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One couple's slightly irreverent musings on faith, family, food and...marriage

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One couple's slightly irreverent musings on faith, family, food and...marriage

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Deconstruction, A Warning for Women, & A Mandate for Men

5/10/2024
Show Open: Caedmon’s Call, Deconstruction, Mr. Red Pen, and Derek Webb. 8:41: Molly’s experience in seminary with intellectual superiority. 10:20: Alisa Childers and Tim Barnett, The Deconstruction of Christianity and an encouragement to doubt your faith and a fear of losing salvation. 18:30: Hyper intellectualism and fear of losing your faith are both gnosticism. 20:25: Paul’s warning against deceitful intellectuals and the application to women and Instagram and internet things. 21:07: A super-rich mormon intellectual cosplay or real? Good or bad? Is this a Godly woman or not? What really matters? 26:10: 2 Timothy is a talking about women for a reason. Them Before Us and men protecting families. The 3Ps of manhood. 30:52: Men should be the protectors in home and church. 34:54: The difference in our empathy levels. 37:10: The appearance of godliness and capturing weak women. 41:05: Feedback from listeners on kids doing hard things. 46:35: Brad Wilcox’s Get Married is a great read. 48:33: A fear of consuming resources over belief that God will provide what we need to flourish is idolatry. 54:00: Inflation, the trajectory and the pinch. 57:30: Strivers, progressive speaking but conservative living, divorce rates and the power of good community. 1:10:00: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:12:55

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Genuine Care for Others & Seeing Growth in Your Kids

5/3/2024
Show Open 2:44: More chickens, more eggs, money-making jobs for the kids 12:38: Lili wants to learn French, Chicken prices, eating out of the freezer 15:26: WW2 resources; Masters of the Air, The Bloody 100th, Victory at Sea, unauthorized WW2 podcast, Number The Stars, Titus really likes a biography about Brother Andrew 26:00: JR and Molly enjoy a listening room experience with Jenna Greenwell, Jess Arndt, Zechariah Peabody and Bailey Mattson 32:20: Self-righteousness and being genuinely enthusiastic about the good or capability of other people and not feeling threatened. 40:35: The helping nature of artistic communities and encouraging that spirit in our our kids 45:15: Did I Kiss Marriage Goodbye? It’s easy for us to weep with others, but much harder to rejoice with those who rejoice. 50:54: Eating through pantry and freezer items in an attempt to save money. Drumsticks are the way to go for affordable eating. 53:26: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:00:56:27

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Marital Conflict: Building Kids' Mental Fortitude

4/26/2024
Intro 4:13: Property, neighbors, covenants. 7:35: Molly has a soft spot for dead tires. 8:39: A trailer park, a dirty magazine and the level of “parents don’t know.” 10:02: Repeat sexual predation on Snapchat, and swapping texts with friends. 13:55 For the love of what is good and holy, don’t let your kids download stuff on their own - a funny story about our kids and devices. 19:28: Marital conflict: What to do about building mental fortitude in our kids- JR’s case. 26:58: Molly’s perspective. 32:11: What is the ultimate goal for our kids and physical strength in women. 38:09: How Molly fell in love with classical studies. 42:14: Stacking the deck in your favor and your kids’ favor. 43:42: Our son is recognizing the evilness of Hitler. 49:34: How horrible just barely escape death and The Parables of Jesus and the Devil’s work in the church. 51:02: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:00:54:06

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The Power of Real World Accomplishments

4/19/2024
Intro: Coffee substitutes, cortisol levels and protein intake. 7:38: One way to tell if you’re healthy via your fingernails. 10:10: Molly’s milk frother died! 10:36: If you’d invested in Apple with iPhone money you’d have how much?” 11:56: Creo brew coffee substitutes, price per serving and the cost of Starbucks. 16:45: Moody’s analytics and the last year’s inflation numbers and saving money at the grocery store. Organic Shell Pasta. 21:43: Finances, young couples owning a home and reasons to get married. 26:15: One of the reasons people aren’t having kids. 28:03: Do your kids a favor and have them watch The Tuttle Twins 28:55: Zimbabwe’s attempted currency relaunch. 32:48: Attending a heavily edited play about The Boy Who Cried Wolf. 37:12: A lazy kid and why dad’s are important. 40:44: Data on men and boys are failing. Mike Rowe and Nicolas Eberstat. A failure of unemployment statistics. 43:41: Boys Adrift 46:03: Manual labor, masonry and bricks. 47:54: Leonard Sacks’ 5 reasons boys are failing 54:10: Isn’t this a pendulum swing from the women’s rights movement? 56:32: Just get the boys out of the house, video games and hijacking the brain rewards center. 1:00:29: Titus and his hatchet. Outdoor Boys. 1:07:32: Doing something hard and building neural pathways. 1:12:27: A contrast in the brain between playing a video game and real world accomplishments. 1:15:02: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:18:16

