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Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner. “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?” Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you. Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.

Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner. “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?” Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you. Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.
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Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner. “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?” Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you. Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.

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English


Episodes

76 - Naughtia Black

10/11/2018
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We are joined by Naughtia Black this week, to discuss her new podcast Deviants, as well as a whole host of other sexy topics. We discuss her current core dynamic, which is Master/slave and how that aligns itself with her being a Relationship Anarchist. Kink gets a thorough talking about too of course and we give Naughtia a good dose of Quick Fire Questions. As Floss suspected from being an avid online follower of Naughtia she was a delight to chat to and we think you are going to love...

Duration:01:36:57

75 - Sex Toys from Meo.de

10/1/2018
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Sexy products! That’s right this episode is all about the recent sexy and kinky products we’ve been using from Meo.de. If you are new to Meo then their site is definitely worth a visit. They have some awesome products and the ones we are testing out are only a few they have to offer. The items covered in this episode are: Meo Lubricant Alpha Male 2 Stimulator Big Johnny Prostate Stimulator HurtMe Leather Paddle HurtMe Deluxe LOVE-HATE Paddle HurtMe Deluxe Riding Crop Wrist to Ankle...

Duration:01:11:16

74 - Little Ra Ra

9/10/2018
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Little Rara is our guest this episode. We have been following her for a little while on Twitter and she has previously responded to our pleas for answers to our After Bit questions so it was an absolute delight to talk to her. We discuss how she found herself involved in the kink community and what kinds of kinky shenanigans she gets up to, as well as discussing what new kinks might be in her future and of course what her favourite kinky things are. Little Rara, or should I say Princess...

Duration:01:07:06

73 - Dick Pics!

8/11/2018
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Dick pics! That’s right we are doing a whole episode on dick pics. So get comfy and hold on tight because Floss does not hold back! Dick pic rage is real! On a more serious note we want everyone to be communicating with more kinky people and getting their kink on and we know that dick pics is the worst introduction ever. We discuss exactly why dick pics are such a problem and why they enrage many of us and why just ignoring them isn’t always our go to move. If we stop just one person...

Duration:01:03:41

72 - Breath Play (PLAY SAFE!)

7/26/2018
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Breath play is the focus of this episode. We haven’t done many episode on specific kink activities but this is a kink we both enjoy and that you must be well informed about before giving it a try. Our aim in this episode is to share with you what we enjoy about breath play, the methods we use to indulge in it and most importantly how we do it safely. We are aware that for many people this is an extreme kink, and would be referred to as edge play. If you decide to engage in breath play...

Duration:00:46:13

Kinky Kit II

7/5/2018
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‘Kinky Kit?’ We hear you ask! ‘Haven’t they already done that episode?’ Well yes, we have. And it’s a big sexy but, we have enjoyed some awesome new products lately and we just had to share our experiences with you all. We pick 3 of our top products each, two joint products and a bonus ‘on the spot’ decision for another item to include. Floss gets told off for telling her Doxy story AGAIN. But cares very little because the Doxy is great and Bakji gets told of because, well he’s Bakji and...

Duration:00:50:44

70 - Aftercare

6/21/2018
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Aftercare is our focus for this episode. We talk a lot about what happens during kinky sessions and what you can do to make the kinky fun happen for you, but what happens afterwards then the cuffs are off and reality sets in. As with all aspects of kink everyone is different when it comes to the aftercare they need. We discuss what works for us, what we have heard of others doing, as well as sharing some listener comments in our After Bit section of the show. We also discuss how our...

Duration:01:04:17

69 - Us, Off The Cuffs and Nerdy Kinkster

6/2/2018
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We got on a plane and travelled to New York City to bring you this episode. We met up with Dick and Max from Off the Cuffs for a joint episode featuring of of their listeners NerdyKinkster. We discuss NerdyKinksters journey in kink and how she has been discovering some of the things she enjoys. She was invited onto the show after responding to an episode of Off the Cuffs where the subject of consensual kink versus sexual violence came up. It was a pleasure to share our thoughts on this...

Duration:01:33:42

68 - Consent... and Why it's Sexy

5/26/2018
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Even in established dynamics like ours, we still have ongoing conversations around negotiating scenes and consenting to activities we are happy to engage in. In new dynamics this is crucial to creating a feeling of safety and trust with your partner, without which there is not much of a foundation to build on. We discuss what consent looks like for us, what makes us decide consent is not being enthusiastically given and how you can ask for consent in a sexy way. If you would like to get...

Duration:00:58:28

67 - Sexual Technique

5/1/2018
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Floss and Bakji are no strangers to talking about kink, but this week we are getting down and dirty with a discussion about sexual technique. What is it? Do we have it? And how does one improve it? Some of the things we discuss in this episode are: Have you ever had a sexual technique used on you that was surprisingly good?How do you encourage your partner to learn new things without offending them?Do you think there ways to increase sexual pleasure that people often overlook?Do you...

