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Welcome to Bridging Connections, formerly known as "Men This Way." Join your host Bryan Reeves —former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author and professional coach to men, women, and couples; along with his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend. Together, they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to engage in about relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into discussions that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.

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Welcome to Bridging Connections, formerly known as "Men This Way." Join your host Bryan Reeves —former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author and professional coach to men, women, and couples; along with his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend. Together, they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to engage in about relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into discussions that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.

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159. Healing the Emotionally Unavailable Man

8/28/2025
Bryan Reeves sits down with renowned relationship coach and therapist Jayson Gaddis. Together they dive into the origins of men’s emotional unavailability, how childhood experiences shape intimacy in adulthood, and what it takes to build secure, nourishing partnerships. From personal stories of shame and armor to raising emotionally present sons, Jayson offers vulnerable insights and hard-won wisdom. This is a must-listen conversation for anyone who wants to understand why men struggle with intimacy—and how they can finally come home to their hearts. ⏱️ Highlights 00:00 – Welcome 02:45 – Bryan recalls Silvy's admiration for Jayson’s practical relationship wisdom 06:10 – The sixth-grade fight that taught Jayson to hide his sensitivity 12:25 – How shame around crying created lifelong armor 16:20 – From childhood wounds to emotional unavailability in adult relationships 21:15 – Teaching relationship skills to high schoolers: challenges & breakthroughs 26:30 – The greatest gift men can offer: emotional presence 32:40 – Navigating discipline, boundaries, and presence as a father and partner 38:00 – Mission Impossible vs. real life: balancing work, purpose, and family 43:20 – The foundation of intimacy: emotional security and safety 50:15 – Facing blind spots: learning to stop blaming and start owning feelings 56:45 – One foot in, one foot out: the cost of not being fully committed 01:04:00 – Why men chase “greener grass” fantasies—and the painful wake-up call 01:10:25 – Growth-oriented partnership: why your partner won’t stay if you stop growing 01:17:15 – Do men really want sex—or do they want intimacy and belonging? 01:23:00 – The Five Key Takeaways Finale: insight, mentor, resource, investment, practice 01:37:20 – Where to find Jayson Gaddis and his work 📬 Contact Guest – Jayson Gaddis The Smart Couple Host – Bryan Reeves https://bryanreeves.com@bryanreevesinsighthttps://bryanreeves.com/elevate

Duration:00:49:05

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158. Adrian Grenier on Fame, Fatherhood & Finding the True Man Within

8/14/2025
In this raw and heartfelt rebroadcast, actor and environmental activist Adrian Grenier (Entourage, The Devil Wears Prada) joins host Bryan Reeves for a soul-baring conversation about his transformation from Hollywood heartthrob to grounded father and conscious community builder. They dive into the emotional challenges of shedding ego-driven fame, the sacred importance of modern brotherhood, and how fatherhood and marriage are awakening to his deepest purpose. Adrian reflects on old-paradigm masculinity, spiritual confusion, and why meaningful connection with men saved his life. ⏱️ Highlights [00:00] Welcome & Summer Break Setup [01:29] Who Is Adrian Grenier Now? [03:46] "I needed to get low to the ground" – Leaving Hollywood behind [06:48] The sacred discomfort of men's work [09:57] What success didn’t solve for Adrian [13:36] “Why did I come here?” — The spiritual reckoning [17:45] The illusion of media masculinity [24:32] Reframing brotherhood: Entourage vs real men’s work [30:14] Navigating differences: “I believe in the direction of our love” [41:03] What men miss without committed brotherhood [45:56] Breaking generational patterns as fathers and husbands [50:49] Becoming a father: “It’s the greatest call to action” [57:06] Healing through fatherhood: “I’m not going anywhere” [58:18] Closing: Grief, gratitude, and Barton Springs 👤 Adrian Grenier InstagramEarth Speed YouTube 👨‍🏫 Bryan Reeves https://bryanreeves.com Elevate 2026 for MenInstagram

Duration:00:58:52

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157. [FEISTY WIFE EPISODE] Stop Wanting Your Partner To Be More Like You w/ Silvy Khoucasian LMFT

