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Communication is an ever-evolving part of your relationship with your child, no matter what age they are. During the holiday season, when there is increased togetherness there is a greater potential for difficult conversations. Episode 138 How Do I Get My Kid To Talk To Me? 4 Communication Tools with Elaine and Diane Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the importance of effective communication tools. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Permission-based conversations and breadcrumb cues for smoother interactions. AC-E Method: Acknowledge emotions without judgment, wait or pause to let emotions settle, and then explore options or inquiries for problem-solving. Designing Conversations: Offering acknowledgment or a gift, making requests, and performing check-ins for reciprocal and inclusive discussions, aiming for collaborative problem-solving. Trust and Connection: Emphasis on maintaining trust and connection with kids as the foundation for effective communication and problem-solving, fostering collaborative dialogue and mutual understanding. Related Links: Relationship Battles: Lay Down Your Sword and Shield Three Steps to Take When Your Kid Says, “I Don’t Know” 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids Ask Your Kids Collaborative Conversations: Ask Powerful Questions for Independent Kids Plan Important Conversations 3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens Relationships by Design Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stephanie Pinto is an Emotional Intelligence author, speaker and coach who specializes in helping parents to create an Emotionally Intelligent family culture at home. She is a certified Emotional Intelligence specialist, is a pediatric anxiety therapist, and practiced as a Speech Pathologist for 10 years. Her ground-breaking book, From Chaos to Connection, was published in March 2023. And she has over 100k in her Facebook community called Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Stephanie Pinto about understanding emotional intelligence in our children and how to parent effectively based upon where your child is at. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: What is emotional intelligence and how does it impact the ability to regulate emotions? The key components of the 26 competencies of emotional intelligence- what is most important? Punishment vs. discipline- are you responding or reacting? Which will help your child grow? Related Links: How to Apologize When You’ve Hurt Your Child’s Feelings: Recovering after a Fight Dealing with Emotional Kids and Meltdowns Are You (Secretly) Calling Your Child an “Idiot”? Even an Epic Meltdown is a Great Parenting Opportunity Connect with Stephanie: www.stephaniepinto.com Facebook Instagram LinkedIn YouTube Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Priya Saaral LICSW, RPT-S is a first-generation immigrant from India and Singapore who identifies as a neurodivergent person. Her work has been centered on helping young people and parents find their voice and their playful spirit amidst personal and structural adversity, seeking to be seen and to belong. She aims to help all children feel seen and heard as valuable human beings in society, and as agents of change. Jaya Ramesh MA LMHC, CCTP is a neurodivergent immigrant. Her passions include creating liberatory healing and learning spaces and working to disentangle from and dismantle systems of oppression. In her private practice she supports BIPOC, neurodivergent people in having more authentic and nourishing relationships. Priya and Jaya are the authors of Parenting at the Intersections -- Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color. Parenting a neurodivergent child is challenging. What are the complicating factors for families of color or different cultural backgrounds? Systems of oppression and cultural standards play additional roles in how to advocate for your child. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Jaya Ramesh and Priya Saaral about creating a community of support for neurodivergent children of color. Motivation Guide In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Approaching support for neurodivergent children while considering cultural backgrounds and communities. Parents of marginalized children are working within certain systems. One size does not fit all, and each community comes with a different set of rules. How might interactions be different when advocating for your neurodivergent child when you are a person of color? Are there underlying fears and expectations that others may not face? Related Links: How To Talk With Your Kids About Race Shift Your Expectations to Manage Complex Kids A Huge “aha” Moment: Set Realistic Expectations for ADHD Kids Kids Believe What Parents Tell Them to Believe Connect with Priya & Jaya: www.parentingattheintersections.com www.jayarameshcounseling.com www.play-it-out.com Instagram @parenting.at.the.intersections Parenting at the Intersections -- Raising Neurodivergent Children of Color Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We all set goals for our children as to what success should look like for them. As a parent, having control seems like the simplest path to that goal. However, we know this does not lend well to your child ultimately having independence and agency. So, how do we navigate this? Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss control and how to transition from director to supporter and allowing your child to thrive in their own power. Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex Kids Got complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: A rigid definition of success for our kids sets them up for failure- there are many definitions and many paths to get there, and your definition will evolve as your child grows. Reflecting upon why you are holding on so tightly to your idea of the path and the end point of success for your child. Transferring ownership from you to your child to get to the outcome you can both agree on. Related Episodes Ep 11 Can You REALLY Control Your Kids with Gretchen Wegner Ep 68 The Independence Pyramid: Big Picture and Daily Tasks with Elaine & Diane Ep 80 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling with Elaine & Diane Ep 103 Success! Building Strong Relationships at Home and Work with Danielle Junker Ep 104 Self-Awareness, Self-Regulation & Self Management with Elaine & Diane Links: Control by Janet Jackson Three Steps to Learn From Mistakes Without Shame How to Help Your Kids Ask for the Help They Need Study on Resiliency The Pygmalion Effect Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does your young boy exhibit behavior that has you in fear for his future, and what kind of man he will become? Parenting boys with difficult behaviors can be very challenging. What can we do now to reduce risks and aggression? Tosha Schore is a parent coach and the founder of Parenting Boys Peacefully, where she is on a mission to create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time. She is also co-author of “Listen: Five Simple Tools to Meet Your Everyday Parenting Challenges,” which has been translated into five languages. Tosha works with parents to care for themselves, connect with their boys deeply, set limits lovingly, and play wildly, and has been featured on Dr. Shefali’s Parenting Mastery Summit, GoZen’s Anger Transformation and ListenUp! Summits, and has spoken to audiences at the Institute for Child Psychology, the Diversity in Parenting Conference, the Davidson Institute, Lawrence Livermore Laboratory, and on a boatload of podcasts! Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Tosha Schore about today’s approach to parenting young boys with challenging behaviors. Top 10 Ways to Stop Meltdowns in Their Tracks In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, learn 10 tips that will actually help you reduce the frequency and intensity of meltdowns for good! Used by parents all over the world, successfully help children manage their intense emotions and triggers so they learn to respond with respect and calm. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: In the era of “me too” and feminism, how do we want to raise the next generation of young men? Connection between parent and child is the key to reducing aggressive behaviors in boys. When you lean into your relationship, he will do better. Shifting your mindset on how you parent- showing compassion and embracing emotion is valuable in raising boys who have a better handle on their own feelings and behaviors. Related Links: 6 Core Coaching Concepts for Creating Change Parents are Missing Link to Empower Kids with ADHD Let The Feelings Flow: Dealing With Emotion Worst Parenting Advice for Complex Kids A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological? Connect with Tosha: parentingboyspeacefully.com Facebook Instagram LinkedIn YouTube Sign up for the next Out With Aggression Workshop Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As the founder of Executive Function Specialists, Sean McCormick has pioneered cutting-edge practices to guide students with AD/HD to overcome procrastination, disorganization, and school avoidance. His passion for empowering others led him to establish the Executive Function Coaching Academy, offering training programs for aspiring executive function coaches. Sean also hosts the popular Earn More Tutoring Podcast with a mission to enhance the lives of teachers, tutors, and educational therapists through success stories of educational entrepreneurship. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Sean McCormick about collective efficacy, and the impact of parents collaborating with their child and their teacher. Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Collaboration between parent + student + teacher yields great results when working with your child to improve academic success. What is “affective filtering” and how do you work with your child to build confidence and an openness to receiving positive feedback? Support is the best way you can set your child up for success- but you can’t do it all on your own. Related Links: What is the affective filter? John Hattie's research: Elaine on the Earn More Tutoring Podcast Video Tip: Take Aim How important are executive function skills? Connect with Sean: www.efspecialists.com Sign up for the EFS Newsletter Earn More Tutoring Podcast Facebook Instagram LinkedIn YouTube Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter:@impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you are struggling to get your child to do something, you may want to stop and think, “Who’s agenda IS IT?” Is this just something YOU want? How do you get your kid to buy into whatever it is that you are asking them to do? This week Elaine and Diane discuss agendas! How can a parent and child come together to create a shared agenda that benefits everyone? Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: How do you get your child to take ownership of a responsibility? What is in it for them? Motivations may seem simple for younger kids, but what can you do for teens and young adults to create a shared agenda? Keeping in mind the ultimate goal: your child becomes driven and autonomous—this may mean different goals than yours. Related Links: Parenting With Impact Ep 8 Parenting Emerging Adults Parenting With Impact Ep 80 4 Phases of Parenting: How to Support Without Enabling Parenting With Impact Ep 126 Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H. Parenting With Impact Ep 129 Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult? Video Tip: Take Aim Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We would do anything for our kids in the pursuit of having them grow up to be happy, healthy, and self-sufficient. But when is it too much? When does helping become hindering? Doing more harm than good, is never our intention, so