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Most people are stupid. That’s not an insult but a fact. A fact that acts as an obstacle, an impeding factor both in dating and in life. Especially in dating, my counterparts remind me of that all too frequently. Considering … Read More The post The Harsh Reality: Most People Are Stupid appeared first on spreadfire1.

Some people are offended so easily. No matter what you say, they find a reason to be offended. You can walk on eggshells all day, to no avail. There will always be that one thing you shouldn’t have said, that … Read More The post The bad habit of being offended appeared first on spreadfire1.

Tinder is a tool Everyone can use it how they want. To find friends, a hiking partner, casual sex, hookups, short-term or long-term dating, a lifetime partner, the love of your life. And we can let potential matches know what … Read More The post The Evolution of Dating: How Technology is Changing the Way We Connect appeared first on spreadfire1.

I met her on Tinder. We wanted to meet quickly without messaging back and forth for a long time. She canceled the first date on short notice, which I was okay with. Anything can happen. On the second date, it … Read More The post The Haunting Reality of Ghosting: Why It Happens and How to Cope appeared first on spreadfire1.

You know what another turn-off is? Your zodiac sign. Not your particular sign, but the fact that you deemed it important enough to include in your Tinder profile at all. It falls into the same category as anti-vaxxers, I guess. … Read More The post Why Astrology Believers are Setting Themselves Up for Disappointment appeared first on spreadfire1.

You’ve got a new match 😍😍😍 I’ve read this sentence hundreds of times. Comparatively rarely have I acted any further, in the form of a simple message. It’s nothing against the person I matched with. It’s not you, it’s me. … Read More The post Breaking the Rules: How to Find Love in an Artificial World appeared first on spreadfire1.

Selina, 41, lives 267 kilometers away. We matched on Tinder six years ago without ever communicating. She’s beautiful on the outside. Judging by her profile text, she knows what she wants: only UNVACCINATED men !at least 1,78 m tall! living … Read More The post Unvaccinated and Unloved: The Bias Against Anti-Vaxxers appeared first on spreadfire1.

“Are you still searching or are you already living?”, initializes the profile text of Janett, 36. Her passions are Outdoors, Spirituality, Dogs, and Coffee. It seems we matched on Tinder 7 years ago but we never chatted there. Looking at … Read More The post From Sports Girl to Spiritual Seeker: A Transformative Journey appeared first on spreadfire1.

Svenja, 35. Engineer. The oldest entry in my list of matches. Matched on October 3rd of 2014. Matched and never messaged. Lives 613 kilometers away now. How come – I’ll never know. She must have been within a radius of … Read More The post Names With Faces: Swipe Right Bias Explained appeared first on spreadfire1.

Eight years is a long time. Relatively speaking. Seemingly enough time for Julia to leave her home, fall in love abroad, and return home again together with her partner. I don’t know who Julia is. Everything I know about her … Read More The post A Tinder Match 8 Years Later: Eerie Parasocial Reflections appeared first on spreadfire1.

Have you ever scrolled through your timeline on Facebook, Twitter, or any other social media platform, feeling a strong urge to reply with a post you stumble upon? Whether you agree or disagree with its content, you just can’t help … Read More The post Bringing Justice To Social Media appeared first on spreadfire1.

…and how all this affects our daily lives. Physics, amirite? So interesting to see the coincidence of a beechnut falling into exactly that spot and staying there for me to photograph. “Doesn’t it get old?”, I ask myself. Always having … Read More The post About Attributing Meaning, Seeing Signs, Human Instincts, Pattern-Seeking, Pareidolia appeared first on spreadfire1.

An example of fake facts – fact-check this! Parthenocissus quinquefolia or five-finger, also commonly called Red Gold of the Shire. Due to its high concentration of alizarin, it was used as a natural dye for coloring clothes red in medieval … Read More The post Can You Spot Fake Facts? Down the Rabbithole on Truth and Opinion appeared first on spreadfire1.

Let’s use an example that is both basic and unemotional: On one of my woodland photography trips, I came across this peculiar scenery. How did the cone end up in this tree hole? How would we best go about uncovering … Read More The post How To Determine The Truth About Anything appeared first on spreadfire1.

Once upon a time…in a land not so far away, by the river, there lived a little boy. Pure at heart. ❤️ Thoughtful and happy. 🤗 He didn’t need much to be content. There were so many things that brought … Read More The post The Boy And The Old Man appeared first on spreadfire1.

This is the origin story of spreadfire. It’s mostly about the birth of the name and only tangential about the person behind the pseudonym. Fear not for the messiah has come. Gaming Background I picked this pseudonym about 20 years … Read More The post The origin of spreadfire appeared first on spreadfire1.

Bad habits can prevent you from achieving your goals. Turn that around and you can accomplish anything you set your mind to, by building healthy habits.… Read More The post How To: Break Bad Habits and Achieve All Your Goals appeared first on spreadfire1.

Fight anxiety & depression NOW! 3 simple tools to help your mental health. Daily routines during coronavirus quarantine. Social isolation risks & solutions.… Read More The post Stop Mental Decay! COVID-19 Quarantine Aids You Must Use appeared first on spreadfire1.

Alternate, more honest and accurate title: Some eternally optimistic dude on the internet has delusions of grandeur and oh by the way he's selling stuff that nobody needs, too.… Read More The post A New Age of Reason And Enlightenment Is Dawning appeared first on spreadfire1.