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Calvin & Hobbes, Doomsday Cults, & Great TV

4/12/2024
Intro: Trying to get back into the swing of things. 3:30: JR’s shoulder recovery- tremendously better 8:27: Molly got sick, her parents had surgery, and 9:38: Some recent TV Shows and our kids’ American history books 14:48: JR’s other things happening, TV shows he’s watching 19:04: Molly started Dear Mr. Watterson, Calvin & Hobbes and some interesting facts about that. 25:41: Molly gets sucked into a doomsday cult - Gloriavale 34:24: What does it mean to say, “I believe it’s the Lord’s will to X.” 40:03: How do you see through lies? Courage to opt out of a system based on fear and control 42:00: How young men are lost in America and an example of gross reporting. 45:53: Legitimate conviction through Scripture. 52:21: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:00:55:04

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The Roots of Real Relationship

3/14/2024
Show Open 2:02: Molly’s weekend trip to a homeschool conference speaking on Canavox. 5:28: A Youth Leader spot a People are Weird and Hard sticker. 7:38: Katy Faust’s foundational topic at the conference- The Seven Loves and building relationships. 12:10: A case against “bromance”, “man crush” and sexualizing things that aren’t inherently sexual. 15:47: The most popular MB personality type of gay men is… 19:25: The punchline: Family love. 22:17: Molly’s session on hookup culture. 23:14: Vanity Fair article and modern bar culture. 25:46: New challenges and dynamics to today’s dating world. 27:21: The Dating Project (we’re sorry, it’s currently not streaming. 28:48: JR’s weekend and the weird contrast to phones and bars in modern dating culture. 31:06: The Gabb phone thing and tragedies of the Snapchat algorithm. 39:08: Bringing your phone to bed and better morning routines. 40:44: We’re in a mess societally with our children, Abigail Shrier and the onset of kids’ mental health, and raising your kids to be less American. 47:04: Leonard Sax’s council to new American Immigrants. 49:08: American culture is a toddler dragging a rug around the room. 53:11: The results of the AI worship song. 58:45: Faith will be back in a gypsy. 59:05: Results of a new physical health experiment and being bloated and gassy. 1:04:20: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:08:32

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Mayonnaise, AI Worship Music, & Hookup Culture Cats

3/8/2024
Intro: Kid’s favorite salmon recipe, homemade mayonnaise, seed oils. 9:38: Explaining the stock market to a kid. 12:16: The Roarin’ 20’s, prohibition and the creation of finger food. 14:54: The origin of the Caesar Salad. 17:48: Telegram discussions, global warming and just being a good steward 21:19: AI, music and human connection 28:39: Molly muses on live music and AI with worship music, and replacing worship leaders 32:24: An assignment for the savvy: a ChatGPT worship song. 37:30: Human achievement and you shall be like God 43:31: Cats bringing [live] kills into the house. 49:58: Molly tries out a cat metaphor for a hookup culture talk this weekend. 1:01:26: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:04:03

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Christian Nationalism, Moral Failings, & Deepfakes

