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#23 - Ghost Busters

Today the guys tackle a topic that's afflicting millions of daters in our culture today: ghosting. Jaemin, Gabe, and Alan discuss what ghosting is, why it's affecting so many of us, how to STOP ghosting once and for all, and most importantly - what Drake thinks about all this. Have any ghosting stories or anti-ghosting maneuvers of your own? Share them with us at


#22 - Getting Mugged in Colombia (Live Story)

This week we have a special episode for you: Jaemin tells a story live, at The Embassy Network, on how getting mugged in Colombia helped him find an authentic life...and Chamillionaire. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll wonder how you still know the lyrics to "Ridin' Dirty". Mentioned: Jaemin's blog post on getting mugged


#21 - WTF Kanye?

Kanye's back on a tweeting rampage and you know we had to talk about it! Jaemin and Gabe bring back Alan Ai for a deep dive into Kanye's latest string of controversial tweets on Trump, love, and scoopity poop. We debate whether Ye's causing damage, wasting everyone's time, or spreading empathy & love across the political divide. Is Yeezy the hero we need right now? Mentioned: Kanye West's tweets on Trump Ye vs. The People (lyrics) The American Chopper Meme, Explained (Vox)


#20 - The Power of Men's Work (w/ Enrico Moses)

Jaemin and Gabe welcome Enrico Moses (entrepreneur, Multicultural Chair of The ManKind Project) to talk about the project and how the men's organization completely changed his life. We discuss the power of men's work, letting go of your fear of fucking up, discovering a new approach to parenting, getting in touch with your inner warrior (and lover and king), and more. Mentioned: The Mankind Project The Next Step Program Woman Within H.E.R. Weekend Find Us Online Enrico's Instagram -...


#19 - Quick Picks: Matchmaking, Earplugs, and Bojack Horseman (w/ Alan Ai)

Jaemin and Gabe welcome back their resident culture expert and lawyer, Alan Ai, to do an all Quick Picks focused episode! Their recommendations include: matchmaking your friends, concert earplugs, date nights, Esther Perel, board games, and a cartoon about a talking horse. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at Mentioned: Bojack Horseman (Netflix) Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Esther Perel's podcast: Where Should We Begin? Codenames...


#18 - Roses & Thorns, an Honest Love Story (w/ Sara Rezvanpour Rose)

Jaemin and Gabe welcome a very special guest - Gabe's wife, Sara Rezvanpour Rose. The two of them open up about their relationship: their strengths, struggles, and everything in-between. We discuss the joy of couples therapy, how breaking up saved their relationship, why community is a bedrock of their marriage, the importance of being "emotional detectives", and much more. Find Us Online Sara's Instagram – The Jungalow (Instagram) Gabe’s Twitter – Gabe’s latest post: We Have to Do This...


#17 - Breaking the Phone Addiction

In this Minisode, the guys share the tips that've helped them break free from their phone addictions and reclaim their sanity. Mentioned: Change Your Screen to Grayscale to Combat Phone Addiction Moment (iOS app) Ezra Klein interview w/ Tristan Harris Center for Humane Technology ( Jaemin's blog post on Breaking the Phone Addiction


Minisode: Masculinity and 'The Mask You Live In'

In this Minisode, the guys discuss the Netflix documentary, "The Mask You Live In". They explore masculinity in our culture and themes such as: why our boys and men are going through such a crisis, how men are longing to connect with one another (and Gabe & Jaemin's own story with this), how we can better raise our sons, and how to help shift this problem. Mentioned: "The Mask You Live In" trailer 5 Ways to Help Reduce the Male Suicide Rate Tweet on Male Violence Share your thoughts,...


#13 - Guys with Therapist

Jaemin and Gabe dive deep on a topic that's completely changed both their lives: therapy! They discuss how seeing a therapist is like "5 years of growth in weeks"; how it may be the antidote to toxic masculinity; they share their own therapy journeys; and tips on how to find an awesome therapist. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at Show Notes (2:14) Remembering Shirley Ford (5:34) Deep Dive: Why Every Guy Should Consider Therapy (7:43)...


Minisode: In Defense of Tinder

In this special Valentines Day Minisode, Jaemin mounts a passionate defense of the app everyone loves to hate: Tinder. The guys talk about how Jaemin went from hating the Tinder experience to appreciating it, how it's enriched his life, and the one tip that'll make the biggest difference in your quality of matches. Share your thoughts, feedback, or your own experiences with Tinder at


#12 - The Feels of 2017

Jaemin and Gabe take a look back at the feelings that defined their 2017 - and the ones they're looking forward to exploring in 2018. They also reflect on the 1st birthday of the podcast and share their top Quick Picks of the year! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at Show Notes (3:15) The Feelings of 2017 Gabe's #1 Feeling of 2017: Honesty (10:44) Jaemin's #1 Feeling of 2017: Inspiration (Self-Expression) (16:53) Gabe's #2 Feeling:...