
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel
Health & Wellness Podcasts
These podcasts are a reflection of Ruth & David’s on-going conversations which are both intimate and professional and touch on complex topics like how systems fail victims and children, how victims experience those systems, and how children are impacted by those failures. Their discussions delve into how society views masculinity and violence, and how intersectionalities such as cultural beliefs, religious beliefs and unique vulnerabilities impact how we respond to abuse and violence. These far-ranging discussions offer an insider look into how we navigate the world as professionals, as parents and as partners. During these podcasts, David & Ruth challenge the notions which keep all us from moving forward collectively as systems, as cultures and as families into safety, nurturance and healing.Note: Some of the topics discussed in the episodes are deeply personal and sensitive, which may be difficult for some people. We occasionally use mature language. We often use gender pronouns like “he” when discussing perpetrators and “she” for victims. While both and men and women can be abusive and controlling, and domestic abuse happens in straight and same-sex relationships, the most common situation, when it comes to coercive control, is a male perpetrator and a female victim. Men's abuse toward women is more closely associated with physical injury, fear and control. Similarly, very different expectations of men and women as parents and the focus of Safe & Together on children in the context of domestic abuse makes it impossible to make generic references to gender when it comes to parenting. The Model, through its behavioral focus on patterns of behavior, is useful in identifying and responding to abuse in all situations including same-sex couples and women's use of violence. We think our listeners are sophisticated enough to understand these distinctions.
Location:
United States
Genres:
Health & Wellness Podcasts
Description:
These podcasts are a reflection of Ruth & David’s on-going conversations which are both intimate and professional and touch on complex topics like how systems fail victims and children, how victims experience those systems, and how children are impacted by those failures. Their discussions delve into how society views masculinity and violence, and how intersectionalities such as cultural beliefs, religious beliefs and unique vulnerabilities impact how we respond to abuse and violence. These far-ranging discussions offer an insider look into how we navigate the world as professionals, as parents and as partners. During these podcasts, David & Ruth challenge the notions which keep all us from moving forward collectively as systems, as cultures and as families into safety, nurturance and healing.Note: Some of the topics discussed in the episodes are deeply personal and sensitive, which may be difficult for some people. We occasionally use mature language. We often use gender pronouns like “he” when discussing perpetrators and “she” for victims. While both and men and women can be abusive and controlling, and domestic abuse happens in straight and same-sex relationships, the most common situation, when it comes to coercive control, is a male perpetrator and a female victim. Men's abuse toward women is more closely associated with physical injury, fear and control. Similarly, very different expectations of men and women as parents and the focus of Safe & Together on children in the context of domestic abuse makes it impossible to make generic references to gender when it comes to parenting. The Model, through its behavioral focus on patterns of behavior, is useful in identifying and responding to abuse in all situations including same-sex couples and women's use of violence. We think our listeners are sophisticated enough to understand these distinctions.
Twitter:
@safeandtogether
Language:
English
Season 3 Episode 13: What Domestic Violence Perpetrators Steal From Survivors
Duration:00:36:57
Season 3 Episode 12 Weaponize & Fabricate: How Domestic Violence Perpetrators’ Behaviors Intersect with Survivors’ Mental Health and Substance Misuse Issues
Duration:00:58:52
Season 3 Episode 11: Pivoting to The Perpetrator: An essential tool for interrupting victim blaming
Duration:01:09:53
Season 3 Episode 10: “Slow Motion Murder:” Widening the understanding of the link between domestic violence and child deaths
Duration:01:05:28
Season 3 Episode 9: Coercive Control in Children's and Mother's Lives: An interview with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz
Duration:01:29:44
Season 3 Episode 8: Understanding Reproductive Coercion: An Interview with Dr. Heather McCauley
Duration:01:04:03
Season 3 Episode 7: Understanding and Validating Survivors' Acts of Resistance
Duration:00:47:11
Season 3 Episode 6: 7 Myths about the Safe & Together Model
Duration:00:54:02
Season 3 Special Minisode: Interview with Celine Donovan, a New Zealand Safe & Together Model Certified Trainer
Duration:00:06:07
Season 3 Episode 5 Minisode on Worker Safety & Well Being: Managing Your Own Fears About the Safety of the Family
Duration:00:20:55
Season 3 Episode 4: Reproductive Coercion
Duration:00:50:59
Season 3 Episode 3: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well Being: When Workers Have Their Own Histories of Abuse
Duration:00:20:40
Season 3 Episode 2: Perpetrators' Weaponization of Mental Health and Addiction Against Survivors
Duration:00:59:52
Season 3 Episode 1: "This is a collective male problem:" An interview with international journalist Grant Wyeth
Duration:00:53:37
Season 2 Episode 24: From Police Inspector to “Moral Rebel”: An interview with Graham Goulden
Duration:01:00:27
Season 2 Episode 23: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well Being: When Workers Are Survivors Themselves
Duration:00:23:11
Season 2 Episode 22: Minisode on Worker Safety & Well Being: The Connection Between Worker Safety and Victim Blaming
Duration:00:16:12
Season 2 Episode 21: Minisode Series on Worker Safety & Well-Being: When workers are targeted by the perpetrator
Duration:00:14:17
Season 2 Episode 20: Minisode Series on Worker Safety & Well-Being: Intro to the series
Duration:00:15:01
Season 2 Episode 19: Using the concepts of collaborative co-parenting to hold perpetrators more accountable in family court
Duration:01:05:32