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Dear Shandy

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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

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United States

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Marriage

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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

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English


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Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390

6/12/2025
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Natalie is in the deep depths of heartbreak after the guy she thought was her future abruptly ended things. Because his reasons were logistics-based, would she be foolish to wait for him? Our second caller, Carlie, has a thriving business but is haunted by her secret feelings for her married business partner. Are these feelings something she should act on, or is there a way to manage or overcome them? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off your annual membership! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Natalie! 20:41 - Shandy Debrief 23:46 - Welcome To Caller Carlie! 55:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:10:16

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Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389

6/5/2025
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go? 5:03 - Q2: I Wasn’t Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help! 17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can’t Marry Him, But… 27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend’s Fiancé’s Extracurricular Activity Of Choice? 46:31 - Q5: My Friend’s Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her? Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:17:56

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388

5/29/2025
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Emily who has been in a casual long distance situationship with a guy who claims he needs to be single. However, his dating app activity says otherwise and his actions seem to show he really cares. She's caught real feelings... should she see where this "fling" goes, or is this guy a giant red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:57 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:00:48:17

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Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387

5/22/2025
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help! 13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend’s Birthday Because They Ignored Mine? 21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do? 27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong? 36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help! 48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:08:13

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The Sidebar: Sinners, Juice Inflation, Cops On Phones & Patrick Schwarzenegger - Ep 386

5/15/2025
SIDEBAR IS BACK, BABY! This series was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to read yours in the comments! Shandy saw their quarterly in-theater movie—what did they think? Is it possible to get better at holding your pee? Can you guess the cost of two juices in NYC? Are police officers staring at their phones while on the job? Did Shandy like White Lotus Season 3? Are commercials good for you? What are YOUR favorite commercial jingles? What is the least delicious type of potato? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Shandy In-Theater Movie Review 6:19 - Peeing 8:25 - White Lotus Season 3 12:24 - Patrick Schwarzenegger 13:40 - The Cost Of Juice 16:11 - Cops On Their Phones 19:26 - Recognizing Faces 26:15 - Waiting 29:39 - Guns N’ Roses 32:07 - Commercials 38:06 - Fingerling Potatoes If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:00:47:00

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Love Is Blind's Joey & Sara Tell All - Ep 385

5/8/2025
SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest?? Today Joey and Sara officially set the record straight on the dating rumors and what it has been like being on the receiving end of so much online hate. Sara shares her side of the story when it comes to Monica's betrayal accusations, and Joey shares the ways in which he's been misunderstood. LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know the REAL Sara and Joey and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - The first 1000 Shandies get a $100 credit at https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or by using code SHANDY at sign up! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! More Sara: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/saracarton_ - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@saracarton More Joey: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/joeykid34 - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@joey_exotic Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara! 4:00 - Are They Or Aren’t They Dating?? 7:53 - Monica 21:58 - The Love Square 25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions 41:42 - That Bachelor Audition 44:07 - Exclusivity 46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship 47:56 - How They Complement Each Other 49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other 54:31 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined 1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:26:54

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Money For Couples (& A Possible Recession) With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384

5/1/2025
He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube: / @ramitsethi Instagram: / ramit Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:07:59

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383

4/24/2025
It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:00:50:14

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Q&A! Is Flirting A Dying Art? & Money Manipulation - Ep 382

4/17/2025
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY for a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:09:35

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "My Parents Don't Approve Of My Poly Lifestyle—Help!" - Ep 381

4/10/2025
Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off any annual membership! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 24:43 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:00:33:16

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The Bachelor's Carolina Tells All - Ep 380

4/8/2025
At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:13:04

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Love Is Blind's Meg & Mason Tell All - Ep 379

4/3/2025
Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:23:01

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The Sidebar: Severance S2, Pretty Privilege & Andy's Worst You're Welcome - Ep 378