how do we navigate that fine line when raising young adults with autism, ADHD, and other learning disabilities? Misty Wagner understands the unique challenges and strengths of each individual that allow her to guide students on their journey towards independence. One of Misty’s strongest abilities is working with the students’ families of individuals with developmental disabilities by assisting them in aligning services, as well as assisting families in understanding an individual’s needs. Misty joined the CIP community in 2018 as a Student Advisor, supported the community as Head Student Advisor, and now as Assistant Program Director. Misty earned a bachelor’s degree in special education from The University of Memphis in Memphis, Tennessee. Misty has developed this strength through a solid professional history as a special education teacher, Student Advisor, and Head Student Advisor, but also through my undeniable empathy and bond with parents. As Assistant Program Director at CIP, Misty works on the day-to-day operations to provide high quality services to all students and families. She collaborates with each student, staff member, and support team member in order to provide positive outcomes for each student. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Misty Wagner about how to support your complex kid without being an enabler, as they navigate life transitions. Motivation Guide In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Finding opportunities to allow your child to assert their independence, is where growth happens, and knowing when your child truly needs your help or guidance. Outlining the steps needed and providing clear guidance as they learn to do something themselves. How to assist your child with coming up with a strategy to identify and solve a problem, by establishing an outcome and detailing the steps needed to achieve it. Related Links: Video Tip: Take Aim Flexibility + Structure+ Moderation Handling Conflict with Complex Kids Connect with Misty: cipworldwide.org cipworldwide.org/longbeach X (fka Twitter) Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is your child highly intelligent and passionate, but struggles with daily tasks and doing well in school? Executive function deficits play a large role. How do you meet your child where they are and help them to thrive, when you know they are capable of so much? Julie Skolnick is the Founder of With Understanding Comes Calm where she guides parents of twice exceptional children, mentors 2e adults, and trains teachers on how to bring out the best and raise self confidence in twice exceptional people. Julie hosts empowerment groups for parents and for 2e adults and is the author of Gifted and Distractible: Understanding, Supporting, and Advocating for Your Twice Exceptional Child. She has three exceptional kids of her own. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Julie Skolnick about what giftedness and 2E really is and how to shift from focusing on deficits and focusing on strengths. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Looking at giftedness as a 3-layer cake: intelligence, asynchronous learning, excitability. Gifted vs High Achieving- what is the difference? Are “gifted programs” for 2E kids? Why gifted individuals can struggle with school and have behavioral issues. Related Links: Three Steps to Take When Your Kid Says, “I Don’t Know” What Makes a Child Twice Exceptional (2E)? Video: Where’s Your Curiosity? Connect with Julie: With Understanding Comes Calm Website Gifted and Distractible book Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X (fka Twitter) YouTube Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why is it so hard for your child to ask for help? Making the transition into independence can often backfire when your kiddo will not ask for help when they need it. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the reasons kids have a hard time asking for and accepting help, and how we can prepare them to seek assistance when they need it. Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: What are the common reasons people don’t ask for and accept help? Is it helping or is it controlling? Learning the difference and helping your kid to trust you will assist and not take over. Needing help does not mean you are inadequate. How can you model seeking help for your child? Guiding your child into directing YOU in how you can help them. Related Links: Watch Episode 68: The Independence Pyramid Watch Episode 92 Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively Relationship By Design Help Your Complex Kids Be Independent (especially in the mornings) How to Help Your Kids Ask for the Help They Need Teach Your Kids to Ask for Help – A Mother’s Success Story Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are many highly successful adults living with ADHD. No matter what time in their lives they were diagnosed, they often have common struggles. The paradox of knowing they are smart yet feeling stupid. Feeling like an impostor. Questioning whether a treatment is right or not. Casey Dixon is a respected Life Coach with a unique focus on science-based, innovative, collaborative coaching for attorneys, professors, and high-achieving professionals with ADHD. She founded Dixon Life Coaching in 2005 as a new beginning to her 15-year career of working with both kids and adults with ADHD in schools and universities. Since then, Casey has become recognized for helping clients excel in authentic and creative ways using ADHD-informed approaches. Casey is known for reliably facilitating direct results without judgment. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Casey Dixon about high achieving professionals with ADHD and how to work through the struggles they often face. Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Under the surface of a highly successful adult with ADHD is often a sea of struggles. Managing ADHD while achieving success and finding a balance that doesn’t leave you exhausted and overextended. Taking the complexity out of living well with adult ADHD with treatment and support. Related Links: Mindfully ADD Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home with Melanie Sobocinski ADHD Online Video: Where’s Your Curiosity? The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHD If I Had Known — Lessons from a Mom of an ADHD Adult How to Manage ADHD Effectively: 6 Fundamental Steps Put Yourself First, Mom Using Stress to Help Performance, Anxiety and Self-Esteem Connect with Casey: www.dixonlifecoaching.com Facebook X (FKA Twitter) LinkedIn Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Will your neurodiverse child get into college? According to college admissions consultant Michelle McAnaney, the answer is a resounding YES! But just when you think it's all figured out, a sudden twist leaves parents wondering if they're truly prepared for the transition to college life... Michelle McAnaney founded The College Spy® with this mission: Help students identify colleges that are a good fit for them and get accepted. Michelle is an expert in college admissions and a leader in her field. She has over 20 years of experience as an educator, counselor and consultant, assisting students in making smart choices to reach their full potential. She is current on the latest trends in college admissions. Her extensive admissions knowledge is coupled with firsthand experience with the colleges and universities your student will be considering. She visits approximately 40 colleges each year, attending information sessions and open houses, taking tours and meeting with admissions officers. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Michelle McAnaney about navigating the college admissions process with your complex teen. 12 Tips for Parenting a Complex Teen From the experts at ImpactParents (and the moms of 6 young adults!), we promise you this: it’s not too late. In this FREE guide you’ll learn 12 fool-proof tips to improve conversations and reconnect with your teens so you can guide them to become independent and successful. Parents all over the world have better relationships with their teens using these tools. You can, too! Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Keys to a smooth transition from high school to college for complex kids. Grasp a better understanding of college disability services and accommodations available. Fostering independence and managing anxiety to ensure college success. Remember that your child will change and grow over time, so keep researching and understanding all the options available. Encourage your child to take ownership of the process as much as possible, but be there to support and guide them as needed. Connect with Michelle: Website X (formerly Twitter) Facebook Related Links: Parents of College Bound Students with LDs, ADHD and ASD Facebook Group College Admissions 101 (parents of 9-11) for Parents of Neurodivergent Students Course Ep 79 Leveling The Playing Field: Accommodations in HS and College Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle with getting your child to do things? Does it feel like no matter what you do, it is a struggle to motivation your child to ____. We can fill that blank with countless things: homework, clean their room, exercise, chores, be on time… Well, you may be surprised to learn that traditional motivation tactics often backfire. Elaine and Diane have a dynamic way to help your child with the P.I.N.C.H. method. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss the truths and myths around motivation and what it really takes to get your child invested in doing something. Motivation Guide In this FREE insider’s guide from the experts at ImpactParents, join with parents all over the world who are successfully using these 3 steps and 7 quick tips to motivate their children and teens to respond to requests without meltdowns, distractions, or pushback. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: What is the role of motivation in getting things done? When it looks like your kid lacks motivation, what is really happening? If your child does not have internal motivation, it does not mean a lack of moral values. What are the 5 motivators in P.I.N.C.H., and how can they be applied? Related Links Are You Getting Stuck in Information Land? Effective Agreements Interview with Radio Host, Jeff Copper, on Parenting & ADHD What Kids Think Parents Should Know About ADHD & Motivation Lessons for Kids from the Olympics: Hyper-Focus, Motivation & Passion ADHD Behavior Management – Is It All About Teaching Motivation? There are Only 5 Motivators for People with ADHD How do I Motivate my Child to Turn in Homework? How do I Motivate My Child to do…Anything!? Getting Unstuck: It Depends on your Point of View Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Just when Jennifer Gay Summers thought she had it all figured out, her world was turned upside down. Her child, Lee, was diagnosed with ADHD and other learning disabilities, shattering her expectations of traditional parenting. But instead of giving up, Jennifer dove headfirst into researching and advocating for her child's needs. She discovered the importance of meeting her child where they are, rather than forcing them to conform to societal norms. What resulted was a journey of growth and resilience. Jennifer Gay Summers is a dedicated mother and former teacher who journeyed through her child's unique learning needs from a young age. As her child struggled with ADHD, sensory processing disorder, and anxiety, Jennifer decided it was time to let go of traditional expectations and meet her child where they were. Her perseverance in finding the right support for her child, coupled with her advocacy skills, has helped countless parents like her embrace and navigate the complexities of raising children with diverse needs. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Jennifer Gay Summers about making the shift form traditional parenting to the journey of parenting the child she has and meeting them where they are. Ten Self Care Tips for Parents Do you give and give until you give yourself away? You’re not alone! In this FREE guide for caring (and exhausted!) parents, you may recognize some of the key tips -- but it’s always good to have a reminder! And then there will be some new ideas to help you put yourself back on your list and find a little more peace and joy in family life. Sure, your kids may need more than other kids. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve the care you need to keep helping your kids! Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Discover the intricacies of raising a child with ADHD and other disabilities. Learn the value of self-education and advocacy when supporting a child with unique needs. Explore the art of releasing traditional expectations and embracing a more personalized approach. Delve into coping with grief and celebrating the unique attributes of one's child. Uncover the power of memoir writing in sharing experiences and raising awareness. Connect with Jennifer: Website Facebook Instagram Article Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andrea Pollack's life took an unexpected turn when her two-year-old son was diagnosed with autism. It was a heartbreaking moment that forced her to leave her promising legal career behind. But little did she know that this decision would eventually lead her to become a renowned parenting coach, helping other parents navigate the challenges of raising neurodivergent children. Her approach is unique, focusing on personal growth and self-reflection for parents, which ultimately benefits the entire family. Join us as we explore Andrea's fascinating journey and learn how she's helping parents create more fulfilling parenting experiences for themselves and their neurodivergent children. Andrea Pollack is a dedicated and compassionate advocate for parents navigating the complex world of raising neurodivergent children. With over two decades of personal experience as a mother to an autistic son, she understands the unique challenges and triumphs of parenting children with different needs. Having left her career as a practicing attorney to homeschool her son, Andrea realized her true calling was to empower and support other parents. Committed to a holistic approach, she combines her educational background with valuable coaching techniques to help families thrive through personalized, problem-solving strategies. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Andrea Pollack about discovering the key to helping your complex kid- YOU! Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Shift your perspective by understanding the value of focusing on your child's capabilities. Decipher the hidden motives behind challenging behaviors exhibited by children with autism. Embrace essential self-care practices for parents to ensure balance and optimal support. Related Links: A Parent’s Best Question: Is It Naughty or Neurological? The Coach-Approach to Parenting Recommended Treatment Connect with Andrea: autismparentsolutions.com Facebook Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In the vast sea of information, it is easy to get stuck in the land of information. Oftentimes, we begin to apply this new knowledge, but get held up in the details and end up getting stuck with information that we cannot implement, leaving us where we started. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss how to go beyond learning strategies and tools, and get into implementation and customization for your kid and your needs. Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Transformation requires information, integration, implementation; you cannot simply stop at information. It is important to understand repetition and improvisation when implementing ideas for change. Strategies alone are not always enough, especially if they are not used in an effective context. What are the “magic 3 questions” to ask yourself if you don’t think a strategy is working? Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Related Links: Is Coaching For You? The Coach Approach to Parenting What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD Recommended Treatment What is Behavior Therapy for ADHD? (Part 1) What To Look for in a Behavior Therapy Program for ADHD Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're feeling frustrated and helpless as you watch your child (or yourself) struggle with ADHD symptoms, despite trying various interventions and treatments, then you are not alone! Many parents and healthcare professionals have faced the challenge of medical bias, which has hindered accurate diagnosis and effective treatment of ADHD for far too long. In 2020, Kelly accidentally discovered she had ADHD at the age of 48. This revelation was absolutely life-changing. Since then, Kelly has dedicated her life to learning about ADHD. She is extremely passionate about spreading awareness and empathy for ADHD in general, but in women and girls in particular. She understands how much harder it is for females to find a knowledgeable and compassionate provider. Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Kelly Pickens about the history of a smear campaign against ADHD, how much progress the ADHD has made, and how much farther there is to go. AND, how you can better attain effective treatment! Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Examine the history of bias against the diagnosis and treatment of ADHD within the healthcare system. Investigate the fascinating roots of ADHD and its (lack of) acceptance as a mental health disorder. Gain insights into how ADHD interacts with other health challenges and its effect on longevity. Related Links: Adverse Health Outcomes article by Dr. Russell Barkley Article on ADHD Lawsuits Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder: A Handbook for Diagnosis and Treatment By Dr. Russell Barkley Connect with Kelly: www.uaadhd.com Facebook Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and exhausted because your current parenting strategies are not improving your relationship with your complex child, then you are not alone! This episode brings you another Success Story from the ImpactParents Community! Ellen joins us on today's podcast to share her story of navigating the challenges of raising a complex child. Having weathered the storms of parenting and feeling unprepared for the challenges that come with a complex kid, she eventually found her guide in the community-driven support system of ImpactParents. Ellen and her husband are parents of a creative and curious 16-year-old son who was assessed and diagnosed with ADHD when he was in Middle School. Ellen began to realize that as academic demands increased, so did her son's reaction to them. She became really curious about what was behind his behavior. Through her involvement in several Impact Parents programs with Elaine and Diane, Ellen now clearly understands the value of engaging in parent coaching. She arrived feeling exhausted, confused, and frustrated. She has grown over the past few years after a lot of hard work and truly appreciates all that Impact Parents provide: compassion, support and community, and the continued sharing of knowledge and scientific findings. Listen to this inspiring Success Stories Edition of Parenting With Impact episode with Ellen about turning to community for support in parenting a complex child. Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens: Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Unlock wisdom to navigate the high seas of parenting complex children towards victorious outcomes. Learn how reshaping expectations can positively influence your parenting style for complex children. Uncover the potent impact of community support to uplift parents of complex children. Unbox the potentials of the coach approach for an enriching parenting experience with complex children. Grasp the significance of self-care, adaptability, and introspection in molding the life of your complex child. Related Links: Talking to Kids About Their Neurodiverse Brains with Dr. Liz Angoff Don’t Panic! Your Kid’s Not Broken with Debbie Reber Differently Wired by Debbie Reber Executive Function Skills: What Every Parent Needs to Know with Seth Perler Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you want to create a more harmonious and peaceful atmosphere within your family? Are you looking for a solution to improve conflict resolution and achieve better relationships with your loved ones? Listen to this inspiring Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they share the key to fostering improved dynamics and creating a more united and supportive family unit Recommended Treatment for Children and Teens with ADHD Tip-Sheet So -- your child has ADHD. Want to get past the confusion and the stigma really fast? This FREE Guide explains, in the simplest terms possible: What is recommended treatment for children and teens: Ten things to consider when trying to make a decision about medication Exactly what to look for in a behavior therapy training program. Short, sweet, and to the point -- don’t spend hours on the internet scouring. ImpactParents gives you exactly what you need to know without wasting any time or effort. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Navigate your way through family conflict resolution techniques. Unpack methods for helping children preserve ties with both parents. Absorb strategies for staying impartial and empathetic during family disputes. Unravel the process to bypass the savior or defender role in family fights. Unearth pivotal ways to boost considerate communication and mutual understanding among family members. Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Related Links: Register for the 2023 ADHD Parents’ Palooza! The 4 Sources of Conflict in Your Family Part 1 The 4 Sources of Conflict in your Family Pt 2 Effective Agreements Relationships by Design Connect with Elaine & Diane: Instagram @impactparents Facebook @impactparent LinkedIn @impactparents Twitter @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bullying can be one of the most heart-rending challenges a parent faces. When your child is neurodiverse, that can make life downright miserable for both your child and your family. Kayla Taylor is a best-selling writer, researcher, advocate, and parent. She recently published “Canaries Among Us,” an important exposé that blends poignant storytelling and groundbreaking scientific research to empower those caring for the millions of kids challenged by learning differences, bullying, and anxiety. This heartrending chronicle tackles harmful stigmas while documenting the joy and heartache inherent in raising children who don’t fit society’s definition of “normal.” Listen to this gripping Parenting With Impact episode with Kayla Taylor about her family's journey through the challenges of bullying, learning differences, and anxiety. Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex Kids Parenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting. Here is what to expect on this week’s show: Validating and nurturing self-esteem of neurodiverse children. Institutional betrayal of children and families navigating complex challenges. Parental involvement in mitigating bullying and advocating for neurodiverse individuals. Related Links: How To Have Hard Conversations with Other Parents 4 Ways to Teach Your Child to Stand Up To Bullying Bullying and the ADHD Child 8 Reasons You’ll Never Know Your Child is Being Bullied Model Self Respect for Your Kids: Tame the Bully Within Connect with Kayla: KaylaTaylorWrites.com Canaries Among Us Resources for Parents Instagram Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools Connect with Impact Parents: www.impactparents.com Instagram: @impactparents Facebook: @impactparent LinkedIn:@impactparents Twitter: @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices