The Momset Podcast

How you respond makes a remarkable difference in what they learn. My 3 year old and I went from a repeatedly tense interaction when he'd say something hurtful, to a beautiful softening and shared emotional HURT, resulting in a drastic reduction in hurtful words said! It came down to this... How will my children learn that what they say can hurt others, if I look angry when they say it? I'm sharing my insights and favorite lessons learned. The March Yes Mom Challenge is here and starting! We start March 1, 2026 Sign up today: YES MOM CHALLENGE is where you go to become a positive communicator that feels light and prepared to respond with calm authority and leadership. I'll teach you how to hold boundaries, speak kindly and instruct clearly. Saving you peace and sanity every single day!

It's been some time since we had a full write with me journaling episode, so I'm bringing it back. Comment on this episode if you'd like so see more of these and what the next topic should be about. EXCITING NEWS!! I am hosting a positive event for moms on May 16th in St. George, UT! Our first even open to moms craving positivity, empowerment and stepping into their role as the calm authority in their home. This event will teach you Yes Language practical tools, help you overcome fears and fully embrace who YOU are made to be as a mother. Get your ticket here and join us in the gorgeous red rocks for a full day of life changing work on your mind and heart. Bring your friends and share a local rental home for the ultimate moms weekend of growth and positive renewal!

Motherhood has a way of humbling us and then quietly inviting us to see things, including ourselves, differently. I was labeling my 3 year old as an “instigating,” and my brain dutifully went searching to "be right" while filtering out all the moments that contradicted it. If you know this experience all too well and you want a new approach to it, this episode is for you. Tessa Romero p.s. After two years of taking a step back from retreats and group coaching so I could fully soak in my young family, I am thrilled to share the Good To Great Mastermind that I am hosting this year. apply here This group is for mothers that want full ownership of who they're choosing to be and strive for excellence with unwavering faith. You will be challenged, held and nurtured while releasing limiting beliefs and learning new behaviors.

We are turning to the IG community for questions to see where mindset can be improved in our homes. This episode will create a strong understanding of what IS in your control, even when it would be tempting to say your kids "make you" do something. The mind can be a tricky-topsy-tippy place so learning how to catch the "makes me" mentality is incredibly empowering. Once you see it, you'll never unsee it!

If you notice a mess and you can clean it up, you should. Not because you "have to" or because "it's a moms job." Simply because doing all that you can, while you can, is the practice of being who YOU most want to be. Tune in to this episode to shift your mind to an understanding of deeper identity. Where you see that "doing less" only teaches your mind and body to do less, until you can hardly recognize yourself. 2026 is the year you redefine and intentionally craft who you are because YOU CAN. Follow along on Instagram Tap into more resources

If why you do what you do is too strongly focused on the ideal outcome, weight loss, obedient children, a new home ... then you're missing the best part and will likely feel like a failure in the process. This episode teaches you to put your attention on who you're becoming in the process of pursuing goals and dreams. Follow along on Instagram Get more resources here

In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my actual morning. There's mess, noise, interruptions and all. I'm sharing how I protect the dreams in my heart while meeting the very real needs of my family. Enjoy this raw and honest conversation about the choices I make to anchor my day in joy through it all. If you’ve ever wondered how to hold onto your vision while serving your home, or how to stay emotionally present without losing yourself in the demands of motherhood—this episode is for you. Come take a peak at my sacred mess and let it spark gratitude for your own. Follow along on Instagram Get more resources here.

This episode is taking you through the foundation of your identity in these moments and to be mindful of the "IF" that limits you in the hard moments. Your entire internal atmosphere changes when you move like God is watching you. Suddenly there's peace and surrender in the places you wrestled with perfection, people pleasing and approval of others. Imagine you're in the room with your close family and friends and "everyone else's" kids were playing, using manners and doing the "right" behavior for the room. Then you hear your child screaming, pushing a cousin over and saying "no" to grandma. Oh, boy... what happens IN YOU next? Well, that depends on what your focus is on. "What does Jesus think of how I handle this?" "What does (friend, family, stranger) think of how I handle this?" With a mind set on Jesus you experience peace and a guided hand to help you through. With a mind set on man you experience pressure- perfect, perform and please. Which do you want and which do you have? Let's make forward progress here, together.

I used to see "God-fearing" often referenced, especially in 2020 during heightened fear and stress in the world, and I'd wonder "why would you want to believe in a God you feel afraid of?" Little did I know, that's a beautiful thing. Years later I'm here to share why "God-fearing" is a power word for me and what you can do to rise above the focus of man and the fears of the world. The Alignment Journaling Course is having a black Friday sale and it's the only time it has been discounted this year! Save $20 off the course and check out our NEEEEW (incredible) Daily Prompt Vault that is full of follow along video journaling sessions with me, 2 min inspiration and of course, written prompts and examples. This ends soon so come save a little money and an enormous amount of time you would have spent feeling negative.