3/1/2024
Intro: JR’s shoulder update. ACL surgery recap, the brilliance of the human body. 7:56: Surgery during COVID, and the month of madness with sick kids. 11:47: First ever family destination ski vacation! 75mph + winds 15:22: Molly’s current homeschool studies. Children’s dustbowl era literature anyone? 16:52: Mahatma Ghandi: and meaning of “Mahatma” and the work still happens even if the worker morally failed. 19:36: “Christian Nationalism.” 23:28: Gandhi and India’s independence 25:57: A deep hypocrisy and we can honestly say the Declaration of Independence is true AND the authors were not acting in accord with their beliefs. 28:00: Complex outcomes of moral failings and assurance of salvation. 31:50: Falling into the trap of believing Christians won’t fail. 34:35: A cultural sifting of church leaders and a gossipy pastor’s wives Facebook group. 37:58: Sharing the things that are weighty when you’re strong enough to carry them. 41:07: If we obfuscate justice because we’re trying to protect ourselves, it’s a violation of scripture. 43:12: AI, deepfakes and you can’t trust anything you see anymore. 49:38: Nothing new under the sun and reorientation. 52:39: Go to the ant you sluggard! Termite architecture. 56:43: Chocolate milk recipe: 1/2c cocoa powder, 1/2c sugar, 1/2c hot water, 1/4t salt, splash of vanilla. Mix well and add to 1 gallon milk or store in the fridge as syrup. Recipe from Ruthann Zimmerman. 1:00:30: Tortilla maker! 1:01:53: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:04:13

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Hope, False Comparisons, & Sticking Your Neck Out

2/21/2024
Intro: Ginger beer, kid stress, another chicken death and a nightmare week. 14:35: Recap on my short trip Ft. Benton. 19:07: Molly and I had a date and saw The Lucky Valentines live and a discussion about complicated relationships with Christianity. Josephine OEO 24:03: The world is a dark and scary place, Carlson/Weinstein Interview, orienting our hearts and our kids amidst the fear and uncertainty. 32:00: We are the new singles ministry. 33:25: Potions for joint health and MRI results. 37:24: Amazing home Chicken Drumsticks (just like wings). 40:29: Homemade Nilla wafers. 42:40: JR switched back to green tea in the morning. 43:23: Coffee is not good first thing in the morning…here’s why. 46:50: Molly is almost incensed by an old friend in Instagram. Transgender deaths and false equations. 56:33: Trying not to be the person that can’t handle history. 1:02:49: We didn’t take their books and teenage mushbrain. 1:05:16: Scrips for Testosterone made a woman a goes crazy. 1:09:10: Transgender suicides and “The Dutch Studies.” 1:15:50: Things Unseen podcast, Sinclair Ferguson and “Goodness” (Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus) and sticking your neck out for what’s right and true when it will cost you something. 1:20:08: You can’t divorce your soul from your body, Abigail Fivale. 1:22:41: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:25:45

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Marriage Metrics, Mandie Books, & WW1

2/8/2024
Intro: More dogs, sick kids, and another chicken down. 10:08: Growing your own loofahs. 14:47: Other new garden plans, update on bees. 23:05: Having an ecosystem on our property and thoughts on regenerative farming. 27:30: Molly’s brain is mush, a WW1 study with the kids and book reviews on the topics, They Shall Not Grow Old. 30:08: Why we have poppies on Veteran’s Day, In Flander’s Fields 32:37: Molly found some new, great bread baking forms Ebay forms. 37:56: Who’s still reading the Mandie books? 45:05: Every metric for a man’s quality of life goes up if he’s married…including his weight. 51:07: Theology of human depravity and God’s sovereignty. 54:24: Anything is possible with evil humanity but ultimately will not survive. 55:01 Gaining a degree of clarity on the end times with Wayne Grudem’s Christian Beliefs. 57:03: Amillennialists were very shaken by WW1. 1:01:30: Molly’s new podcast chair 1:03:00: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:06:14

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Righteousness, Guilt, & Granola Bars

