The Dude Therapist

In this episode, Eli Weinstein interviews Chiemi, a leading expert in infertility and IVF. They discuss the misconceptions and assumptions surrounding infertility, the ongoing emotional and physical toll of the journey, and the importance of compassion and support. They also explore the dynamics of support within couples, the need for active listening and validation, and the challenge of balancing grief and joy. Chiemi emphasizes the importance of honoring one's experience and creating spaces for vitality and self-care. They also discuss the lack of recognition and ritual around the grief of infertility. Key Ideas: Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Discussion of Misconceptions about Infertility 03:24 The Unrecognized Grief of Infertility 08:55 The Importance of Conversations about Loss and Fertility 15:01 Supporting Each Other in the Infertility Journey 19:12 Navigating Fear and Avoiding Turning Against Each Other 28:24 Creating a Warm and Loving Space in the World of Infertility 30:38 Letting Joy In and Balancing Grief and Happiness 34:02 Shifting the Mindset from Guilt to Acceptance 37:25 Recognizing and Honoring the Grief of Infertility 38:53 Conclusion and Appreciation for the Work of Supporting Infertility Bio: Chiemi aka Miss.Conception Coach is a published writer and Infertility Trauma + Grief Support Specialist. She lends her unique voice and expertise to help people better understand, validate, and process their infertility journey. She uses her platform to raise awareness about the emotions felt and the reality of the mental health issues people experience. Through her unique counseling style, she helps people understand, and heal from their experiences. She offers worldwide individual and couples teletherapy. Connect with Chiemi on Instagram and visit her website to learn more. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Dr. Miriam Kirmayer, a clinical psychologist specializing in adult friendships, discusses the importance of friendships and social connections in our lives. She shares her journey of researching adult friendships and the challenges of building and maintaining them. Dr. Kirmayer emphasizes the need for knowledge translation and making evidence-based information about friendships accessible and relatable. She also explores the dynamics of childhood friendships and how they differ from adult friendships. Dr. Kirmayer provides insights on overcoming social anxieties, being open and vulnerable in friendships, and the importance of self-talk and positive cues in building and maintaining connections. Bio: Dr. Miriam Kirmayer is a clinical psychologist, leading friendship expert, and influential speaker on human connection and social support. With over a decade of research on the science of friendship, Dr. Miriam is revolutionizing the way we show up for, mentor, and connect with each other. Dr. Miriam is one of the first and only clinical psychologists to specialize in friendship and shares guidance on navigating relationship changes and challenges through her writing, courses, and online community. As a speaker and consultant, Dr. Miriam helps people, teams, and organizations to bridge the connection divide and readily build resilient, supportive relationships. She currently sits on the Mental Health Advisory Board for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez and consults for The Foundation for Social Connection. Dr. Miriam regularly contributes research-driven insights and relatable advice to top outlets including The Atlantic, BBC, Forbes, The New York Times, Time, and more. Dr. Miriam Kirmayer received her Ph.D. from McGill University and lives in Montreal, Canada with her husband and their two children. Connect with Dr. Miriam @miriamkirmayer and learn more at MiriamKirmayer.com. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:44 The Power and Importance of Adult Friendships 08:48 Navigating the Challenges of Building and Maintaining Friendships 15:38 The Role of Self-Talk and Positive Cues in Building Connections 20:53 Embracing New Connections and Initiating Friendships 28:00 Recognizing and Embracing the Evolution of Friendships 32:46 Gender Differences in Friendships 39:19 Men's Need for Intimacy and Self-Disclosure in Friendships 42:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Dr. Sherri Campbell, an expert on toxic family dynamics and emotional abuse, shares her personal journey of healing and self-discovery. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity and genuine care in therapy and how she incorporates personal experiences into her practice. Dr. Campbell defines toxic relationships as poisoning the spirit and preventing individuals from functioning at their full potential. She discusses the need to accept the reality of abusive family members and partners and the process of learning to love oneself after growing up in a toxic environment. Dr. Campbell also highlights the power of creating happiness and the value of suffering in developing empathy and wisdom. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 07:58 The Journey of Learning to Love Oneself 11:44 Understanding Toxic Relationships 20:59 Connecting Hope and Reality 31:23 The Goal of Therapy for Survivors of Toxic Family Dynamics 37:28 Creating Happiness and the Value of Suffering 42:11 Final Words of Advice --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