Teaching regulation to my children feels incredibly difficult at times. It challenges me, stretches my patience and requires more attention than I knew I had to give. AND, seeing them take deep breaths when they feel upset, guide their brother to breathe and start doing 20 burpees without me even asking- IS WELL WORTH IT. Today I'm sharing what has worked exceptionally well in my home with high energy big feeling boys, which is BURPEES. I'm breaking down why I diligently emphasize regulation, what we do and how you can incorporate a plan like this, too. Side note: Christmas is coming quick. Get the 25 Days of Christ Advent Kit if you want to stay focused on Jesus and His teachings this holiday season. Use code TESSA for 20% off

There are times in life we hear one little line that changes the trajectory for us. I was attending a funeral while six months pregnant with my first son when one little line did that for me. I hope this episode gives you hope and encouragement to bring more positive communication into your home and daily life. Even if you've said "no" right in line with the average of 400 times a day that children hear it. Even if you grew up with negative communication being the norm. You get to decide what you do next, my friend. This holiday season is a great time to bring the story of Jesus into your home, with a guided story telling advent experience!This has been a favorite of ours for three years! 25 Days of Christ Ornament SetCode TESSA to save 20% off

I've been told "delayed obedience is disobedience" like it's a favorite line from a popular song since posting this reel. It got me thinking about the rush and urgency parents put themselves and their children in. It's certainly a catchy line and I can confidently say it is not biblical. Come explore where I have found the Bible praises pause, what could have gone differently and what Jesus would possibly do in our shoes. I believe teaching our children to exercise discernment, regulate emotions, pray for clarity and ask question IS our job. We are not here to rush our kids along to fit into the status quo and ensure they respect authority... a delay can be a very, very good thing. Good news, my Yes Language Course is now available for you to drastically reduce the times you say "no" and become a clear and kind communicator! It's 21 days long and incredibly effective to teach you with bite sized lessons and implementation! It's $50 off until 11/1/2025

This is a topic I have strong personal conviction and passion on and I'm sure you will feel that in this episode. After receiving criticism about a reel I made on IG that involved me waiting 90 seconds for my son to make the right choice and sharing that it takes 90 seconds to properly feel an emotion, I decided this podcast episode is the best way to respond. Discipline, boundaries and expectations are powerful in our parenting and they are a foundation for our kids to thrive. We can use each of those tools effectively, arguably more effectively, when we use them with kindness, calm authority and self-discipline. This episode has four key points in the heart of a disciple of Jesus Christ that is using discipline in parenting. I strive to be a loyal disciple of Jesus Christ and that means doing what is right even when it is hard and committing to parenting with faith over fear. All of the "what if..." theories thrown by others are fear based and I have resounding faith in following Jesus today in my parenting is the best possible outcome for our future.

Well, wouldn't you know it that the Bible is in full support of Yes Language?! Let's go through some scripture together and see where the meaning connects to our home life. Here are the links to Bibles I mentioned for any other beginners out there that want to start reading truth! Jesus Story Book Bible (I LOVE this one with my kids) Hosanna Revival NLT Bible (My first Bible I read for two years and appreciated the easy to understand language!) Study Bible ESV (My new Bible I am loving. The language is the right amount of challenge for me right now. I can still understand what it is saying and it reflects more of the traditional writings.)

I am steadfast here, friends. I've seen the truth in my own home and beyond play out time and time again. We need more positive minds, hearts and WORDS filling our homes if we want a better world. Being a Yes Mom is a standard of excellence and while it can feel difficult to fulfill and meet- it is rewarding to strive towards. I hope this encouragement reaches you warmly and with vigor. All my love, Tessa Romero

I've been sharing a lot of the Yes Language I use with my kids and a top question I receive regularly is "does your husband do this too?!" Well- let's ask my sweet hubs if he uses it and what his take is on this communication style with our kids. We are two parents doing the best we can- just like you! This is what we have found works really well for us to feel our best as the parents we want to be. Truly love how open Marcus is and my goal is that you feel encouraged to start using Yes Language no matter who is or is not using it, too. I've crafted out an entire Yes Mom Campus inside of my coaching membership. It's 21 lessons to teach you how to love what you say and how you say it- saving yourself time and energy. If you're ready to start using Yes Language and ditch a whole lot of "no, no, no" then join us!

Okay, guards are down. I've been watering down my passion and mission to try and keep myself out of the "heat"- all while seeing moms drowning in the consequences of negativity. All done- welcome to my new ERA! Starting with 5 reasons to stop saying no to your kids. I'm talking about NO, CAN'T, DON'T, WON'T, SHOULDN'T... reactivity, negativity and disconnection from your kids. I mentioned my 21 day YES MOM CHALLENGE available in my membership (access it anytime) to learn the TOOLS of Yes Language. This will decrease the time spent yelling, criticizing, arguing and breaking boundaries.⁠ Sign up here! ⁠ Learn from my ⁠free "Yes Mom" content⁠ .

Exciting News: I am making a 100 day marriage journal! Yes, husband AND wife journals that build a positive and appreciative mindset in marriage- leaving behind resentment, negativity and victim mentality. Today as I worked on another round of edits (committed to the strength of each prompt and exercise) I felt stuck, so I called my husband into the office and asked for his feedback. Well, it was a GOOD TIME. Tons of laughs and true understanding about the different way we think. That's when I turned on the mic and hit record. Come share some laughs, insights and appreciation with us as we pour our love over the marriage journals in the making. These journals means so much to me as I started implementing this writing practice in my marriage 18 months ago- now I'm putting the practice in your hands.

There are times that being kind, sincere, patient and truthful feel PHYSICALLY painful. As if a bone in your body may break if you say something kind when you feel angry. What if yelling, perfectionism, people pleasing, lying, criticizing, shaming... could all be sanding off of you? This perspective of "sanding your down" will completely transform the pain of that moment to an incredibly purposeful healing experience for you. This will increase your patience, courage and discipline to do what is right even when it is hard. Here is the link to If Only I Had A Green Nose that I LOVE. Every book in this series is incredible. All my best friend, Tessa Romero

Oh wowza, we need to have a heart to heart. Writing negative thoughts just to "get them out" does NOT validate an emotion. Thoughts are not feelings and feelings are not thoughts. THIS is the writing exercise you want to do to process through negative thoughts without getting stuck in them, so you can create empowering thoughts that serve you through ANY emotion and circumstance. Turn to a blank page, friend. I'll teach you how to do it. All my best, Tessa Romero p.s. I have this free email group where I send you word-for-word journaling examples.