1/24/2024
Intro: Righteousness vs. sanctification. 4:37: Jackie Hill Perry comes out against the enneagram. 7:24: Preston Perry invites some LDS in and records the convo, and it applies to Muslim evangelism. 9:09: Conversations with kids about guilt and Tales of Persia. 11:43: Pervasiveness of Islam everywhere except Billings. 13:15: How do you get on Allah’s good side? The distinction of Christianity. 15:56: Distinctions from every other religion in the world. 17:51: Explaining Proverbs to kids. 19:23: being a part of the body of Christ, partaking in the Lord’s Supper in a worthy manner. 21:47: The weekly Laura Ingalls Wilder reference to being individual but communal. 24:22: JR adds color from world travels. 26:43: Honor shame vs. Western Individualism, following Christ and “My Soul My Choice.” 27:57: Generational loneliness. 30:32: Your soul will shrivel without others. Faithfully Finite t-shirt plug. 32:34: Discussing the end of the world with a 5 year old. 36:06: Has Been Hotel on Amazon 40:44: A picture of Noah’s ark as safety and protection (not s cute boat full of animals). There was still sin in their hearts. 43:35: Faith’s (our daughter) response. 45:57 Dressing up for church. “You Do You Before The Lord.” 48:08: Being financially wise before the Lord very much depends on life circumstance. 50:20: Meat stick followup. Hint: It’s a big win. 56:21: Granola Bar recipe like the ones you loved from your youth (or maybe still do) 59:30: Chocolate Peanut Butter Granola bars 1:00:33: The bread boat 1:02:40: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:06:16

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God's Grace is Bigger Than Your Best

1/19/2024
Intro 1:48: Homemade beef sticks, 13yo boys and protein needs. 4:40: Bitter cold and ground pork. 7:48: Beef squeezed out of frosting tip instead of a jerky gun and the recipe. 10:27: A mouse in the van. 16:02: A chicken in the house. 21:00: Hollow tubed hair and God’s neat designs for animals. 23:58: Women’s ice cold feet. 26:58: A chicken of the day. 37:00: The cheese is perfect. 32:57: Cracking down on schooling. 35:57: Circling back on the dad convo; no such thing as quality without quantity. 39:07: COVID showed parents the benefit of being home with their kids. 40:39: Some are called the workplace and staying home may not be an option. 41:50: The Factual Feminist and the gender wage gap myth. 43:41: Many women can’t take three years off to raise a kid. 46:47: God’s grace is bigger than you doing the best you can. 48:54: A fascinating video on the biology and neuroscience of men becoming fathers. 53:50: Loneliness is like smoking a pack of cigarettes a day. 46:33: Wedlock vs. Wedlease. 1:01:22: Wine-drinking, Mommy culture weirdness. 1:09:34: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:12:37

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Parenting: Relational Warmth and Quantity, not quality time.

1/13/2024
Intro: New studio, JR’s a bit distracted by some new gear. 6:03: Things got spicy on Telegram this week, Anthony Bradley Threads on fatherhood. 10:40: God is relational warm to us as well as a law-giver and a teacher. 12:48: Relational warmth has to do with quantity of time. 13:13: Quality does not equate to quantity time as a parents. 15:13: Podcast with Erica Komisar and Lila Rose. 16:13: A cascade of kids with a huge amount of mental health problems and moms not being present. 17:50: Maternity leave is shockingly short. 20:27: Every time you’re away from the kids damage is done, being happier outside the home. 21:02: Quantity time is quality time 21:30: Mother’s need to be primary care givers for their babies. Oxytocin is a bonding agent between parent and child (and spouses). 23:43: If dad is primary care-giver or have two dads, this risk for over-stimulation is incredibly high and against his nature. 24:35: Considerations on men who work crazy amounts of hours or are deployed and repairing the wound. 26:08: Bradley’s second Threads and masculinity and the church. 29:44: Scriptural and creational considerations on conveying masculine messages to boys. 31:06: Who is Andrew Tate? 33:38: Jordan Peterson might more dangerous. 35:58: The 3 P’s of Manliness. 38:12: Slaying dragons and JR had to delete Call of Duty Mobile. 40:25: What you choose to wear is deliberately communicates somethings. 44:40: We’re communicating that we’re really cold. 46:45: Molly took a couple kids to a Lewis & Clark expo, and Plains Indians hand talk. 49:10: There is something very distinct between men and women at the creational level. 52:19: Encourage father to do a church activity or spend time at home with the kids? 54:24: A very difficult discussion to have as a friend, wife, pastor. 56:04: Molly vents to a friend about JR….in a healthy way. 1:01:28: God’s Mercy in My Marriage, Dave Harvey. IWF (Independendent Women's Forum) When Sinners Say "I Do", Dave Harvey Rescuing Ambition, Dave Harvey (FREE ON AUDIBLE RIGHT NOW!) Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:08:13