7/31/2025
What happens when a precision-timed therapist and a free-spirited adventurer fall in love? In this candid, spicy, and surprisingly hilarious conversation, Bryan Reeves and Silvy Khoucasian pull back the curtain on their own relationship to explore what it really takes to embrace differences—and not just survive them, but grow because of them. From cultural clashes to conflicting travel styles, sexual pacing to social preferences, they reveal the real stories behind the highlight reel—and how they've learned to navigate those gaps without losing themselves (or each other). Whether you’re navigating a new relationship or decades into one, this episode is your permission slip to stop fixing, start witnessing, and love without needing sameness. ⏱️ Episode Highlights: 00:00 – Silvy calls Bryan out. 02:00 – Introducing Silvy: “This is my unmasked version” 03:30 – Speaking alongside The Gottmans at the Real Love Ready Conference 05:00 – Time: Is being late disrespect—or just different wiring? 08:00 – Ireland trip flashback: how they travel at totally different speeds 10:30 – “You’re fast. I’m slow.” – Processing pace in life and relationship 13:00 – Cultural differences: Armenian-Arabic collectivism vs. American individualism 16:00 – Privacy vs. openness: Who gets to tell the story? 18:30 – Affection gaps, erotic blueprints, and the golden retriever dynamic 21:00 – The wounds we bring: neglect, protection, and projection 25:00 – “Willing to disappoint—and to be disappointed” 27:00 – Grieving expectations: Letting go of the fantasy version of your partner 30:00 – Creating clear agreements vs. quiet resentment 33:00 – The dance of individuality and support 35:00 – Navigating transitions and identity shifts over 10 years 38:00 – Why difference isn’t the enemy—it’s the initiation 40:00 – Wrap-up and a preview of more episodes to come 🧠 Notable Quotes: “The problem isn’t our differences—it’s making them wrong that causes problems.” – Silvy “Your wound is holding hands with mine.” – Bryan “I grieve my expectations of you so that I may discover your love yet again.” – Silvy “You’re in my story now. It’s not just mine anymore.” – Bryan “When it’s hysterical, it’s historical.” – Silvy and Bryan “Respect can still be late.” – Silvy “Resentment dies in the land of clear agreements.” – Bryan 💌 Connect with Bryan & Silvy: Bryan Reeves → https://bryanreeves.com Silvy Khoucasian → www.silvykhoucasian.com

Duration:00:46:32

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156. Navigating The Death of Your Dream

7/18/2025
In this heartfelt solo episode of Bridging Connections, host Bryan Reeves delves into the profound journey of navigating life transitions and personal growth. Reflecting on his own experiences, Bryan shares the challenges and revelations that come with the death of a dream, the practice of grief, and the art of surrender. Join Bryan as he explores the importance of embracing change with grace, finding gratitude in unexpected places, and the enduring power of love and loss. Tune in for an introspective conversation that invites you to reflect on your own life transitions and how you can meet them with more ease and gratitude. 💡 Topics Covered: Command. Surrender. Breathe. 🧠 Memorable Quotes: “It’s not the end of everything. It’s just the end of everything you know.” “A dream can’t die if you don’t dare to dream in the first place.” “Grief is the price we pay for love.” “We are like plants. We need the right soil to thrive.” “How might you meet the death of a dream with more grace, more ease, and perhaps even more gratitude?” 🌱 Closing Reflection: Bryan invites listeners to consider the dreams they may be quietly grieving or actively resisting. Rather than clinging to what was or what might have been, he offers a profound question: "What if the greatest act of courage isn't holding on—but letting go with love?" 📚 Books Mentioned in the Episode: Die WiseThe Wild Edge of SorrowIron John 🙏 Connect with Bryan: For more on Bryan’s coaching, writing, and future episodes, visit bryanreeves.com 🙏 Show Highlights: [00:02:15] - Introduction to the episode and the theme of life transitions. [00:05:30] - Brian shares his personal journey of moving across the country and the death of a dream. [00:12:45] - The importance of acknowledging and grieving the loss of dreams. [00:20:10] - Reflections on the practice of surrender and its role in personal growth. [00:28:00] - The story of planting a tree and its symbolic meaning in life transitions. [00:35:20] - Brian's insights on love, loss, and the enduring power of gratitude. [00:42:00] - Closing thoughts and an invitation to reflect on personal life transitions.

