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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.
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Sydney, Australia

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Welcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening.

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Episodes

#166 - All About the Cock Rings

7/17/2019
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Welcome back constant listener and new listeners alike! This week our show is All About Cock Rings!!! We have had a few folks drop us messages asking about proper use, sizing, and most importantly how to get them off! The Gentleman joins us as he had never used a cock ring. So we size one for him, get him into it, and then get him laid... then we talk about his experience! As a bonus, we answer the age old question that is on everyone's mind... "Can you unlock your iPhone with your...

Duration:00:54:26

#165 -A Club X Blue Theatre

7/10/2019
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In this episode, Bradford regails us with a story from Adelaide where he went to a local ClubX and experienced their "Blue Cinema". It's quite a sticky story! We also talk about the latest Threshold Party that was recently held at Our Secret Spot, So sit back, relax, and as always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help...

Duration:01:03:26

#164 - Down the Rabbit Hole

7/3/2019
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This past weekend we were fortunate enough to head down to Adelaide in South Australia and go to a Rainbow Party at a new adult entertainment venue cleverly called “The Rabbit Hole”. The Rainbow Party was designed to be a fun and safe place for LGBTQIA+ folks to come and get their sexy on. In this episode we’ll discuss the venue, the party, and, of course, we go into all of the dirty little details of the fun that we had there. If you are in the Adelaide area or plan to travel there soon...

Duration:01:01:13

#163 - Seize the Moment

6/26/2019
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Welcome faithful listener! This week we discuss something that we, ourselves, are trying to be better at, seizing the moment. We give a recent example of how we tried to seize on an opportunity that popped up! We continue this theme by discussing how we plan to be better with that at Desire this year, and we give an example of us deciding to watch porn on the new tv... and then have sex on the sofa. As always, thanks for listening!!! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social...

Duration:00:53:50

#162 - Recent Highlights & Pride

6/19/2019
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This week we talk about highlights from our recent travels with The Bed Hoppers and Naughty & Rocket. We discuss all of our memories from the trip and once again Bradford tries out his British accent. (It isn't good!) . Last we talk a bit about Pride Month and some of our recent activities around it. So get the cuffs and prepare to be held down! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram...

Duration:00:55:37

#161 - Listener Questions

6/12/2019
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Hello hello! We had a bunch of listener comments and questions and thought it was time to do a Q&A podcast again. We discuss our recent podcast on Sex Positive Parenting, checking our insecurities at the door, and how sexy The Gentleman is; plus much more! Once again and by popular demand, The Gentleman is back to help us tackle some of these questions. If you have questions, comments, or rude remarks, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us! So take a breath and make sure you don’t...

Duration:01:02:01

#160 - Pendulum X

6/4/2019
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HAPPY PRIDE MONTH! Now let's talk about some bisexuality!!! Once again, in this episode, we invite The Gentleman back to talk bisexuality and swinging as we tell tales of our tenth (Yes you read that correctly!) Pendulum Party. We'll telling all of the deepest darkest secrets from Pendulum X and all of the naughty sexcapades that we had. So bite the pillow... this one might sting a bit. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On...

Duration:01:06:14

#159 - The Great Gangbang

5/29/2019
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At the beginning of May Angela wanted to celebrate her 40th birthday in style. So the team at Our Secret Spot organized for her to have a gang bang that finished with bukake. We invited The Gentleman back to recall the event... which was pretty spectacular. In this podcast we will describe the setup and the action, what it was like to be a participant and a spectator. We'll also give advice on how to behave if you are ever given the opportunity to participate in your own gangbang...

Duration:01:11:23

#158 - Sex Positive Parenting

5/22/2019
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In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about sex positive parenting. We explore how to raise the issue of sexuality with children, starting the conversation, and sexual education in general. We discuss ways to create an open and safe home environment. A central theme is communicating on an age appropriate and child appropriate level in each family. And finally, how and when do you talk to your children about porn? Links we talk about in...

Duration:01:05:42

#157 - Reproductive Justice

5/15/2019
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In this podcast we talk with Dr. Deb (Dr. Deborah Bateson) and Christy (Dr. Christy Newman) about reproductive justice and awareness. We delve deeply into the diversity in women's health care, access to care, education, reproductive care and choices, male contraception, LARCs, and reproductive coercion. This is an extremely important episode as many of us take for granted our access to healthcare and more specifically birth control. Links we talk about in the podcast...