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Gold, Goals, & Grounding

1/8/2024
Intro: Savings, investing and gold 7:23: Not being obsessed with the future or placing trust in prepping 9:03: Living in a state of by faith 12:36: Living in a fallen world 15:13: Mueller and people 19:04: Childbearing, faith, and health consequences 22:49: A young kid just screaming at Hobby Lobby 24:10: Faith builds a fort for the night and a cocoon of pillows 26:45: Back to the lady at Hobby Lobby and being 29:52: Big events for a 3rd born birthday…right after Christmas; mercies in planning 38:22: Atomic Habits; goals vs. resolutions 42:40: Molly reflects on goal settings and resolutions for the New Year, lunar calendars and the official April’s Fools 46:14: The health significance of freshly ground wheat 47:47: Growing (and spelling) Loofahs 51:32: Transplanting trees 53:24: Molly’s word for the year (she thought it was hokey until now) 59:36: Abigail Favale and Kevin DeYoung on laptop culture, narcissism and transgender propagation. 1:07:08: Parenting and grounding kids in truth. 1:10:00: Show Close 6 Min Podcast with Mike Maloney on Wealth Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:14:34

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Broadway, Biology, & Being

12/22/2023
Intro: Telegram, pre-Christmas madness, crazy warm weather, parents of a teenager. 6:45 A symphony trip for the kids.. are 9:06: Hope…or lack thereof from Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas. 12:31: The contrast of cheer and family and depressing Christmases. 14:40: Meaningful secular Christmas lyrics, Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer was written by a victim of bullying. 16:34: Inspiration for Christmas songs from non-Christians. 18:12: Christian Christmas songs address the human condition. 19:43: Difficulty in sharing Christian Christmas songs’ source of hope. 25:16: We “muddle through” with our ever present help in trouble. 22:06: Even we have to wait until we’re dead, in light of eternity, suffering has an end date. 24:50: Gender-bending on Broadway. 28:48: Transgender singing issue. 32:20: Transgender needs for pharmaceuticals, and medical intervention ramifications. 36:00: A podcast Molly listened to about an a Catholic convert from feminisim out of the “Eldridge Era” and wha it means to be a woman. 39:21: What makes a woman? Or a man? 43:07: Gender as a complimentary component in the world. 47:03: Genitalia is a physical manifestation of an entire being’s orientation. 49:25: Contingent Monism and you are not you without… 54:21: How this all relates to children and parenting. 56:30: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:01:54

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Being a Kind, not Gnostic, Christian Materialist

12/6/2023
Show Open: Christmas Tree update, seasonal hecticness and family random notes. 9:18: One more thought on self-care: living faithfully within our finitude. 15:28 We’re such dependent creatures (food). 16:43 Incorporating the Lord’s prayer. 21:07: Doug Wilson on celebrating the materiality of Christmas. 25:54 Robert Farrar Capon and cottage cheese. 27:41: Christians living in a material world. 29:01: The feasts and the festivals. 30:42: Christian gnosticism confused with holiness. 33:10 “Kind” is a Biblical category, “nice” is not. 35:35: Dr. Jon Money and the precursor to modern transgenderism. 39:04: Cultural expectations and being kind to those in sin. 43:06: Contrast between grace and kindness. 45:17: Molly’s dad’s been making some killer summer sausage. 47:58: Show close banter, invite to our Christmas party! Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:00:55:09

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Being "Winsome," Limited, & Living By Design

11/29/2023
4:12: “Winsome,” Doug Wilson, Kevin DeYoung and engaging culture. 7:32: GK Chesterton on war. 8:28: Our huge Christmas tree might fall over. 13:36: Titus’ hunting success! 17:46: Why Molly is stressed about the tree. 19:35: Back to winsomeness and getting back to Biblical language. 21:27: “Self-care” last week brought the noise! 22:55: Men vs. Women, recreational habits and the necessity of moms in the first three years and psychological and emotional ties to children. 28:39: The lot the good Lord has placed us in regards to self-care. 39:36: Can we reframe the conversation around self-care in a Biblical understanding. 30:54: Kelly Kapic, You’re Only Human 31:38: JR blame shifts and Molly shuts him down. 33:10: We were created with limitations that are a feature, not a bug. 37:00: What will be true of us in the new heavens and new earth? 37:43: “Self-care” is not in the Bible but living according to design is. 40:00: Applications to Transhumanism and technological development. 43:03: We are not our own but bought with a price and called to honor at the expense of ourselves.* 44:03: Holding it all in tension. 45:09: Molly’s Red Light Therapy purchase. 46:39: Molly’s diagnostic on Biblical vs. sinful “self-care.” 50:50: Roping your kids into what you love. 54:08: Self-care for women is usually expensive. 57:15: Video games, salad and Christmas stuff. 58:53: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (Website) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (new version) Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:03:05