Duration:00:37:18

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Full Range Masculinity (When Men Come Alive)

7/3/2025
What does it mean to become fully alive as a man? In this powerful debrief, Bryan and Tait reflect on the transformative journey of Elevate 2025, a year-long men's journey that culminates in a life-changing retreat. From breaking emotional masks to finding real brotherhood and discovering true purpose—not as a destination, but as a way of being—this episode dives into what happens when men are finally given permission to feel it all and be it all. This isn’t just another “men’s retreat recap.” This is a raw, grounded look at the healing, aliveness, and lasting connection that unfolds when the right men gather in the right way. 💡 What You’ll Hear In This Episode: anger and apathybeing a full-range manemotional safetyreal supportIt’s not out there—it’s right herefriendships that will last a lifetime3 Promises EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [03:00] – Why it’s so hard to describe the magic of a retreat [06:15] – The emotional wiring of boys—and how we shut it down [07:50] – Anger and apathy: the two emotions men are left with [10:30] – Real talk: “I’m not okay” and finding support [14:00] – Becoming a full-range man: Warrior and Lover archetypes [17:00] – Why purpose isn’t a future goal—it’s a daily choice [24:00] – Deep support: what real brotherhood looks like [28:45] – Who would fly to your funeral? The power of connection [30:45] – Living with men who will hold your grief and your greatness [32:00] – How to join the Elevate journey + what's next 🎧 Perfect For You If: You’re a man who feels like something’s missingYou’ve been curious about men’s retreatsYou’ve felt alonegenuine connectionYou’re a woman 🧠 Memorable Quotes: “Most men live lives full on paper—house, car, kids, career—and yet feel empty. That’s apathy. That’s what we’re here to change.” “A man who puts everyone before himself? That’s not heroic. That’s a ticking time bomb.” 📣 Mentions & Resources: Elevate Men’s Journeyhttps://bryanreeves.comReal Boys 📲 Connect With Us: https://bryanreeves.com 🗣️ Call to Action: If you’re ready to explore what it means to be fully alive—and deeply supported—email Bryan at bryan@bryanreeves.com to get info about Elevate 2026. And if you know a man who needs this… send him this episode. It might just change everything.

Duration:00:34:03

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154. Behind The Scenes of a Life-Changing Men's Retreat

6/19/2025
In this special on-the-road episode, Bryan and Tait reflect on five years of deep men’s work as they gear up for the Elevate 2025 Men's Retreat — a five-day, mountaintop experience in western North Carolina designed as a modern-day rite of passage. From sacred brotherhood to the storms that shape us this conversation is raw, real, and radically human. Episode Highlights: 00:01:44 – The Elevate Retreat: A modern-day rite of passage for men 00:03:12 – The first year’s tears: What vulnerability unlocked for men 00:06:28 – Creating sacred, no-demand space for transformation 00:08:25 – Who really has your back? Reframing masculine support 00:09:21 – Bryan’s past distrust of men—and the healing that followed 00:12:39 – The magic of presence, and Bryan’s role in creating breakthroughs 00:16:44 – Power without domination: Becoming Kings among Kings 00:17:56 – From deep conversation to competitive games: A full-spectrum retreat 00:21:16 – Three stages of the storm: Before, during, and after life's crises 00:26:24 – Why men don’t need fixing—just new patterns and community Connect with Bryan: 📧 bryan@bryanreeves.com 🌐 bryanreeves.com Join the Journey: 🚀 Early access to Elevate 2026 👉 bryan@bryanreeves.com 🌍 2 spots left for "Elevate Ireland 2025" Men’s Retreat! (email for details)

Duration:00:28:29

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153. What Repair Really Looks Like in a Healthy Relationship w/ Jayson Gaddis

6/5/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Jayson Gaddis, psychotherapist, author, and founder of The Relationship School, to discuss the vital topic of conflict and repair in relationships. Highlighting the inevitability of conflict, we delve into effective repair processes encompassing ownership, empathy, and validation. Additionally, we explore themes of emotional safety, sensitivity in men, and the dynamics of partnership. Jayson shares insights from his book 'Getting to Zero' and offers practical advice for navigating and improving relational conflicts. The episode is a treasure trove of actionable strategies aimed at fostering deeper connection and understanding in long-term relationships. 00:00 The Importance of Repair in Relationships 00:20 Introduction to Bridging Connections Podcast 00:53 Meet Jayson Gaddis 03:46 Discussing Relationship Conflict 14:12 Understanding Sensitivity in Men 22:07 The Role of Emotional Safety 28:36 The Repair Process in Relationships 29:36 The Importance of Repair in Relationships 30:39 Steps to Effective Repair 31:09 Ownership, Empathy, and Validation 31:57 Challenges in Validation 32:37 Listening and Reflecting Back 33:30 Personal Experiences and Reflections 34:24 Handling Defensiveness 36:02 The Role of Humor in Relationships 37:08 Biggest Repair Maneuvers in Marriage 42:36 Avoiding Conflict vs. Speaking Up 45:55 Masculine Leadership and Conflict 47:55 Conflict and Repair in Parenting 48:47 Rapid Fire Relationship Questions 52:55 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Jayson: • Website: https://www.jaysongaddis.com/ Podcast: https://relationshipschool.com/ Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:00:55:19

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152. The Cost of Overgiving w/ Terri Cole

5/22/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author, to discuss high-functioning codependency. We dive into Terri’s extensive experience with codependency, exploring the ways in which overly selfless behaviors can lead to burnout, resentment, and health issues. Terri shares personal stories and professional insights, examines the impact of societal expectations, and offers actionable advice on setting boundaries and practicing self-consideration. This episode is a must-listen for anyone feeling perpetually exhausted and seeking to reclaim their time, energy, and emotional well-being. 00:00 Introduction: Taking Control of Your Life 00:24 Welcome to Bridging Connections 00:59 Meet Terri Cole: Psychotherapist and Author 01:19 Understanding Codependency 02:32 Terry's Journey from Talent Agent to Therapist 12:05 High Functioning Codependency Explained 24:26 The Costs of High Functioning Codependency 33:43 The Connective Role of Women in Families 34:13 Challenges with Labels and High Functioning Codependency 35:57 Emotional Labor and Household Equity 39:55 Resentment and Taking Responsibility 46:57 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 54:36 Self-Consideration as the New Self-Care 01:00:34 Final Thoughts Connect with Terri: • Website: https://www.terricole.com/ Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:01:04:29

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151. Living a Liberated Life w/ Josh Trent

5/8/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we dive into the profound topic of living a liberated life with Josh Trent, host of the Wellness and Wisdom podcast. Josh discusses the importance of alignment with nature's laws and the concept of being in harmony. Our conversation explores the relevance of nonviolent communication, the significance of self-awareness, and the continuous journey of self-integration. We also touch on the challenges and rewards of practical spirituality, emotional epigenetics, and the day-to-day dynamics of intimate relationships. Josh introduces his new initiative, the Liberated Life community, designed to guide individuals towards deeper self-understanding and harmonious living. Connect with Josh: • Website: https://joshtrent.com • Instagram: @joshtrentofficial Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08 00:00 Introduction and Host Welcome 01:00 Exploring a Liberated Life with Josh Trent 02:48 Top Three Insights from 700+ Episodes 06:52 Understanding Nature's Laws and Human Connection 23:56 The Simplicity of Truth and Relationships 29:21 Defining Liberation and Freedom 31:09 Understanding Manufactured Concerns 32:01 The Importance of Human Connection 32:24 Deeper Concerns and Self-Realization 35:05 Balancing Survival and Soul Work 39:19 Navigating Triggers and Vulnerability 46:04 The Power of Nonviolent Communication 53:10 Emotional Epigenetics and Healing 56:45 Introducing the Liberated Life Community 01:00:04 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Duration:01:01:33

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150. From Inner Critic to Inner Lover w/ Allana Pratt

