What Happened? Podcast

"Having zero expectations is a statement I make that is often misunderstood. For me the reason why I have zero expectations is because I have enormous empathy. At the end of the day, I recognize that people have this worldview of constant expectation. It’s how they’re wired. Everyone thinks they’re just entitled to help." - Gary Vaynerchuk Expectations are real, but are they realistic in a relationship? How do you go about communicating your expectations to your partner? These are all...

We're back again! COVID put us on the shelf and we are coming back to a whole new world. Hopefully that is. This episode we talk about the current state of the country and our hopes of where things are going. There isn't much to say here, but please listen. Please listen to the heartfelt foreword by @kimberlylatricejones Socials: @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast

We're back again! COVID put us on the shelf and we are coming back to a whole new world. Hopefully that is. This episode we talk about the current state of the country and our hopes of where things are going. There isn't much to say here, but please listen. Please listen to the heartfelt foreword by @kimberlylatricejones Socials: @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Is there an etiquette to navigating on social media when you have a significant other? Well duh! We already know the answer to that, but how aware are you of how your SM activities affect your mate? We don't believe you need to completely become a different person, but a being a bit considerate may go a long way. Listen to the pod! Oh and joint pages.. just don't do it ha! Socials @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode we discuss "14 Things To Talk About for a Healthy Relationship". This list is actually pretty legit. You'd thing couples would know how to communicate and learn each other, but boy oh boy is that not true! Make sure you tune in and implement. Keep in mind, we are not relationship advisors. We are both single... Socials: @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Polygamy, Polyamorous, Open, Switch... there's a lot of ways to do the "multi" thing these days. What's it all rooted in? We tend to think it goes much deeper than infidelity. There is a good portion of the population that believes that one mate is just not natural. We discuss. Have you ever been part of an open relationship? Ever been polygamous situation? Well listen up and feel free to tell us how off base we are! Socials @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy...

Human. Freaking. Decency. Simple. Courtesy. A. Little. Respect. We can go on with this, but you get the picture. So what do you do if you're not feeling a situation and need to cancel a date with someone? Do you wait until the last minute or do you give notice as soon as possible? Do you feel funny about cancelling and put it off? Always remember there is another person on the other side that may very well be looking forward to this time with you. Try to be courteous. OR.. just don't be a...

What is your Love Language? Do you know what a love language is? So, initially, we though this was one of those cliche "flavor of the month" things that we people tend to gravitate towards for a week and then toss away. Well Love Language is actually a real thing and can save your relationship! The Languages: The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1992 book by Gary Chapman. It outlines five ways to express and experience love between romantic...

So, a year later and we are both still single on Vday. It can't be us right? Well since we don't have an official Vday to talk about, we found some discussion questions about Vday to talk about. We hope that you all enjoy the "holiday". No, we aren't jaded. Ha! Please seek us on socials. Speak up.. give us feedback.. content suggestions.. stories? All are welcomed!! Almost all.. don't be a weirdo. @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out...

This episode is dedicated to Kobe Bryant, Gianna Bryant and the rest of the passengers and pilot we lost in the helicopter accident that claimed one of our young legends. On this episode, we talk about "code". Girl and guy code is a real thing, but how invested are you in the code? When is it relevant and when do you need to fall back from the code? Also, in the What Is Love section of the podcast we do something a lil different. We break down section 1 New York Time's "36 Questions That...

The bar is set! Prince Harry gave up his royal ties for the love of his life. What have you done for your significant other? Better yet, how much would you be WILLING to do for the love of your life? In this episode we establish the bar of what we would do for love. Also, listen in to the "What is Love" section where we propose advice to a woman that seemingly had a different expectation of what a relationship is than her ex. Enjoy! Socials: @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappendcast See...

Laptops, cellphones and tablets.. Oh My! There are so many weapons against being catfished these days, yet these sneaky bastids still find away. Clearly there are levels to this catfish sh*t! Fake pictures, old pictures, your pictures, my pictures.. you never know who you're talking to until you see them in person and even then there is so confusion. Asa Leveaux of @thequeerschool and @singlecon joins our craziness today with his own dating hell stories. Enjoy! Also, check out Singlecon!...

We are back! After a brief holiday hiatus, we're in action again. In this episode, we talk about embarking on the new decade as we reflected on the past one. While we aren't high on "new year, new me" and the resolution train at the top of the year, we do realize that the start of the year is the perfect time to pivot. As always, we have no issue sharing our thoughts and insights. Enjoy! @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

While we laugh and joke, we want to make sure we're delivering a message that needs to be heard. BE SAFE! Whether you meet someone in a bar or on dating app, there are sick people everywhere! Be sensible and keep yourself protected. In this episode, Lacey and Kam talk about staying safe while trying to get to know complete strangers. Instagram: @lacey85 @callmekam @whathappendcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode, Lacey reads off our very own Tinder's list for first dates. We sort through the dos ad don'ts and of course we give our own 2 cents. Kam pulls up another list of first date advice and we wonder with all this information out there, why we we both still single?? Follow us on Instagram: @lacedup85 @callmekam @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

By now, we're sure you've all have seen the Dating option in your Facebook app. Yet another way you can find the love of your life. Ahem. We both hit the app up and couldn't wait to report back our findings. Ahem. As always, happy dating! Instagram: @whathappenedcast @lacedup85 @callmekam See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode, we skimmed on talking about how trash dating is. Lacey is apparently back in the dating world. Chuck (@csmooth79) joins the show to talk about his progression in the dating world and why he is single today. @whathappendcast @lacedup85 @callmekam See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In this episode we play a good ole game of "rail or bail", "hit or quit", "cream pie or....." .. You get a picture! Special shoutout to Mike of the Smoke Pit podcast for joining us in our shenanigans! Socials: @whathappendcast @lacedup85 @callmekam @msency @smokepitpodcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

We recorded this episode back in August. Kam had a birthday. Lacey was in a hostel (not to be confused with a brothel, of course). We did some catching up and also had some deep conversation about some of the things that were going on in the world at that time. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

It's game time! In this episode, we engage in the classic Dump or Deal. In this episode, we engage in the classic Dump or Deal. Follow Us: Lacey: @lacedup85 Kam: @callmekam The Pod: @whathappenedcast See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.