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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell joins me again to explore practical ways to deepen intimacy in marriage through everyday interactions, vulnerability, and collaborative decision-making. Discover how small, intentional acts can transform your relationship and foster lasting connection. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We go further into the idea of compromise, and what happens when you reach uncompromising moments in marriage? Sponsors … Evree: Our favorite intimate product! Get 10% off every order with our code SMR - https://smr.fm.evree Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post The Little Things | Alexandra Stockwell #778 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore a couple's unconventional approach to addressing intimacy and trauma within their marriage, including the use of love dolls as a means of connection and healing. We analyze the emotional dynamics, projections, and underlying issues that influence their decisions, offering insights into navigating complex relationship challenges. Sponsors … Evree: Our favorite intimate product! Get 10% off every order with our code SMR - https://smr.fm.evree Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post We Bought Dolls For Our Sex Life #777 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complex dynamics of marriage, intimacy, betrayal, and personal growth through a detailed listener email. We analyze issues like unmet expectations, loneliness, shame, and the impact of past trauma on marital intimacy, offering insights into healing and connection. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We go in depth about what the emailer must face in her situation and about herself. Sponsors … Evree: Our favorite intimate product! Get 10% off every order with our code SMR - https://smr.fm.evree Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Flowers Don’t Fix This #776 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam answer and email from a husband who has noticed he and his wife have had regular seasons of dry spells in their sex life throughout their 25 year marriage. He wonders if this is normal in long term marriages. And is curious about the fact that they don't talk about this pattern, so is this fact possibly the bigger issue? Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We go in depth about how to address the silence in our relationship patterns. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Dry Spells #775 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complex factors affecting male and female sexual health, including hormonal therapy, masturbation habits, weight, mental health, and systemic influences. We talk about insights into retraining the nervous system, addressing emotional barriers, and fostering healthier intimacy. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We go continue the conversation more in depth about what the husband and the wife can do in their situation. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post No O #774 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the dynamics of higher and lower desire in marriage, focusing on how these roles influence sexual frequency and emotional interactions. We do a deep dive into a common pitfall like weaponizing desire differences and offers insights on living within these realities healthily. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We go through in more detail what the Higher Desire Spouse can do within the desire differences dynamic. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Weaponized Insight #773 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our daughter Sydney joins me as we explore relationship dynamics across generations -- from a 20-year-old college student and a 54-year-old married man. Our conversation covers thoughts on commitment, self-awareness, and realistic expectations in relationships. Enjoy the show! Sponsors … OneSkin: Get 15% off OneSkin with the code PASSION at https://www.oneskin.co/PASSION #oneskinpod Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post A Father and Daughter Talk About Relationships #772 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly TikTok. We discuss the implications of popular sayings like 'Happy wife equals happy life' and 'Never go to bed angry,' highlighting how these phrases can lead to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The conversation dives into the complexities of compromise, the myth of soulmates, the importance of effective communication, and the necessity of setting boundaries. Ultimately, we emphasize that while rituals like date nights can be beneficial, they are not a substitute for the deeper work required to maintain a healthy marriage. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … What is a better way to look at this kind of advice and ideas? That's what we explore. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Keep The Important Important #771 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Everyone gets the full show … In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of differentiation in parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation, modeling behavior, and teaching children how to handle their emotions. We explore the various stages of child development, from early childhood to adulthood, and how parents can guide their children through emotional challenges while fostering independence and responsibility. Our conversation also touches on the dynamics of in-law relationships and the importance of creating a supportive family environment that encourages healthy communication and boundaries. Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Be The Adult In The Room #770 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly TikTok. We discuss the implications of popular sayings like 'Happy wife equals happy life' and 'Never go to bed angry,' highlighting how these phrases can lead to unhealthy dynamics in relationships. The conversation dives into the complexities of compromise, the myth of soulmates, the importance of effective communication, and the necessity of setting boundaries. Ultimately, we emphasize that while rituals like date nights can be beneficial, they are not a substitute for the deeper work required to maintain a healthy marriage. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … What is a better way to look at this kind of advice and ideas? That's what we explore. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Cringeworthy Marriage Advice #769 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of mind mapping and its implications for communication in marriage. We explore how mind mapping influences the way we perceive and react to each other, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and understanding in navigating relationship dynamics. We also highlight common pitfalls such as over-certainty, anxiety, and miscommunication, while also offering insights on how to foster personal growth and improve relational interactions. Ultimately, our episode encourages listeners to trust actions over words and to cultivate a steady presence in their relationships. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We talk more in-depth about how mind mapping plays out most during sex. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Mind Mapping in Sex #768 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