In this conversation, Eli Weinstein interviews Vincent Infante, a therapist and life coach who shares his unique approach to helping clients optimize their lives and feel empowered. They discuss the importance of giving grace to others and the limitations of therapy and coaching. They also explore the daily grind that can lead to burnout and ways to alleviate it. The therapist emphasizes the positive intent behind negative emotions and the need to be curious about them. They also discuss the power of mindset shifts, breaking out of diagnoses, and rephrasing language to separate oneself from emotions and experiences. In this conversation, Eli Weinstein and Vin discuss the importance of separating psychological disorders from personal responsibility. They mention Dr. Amen and his work on brain scans to understand mental health. They also talk about the prevalence of making excuses in today's society and the need to take ownership of one's actions and emotions. Vin shares his personal journey of breaking free from victimhood and the importance of honesty and self-awareness. They discuss the five aspects of mastery: thoughts, emotions, behaviors, actions, and language, and how they can be controlled to create a more intentional and empowered life. Takeaways Chapters 00:00 The Power of Giving Grace and Flexibility 03:49 The Limitations of Therapy and Coaching 08:04 Alleviating the Daily Grind 13:24 The Positive Intent of Negative Emotions 23:08 Rephrasing Language for Change and Possibilities 25:02 Understanding Psychological Disorders and Personal Responsibility 26:31 Taking Ownership of Your Actions and Emotions 30:32 Breaking Free from Victimhood through Honesty and Self-Awareness 39:10 Mastering Your Thoughts, Emotions, Behaviors, Actions, and Language 45:00 Creating an Intentional and Empowered Life For more on Vincent Infante, check out the links below: Website: www.vincentinfante.life LinkedIn: www.Linkedin.com/in/vininfante Instagram: www.instagram.com/vin.infante PsychologyToday: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/vincent-infante-staten-island-ny/821820 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Dr. Sara, an expert on relationships, discusses the six ingredients for designing the love people deserve. These ingredients can be applied to all types of relationships, including those with parents, siblings, children, and coworkers. The conversation explores the importance of attraction, respect, trust, compatibility, communication, and growth in maintaining thriving relationships. It emphasizes the need to focus on the right aspects of a relationship and not rely solely on love to save it. The discussion also challenges common misconceptions about sex and physical attraction in relationships. In this conversation, Eli Weinstein discusses the six key ingredients for a successful relationship: respect, vision, trust, compassion, acts of love, and knowing your own blueprint. He emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communicating them lovingly and firmly. Vision involves imagining a partnership where two individuals influence and support each other, creating a harmonious relationship. Trust is built on reliability and consistency, and commitment is crucial even when you don't feel like it. Compassion is about being there for the other person without making it about yourself, and acts of love involve making the other person feel special in the way they want to be. Takeaways Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:22 Dr. Sara's Journey into Relationship Work 05:20 The Role of Love in Relationships 09:16 The Focus and Efforts in Relationships 12:13 The Six Ingredients for Designing Love 22:41 Focusing on What Matters in Relationships 24:35 The First Ingredient: Attraction 26:36 The Second Ingredient: Respect 29:21 The Third Ingredient: Trust 31:46 The Fourth Ingredient: Compatibility 34:38 The Fifth Ingredient: Communication 38:03 The Sixth Ingredient: Growth 40:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts 28:24 Creating a Vision for a Harmonious Relationship 29:21 Building Trust through Reliability and Consistency 35:06 Committing to the Relationship Even When You Don't Feel Like It 41:46 Being There for the Other Person without Making it About Yourself 49:16 Making the Other Person Feel Special --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Travis Thomas, a performance coach, discusses the importance of mindset and courage in sports and everyday life. He shares how his background in improv comedy led him to the mental performance space and how he incorporates improv principles into his coaching. Travis emphasizes the need to accept and embrace uncertainty, control the controllable, and focus on what's important now. He distinguishes between fearless and