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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.
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Sydney, Australia

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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

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English


Episodes

#175 - Jealousy, Envy, FOMO, Oh My!

9/18/2019
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This week we touch back on jealousy, envy, and FOMO. We describe the difference in the three and we dissect our own experiences in feeling, managing, and mitigating these feelings. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Check out our...

Duration:00:59:40

#174 - When Things Don't Go to Plan

9/11/2019
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Sometimes things don’t go to plan. This week we discuss a couple of times when things went just a bit awry. Even the best made plans can have a few bumps, we just have to roll with the punches. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Check...

Duration:00:54:19

#173 - Furry and Pet Play

9/4/2019
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In this episode we talk about head space and the play space of Bradford when he is in pet mode. We go through a recent afternoon that he was collared and non-verbal... (I know right?) Listen as we discuss the mental ins and outs from both sides of the game with some interesting side effects and some amazing sex. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook...

Duration:01:01:38

#172 - Sydney Fetish Ball

8/28/2019
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This week we discuss The Sydney Fetish Ball a fantastic hell of a time that was a blast! We also talk about a recent play session with friends we made at Desire who were visiting us down under! In the battle of two subs... who was the subiest sub of them all!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want...

Duration:01:00:40

#171 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 2

8/21/2019
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In this episode, Bradford has once again been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- But this time he is joined by The Gentleman! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Check out our...

Duration:01:22:29

#170 - The X Awards & Sweet Release Agency

8/14/2019
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This week we introduce you to Jett Black of Sweet Release Agency and who is the mastermind behind the newest Adult Awards in Australia, The X Awards. We discuss the origins behind The X Awards, how the winners will be selected, and what the future holds for this new and coveted prize. We also discuss Sweet Release. His company that partners with adult businesses, independent sex workers, and entertainers to help them better market themselves with advertising and digital media. Sit back,...

Duration:01:09:01

#169 - Intro to Shibari & Swings

8/7/2019
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In this episode we discuss an intro to shibari class that we took recently at Studio Kink here in Sydney. What an amazing experience! We also discuss sex in a swing! As part of the new bed we borrowed a sex swing from Our Secret Spot and of course we had to give it a go. Is swing sex the best sex? Stay tuned!!! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook...

Duration:00:53:14

#168 - Urban Dictionary Best Sex Acts for Each US State, Part 1

7/31/2019
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in this episode, Bradford has been reluctantly roped into discussing Urban Dictionary’s "Best Sex Acts of the US States" -- Southeast and Northeast... and it’s painful for him. Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Check out our OnlyFans...

Duration:01:00:39

#167 - Relationships & Bicuriosity

7/24/2019
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This week we talk in depth about how we each feel about public displays of affection towards from earth other WITH other people. We recently went to an event where Bradford was very affectionate with another person to Angela’s exclusion and we dissect that a bit. Later, we’ve had a few listeners ask us to dive a bit more deeply into the Bicuriousity Camp. So we do! Sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On...

Duration:00:52:29

#166 - All About the Cock Rings

7/17/2019
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Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike! This week our show is All About Cock Rings!!! We have had a few folks drop us messages asking about proper use, sizing, and most importantly how to get them off! The Gentleman joins us as he had never used a cock ring. So we size one for him, get him into it, and then get him laid... then we talk about his experience! As a bonus, we answer the age old question that is on everyone's mind... "Can you unlock your iPhone with your...

Duration:00:54:26

#165 -A Club X Blue Theatre

7/10/2019
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In this episode, Bradford regails us with a story from Adelaide where he went to a local ClubX and experienced their "Blue Cinema". It's quite a sticky story! We also talk about the latest Threshold Party that was recently held at Our Secret Spot, So sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help...

Duration:01:03:26

#164 - Down the Rabbit Hole

7/3/2019
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This past weekend we were fortunate enough to head down to Adelaide in South Australia and go to a Rainbow Party at a new adult entertainment venue cleverly called “The Rabbit Hole”. The Rainbow Party was designed to be a fun and safe place for LGBTQIA+ folks to come and get their sexy on. In this episode we’ll discuss the venue, the party, and, of course, we go into all of the dirty little details of the fun that we had there. If you are in the Adelaide area or plan to travel there soon...

Duration:01:01:13

#163 - Seize the Moment

6/26/2019
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Welcome faithful listener! This week we discuss something that we, ourselves, are trying to be better at, seizing the moment. We give a recent example of how we tried to seize on an opportunity that popped up! We continue this theme by discussing how we plan to be better with that at Desire this year, and we give an example of us deciding to watch porn on the new tv... and then have sex on the sofa. As always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social...

Duration:00:53:50

#162 - Recent Highlights & Pride

6/19/2019
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This week we talk about highlights from our recent travels with The Bed Hoppers and Naughty & Rocket. We discuss all of our memories from the trip and once again Bradford tries out his British accent. (It isn't good!) . Last we talk a bit about Pride Month and some of our recent activities around it. So get the cuffs and prepare to be held down! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram...

Duration:00:55:37

#161 - Listener Questions

6/12/2019
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Hello hello! We had a bunch of listener comments and questions and thought it was time to do a Q&A podcast again. We discuss our recent podcast on Sex Positive Parenting, checking our insecurities at the door, and how sexy The Gentleman is; plus much more! Once again and by popular demand, The Gentleman is back to help us tackle some of these questions. If you have questions, comments, or rude remarks, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us! So take a breath and make sure you don’t...

Duration:01:02:01

#160 - Pendulum X

6/4/2019
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! Now let's talk about some bisexuality!!! Once again, in this episode, we invite The Gentleman back to talk bisexuality and swinging as we tell tales of our tenth (Yes you read that correctly!) Pendulum Party. We'll telling all of the deepest darkest secrets from Pendulum X and all of the naughty sexcapades that we had. So bite the pillow... this one might sting a bit. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On...

Duration:01:06:14

#159 - The Great Gangbang

5/29/2019
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At the beginning of May Angela wanted to celebrate her 40th birthday in style. So the team at Our Secret Spot organized for her to have a gang bang that finished with bukake. We invited The Gentleman back to recall the event... which was pretty spectacular. In this podcast we will describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We'll also give advice on how to behave if you are ever given the opportunity to participate in your own gangbang...

Duration:01:11:23

#158 - Sex Positive Parenting

5/22/2019
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In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about sex positive parenting. We explore how to raise the issue of sexuality with children, starting the conversation, and sexual education in general. We discuss ways to create an open and safe home environment. A central theme is communicating on an age appropriate and child appropriate level in each family. And finally, how and when do you talk to your children about porn? Links we talk about in...

Duration:01:05:42

#157 - Reproductive Justice

5/15/2019
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In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about reproductive justice and awareness. We delve deeply into the diversity in women's health care, access to care, education, reproductive care and choices, male contraception, LARCs, and reproductive coercion. This is an extremely important episode as many of us take for granted our access to healthcare and more specifically birth control. Links we talk about in the podcast...

Duration:01:02:13

#156 Angela Returns to the Sauna

5/8/2019
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In this episode we discuss Angela's solo return to the Bay City Sauna in Melbourne. We discuss her experiences and ultimately we dive into what she is looking for in a play partner when she is on the road and ultimately we answer the question that so so many people want, nay need, to know... How exactly DOES one pick up and hook up with Angela when she is on the road. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook...

Duration:00:58:19