4/24/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we discuss profound topics of self-acceptance, intimacy, and healing with Allana Pratt, an intimacy expert. This conversation touches on the importance of embracing one's flaws, the journey to overcome self-loathing, and the deep need for authentic connection. Allana shares her methods, including her work with psychedelic somatic integration and the transformative power of confronting and integrating deep-seated emotions. We also discuss the significance of nurturing all parts of oneself and the value of making peace with unresolved wounds. This episode emphasizes the critical role of self-intimacy in fostering meaningful connections and navigating the complexities of human relationships. 00:00 Embracing Imperfection: Self-Acceptance 00:19 Introduction to Bridging Connections 00:55 Welcoming Allana Pratt: Intimacy Expert 03:08 The Essence of Bridging Connections 04:42 Exploring Loneliness and Connection 05:43 The Journey to Self-Intimacy 07:01 Patterns of Disconnection 09:19 The Role of Divine Mother Energy 13:44 The Power of Somatic Integration 19:47 Men and Emotional Disassociation 22:07 Societal Pressures and Emotional Suppression 22:19 Body Sensations and Emotional Expression 23:21 Men's Struggle with Disconnection 23:47 The Desire to Feel Alive 25:15 Embracing All Emotions 26:15 A Mother's Journey with Her Son 27:30 Making Art from Pain 29:17 The Importance of Allowing Pain 35:41 Unconditional Self-Love and Acceptance 40:19 Practical Tips for Relationships and Self-Love 41:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Duration:00:42:29

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149. Overcoming Shame as a Parent w/ Louis Weinstock

4/10/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we talk with Louis Weinstock, a seasoned child psychotherapist and author. This discussion centers on overcoming shame and guilt in parenting, the importance of parental healing, and the impact of unresolved traumas on children. Louis shares personal experiences and professional insights on being a present and effective parent. We also delve into the roles of fathers, the concept of divine masculinity, and the importance of congruence and presence for children's psychological well-being. The episode concludes with a focus on daily acts of love and practical advice for parents to be more present with their children. 00:00 Introduction 00:41 Introduction to Bridging Connections 01:32 Meet Louis: Child Psychotherapist and Author 02:52 The Journey of Fatherhood 03:36 Navigating Grief and Loss 07:07 The Protector Role in Parenting 16:49 Healing and Emotional Presence 33:25 Emotional Breakthrough in a Singing Workshop 34:16 The Last Barrier for Men: Fear 35:04 Expressing Emotions: Anger, Fear, and Sadness 37:20 The Role of Fathers and the Impact of Guilt 39:05 Boys' Sensitivity and Cultural Conditioning 40:19 Defining Positive Masculinity 49:48 Bridging Connections Between Parents 59:56 The Importance of Presence in Parenting 01:02:35 Conclusion Connect with Louis: • Website: https://louisweinstock.com/ Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:01:03:37

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148. Rising Woman: From Trauma to Transformation w/ Sheleana Aiyana

3/27/2025
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman. The discussion delves into Sheleana’s journey from a tumultuous upbringing and traumatic relationships to her spiritual and healing path. Sheleana shares profound experiences from ayahuasca ceremonies and the importance of working through personal wounds to foster healthy relationships. This conversation also touches on the challenges men and women face in understanding each other's experiences and the significance of mutual vulnerability and support in partnerships. Sheleana dives into the need for self-healing and becoming 'the one' rather than seeking someone to complete us. We discuss building emotional safety, navigating grief, and the profound connection between love and loss. 00:00 Introduction to Episode 00:34 Welcome to Bridging Connections 01:17 Rebranding the Podcast 02:27 Introducing Sheleana 04:40 Men and Relationship Anxiety 06:59 Challenges in Male-Female Dynamics 11:59 Founding Struggles of Rising Woman 18:02 Spiritual Path vs. Healing Path 24:31 Becoming the One 29:18 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships 29:41 The Importance of Healing Work 30:49 The 10-Year Relationship Journey 34:40 Understanding Safety in Relationships 35:49 Ayahuasca and Profound Healing 42:15 Building Trust and Healing with Men 52:43 Steps to Self-Discovery and Healing 54:28 Final Thoughts Connect with Sheleana: • Website: https://risingwoman.com/ / https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ • Instagram: @sheleanaaiyana Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:00:56:41

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147. The 5 Stages of Male Growth (and How They Impact Women) w/ Alison Armstrong

