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A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

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A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

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My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage | Ep 116

7/12/2024
Private Coaching Spaces are Open Join the Big Dating Nap // Dating Sanity Capsule combined program One might assume from the nature of the work I do, that every effort, every intention would be dedicated to helping my clients meet their husband — but it's not. It's both not that and so much more than that. In this episode I'm discussing: notactually Links referenced in this episode: Cheryl Strayed Article Podcast episode about my wedding Podcast episode about siblings Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:40:58

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Dealing with MONEY in relationships | Ep 115

7/4/2024
Ya'll we are digging into all things MONEY today. This is a real doozy of an episode, so settle in for a long walk, a batch of laundry or whatever else you like to do while you're listening. In this episode I'm taking you behind the scenes of the financial picture in our marriage, how we've moved through really hard money conversations and how working on my own relationship with money has been the most impactful thing when it comes to finding ease around finance in my relationship. That said, it's definitely a work in progress! I also specifically cover: Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:01:32:48

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On Making, Maintaining and Letting Go Of Friends In Our 30s and 40s | Ep 114

6/28/2024
On the heals of a very significant friendship ending for me in the last few years, the nature of friendship — what drives our friendships, what they look like, how our relational patterns manifest in this space (i.e. outside of romance) — has been of particular interest to me. Today I'm joined by my dear Catherine Zack, a friend made in the last few years but a really close one (something we'll get into in today's episode). We dig into a variety of things around friendship, including: ....and more. It's a sweet, juicy, conversation between....dear, newish, friends. Catherine's New Offerings Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:55:17

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On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind | Ep 113

6/24/2024
Private Coaching Spaces are Open Do you feel behind in life? It's a question I face and contemplate with clients (and often myself) all the time. Today's conversation isn't one geared towards telling you to "be grateful," or "just accept" everyone is on their own timeline. I'm going to the heart of what I believe rests beneath the feeling of being behind, whether we feel it in relationships, work, money, or simply life in general. If you feel like.... Then today's episode will give you: reallyWork with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:57:48

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The career conversation I'm having with all my 38ish friends | Ep 112

6/12/2024
Over the last few months I've had a series of conversations with friends/colleagues (some with kids, some without), that have gone: And so on. I could rattle off a dozen more examples. I, too, have found myself in this camp — wanting to simplify and strip back what I'm doing, not be so hung up on making things bigger and better, and just live. Maybe I'll change my tune in a few years? But I have a feeling....not so much. If this topic is percolating for you, too, today's podcast will be great company. Check out Bethany's Substack Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:54:38

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On being resistant to ease in your dating life — and life in general | Ep 111

6/5/2024
Did you grow up learning to work hard, get good grades, get into the best school(s) possible, hit any academic and professional achievement that you could? I did. And I learned to love it. I learned to love, and thus value, hustle, hard work, striving, strain, stress. On the one hand, it's served me well in what I've accomplished. On the other hand — and I see this with women all the time — it's made me resistant to pleasure, enjoyment and rest in my life. In today's episode, I'm breaking down how that resistance shakes out in our romantic experiences. If you're someone who identifies as type A, high achieving, really focused on academic and professional performance across your life, and you're now struggling to meet people you really like or have yet to manifest the relationship you want, this episode is for you. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:44:45

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You're going to have to f*ck up a lot in your dating + relationship life | Ep 110

5/30/2024
Private Coaching Spots are Open "Dating apps have brought the promise of the business-like crispness of falling in love." Sherry Turkle If you know my work, you know I live for this line. It's shown up in my podcasts and online courses for years. Why? Because it so eloquently hits on the faulty promise we've attached to these tools, and the subsequent hardships we endure (largely the way we obsess and punish ourselves) because our dating life or relationship future isn't falling together in a linear, succinct fashion. We're wracked with questions of: Versus being able to be with the lived human experience of it all. If you're someone who.... ....you will benefit tremendously from today's episode. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:24:40

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How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack | Ep 109

5/24/2024
Private Coaching Spaces are Open This week I'm sitting down with Catherine Zack, a beloved friend of the podcast. She's been on numerous times before (I've linked those episodes below), and selfishly, these episodes always imbue me, personally, with a sense of relief and freedom. But I have a feeling it will do the same for you. For her 38th birthday, Catherine gave up ambition. No she hasn't stopped working. No, she hasn't tossed away all dreams for her yoga studio. No, she still has hopes and dreams and aspirations. That's not what she means by ambition. She means living life from a place of shoulds and external approval, versus our own compass. If you find yourself in a space in life where you're.... Then you will find so much solace, and probably a few personal epiphanies, inside this conversation. Catherine's Previous Episode on the Pod (Busting the myths of marriage) Catherine's Yoga Studio in the Hudson Valley Catherine's Personal Website Catherine's Substack Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:55:52

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A Transparent Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy (1st Trimester) | Ep 108

5/22/2024
Private Coaching Spaces are Open In today's podcast I'm sharing what the first few months of my pregnancy have been like. My husband and I are so excited, and also, the first trimester was quite difficult for me. Per usual, I'm sharing all we experienced — the bliss and hardship, the highs and lows, the unexpected, and where I am now. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:45:22

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On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship | Ep 107

5/14/2024
Spring/Summer private coaching spots are open! Available for folks single and seeking partnership, single and seeking space/work to go inward, and folks who are couple and struggling within their relationship. This week's episode: A few weeks back, I was driving through the parking lot of my former middle/high school, when my eyes happened upon a sign for the spring fling dance. I shuddered, flashing back to those lonely middle (and high school) days where upcoming dances brought on so much dread. They really only served as a reminder of all the things I was not: pretty, popular, desirable, dateable. I'd shut down the desire for that thing, and instead, poured myself into my academics, years prior. This week's episode explores that shared history among token good girls and highlights how that identity is still running the show in our dating and relationship lives — no matter where we find ourselves on the journey or the spectrum. This episode will resonate if: If you like this episode you might also like: On the fear of driving someone away by saying how you feel On not getting asked to the dance and how it's showing up in your love life now Most dating advice does a great job of making us feel like we're not doing enough Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:44:21

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When You Just Need to Put Everything Down | Ep 106

5/9/2024
What happens when you just hit a hall? What does that 'wall' tend to look like for you? These are questions I'm contemplating and exploring in today's episode. Across the month of April I was gearing up to launch the Dating Sanity Capsule, a collection of potent lessons and videos designed to decrease the misery and anxiety we associate with online dating. I.was.pumped. I'd loved putting together the course, was so jazzed about the content — I couldn't wait to get it in the hands of followers and listeners who could benefit from it most. And then, the wall. In today's episode I'm talking about an unexpected season I hit towards the end of the month — one I'm still very much in — where I was forced to slow down, reassess elements of my life and business, and start to pull apart how I got off course in the first place. I'm specifically sharing: Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:39:32

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How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband) | Ep 105

4/23/2024
Preview My Upcoming Program Work with me Privately A few weeks back a client said to me: "How did you know your husband was the one?" While I don't believe in 'the one,' (which I share more about in the episode), her question made me realize I hadn't gone too deeply into the first few months of dating my husband, namely the period of uncertainty and unknown. Were we right to move in the direction of marriage? Were we in the same place in life? Did we want the same things? How could we be sure? In this episode I discuss: This episode will resonate with you if : Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:53:16

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When you're not getting any matches on dating apps | Ep 104

4/16/2024
Work w/ Me Sneak peek my next program launch Get on my email list In today's episode, I'm digging into two patterns I witness again and again in my private coaching practice: In today's episode I'm breaking down the potential causes behind these patterns. This episode will resonate if you relate to the above two patterns and find yourself: Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:42:14

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What do I do when I like someone and I'm not sure if they like me back? | Ep 103

4/9/2024
Work w/ Me Sneak peek my next program launch Get on my email list This week we are revisiting the grey area of dating — that sticky, stressful space where we're dating someone and we're not sure if they like us back. I've written and spoken about this previously before: Episode 22 Blog post: How to Survive the Grey Area of Dating This episode will resonate if you: Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:32:46

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How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you | Ep 102

4/2/2024
In today's episode, I'm digging into a recent question from a listener: Hey Clara! What are your thoughts on a long list of requirements for a partner? Oooh this is *such* a good one, and while I'm all for getting clarity on what you desire and need in a partner, I find when we start talking lists (and very specific ones), they're not that helpful. A list can give us a false sense of clarity and control. It can also keep us from the deeper work we're being called to do that will actually lead to change in our romantic status. This episode will cover: feels Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:44:48

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Why we need to rethink our attachment styles (especially if we're anxious) | Ep 101

3/26/2024
Private Coaching Spots are Open Get on my email list Are you obsessed with your attachment style and "fixing" it? Perhaps, even more so, if you fall into the category of anxious attachment? As a fellow anxious attachment sufferer, I believe we've got it all wrong. In today's episode, I'm bringing a reframe to: You will benefit tremendously from this episode if you: Attached the book John Bowlby Mary Ainsworth Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:01:00:17

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My fertility journey is feeling like my dating journey — wildly unpredictable | Ep 100

3/19/2024
In today's episode, I'm opening up about my fertility journey, and how the ups and downs, are reminding me a lot of my dating journey. Namely: Tune in to here: Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:29:50

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What are the "best" places to meet people? | Ep 99

3/12/2024
Private coaching spots are now open! Apply here. Oftentimes, in our dating journey, when things aren’t working out or we can’t seem to meet people….our minds go to someplace like: location. Location, location, location. Similar to real estate, we start thinking, It must be where I live. I just must not live in a great place to meet people. I have worked with people from (literally) all over the globe. From big cities to small towns, and everything in between. And I’ve witnessed every single person, no matter their whereabouts, struggle with where they live and think that’s the reason they aren’t meet people. In today’s episode I’m digging into: wayWork with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:36:48

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What if my job/ travel schedule/lifestyle makes it *impossible* to date? | Ep 98

3/5/2024
This was the question that slid into my DMs a few weeks back. Well, a portion of it. It was two fold: bestThe answer(s) here, might seem simple, but I think this episode will very much surprise you. It surprised me! If you're someone who: ...this episode is going to resonate. It's also going to take a macheté to your mindset, and give you a whoooole host of things to chew on, well beyond "How do I make time to date?" This episode will also hit home if you feel like they way you're being "told" to date feels like you're a square peg being forced into a round hole. Sit back, relax, and prepare to have your heart soften. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:01:02:57

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The over-therapized nature of social media + how it’s effing with our expectations of life and relationships | Ep 97

2/27/2024
Are you easily absorbed by therapeutic claims on social media? Do you read a post and then think... Perhaps there's truth to all these claims. But in my opinion, we're caught up in an era where the information we're being fed — and the ways our brains are processing it — isn't always helping us. Isn't always allowing us to see clearly. I believe it's distorting our understanding of people and experiences in the dating processes, and limiting our capacity for fulfillment in relationships. This episode will resonate with anyone who: Links mentioned: https://markmanson.net/podcast/lori-gottlieb https://markmanson.net/ https://lorigottlieb.com/ Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

Duration:00:46:07