The Bearing

Send us a text In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience. Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects diverse communities across West Africa, carrying with it the rich history, identity, and traditions of its speakers. But what makes this language so enduring, even in the face of modernity? Tune in to this week’s podcast as we explore the secrets behind the lasting strength of the Hausa language.

Send us a text “Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have. But here’s the question: Is common sense really that common? Tune in to today’s episode of our weekly podcast as we dig deep into what “common sense” truly means and why it might not be as universal as we’ve always believed.

Send us a text In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing their quirks, shared dreams, and the chemistry that draws two people together. Gone are the days when a simple walk in the park or a shared soda at a local diner sufficed as a date. In modern times, dating often entails dinner at upscale restaurants, exotic trips, or the expectation of lavish gifts. Join us in the episode of our weekly episode as some elderly people reminisce on what it was like dating in the past

Send us a Text Message. Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole. It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters, often beginning in childhood and sometimes extending into adulthood. While some level of rivalry is natural, it can have profound effects on family dynamics, individual well-being, and long-term relationships. Join us in this episode of our weekly podcast as we look at siblings rivalry and its long lasting impact on family dynamics.

Send us a Text Message. Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once. The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and look for the partner you’ll have for a lifetime. It’s the time where you define how the rest of your life will be. Join us in this episode of the Bearing as we look at realistic expectations from people in their 20s

Send us a Text Message. Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices. Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hustle of lecture halls and the bellies. It’s safe to say that the cost of living in Naija has turned feeding patterns into a Nollywood drama. Join us in this episode of the bearing as we look at ways Nigerian students can enjoy sumptuous and nutritional meals on a budget.

Send us a Text Message. The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria. While the experience is often enriching, there are many things corps members are not told before they embark on their journey. What are the things they wish they knew before their NYSC journey, especially when it comes to serving in Abuja? Join us in this episode of The Bearing as we discover the realities they face that they were not prepared for.

Send us a Text Message. Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams. But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and what strategies can be used to overcome it? Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing to find out.

Send us a Text Message. In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone. It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own. The lessons learned during this period can be critical in shaping their future. But where do these lessons come from? Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing as we explore this intriguing question.

Send us a Text Message. Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time. Would you rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife? Join us on The Bearing this week as we look at this important decision.

Send us a Text Message. The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country. In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.

Send us a Text Message. In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill? Given today’s job market, which holds more value? In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today should pay more attention to.

Send us a Text Message. At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today. Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at home, flew to the Holy Land for this once-in-a-lifetime experience. This episode of The Bearing seeks to discover how they feel about being there and what it means.

Send us a Text Message. Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success. But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married? Does taking this big step require financial readiness? Join us on Today's Weekly podcast to find out.

Send us a Text Message. Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one. How do people deal with the trauma of losing someone? Why is it difficult for someone to overcome this trauma? In this episode of The Bearing, we listen to the personal story of Hassana with the hope of finding answers to these questions.

Send us a text The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!. In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.

Send us a Text Message. Aisha is a 24-year-old lady who is heavily pregnant. Like many expectant mothers, she dreams of delivering a healthy baby safe and sound. But, unlike many, she faces severe economic challenges that make even the most basic antenatal care and preparations for her baby's arrival seem out of reach. Join us on The Bearing to hear her story.

Send us a Text Message. What would you do if, as a student, you discover that you could make a lot of money on social media, especially if you struggle to find food to eat? What would you do if, as a parent, your child decides to drop out to make money online? Join us on The Bearing to find out what some students and parents did when faced with the same dilemma.

Send us a text As they grow older, many people look back on their life and regret certain actions or inactions; missed opportunities or unfulfilled goals. In this episode of The Bearing, we will be at the most common of these regrets and how to avoid them. Are you young? Join us as you may learn some lessons you will never regret in future.

Send us a Text Message. Marriage is a new experience for couples, especially young girls. Hence the need to teach a bride-to-be the things to expect and how to manage them, because how they are approached can make or mar the marriage. What are those things and why do parents shy away from telling their children about them? In this episode of The Bearing, we try to find out how ignorance of those things can and does lead to a high rate of divorce in northern Nigeria.