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Shelving, Satisfaction, & Self-Care

11/22/2023
Show Open: Birthdays, tea and coffee, the differences between. 5:28: Titus, a game night, and his chocolate chip cookie. 7:04: A new recipe for Thanksgiving, chocolate cookie pies and chess pie. 9:46: Chess pie, vinegar pies, Momofuku. 15:29: A running theme: kids’ room shuffling, Ikea hacks, and new shelving ideas. 19:31: Joy and satisfaction in working with your hands, teaching your son to be a man. 22:57: Doing things with your hands for mental health and a sense of doing what you’re created to do. 26:19: Molly tees up J.R. On Ecclesiastes. 33:47 Molly responds with some Hebrew lol and they discuss finding joy in the toil. 40:35: Life seasons. 42:53: Argentina's new President looks like his’s from the 60’s and The Byrds. 45:15 An admonishment about self-care. 45:48: Distinctions between self-care and rest and underlying heart conditions. 50:43: A brilliant Bluey episode on mom needing 15 minutes. 52:28: Modern lifestyles don’t lend themselves to healthy rest and rhythms in life. 54:12: Some tips for better health and rest. 59:20: Show Close It's a Wonderful (Brief) Life - Sermon Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (Website) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (new version) Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:04:16

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Eating Scrolls & Baking Rolls

11/17/2023
A week of normal week, and daylight savings time. 3:19: Timezone history and statistics. 9:26: The electrifying of America. 13:33: The Gray Haven’s new hymn record is fantastic and listening to music over and over again. 17:11: Molly’s 3rd grade snack win, trying trying to find a link on our website like this Revelation sermon. 23:20: Molly’s takeaways from said sermon: a pastor tones down his teaching on God’s wrath; there is no cosmic justice; Hilter, Stalin, Mao didn’t get what’s coming to them 27:51: What it means to “eat this scroll”; alarming stats on Christianity 31:40: Being prepared in the heart, Iran bigwig declares war on the US, a Montana lab had the covid virus a hear before it “got out.” 37:58: A balm to the hurting heart 41:27: Hymn of the week…oh my. 45:46: A podcast highlighting the mysterious acts of the Lord 47:27: Back to the hymn 53:34: Taking something too far, too hard. 55:48: The Battle Hymn of The Kingdom 58:02: Christmas Open House! 1:02:45: Show Close Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (Website) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (new version) Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

Duration:01:07:03

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The Joy of Experience & No Sad Funerals

11/11/2023
3:40: Birthdays, growing kids, and judo tournament recap. 10:54: Not seeing things in your kids and marveling at the joy of experience and gifting. 18:XX: Excelling at craftsmanship. 21:XX: Camille Paglia and there are no female Mozart’s or female Jack the Rippers. 23:30: Driving your kids to do the thing and being a person that finishes things. 27:19: A super-interesting conversation with the kids about choosing songs for funerals. 29:30: There are no sad hymns at Christian funerals. 39:40: A huge hymn at a Lutheran church we’ll never forget but don’t remember anything about. 43:04: Sausage bites are so good. Molly’s two cooking fails. 48:15: Applesauce based BBQ sauce. 52:00: Molly’s third fail…oops - JR 😅 55:00: The kids have their own rooms! 58:16: Sourdough cinnamon twists. Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (Website) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (new version) Too Busy to Flush Telegram Group Send us a Postcard Pique Tea - Referral Link (it's super-delicious and healthy) Molly's Favorite Milk Brother (she takes it in the van!) Ledger Hardware Wallet - Referral Link (store your crypto securely!)

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