Duration:00:59:23

66 - Non-Monogamy

4/23/2018
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Non-Monogamy came second in our recent Twitter poll about topics you’d like to hear us discuss. In this episode we discuss: In general terms what do we mean when we refer to non-monogamy?What does non-monogamy mean to us personally?Has your view on what non-monogamy means for you changed with your experiences?What resources have been beneficial in your non-monogamy journey?What new terms did we learn when we started to embrace non-monogamy?Can you ‘choose’ to be non-mono or does it need...

Duration:01:12:52

65 - Confidence and Kink

4/12/2018
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Confidence is our focus for this episode. More specifically is lack of confidence affecting your kink. If so, this episode is for you. Inspired by a blog post by Floss on her personal blog flossdoeslife.com. We attempt to give you some solutions to boost your kinky confidence, even if that just means faking it till you make it. We would also like to say a huge thank you for your patience while we took a break from our regularly scheduled shows. The time of to freshen up and think of some...

Duration:00:49:22

64 - Vanilla Room 101

3/2/2018
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Room 101 is our inspiration this week as Bakji and Floss return with what we hope to be a fun episode. While originating in George Orwell’s 1984, Room 101 is said to be named after a conference room at the BBC where he attended incredibly boring meetings. In the novel 1984 it is a room where people are taken to face their worst fears. On a lighter note, it is also the name of a BBC comedy show, where guests are invited to put their pet peeves or worst fears into ‘Room 101’. The host of the...

Duration:00:50:16

63 - Sex Toy Review

2/9/2018
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Sex toys and lots of them. That is what we have for you this week. We quite often use a few of our toys in our kinky play, and we mention them in passing but in this episode we are giving you our opinions of some of the products that we have acquired over the past few months. As a full disclaimer some of these products were sent to us for free in exchange for our reviews. For anyone who is new to sex toy reviewing, let me assure that free does not equal a great review as this episode will...

Duration:00:52:48

62 - Femdom Pleasures

1/25/2018
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FemDom is our topic of discussion this week. Both Bakji and Floss are big, big fans of FemDom which you may have noticed if you are a regular listener. If you are a new listening then you about to join us in our little world of FemDom for the first time. As a FemDom enthusiast Floss frequents quite a few forums related to the topic, including the FemDom sub-reddits. One of the recurring questions is ‘What do women get out of FemDom?’, the back and forth of these discussion made it clear...

Duration:00:44:16

61 - Being Fluid With Your Kinks

1/21/2018
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Inspired by their own recent experiences and conversations Bakji and Floss discuss the fluidity of kink. We all know there are many kinks and fetishes to be discovered, but what happens when our favourites go out of favour and new passions evolve into something deeper? Floss has been thinking on this a lot lately, as it was her change feelings about a particular kink that started the conversation. Despite how often we talk about open and honest communication, and how we encourage people to...

Duration:00:43:51

60 - Orgasm Unleashed with Eyal Matsliah

1/5/2018
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Eyal Matsliah is a sexual empowerment coach, and the author of ‘Orgasm Unleashed’ - a guide to pleasure, healing and power. So we left kink behind for an episode to focus on the wonder of orgasms and the joy they can bring. While the book is aimed at women, it is also suitable for anyone who is looking to enhance their orgasmic experience and better learn about the pleasure their body can bring them. We speak to Eyal about what inspires him to do the work he does, what kind of work he does...

Duration:01:01:50

59 - Rain De Grey

12/29/2017
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Rain DeGrey is an author, BDSM and sex educator and someone who has been fully immersed in kink lifestyle for the last decade. She has done shoots for kink.com and has experienced many, many kinks and is wonderfully open about discussing and sharing her information and experiences with others. We discuss why Rain is so passionate about embracing a kink lifestyle and why she encourages other people to do the same and explore what it is about kink that they enjoy. Which given the ethos of our...

Duration:01:16:21

58 - Merry Kinkmas

12/25/2017
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Bakji and Floss have been busy this year, not only with the podcast, but also with outings to Fetish events and indulging in sexy scenes at home. In this episode we discuss some of the things we’ve done this year. Regular listeners of our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun, will be familiar with some of the scenes we have enjoyed throughout 2017. Which ones have been our favourites though? We have each picked out Tops kink moments and discuss why they stand out for us. As well as a...

Duration:00:58:28

57 - Safewords

12/19/2017
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Safewords are this episodes topic of conversation. After Floss saw a few posts in a short space of time all about the same subject on Reddit, it seemed like the time was right for safewords to have their own episode. What are they?When you should you use them?Why should you use them?And should you ever feel bad or awkward about using them? We are definitely in the group of people who feel like having a safeword is good thing, no matter who you are playing with, however when researching the...

Duration:00:46:29