks. Chris has authored two books (these...

Duration:00:42:52

Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam)

3/8/2021
Let's change our brains. How can we take back control of our thoughts and transform our core beliefs? My fellow Canadian friend Sathiya Sam is here to show us how. Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, an online recovery program that helps Christian men overcome porn. Connect with Sathiya @sathiyamesam and check out his program at getadeepclean.com Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:53:29

Nine Tips About Triggers

3/1/2021
What are triggers? How do triggers work? And most importantly, how can we take back control when we get triggered? This episode will answer each of these questions clearly and concisely...and at the end, I'll explain my own B.O.A. Technique for effective regulation. Download the free one-page summary: Nine Tips About Triggers Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:34:33

Holy Sexuality & Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan)

2/23/2021
Hear Dr. Christopher Yuan's amazing story of coming to Christ, surrendering same-sex attraction, and embracing the gift of singleness. Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught at Moody Bible Institute for over ten years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. In this episode, we dive into his newest book: Holy Sexuality and the Gospel. Dr. Yuan is the author of three books (these are paid links): 1. Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son’s Journey to God, A Broken...

Duration:01:02:57

A Pastor Finds Freedom From Porn (with Bernie Anderson)

2/15/2021
Outgrowing porn can be especially difficult for pastors and ministry leaders. Hear how Pastor Bernie Anderson got found out, but found a way out...and how God found a way in! Bernie will be a leader at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat. Sign up now to join his small group! Buy Bernie's book here (this is a paid link): Breaking The Silence: A Pastor Goes Public About His Battle With Pornography Email Bernie at banderson33@me.com Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:49:07

What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires?

2/8/2021
What should I do with my sexual desires—my attractions, urges, impulses, cravings, fantasies, aches, longings, and yearnings? I've been on a quest to answer this question for 15 years and finally found an answer worth sharing... Download the worksheet for this episode with 35 desires and 4 directions for each one: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/35-desires-and-4-directions P.S. Don't forget to sign up for the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat! Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:47:03

Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci, Scott Cone, and Stephen Thomas)

2/1/2021
We all have blind spots. But what are they? If we knew, they wouldn't be blind spots! Listen to a lively conversation between 4 leaders as we talk about the blind spots we commonly see in ourselves and the men we coach. Eddie, Drew, Scott, and Stephen will all be leaders at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat on "Healing The Inner Child" on the weekend of February 26-28! Get the details and register now at husbandmaterial.com/retreat Other free resources mentioned on this...

Duration:00:54:48

Jesus Is Our Pure Hope (with Jasper Hall)

1/25/2021
Let's redefine purity: it's a relationship, not an accomplishment...it's about presence, not performance...and according to Jasper Hall, it comes from Jesus. Jasper Hall is the President of pureHOPE, a ministry equipping men and women to pursue purity through relationship with Jesus. Jasper brings a sense of calm and assurance to people who feel anxiety about navigating a sexualized, digital age. Learn more at purehope.net Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:33:08

When Porn Seems Like The Only Option...

1/18/2021
Do you ever felt trapped? Let me give you 5 empowering choices when it feels like porn is the only option...and along the way, I'll tell a story I've never shared in public before. This episode comes with a free PDF worksheet. Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:47:51

What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (with Andrew Bauman)

1/11/2021
Many of us grew up without a clue about what it means to be a sexually healthy man. That's why I'm so grateful for Andrew Bauman and his new book, "The Sexually Healthy Man." Join us for a rugged conversation about true masculine sexuality. Andrew J. Bauman and his wife Christy run the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, where they "provide high-quality experiential, narrative-based psychotherapy from a Christian worldview." Andrew is the author of several books,...

Duration:00:41:48

Fight The New Drug (with Clay Olsen)

1/4/2021
The global anti-porn movement is gaining momentum. In this episode, you'll hear about it directly from Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug. Fight The New Drug (FTND) is a youth movement dedicated to raising awareness of the harmful effects of pornography and other forms of sexual exploitation. Learn more at fightthenewdrug.org. Here are 2 amazing resources by Fight The New Drug everyone needs to know about: Brain Heart World - brainheartworld.org This is a 3-part documentary...

Duration:00:38:54

How To Relate Like An Adult

12/28/2020
Learn the two styles of relating you need to outgrow in order to enjoy the freedom of life as an adult. Interested in outgrowing porn? Learn more at outgrowporn.com. Join our free private community for men: http://husbandmaterialmen.com/ Text Drew at 805-398-6170.

Duration:00:11:45

Marnie Ferree: Meet The Three Bears

12/21/2020
Within each of us, there are three bears in three chairs. Listen to Marnie Ferree explain why, and you'll understand yourself in a whole new way. Marnie C. Ferree is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Nashville, Tennessee, where she directs Bethesda Workshops, which provides Christian-based treatment for sex addicts, their partners, couples, and teens affected by sexual addiction. Learn more at https://www.bethesdaworkshops.org/ Marnie is also the author of No Stones: Women...

Duration:00:42:47

Greg Oliver: Prepare For A Porn-Free Christmas

12/14/2020
It's the most triggering time of the year! Have yourself a healthy little Christmas with tips from Greg Oliver as shares the 4 challenges we all face at Christmastime, the CPR method for staying healthy, and how to redeem the hand you use to masturbate. Greg Oliver struggled for over 25 years with an addiction to sex & porn. Since 2009 he has been on a journey of healing and recovery. Greg is a certified Sexual Recovery Pastoral Counselor and the Director/Co-founder (with his wife Stacey)...

Duration:00:38:46

Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend

12/7/2020
Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerability. Stephen is a husband and father who has had sobriety from porn for over 12 years. He has led multiple Pure Desire groups and is now joining Husband Material as a private small group leader. Stephen is passionate about seeing men who feel hopelessly buried by addictions come alive and realize the...

Duration:00:34:15