Duration:01:02:13

#156 Angela Returns to the Sauna

5/8/2019
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In this episode we discuss Angela's solo return to the Bay City Sauna in Melbourne. We discuss her experiences and ultimately we dive into what she is looking for in a play partner when she is on the road and ultimately we answer the question that so so many people want, nay need, to know... How exactly DOES one pick up and hook up with Angela when she is on the road. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook...

Duration:00:58:19

#155 Returning to Play & April Wrap Up

5/1/2019
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In this episode we discuss some of the exploits (sexploits?) that we got up to in April. We also talk about a disconnect that we sometimes feel when we are outside of our tribes and safety zones and how it can be difficult to reintegrate yourself. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon here Check...

Duration:00:57:06

#154 The Economics of Swinging... Part 2

4/24/2019
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A short while ago we did an episode on the economics of swinging and we were promptly sent a list of more econ terms and a challenge to apply them to the swinging lifestyle. We took up the challenge and I think we did a pretty good job! Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch more economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging. So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter...

Duration:01:02:42

#153 - Angela's First Sauna!

4/16/2019
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She’s heard Bradford’s tales of the sexy times in the saunas for 6 years. She’s grilled The Gentleman to try and get a better understanding of what a first time sauna experience is actually like. Well, this past weekend, Angela got to experience a night in a sauna for the first time herself and the result can be heard here. Listen as we tell you about our sexy experiences at Bay City Sauna in Melbourne, Australia. We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a...

Duration:00:50:27

#152 - Sexiness on the Road

4/3/2019
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This week we recorded from a hotel room near LAX during a long layover. We talk about sexy adventures that we both have had whilst traveling, Bradford regails of visiting London and seeing our dear friends, The Bed Hoppers. Angela talks about going back to the first swingers club we ever went to, The House, in North Carolina. Then we talk about the two of us reuniting and meeting friends to go to Menages in Nashville, TN. We hope you enjoy our sexy tails! So sit back, relax, and grab a...

Duration:00:48:50

#151 - The Economics of Swinging

3/26/2019
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Economics, a social science concerned chiefly with description and analysis of the production, distribution, and consumption of goods and services... We can apply these same ideas and principles to swinging. Don't believe us? Sit down and listen! We take apart a bunch of economic terms and principles and apply them to the swinging lifestyle! So sit back and enjoy as we dissect Swinganomics! Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On...

Duration:01:08:13

#150 - Neon Wand ... Rainbow or Rambo?

3/20/2019
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What is a Neon Wand? A Violet Wand? What is electricity play like? The Gentleman joins us again for a bit of goofing off and a play with the Neon Wand. We discuss the safety of using a Neon Wand (boring but totally necessary) and some basic attachments. Then we get into the exciting part and talk about how to use the wand, what it feels like, and you can just feel the electricity in the air! Also, send us your feedback and let us know if the Gentleman is saying Rainbow or Rambo?? We will...

Duration:00:57:23

#149 - Sexcapades VI

3/12/2019
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This episode is dedicated to all of the recent sexy times that we have had. We break down and decompress over recent Tinder dates we've both had and Angela's solo experiences at Our Secret Spot. We then dive deep, ahem, into Pendulum IX and talk about a date we had with a sexy couple once Bradford was back in town. So sit back, relax, and stay sexy. Proudly part of the Swingset.fm team! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook @BytheBiPodcast On Instagram...

Duration:00:57:21

#148 - Mardis Gras Madness

3/5/2019
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In this episode we talk about our recent experience marching on the Bi+Visibility float in the Sydney Mardi Gras. We have a few snippets we recorded with some of the other participants as well. All and all such an amazing experience. We also also talk about our upcoming (okay it’s 250 days away but we’re excited!!!) trip to Desire with the Life on the SwingSet crew. We discuss each of the theme nights and talk about possible costumes for them. So sit back, relax, and stay sexy. Proudly...

Duration:01:05:00

#147 - Replay: The 7 Types of Love

2/26/2019
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This week with all of the travel and preparations for Sydney Mardi Gras, we decided to replay an old favorite of ours that we released on September 20th 2017. We also talk about some of the other exciting things that we have in store for the coming months. Keep an eye out for some great things in the future. Philia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and...

Duration:01:15:14