courageous, highlighting the importance of facing discomfort and taking action despite fear. Travis encourages individuals to validate their feelings and prioritize their locus of focus to make decisions that align with their priorities. Takeaways BIO Travis Thomas is a performance coach who specializes in mindset, leadership, and culture. He is the former performance coach for the US Men’s National Soccer team, and is currently serving that role with FC Dallas and the St. Louis University men’s soccer team. He continues to serve as a corporate trainer, speaker, and consultant for some of the top companies in the world. He is the author of the book, “3 Words for Getting Unstuck: Live Yes, And”…in which he shares his experience from 25 years in improvisation and improvisational comedy - and how those principles apply to the happiness and performance in our lives. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Summary The Slumberkins founders, Kelly and Kaylee, discuss emotional health and wellness for children, the creation of their business, and the impact of their products. They emphasize the importance of emotional wellness for parents and children, the challenges of parenting in the digital age, and the need for a shift in the narrative around emotional growth and wellness. Kelly Oriard is the co-founder and Chief Therapeutic Officer at Slumberkins, a children’s education and emotional health brand. She holds a dual master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and School Counseling. As a licensed family therapist, school counselor, and mother, Oriard is passionate about changing how we support the mental and emotional well-being of children and families. As the author behind the character storylines at Slumberkins, Kelly is changing the way children and families can access the content and strategies, usually found in a family therapy session, in a fun, easy-to-use way that creates healing and brings meaningful moments of connection that make a lifelong impact on the emotional health of children. Callie Christensen is the co-founder and Chief Brand Officer at Slumberkins, a children’s education and emotional wellness brand. Callie holds a master’s in teaching elementary education and special education. As a mother and educator turned entrepreneur, she’s on a mission to use her educational background to create an accessible, meaningful, and purposeful brand that is useful in every home and school to help support families and communities on their journeys of emotional health. Slumberkins is at the forefront of brand building online as they expand into children’s entertainment by bringing the characters to life in a preschool television series produced by The Jim Henson Company for Apple TV+. About Slumberkins Slumberkins is the leading early emotional wellness brand promoting healthy emotional development through stories and characters in the form of consumer products, books, content, music, school-based curriculum and more. Slumberkins uses original storytelling through its 50+ books in print and popular cuddly creatures to help children connect with a wide range of emotions and empower them to grow into caring, confident and resilient people. Slumberkins was founded in 2015 by Kelly Oriard and Callie Christensen, both moms with backgrounds in child development and family therapy. Fueled by an appearance on Shark Tank and a growing community of more than 1 million, Slumberkins is continuing to expand its wildly successful consumer products and publishing business across multiple touch points, including a children’s music album, affirmation app, and mixed media puppet / 2D animation TV program produced by The Jim Henson Company, based on its plush toys, now streaming worldwide on AppleTV+. Slumberkins has sold more than 1.5 million books to date while also actively selling curriculum into schools nationwide. To learn more, visit Slumberkins.com and follow them on Instagram, Facebook, and Pinterest. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Dr. Patrick McGrath, Chief Clinical Officer at NoCD, discusses the reality of OCD, its portrayal in the media, and the treatment approaches. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the true nature of OCD and the challenges faced by individuals with the condition. The conversation delves into the impact of OCD on daily life, the therapeutic process, and the distinction between OCD and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. The conversation covers a wide range of topics related to OCD treatment, including the use of teletherapy, exposure therapy, the role of clinicians, the mission of NoCD, medication, and emerging treatments. The conversation also addresses common myths and misconceptions about OCD and offers hope to those struggling with the condition. With over 20 years of expertise, Dr. McGrath is recognized as a leading authority on OCD. His media presence includes appearances on the Discovery Health Channel’s “Panic,” TLC’s “Hoarding: Buried Alive,” and podcasts such as Inside Mental Health and We Met At ACME. He’s also authored “Don't Try Harder, Try Different” and “The OCD Answer Book.” Takeaways Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Reality of OCD: Myths vs. Truth 06:38 The Impact of OCD on Daily Life 14:16 Treatment Approaches for OCD: ERP and ACT 25:17 Revolutionizing OCD Treatment: The Role of Teletherapy and Exposure Therapy 38:26 The Mission of NoCD: Accessible Therapy and Support for OCD 41:17 Medication and Emerging Treatments for OCD: A Look into the Future 46:23 Debunking Myths and Offering Hope: Understanding OCD Treatment --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