3/13/2025
In this episode, we welcome back relationship expert Alison Armstrong. We explore the profound journey of male development, the transition from knights to princes and eventually kings. We delve into the concept of 'the tunnel,' a challenging phase between princehood and kingship marked by self-awareness, shame, and the necessity of personal responsibility and forgiveness. Alison also touches on the deeply complex and often interconnected dynamics of male ambition, fulfillment, and the need for adventure. We extend to the rare shift some men make from kings to elders, highlighting significant changes in ambition and responsibility. Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Introduction: Self-Betrayal and Shame 00:38 Welcome to Bridging Connections 01:10 Reintroducing Alison Armstrong 01:55 Understanding the Tunnel 03:03 Stages of Men's Development 03:49 Navigating the Tunnel 23:29 The Importance of Adventure 31:15 The Prince Stage 38:07 Anticipation and Initial Reflections 38:56 Navigating Personal Loss and Challenges 40:35 Understanding the Tunnel of Transformation 41:11 Self-Betrayal and Awareness 49:07 The Role of Shame and Anger 49:51 Ownership and Forgiveness 55:28 Emerging from the Tunnel 58:18 Grieving and Moving Forward 01:00:54 Transitioning to Elderhood 01:11:21 Final Thoughts and Resources Resources: Alison Armstrong: Chemistry and Connection Series - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3kRxLdJODq54hzbmGHKz5VhTQun5bQuy&feature=shared Connect with Alison: • Website: alisonarmstrong.com • Youtube Channel: AlisonArmstrongVideos • Resources: Sample Understanding Women Connect with Bryan & Tait: • Website: bryanreeves.com • Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:01:15:49

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146. The Way of the Satisfied Woman w/ Alanna Kaivalya

2/27/2025
"Satisfaction is the pleasure derived from the fulfillment of wishes and needs".- Alanna Kaivalya Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Welcome & Co-host Introduction01:14 Introducing Guest Dr. Alana Cavalia03:12 Discussing "The Way of the Satisfied Woman"04:16 Exploring Redefined Masculinity05:11 The Need to Reclaim Femininity06:13 Cultural Teachings on Feminine Power08:11 Addressing Repression of Feminine Qualities10:22 Importance of Intuition11:59 Feminine Power and Societal Impact14:55 Success versus Satisfaction17:07 Definition and Discussion of Satisfaction20:12 Critique of Success Drive21:25 Feminine Approach to Life and Satisfaction22:11 Enhancing Comfort and Feminine Questions23:09 Mother's Happiness and Family Dynamics24:13 Jungian Psychology and Feminine Energy28:10 Safety, Trust, and Feminine Expression29:01 Masculine World Challenges for Feminine Expression30:56 Importance of Community and Empathy31:22 Insights on Relationship Longevity32:31 Challenges in Articulating Needs33:19 Advice for Men on Emotional Support33:58 The Role of Intuition in Personal Growth36:51 Importance of Trusting Intuition37:15 Intuition in Relationships38:12 Leveraging Intuition in Adverse Environments40:21 Self-Intimacy and External Validation41:13 Masculine and Feminine Energy Collaboration41:48 Trust in Partner’s Intuition42:27 Burnout in High-Performance Roles43:39 Women as Nurturing Sources and the Need for Reciprocity45:02 Personal Story of Maternal Dedication46:28 Empowering Women to Say No47:58 Childhood Wounds and Feminine Healing49:02 Devaluation of Feminine Qualities49:41 Training and Conditioning of Young Girls50:14 Men’s Role in Supporting Feminine Reclamation51:58 The Importance of Community for Women53:04 Overcoming Narrative of Competition Among Women54:24 Historical Undermining of Family Systems55:56 Closing Thoughts and Final Questions Connect with Alanna: www.thesatisfiedwoman.comThe Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming The Feminine Powerwww.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme The Satisfied Woman@TheSatisfiedWoman Connect with Bryan & Tait: bryanreeves.com@bryanreevesinsight@taitarend08

Duration:00:57:06

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145. What Women Don’t Get About Men (But Should) w/ Alison Armstrong