3/27/2025
NEW EPISODE SERIES ALERT!!! Dear Shandy has been faithfully relationship-focused for 4.5 years, but we've decided it's about time there was a dedicated space for all the long lost topics and tangents. The Sidebar was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to hear about yours in the comments! What did Shandy think of season 2 of Severance? Would you ever go skiing alone? Do Canadians get road rage? Is reaching at the dinner table really so bad? What was Andy's worst ever "you're welcome"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping + a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:32 - Severance Season 2 (Spoiler Alert) 20:42 - Skiing Alone 25:12 - Laughing Alone 29:27 - Canadians In Cars 33:11 - Reaching At The Dinner Table 36:22 - Andy’s Worst You’re Welcome 41:03 - What Dogs Think About When They Do Tricks 42:58 - Pretty Privilege If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:00:54:46

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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Grant's Coin Toss & A Golden Surprise - Ep 377

3/25/2025
Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 29 Finale & After The Finale Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Finale Kick Off 6:45 - Litia Meets Grant’s Family 14:40 - Juliana Meets Grant’s Family 19:06 - Juliana Final Date 20:29 - Litia’s Final Date 26:52 - The Next Day 28:59 - Neil Lane 33:47 - The Breakup 38:02 - Litia Hot Seat 44:10 - The Proposal 44:41 - After The Final Rose 51:02 - Bachelor In Paradise Announcement 59:54 - Overall Thoughts/Revisiting Our Bet 1:02:46 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:15 - Fashion 1:04:39 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:35 - Reviewing Our Night One Predictions 1:07:48 - Discussion With Our Shandies If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:18:15

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Q&A! Prince Skid Mark Charming & Fighting Over Reality TV - Ep 376

3/20/2025
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there a polite way to tell your friends not to bring their messy kids to your new place? Is the way your partner criticizes reality TV contestants' looks a red flag? If you and your partner of nearly 20 years simply cannot agree on where to live, what to do? And finally, what to do if your partner doesn't seem to care about his hygiene! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:18 - Q1: My Friends Want To Bring Their Messy Kids To My Brand New Condo—Help! 13:54 - Q2: My Husband & I Fight Over Reality TV—Help! 32:54 - Q3: We Differ On Where We Want To Live—Is This A Dealbreaker? 54:21 - Q4: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Skid Marks—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:21:22

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Fantasy Suites Are Just A Fantasy - Ep 375

3/18/2025
Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suites for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use code FACTORPODCAST for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:33 - Juliana 11:24 - The Next Morning 14:44 - Zoe 19:52 - The Next Morning 23:41 - Litia 36:56 - The Next Morning 39:16 - Rose Ceremony 48:22 - Grant With His Family 49:45 - Andy’s A-Game 53:36 - Fashion 56:02 - Shandy Word Watch 59:02 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:09:21

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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battle Rages On - Episodes 374

3/11/2025
Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:03:20

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Love Is Blind Recap: Weddings & Reunion | Daniel And Taylor Prevail - Ep 373

3/10/2025
Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the Weddings & Reunion for Season 8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Ben & Sara 16:03 - Joey & Monica 31:58 - Dave & Lauren 37:31 - Devin & Virginia 50:45 - Mason & Meg (& Alex & Madison) 1:02:15 - Danile & Taylor 1:10:12 - Odds & Ends If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:21:22

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Q&A! Dirty Dreams = Cheating?, Group Text Hell & Being Second Choice - Ep 372

3/6/2025
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you keep having dirty dreams about a friend's husband, is that a type of cheating? Are you too picky for not entertaining men who pursue you "second", *after* showing interest in your friend? If you get a work opportunity that feels better suited to a friend, should you hand over the job? And the age old question: what to do when trapped in Group Text Hell?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:29 - Q1: How Do I Decline My Grandmother’s Offer Of Her Engagement Ring? 11:54 - Q2: I Keep Having Dirty Dreams About A Friend’s Husband—Help! 25:14 - Q3: Am I Too Picky For Not Wanting To Be Second Choice? 35:29 - Q4: Am I A Bad Friend If I Accept This Work Opportunity? 53:22 - Q5: I’m Trapped In Group Text Hell—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:19:15

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Searching For Grant Ellis, Searching For Hometowns - Ep 371

3/4/2025
Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 6 Kick off 3:21 - Juliana’s Hometown 10:10 - Zoe’s Hometown 27:18 - Litia’s Hometown 38:58 - Dina’s Hometown 43:57 - Los Angeles 47:10 - Rose Ceremony 49:49 - Andy’s A-Game 50:05 - Fashion 50:33 - Shandy Word Watch 53:43 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duration:01:04:39