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The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

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United States

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The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

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English


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Ask A Man 15 July

7/15/2024

Duration:00:29:39

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Ask A Man 12 July

7/12/2024

Duration:00:32:28

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Ask A Man 11 July '24: 'Should I keep getting punished for cheating multiple times?'

7/11/2024
Anonymous says he’s been in a relationship for 4 years and he says they have two kids with his partner. Anonymous says he liked a different lady before meeting his partner but that lady friend zoned him and he moved on. Anonymous says that lady then came back into his life while he was already with his current partner and he had a bit of an affair with the lady. Anonymous says the affair ended when his wife fell pregnant but his partner later found the messages between him and this lady. Anonymous says they got passed this with his partner but as time went by his partner got very angry and always lashing out at him. Anonymous says they went through a few things after this, emotionally and financially, which strained the relationship, anonymous even had an affair with someone else. Anonymous has now broken up with his partner, but is not sure if he should get her back.

Duration:00:32:23

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Ask A Man 10 July '24: 'Am I competing with my partner's late ex?'

7/10/2024
Anonymous and his partner have been together for a year now. Anonymous says his partner is great, however, recently he saw his partner’s social media status and she had posted about how she buried her previous long term partner and hasn’t been the same ever since. Anonymous says he was taken aback by this status and they don’t really talk about her past relationship. Anonymous confronted her about the status and she has apologised to him for how it made him feel. He’s not sure if he’s overplaying the whole thing.

Duration:00:32:24

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Ask A Man 09 July '24: 'I feel like my boyfriend & his kids are using me.'

7/9/2024
Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with a man for a year, she’s 56 and he’s 59, she has two kids and he has 5 kids. Anonymous says she makes more money than the guy and he’s constantly spending her money on him and his grown up kids. Anonymous says she feels like he’s using her because she’s financially more capable. She’s loves him but isn’t sure if he loves her in the same way.

Duration:00:33:21

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Ask A Man 08 July '24: 'Should I keep dating my ex who's getting married?'

7/8/2024
Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

Duration:00:34:31

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Ask A Man 04 July '24: 'Revenge cheating is costing us our relationship.'

7/4/2024
Anonymous says his partner caught him cheating on her late last year with another woman, which he did in reaction to her cheating on him. Anonymous says they initially broke up after this but got back together looking to work things out. Anonymous says since they’ve been back together his partner keeps bringing up the fact the he cheated on her and she doesn’t seem to be getting over what happened. Anonymous says he wants to be with her but doesn’t know if he can live like that.

Duration:00:25:01

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Ask A Man 03 July '24: 'I don't know what to do about my wife and 3 girlfriends.'

7/3/2024
Anonymous says he’s married with 3 kids and is currently dating 3 different women and has been with them for a few years now. Anonymous says they all support him financially and they know he’s married. Anonymous says he’s tired because this puts him on a very hectic schedule of handling all 4 of his partners and he doesn’t know what to do.

Duration:00:29:56

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Ask A Man 02 July '24: "How should I deal with my lazy husband?"

7/2/2024
Anonymous says she met her partner in September last year and they moved in together in January of this year, and got married in February. Anonymous says everything has been fine however she feels like her husband is lazy, she basis this on the fact that he keeps quitting his jobs and doesn’t give any valid reasons. Anonymous says this puts a huge financial burden on her. Anonymous says she’s calling today because he has once again quit his job, she doesn’t know what to do because he’s generally a good husband in all other departments.

Duration:00:28:57

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Ask A Man 01 July '24: 'Should I wait for my husband to break up with his girlfriend?'

7/1/2024
Anonymous says she got married to her now ex husband in 2019 despite him finding out that she had cheated on him in the early stages of their long distance relationship. Anonymous says just before they got married her partner cheated on her and impregnated another lady. They continued their relationship and got married. Anonymous says this time last year she found out he was cheating on her again and broke up with him. Anonymous says she started a new relationship with someone else but ended it and got back together with him, however he still cheated again and they’ve gone their separate ways. Anonymous says he continues to reach out to her and she also tends to stalk him on social media. Anonymous says she’s now started talking to him about getting back together again, however he’s in a relationship with someone else and has promised anonymous that he’ll leave the other woman for her. Anonymous says she feels like this happened because she cheated at the beginning of their relationship. They are still married.

Duration:00:24:41

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Ask A Man 28 June '24: 'My partner thinks I'm using her to get to my ex'

6/28/2024
Anonymous says he met his partner late in 2022. Anonymous says 4 months into their relationship his ex started texting him because the ex had a miscarriage during their relationship and she needed them to do a cleansing for that miscarriage. Anonymous says his partner found out that he was in contact with his ex and he explained the reason for this, which she understood but told anonymous to now cut all contact with his ex. Anonymous says months later after seeing his ex, he started texting with her again and his partner found out about these texts which caused a rift between them, however they managed to keep the relationship going. Anonymous says while on a recent vacation he realised that his ex might be watching his social media stories, which led to him posting more of his partner for the ex to see. Anonymous told his partner about this and she later got upset and says she feels like he’s just using her to get to his ex. Anonymous says his partner wants to end their relationship and he doesn’t know what to do.

Duration:00:31:57

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Ask A Man 27 June '24: 'I've done so much for my partner but she's giving me nothing'

6/27/2024
Anonymous has been with his partner for 16 years and they now have 3 kids together. Anonymous says he did start lobola proceedings before they moved in together however the process wasn’t completed because he focused on buying a home for them in their village. Anonymous says he’s since tried to complete the process of lobola but says his partner’s family has been postponing having a meeting with his family. Anonymous says a few months ago his mother passed away and his partner didn’t come and she didn’t even send his kids to come and bury their grandmother. Anonymous says his partner then suddenly moved out of their home and moved to her parent’s house with the kids. Anonymous says her partner’s mother then told him that her partner is sick but they shared very little information with him. Anonymous says he managed to get his kids to come back home so they can go to school and 2 weeks ago she came back to their house unannounced. Anonymous says she’s still not sharing information about why she was gone. Anonymous is note sure if the relationship is worth salvaging.