2/13/2025
"Men often use 'safe' to describe someone they can openly talk to, showing their deep but often hidden need for trust and vulnerability." Alison Armstrong Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Welcome & Introduction01:00 Alison Armstrong's Impact on Bryan's Relationship Journey01:54 Longing for Elder Wisdom03:39 How Alison’s Journey with Men Began05:07 Becoming a "Frog Farmer" – Transforming Men09:44 The Power of Listening and Understanding Men13:33 The Well of Men's Emotional Responses14:14 Men and Congruency: Understanding Commitment17:09 Differences in Male and Female Communication Styles19:10 The Attention Women Crave from Men21:52 Safety, Security, and Connection in Relationships25:46 The Emotional Depth of Men: What It Means to Be “Safe”29:28 Asking for Connection and Attention in Relationships31:48 Men Are Like Icebergs: Emotions and Depth Below the Surface34:12 Women’s Desire for Men to Feel Desired43:18 The Problem with Labeling in Relationships47:16 Rethinking Relationships: The Instance of Being Related54:16 How to Be in the Moment: Being, Listening, and Speaking58:35 Women's Instinct to Speak for Safety01:02:26 Alison's Resources and Final Thoughts Connect with Alison: Website: alisonarmstrong.comResources: Sample Understanding Women Subscribe to: alisonarmstrongvideos Connect with Bryan & Tait: Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08

Duration:01:01:43

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144. Spirituality & The Messy Human Experience w/ Danny Morel

1/30/2025
"The moment of realization when you're on your knees and you're realizing that all you've been chasing might not actually be what you truly need." Danny Morel Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Introduction & Welcome02:36 Discussing the Pivotal Shift in Danny's Life03:16 The Catalyst for Change04:01 Exploring New Opportunities05:07 Experiencing Betrayal and Loss07:10 Reflecting on Deep Personal Questions09:41 The Importance of Deep, Genuine Conversations11:01 The Awakening Process Explained11:47 Exploring Three Energies of Human Mastery13:10 Responsibilities and Misconceptions About Money14:13 Discussing the Energy of Sex and Creation15:12 Understanding the Root of Personal Issues16:11 Realizing and Confronting Life's Patterns17:10 The Need for Authentic Self Reflection18:13 Integrating Personal Stories into Spiritual Teachings20:33 The Importance of Genuine Spiritual Connection21:44 Exploring Stories of Transformation and Freedom23:00 Discussing the Role of Humility and Authenticity24:32 Overcoming Deep-Seated Fears26:58 Experiencing Ego Death and True Change28:00 Discussing the Symbolism of Family and Healing29:21 The Significance of Names and Personal Healing30:25 Learning Through Personal Relationships31:16 Challenges in Maintaining Authentic Connections32:38 Discussing the Difficulties in Family Dynamics33:52 Recognizing the Role of Partners in Personal Growth37:18 Embracing the Concept of Family39:16 Confronting Fears and Insecurities in Relationships41:12 Avoiding the Pitfalls of Pedestalization in Relationships42:13 Addressing Issues of Self-Worth and Relationship Dynamics43:07 Healing the Tendencies to Elevate or Diminish Others45:15 Discussing Common Traps in Spiritual Journeys47:12 Reevaluating Material Desires on the Spiritual Path51:27 Discussing the Role of Providing and Spiritual Abundance52:23 The Practice of Surrender in Life and Spirituality54:01 Encouraging Deep Personal Inquiry into Desires and Dreams55:01 Concluding Thoughts on Freedom and Personal Choice Takeaways from this episode: Connect with Danny: @dannymoreldannymorel.comThe Higher Self Podcast with Danny Morel Connect with Bryan & Tait: bryanreeves.com@bryanreevesinsight@taitarend08

Duration:00:55:57

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Trailer Bridging Connections

1/30/2025
Welcome to Bridging Connections, formerly known as "Men This Way." Join your host Bryan Reeves —former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author and professional coach to men, women, and couples; along with his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend. Together, they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to engage in about relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into discussions that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.

Duration:00:00:46

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143. The Evolution of a Podcast: As One Era Ends Another Begins

1/23/2025
In this episode, we have a big announcement. We're changing the podcast name from 'Men This Way' to 'Bridging Connections.' /// TIMESTAMPED HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:03 Reflecting on the Podcast Journey 05:58 Key Conversations and Insights 08:57 The Evolution of the Podcast 11:56 Bridging Connections: The New Direction 14:46 The Importance of Vulnerability and Connection 17:54 Future Plans and Audience Engagement Connect with Bryan Official Website Instagram Youtube

Duration:00:27:32

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142. Success, Grief, and Living Boldly w/ Tripp Lanier