In this episode, Eli Weinstein interviews Rachel Sievers, a mental health professional, about relationships, boundaries, and authenticity. They discuss codependency and the distinction between codependency and caring for others. Rachel explains that codependency often stems from childhood experiences where showing up as oneself was not accepted or valued. She emphasizes the importance of reparenting oneself and learning to listen to one's own thoughts, emotions, and needs. They also explore the challenges of being authentic in relationships and the fear of disconnection. Rachel encourages listeners to trust that being true to themselves is the right path, even if it means losing relationships that don't accept them. Tune in to learn how self-acceptance can lead to a more fulfilling and courageous life. Takeaways Rachel Sievers is a retired psychotherapist and life coach with a master's degree of science in psychology. She's logged over ten thousand hours practicing psychotherapy. In addition to her podcast, The Answer to Everything, she's developed a workbook, Talk To Me, and an online anxiety course, Anxiety-Free in 21 Days, as well as running an expanded private practice in California. She began her career working with families of foster and adopted children. Since then, she's worked in private practice using Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Affirmative, and Gestalt therapy. She's been trained in the Gottman Method, and in Somatic Experiencing to help her clients effectively heal from trauma symptoms. Now, she works as a counselor and life coach in private practice using her experience as a psychotherapist in combination with action-based methods to fit the needs of her clients best. Rachel doesn't have "bad days" at work. She loves her job, and is honored and each time someone allows her to walk alongside them on their journey. For access to Rachel's book, podcast, and online course, or to work with Rachel 1-1, go to rachelsievers.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

Discover the secrets to successful relationships on this episode of the Dude Therapist podcast with Eli Weinstein and Elizabeth Earnshaw. They discuss the shifting dynamics in relationships, from traditional issues like infidelity to modern stressors like work pressure and societal influences. Elizabeth emphasizes the impact of external stressors on relationships and advocates for boundaries and effective communication. Gain practical solutions like joint accounts for financial harmony and learn the importance of empathy and understanding in resolving conflicts. Explore the complexities of ending relationships with honest communication and self-reflection. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering harmonious and fulfilling relationships. Elizabeth Earnshaw is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist, Clinical Fellow of the AAMFT, and the author of I Want This To Work: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating the Most Difficult Relationship Issues We Face in The Modern Age". She sees couples and trains therapists at A Better Life Therapy in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and is a co-founder at Ours, a company focused on helping premarital couples have important conversations. She has also hosted a relationship advice segment on the iHeartRadio podcast, Good Risings, and creates relationship wellness content on Instagram @lizlistens. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of The Dude Therapist join host Eli Weinstein as he delves into the world of inner healing and personal growth with clinical psychologist Dr. Stephanie Carinia. Discover the power of inner child work and shadow work in overcoming past traumas and building stronger relationships. Learn how to transition from codependency to interdependency and the importance of self-compassion, self-acceptance, and setting boundaries. Gain insights on recognizing unhealthy relationship patterns, fostering emotional well-being, and attracting emotionally available partners. Tune in for guidance on self-reflection, communication, and navigating personal growth to achieve lasting emotional well-being. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of The Dude Therapist podcast, Eli Weinstein and guest Emily Sanders explore the intricate dynamics of building and maintaining relationships. They delve into the impact of early family experiences on our ability to be open in relationships and stress the importance of pacing and avoiding rushing intimacy. The conversation highlights the significance of in-person interactions, clear communication, and expressing needs explicitly to prevent resentment. Sanders also addresses healthy conflict resolution and views disagreements as opportunities for growth, advocating for a nuanced approach to maintaining connections. Emily has been practicing for over 13 years, and knows from personal experience the courage it takes to walk on the road to healing and self-discovery; she works with compassion to support others on their path to restoration, empowerment, and fulfillment. ​ Emily has enjoyed working with individuals and families from all walks of life, both in the therapy room, classroom, and various speaking venues. She also has a desire to support the family unit, whether through caring for the youngest members of the home or guiding couples to a closer, more satisfying relationship. Of all the roles Emily plays, she most enjoys being wife to her husband of 16 years, Michael, and mother to their daughters and son. In her free time Emily can usually be found outside running, hiking, or riding her bicycle along Pacific Coast Highway. She also enjoys browsing Pinterest for new dinner recipes, chatting with her girlfriends, and spending quality time with her family. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

In this podcast episode, Eli Weinstein and Dr. Jennifer Guttman discuss the importance of prioritizing sustainable life satisfaction over fleeting happiness. Dr. Guttman, a clinical psychologist, shares insights on embracing a broader emotional spectrum and setting achievable goals for personal fulfillment. They also explore the impact of social media on perceptions of happiness and the need to find contentment in everyday moments. The conversation concludes with a focus on self-acceptance and celebrating progress toward goals for a truly fulfilling life. [00:00:00] Therapist promotes sustainable life satisfaction revolution. [00:03:29] Search for happiness within, not externally. [00:07:56] Chasing happiness on social media is harmful. [00:12:04] Happiness is externally driven; other emotions are not. [00:16:23] Pursuit of happiness through satisfaction revolution. [00:20:49] Achieve satisfaction by avoiding assumptions and comparisons. [00:24:09] Seeking fulfillment through presence and mindfulness. [00:27:40] Social media oversharing contributes to despair. [00:31:48] Good days are simple and satisfying. [00:35:22] Embrace authenticity, feel your feelings. Dr. Jennifer Guttman has a doctorate in clinical psychology. She launched a motivational brand called Sustainable Life Satisfaction® and produced a YouTube series, course, and workbook based on this method. This year Beyond Happiness, The 6 Secrets of Life Satisfaction was published by Post Hill Press. Dr. Guttman is a regular contributor to Psychology Today and Thrive Global. She has written for national news outlets such as The Washington Post and Newsweek, has been a guest on several network television programs, including ABC News, and has been featured on dozens of podcasts. Dr. Guttman has an active and robust Cognitive Behavioral practice. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of the podcast, Eli Weinstein and relationship specialist Mark Groves dive into the complexities of modern relationships and personal growth. They discuss the importance of accepting individuals as they are and avoiding the urge to change partners. They also emphasize the significance of open communication, self-care, and setting boundaries for true transformation. Tune in to learn how to foster healthy connections and celebrate individuality in relationships for growth and authenticity. [This week's episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/dudetherapist today to get 10% off your first month.] [00:00:00] Therapy can help guide and listen. [00:02:28] Mark Rose explores human connection authentically. [00:06:53] Identifying through wounds, growth comparison, relationships. [00:12:42] Resolve disconnection, prioritize self, communicate needs. [00:18:41] Fear of loss keeps people stuck. [00:23:56] Liberated love celebrates individuality in relationships. [00:29:59] Nurturing sacred space in relationships. [00:35:52] Relationships require courage and liberation. [00:40:11] Blind spots: guilt and blame. [00:45:58] Relationships require skill and self-awareness. Mark Groves is a Human Connection Specialist, founder of Create the Love, and host of the Mark Groves Podcast. Mark's work bridges the academic and the human, inviting people to explore the good, the bad, the downright ugly, and the beautiful sides of connection. Links: Preorder Liberated Love here!createthelove.commarkgroves.commarkgrovespodcast.com @createthelove --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of The Dude Therapist, Eli Weinstein and guest Dr. Siggie reveal the secrets to effective parenting strategies. Learn how to empower your children to solve their own problems and promote their independence. Discover the dangers of over-parenting and the importance of assessing situations