We go back into the vault and hear a regular guest again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, as we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and desire. They happen to us, and we choose them. They naturally ebb and flow. And how do we get them back if they are lost? Learn more about Jennifer here - https://finlayson-fife.com/ Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #767 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of covert contracts in marriage, exploring how unspoken agreements can lead to frustration and resentment. We discuss a listener's email about feeling unappreciated despite being a good spouse and the challenges of initiating intimacy without pressure. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of open communication, breaking the cycle of scorekeeping, and fostering genuine desire in relationships. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We talk more in-depth about the pressures inherent in marriage and how to handle the initiations and rejections with more integrity and solidness. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Covert Contracts #766 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of conflict in marriage, particularly in the context of parenting and managing family dynamics. We explore how conflict can arise from external pressures and how couples can navigate these challenges together. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding each other's responses to conflict, utilizing resources for better communication, and creating a safe space for discussions. We also provide practical advice on managing conflict in parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship amidst challenges. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We walk through how the four points of balance can help you face conflict and be more whole as you grow. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Conflict Can Refine The Marriage #765 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I answer an email from a listener about how she can seek her own pleasure after orgasm troubles have appeared. The wife shares that she has been diagnosed with lichen planus, which has impacted her ability to orgasm during intercourse. Despite this, she can still achieve orgasm through masturbation and is contemplating whether it is selfish to ask her husband to allow her to masturbate alongside him after they have sex. Our conversation explores into the complexities of sexual intimacy, particularly how changes in the body and sexual function can affect relationships. We want to encourage listeners to consider the importance of collaboration in sexual experiences, suggesting that masturbation can be a shared activity rather than a solitary one. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We explore the guilt and shame often associated with masturbation, particularly in the context of religious backgrounds, and advocate for a more open and accepting approach to discussing sexual health and pleasure within marriage. We give you some questions to ask yourself regarding your beliefs and possible scripts surrounding your sex life. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Masturbation: A Path to Intimacy? #764 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss how vacations can serve as a vital reset for relationships, allowing couples to reconnect and rejuvenate their bond. We explore the dynamics of vacationing, the importance of creating bandwidth for each other, and how to implement the relaxed mindset of vacations into everyday life. This is more about the need for intentionality in maintaining connection and intimacy beyond the vacation setting. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … There are several different kinds of vacations - we discuss some of them. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post The Power Of Vacations #763 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of how our fantasy life, desires and sexual practices are not just ours. We emphasize the importance of owning one's desires while recognizing the impact those desires have on spouses. Our conversation explores themes of gridlock in relationships, the pursuit of 'enough' in intimacy, and the necessity of self-development and integrity within the context of marriage. Listeners are encouraged to confront their own roles in relationship dynamics and to communicate effectively with their partners to foster growth and understanding. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We talk through our 3 words for 2026. Words that will help shape our year. What are yours? Listen to find out. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Your Fantasy Life Is Not Just Yours #762 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this Best of SMR conversation, Francie Winslow shares her transformative journey from the constraints of purity culture to embracing a vibrant and fulfilling sexual life within marriage. She discusses the importance of understanding sexuality as a divine gift, the need for education and growth in sexual intimacy, and the detrimental effects of silence and shame surrounding women's sexuality. We also talk about the historical context that has shaped women's views on their bodies and sexuality, advocating for a shift towards embracing the beauty and joy of sexual expression as part of God's design. The conversation highlights the significance of vulnerability and open communication in fostering healthy sexual relationships. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … In this XTD conversation, Francie and I explore the sacredness of sexuality, the importance of community and education in sexual wholeness, and the need for healing in sexual relationships. We discuss personal experiences that shaped their understanding of sexuality, the role of husbands in nurturing intimacy, and the necessity of bringing light to often taboo conversations about sex. . Sponsors … Cure Hydration: Get 20% off your first order! Stay hydrated and feel your best by visiting https://curehydration.com/passion and using promo code passion at checkout. Alloy: Get your Alloy prescription today. Visit https://myalloy.com/PASSION today for $20 off your first order! #agegracefully Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best of SMR: Reclaiming Women’s Sexuality | Francie Winslow #761 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing communication shutdowns in relationships. They explore various strategies that individuals use to avoid uncomfortable conversations, such as minimizing issues, fix-it modes, stonewalling, and scorekeeping. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to confront personal communication patterns to foster healthier relationships. As the New Year approaches, they also introduce the concept of setting resolutions through three meaningful words, encouraging listeners to reflect on their growth and interactions in the coming year. Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Exit Strategies #760 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the holiday season and the tradition of setting three words to guide the upcoming year. We also dive into a listener's email regarding her husband's erectile dysfunction, exploring the complexities of control in relationships, the impact of stress, and the importance of reframing sexual intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for self-improvement and honest communication in navigating relationship dynamics, particularly in the context of sexual health and emotional connection. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We talk through what an honest one-way conversation about this dynamic in her marriage would look like. Listen to find out. Sponsors … Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post My Husband’s ED #759 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.