1/16/2025
"Once it starts to become empty and it doesn't work, that's when it's time to rethink our strategies and find what truly fulfills us." Tripp Lanier Today on Men, This Way: 00:01 Introductions02:34 Announcement of Last Episode and Transition of Show's Name03:23 Reflections on the Past and Initiating the Main Discussion05:08 Introduction of Tripp Lanier and His Work07:24 Tripp's Personal Journey and Path to Coaching09:01 Introduction to Men's Work and Personal Growth12:01 The Shift in Men's Conversations Over Time13:45 The Role of Media and Privacy in Personal Development15:10 The Challenge of Admitting the Need for Help16:32 Exploration of New Beginnings and Reflections on Personal Growth18:00 Shifts in Personal Interests and Professional Evolution19:28 The Ongoing Journey of Personal and Spiritual Development21:18 The Modern Challenges and Evolutions Facing Men22:46 Reflections on Personal Satisfaction and Life's Deeper Questions24:11 Discussion of Future Plans and Podcast Rebranding25:43 Reflections on Ambition and Life Stages27:03 Personal Insights on Marriage and Family29:26 Discussing the Awareness of Mortality and Its Impact30:12 Philosophical Reflections on Life and Aging31:30 Grief and Learning from Life's Challenges33:36 Engaging Men in Meaningful Conversations and Facing Grief34:03 How to Encourage Men to Stay Present and Engaged in Growth36:04 Addressing Personal Struggles and Embracing New Beginnings38:04 Listening and Understanding as Tools for Helping Others39:20 The Power of Empathy in Men's Development40:10 The Relief of Discovering One Is Not Alone in Their Struggles41:38 Humor's Role in Healing and Personal Growth42:57 Tripp's Views on Success and Personal Fulfillment44:45 Helping Men Identify and Pursue Their True Desires46:50 Discussion on the Nature of Desire and Internal Conflicts48:42 The Importance of Play and Joy in Personal Development50:42 The Role of Safety and Threat Perception in Playfulness52:24 The Challenges of Maintaining Joy During Difficult Times54:47 Wrapping Up the Podcast and Reflections on the Journey58:15 Maintaining Deep Connections and Embracing New Learning Opportunities59:55 Closing Thoughts and Acknowledgments Takeaways of this episode: Connect with Tripp: Website: tripplinear.com@tripplanierThis Book Will Make You Dangerous: The Irreverent Guide for Men Who Refuse to SettleThe New Man with Tripp Lanier Connect with Bryan & Tait: bryanreeves.com@bryanreevesinsight@taitarend08bryan@menthisway.comtait@menthisway.com

Duration:00:58:23

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141. Overcome Resistance: The Five Stages of Change

1/9/2025
“Resistance always shows up at the threshold of your transformation.” — Bryan Reeves In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative process of personal growth and change, exploring the five stages of change. We discuss the resistance men often face when stepping into new challenges and the power of embracing the unknown to create a life of fulfillment and meaning. Through candid stories, actionable insights, and heartfelt reflections, we reveal how we can break through barriers, reconnect with our true selves, and build lives that deeply matter—not just for us, but for the people we care about most. Whether you're on the edge of change or seeking clarity on your next step, this episode will inspire you to take action and cross the threshold into transformation. HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Reflecting on five years of transformative work. 01:14 - Who this episode is for: Men ready for deep transformational work. 04:51 - The importance of a supportive brotherhood: “Who has your back?” 07:35 - The cost of carrying burdens alone: Impact on men and their families. 09:12 - Recognizing dissatisfaction as the first step to change. 11:46 - The crisis of fulfillment: "I have everything I wanted. Now what?" 13:30 - The five stages of change. 18:43 - Facing resistance: Why stepping forward is so challenging. 20:14 - Sting’s wisdom: “The greater risk is not jumping off the cliff.” 25:12 - Confronting the shadow: The necessity of descending before elevating. 28:02 - Addressing resistance: How cynicism and isolation hold men back. 30:15 - True accountability: How men’s groups challenge you to grow. 32:39 - A wife’s gratitude: The ripple effects of men’s transformation. 36:41 - Final encouragement: Step into the threshold and elevate your life. MEN: ELEVATE 2025 👉 https://bryanreeves.com/elevate

Duration:00:39:00