before intervening. Gain valuable insights on empathy, validation, and concise communication with your children. Plus, find out how to stay calm, practice mindfulness, and be a stable leader for your children in emotional moments. Tune in to this episode for practical tips on setting boundaries and fostering resilience in your children through mindful and empowering parenting practices. Dr. Siggie Cohen is known as the “Child Whisperer” for her unparalleled depth of insight in working with children of all ages. For more than 35 years she has worked with thousands of children and families across the US and abroad, first as a teacher and then as a professor and counselor. Her method provides parents with practical tools and scripts to feel more empowered and less guilty. Her ultimate goal is to simplify the parenting journey and increase connection between parent and child. She is also a mother of 3 and runs her own private practice in Los Angeles. [This weeks episode is brought by Factor Meals. Head to factormeals.com/dudetherapist50 and use code dudetherapist50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next box.] --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of The Dude Therapist podcast, host Eli Weinstein and mental performance coach Lauren Johnson dive into the fascinating world of emotions and performance in sports. Discover how managing pressure, confidence, and focus can unlock your full potential on the field. Learn the secrets to separating emotions from actions for increased productivity and progress. Gain valuable insights on aligning your actions with your values to achieve success and overcome feeling stuck. Don't miss this episode filled with motivation, personal growth, and the mindset required for excellence in sports and life. [00:00:06] Lauren Johnson, coach, adviser, keynote speaker. [00:05:31] Helping world moments of realization. [00:09:49] Athletes' performance affected by pressure, emotions. [00:15:05] Pressure is a data point. Manage it. [00:19:04] Choose behavior over feelings, practice efficiency. [00:23:07] Separate emotion from action for success. [00:28:15] Eli's mental performance coach sets boundaries. [00:32:08] Overcoming winning mentality for lasting happiness. [00:36:00] Alignment is key to overcoming obstacles. [00:40:41] Eliminate things to create room for alignment. Lauren is a coach, advisor and keynote speaker. She works with CEO's, professional athletes, and fortune 500 companies through 1:1 coaching, workshops and international speaking engagements. Lauren received her Masters Degree in Performance Psychology and has worked with various individuals and organizations including the New York Yankees, US Women's National Soccer Team, Google, Johnson and Johnson, MassMutual, Square, the FBI and many others. Lauren's practical, straight-forward advice and mental performance strategies helps individuals become elite decision makers because her belief is you become elite by choice, not by chance. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of the podcast, Eli Weinstein and Jordan Green discuss the power of self-love and self-awareness in relationships. They challenge the notion that one must be perfect before entering a relationship, emphasizing the importance of self-discovery and self-acceptance. The hosts highlight the value of understanding one's worth and desires, while promoting a balance between self-acceptance and personal growth. They also stress the significance of early intervention in relationship issues, encouraging open communication and the identification of non-negotiable needs. Don't miss this episode to gain insights on maintaining healthy boundaries and reconnecting with personal identity within relationships. Jordan is on a mission to empower people with therapist-created tools to master their mental health, improve their relationships, and unlock their full potential. She has lived in Tulsa, Oklahoma for much of my life, but love to travel to meet new people and learn new ways of living and being. India, Nepal, Tibet, China, Guatemala, Costa Rica, Mexico, Ecuador, and Peru are places I’ve spent a significant amount of time. Spirituality is a big part of my life and I have a daily practice of breathwork, meditation, and yoga. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/ dudetherapist and get 10% and start your journey to being your best self. In this thought-provoking episode, host Eli Weinstein and guest Dr. Ramani dive deep into the intricate world of narcissism, gaslighting, and rebuilding trust. Dr. Ramani, a renowned clinical psychologist, unravels the origins of narcissistic behavior, tracing it back to deep-seated shame and insecurity. With a focus on self-awareness and accountability, she offers valuable insights for personal growth and healing. The conversation also sheds light on gaslighting, a manipulative tactic prevalent in intimate relationships, where victims' realities are denied to exert control. Dr. Ramani advocates for self-reflection, validation, and the gradual process of rebuilding trust in oneself to heal from toxic relationships. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA, Professor Emerita of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles, and the Founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training & Consulting. She is an author of several books including Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist, and “Don’t You Know Who I Am?”: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility. The focus of Dr. Durvasula’s clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations. Her work has been featured at SXSW, TEDx, Red Table Talk, the Today Show, and Investigation Discovery. You can also find her on YouTube where she has accumulated millions of views on her videos discussing narcissism on her successful channel, and on social media @DoctorRamani. Now she will be adding the role of host to her resume as she launches her new podcast, Navigating Narcissism with Dr. Ramani, a show that focuses on narcissism and its impact on relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

This episode is sponsored by/brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/ dudetherapist and get 10% and start your journey to being your best self. On this episode of 'Dealing with the Struggles', podcast host Eli Weinstein and guest Minaa B dive deep into the importance of acknowledging and normalizing our struggles without shame. They discuss toxic productivity, the impact of social media on well-being, and the need for mental health support in workplaces. Minaa B, a licensed social worker, shares insights on self-acceptance, trauma healing, and the power of genuine human connections. Tune in to discover how self-care can lead to community care and healing in this captivating conversation. Bio: Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, mental health educator, and author of Owning Our Struggles. A former psychotherapist specializing in anxiety, depression, and trauma, Minaa has worked in various mental health industries, including early childhood in NYC Early Head Start programs, private practice, and community mental health. She obtained her graduate degree in social work from New York University. Minaa is also a wellness coach and the founder of Minaa B. Consulting, a mental health consulting practice that helps organizations develop psychological safety. As a mental health educator and coach, Minaa emphasizes the connection between mental health and social justice. She teaches individuals how to foster self-efficacy and enhance emotional resilience through community care. This approach acknowledges the impact of relationships in facilitating personal and societal change and assists individuals in establishing supportive and healthy connections. In addition, Minaa is the host of the Verywell Mind podcast, runs an advice column called Free Therapy for Cosmopolitan magazine, and is a member of the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez. As an expert in her field, Minaa has been featured in various media outlets, including Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind with Taraji, Oprah Daily, and Katie Couric Media, among others. Minaa currently resides in New York City. This episode is also sponsored by Factor, if you want to take the guessing game out of eating healthier, go to factormeals.com and use code dudetherapist50 for 50% off --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support

On this episode of the podcast, Eli Weinstein and guest Amoila Cesar explore the transformative power of movement and mindset. Amoila, a renowned strength conditioning coach, shares his journey of personal growth and emphasizes the importance of consistency, self-awareness, and mindset in achieving fitness goals. He introduces programs like 'Insanity' and 'Six Weeks of the Work,' focusing on primal movements for mobility and strength. The episodes highlight the value of simplicity in movements, trying new things, and embracing gradual improvement for holistic wellness. Amoila Jamil Cesar is one of the world’s top Celebrity Strength Conditioning Coaches and BODi Super Trainers. He has led millions worldwide on their fitness journey, pushing people beyond what they thought possible and changing lives. From Professional Athletes, A-list celebrities, and CEO’s to mothers, entrepreneurs, and more, Amoila has been the driving force, inspiring people to reach new limits and become the best versions of themselves. Amoila’s impressive roster of clients includes celebrities such as Two Chainz, August Alsina, Jack Osbourne, Merle Dandridge and NBA superstars including Julius Randle, Demarcus Cousins, Jordan Clarkson, Elfrid Payton, Kevon Looney, Patrick Patterson and Bobby Portis and more. He is also the Strength and Conditioning coach for professional Tennis star Taylor Fritz. Amoila has been featured in GQ, Men’s Journal, Sports Illustrated, Men’s Health, Bleacher Report, and Hustle. Soul, Authority Magazine, GIO, Live Fitness Now, KTLA, Sheen!, FTW, NBC Bay Area, NBC San Diego, Thrive Global, PS. Fitness and others. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thedudetherapist/support