Duration:00:30:48

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Ask A Man 26 June '24: 'Why do my partners always cheat on me?'

6/26/2024
Anonymous says she feels like she’s constantly getting cheated on in relationships. She says she keeps giving her all in her relationships but her partners always cheat on her. Anonymous has also shared about being abused in one of her relationships and adds that her partners also leave her for women who are more economically successful than her.

Duration:00:30:09

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Ask A Man 25 June '24: 'I've cheated before and now he won't stop cheating.'

6/25/2024
Anonymous says she’s had a long friendship with guy no.1 and over the years they’ve hooked up a few times but they are mostly just friends and anonymous is not interesting in dating guy no.1. Anonymous says in 2020 she started things with guy no.2 and they were living together during the pandemic and their relationship was going well and she eventually moved in with guy no.2 because she was waiting for her own place. Anonymous says things got shaky with guy no.2 in 2021 because of her relationship with guy no.1 and they spent most of that year trying to rebuild their relationship. Anonymous says later that year she found out that guy no.2 had been dating another person for two years while they were together. Anonymous says they tried to work on their relationship but they ended up breaking up. Anonymous says they rekindled things in 2023 but she realised he was still cheating on her with other women. Anonymous says she's wondering if she should remain in this relationship.

Duration:00:29:39

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Ask A Man 24 June '24: 'Too much going on with my partner'

6/24/2024
Anonymous has been with his partner since 2007 , however, he says he cheated on his partner in the early days of their relationship which he thinks has led to her being sceptical about marrying him even now years later. Anonymous says their relationship has been generally ok however he lost his job in 2019 and she became the sole breadwinner which led to him realising that she has a gambling problem. Anonymous says they’ve had various financial challenges over the last few years that have strained their relationship and anonymous says she hides a lot about her finances. Anonymous says his partner has now asked him to get a vasectomy but he’s not sure he wants to do it for his partner who doesn’t want to marry him. Anonymous feels like he’s not being heard in the relationship and doesn’t know what to do about all these issues they are having.

Duration:00:33:09

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Ask A Man 21 June '24: 'Did I push my man away?'

6/21/2024
Anonymous says she met the father of her child back in 2017 and she moved in with him early on and they had a child together. Anonymous says he had started the lobola process but their relationship soured and they broke up. Anonymous says she moved back home after this and their first child died while they were separated. Anonymous moved back to the same city and they started dating again. Anonymous says things tensed up in their relationship because they couldn’t agree on how they want to live and the type of home they want to live in. Anonymous says she moved to her own place and built herself a house since he was refusing to do this. Anonymous says they separated but they got back together and he moved in with her at her house as he was now broke. Anonymous says they are now separated again because she found him speaking to a strange woman on the phone. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should stay with him as she also feels like he’s taking advantage of her because she’s now more financially capable than he is.

Duration:00:28:34

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Ask A Man - 20 June '24: 'Should I go back to my husband after all he put me through?'

6/20/2024
Anonymous says she’s currently separated from her husband, who she’s been with for almost 20 years. Anonymous says over the years in their marriage they’ve had issues with her husband’s family who don’t approve of anonymous. Anonymous has insinuated that her husband has been cheating on her many times over the years and they’ve had many issues. Anonymous says she has since separated from him and months after their separation he is now texting her and claiming that he misses anonymous. Anonymous has now reconnected with another guy in the middle of their separation and they are now dating. Anonymous says the new guy is a bit too much and demands a lot from her. Anonymous says she still loves her husband and doesn’t know if she should let go of him or continue with the new guy.

Duration:00:30:07

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Ask A Man 19 June '24: 'How to confront my man about his cheating?'

6/19/2024
Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for the last two years and all has been well however a few days ago she was able to see messages on his computer of him chatting to another lady. Anonymous says she confronted the lady and this lady then told anonymous about the relationship she has with anonymous’ husband. It turns out he’s been dating this lady since last September, to a point where this lady even fell pregnant. Anonymous says this all happened while she was pregnant with their now newborn baby. Anonymous is not sure what to do about this.

Duration:00:30:33

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Ask A Man 18 June '24: 'My husband is dating someone else.'

6/18/2024
Anonymous says her relationship with her partner was fine until she gave birth to their child and he changed on her and wouldn’t even update her about his whereabouts and would avoid her. Anonymous says she confronted him about his changed behaviour and he promised to change but he didn’t really change. Anonymous says she’s recently found out that his behaviour changed because he had actually entered into a new relationship with someone else and impregnated that person. Anonymous says she’s walked away from him and wants to know how to go about moving on from this relationship.

Duration:00:30:04

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Ask A Man 14 June '24: 'Should I push my stepson to see his mom?'

6/14/2024
Anonymous says he was married to his ex for 8 years. When they came into the relationship she had two children and he had one child. Anonymous says he became and ill and his wife couldn’t handle it and asked for a divorce while he was in hospital. Anonymous says his ex then went on her own but her son, who was also ill at the time, stayed with anonymous. Anonymous says a couple of years after his ex wife’s disappearance, her son is now thriving and she has come back in the picture wanting to have a relationship with him. Anonymous says his step-son doesn’t want anything to do with his mother, despite anonymous encouraging him to do so, anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Duration:00:28:06