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#303 "State of Affairs Pt2: Telling & Exploring"

5/27/2018
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Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, affair recovery counselors, discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 2, they talk about whether or not to tell about an affair and what issues need to be explored by couples who want to grow on the other side of infidelity. Podcast Index: AffairHealing.com/podcast Get the Book: AffairHealingBook.com Phone Coaching: AffairHealing.com/coaching Couples Retreats: AffairHealing.com/retreats

Duration:00:48:09

#302 "State of Affairs 1: Meaning & Roles"

4/24/2018
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Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, affair recovery counselors, discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 1, they talk about understanding the meaning behind an affair and the role of each partner in the recovery process. Podcast Index: AffairHealing.com/podcast Get the Book: AffairHealingBook.com Phone Coaching: AffairHealing.com/coaching Couples Retreats: AffairHealing.com/retreats

Duration:00:31:16

#301 "Affair Recovery Q&A"

4/1/2018
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In this first episode of a new season, counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder give their responses to four questions asked by callers. 1. What should I do to save my marriage when my husband seems minimally involved in the healing from his affair? 2. How do I deal with my husband's lack of details about his affair? 3. How can I know if I've truly forgiven my spouse? 4. How should I feel about getting angry when something triggers the pain of his affair? Podcast Index:...

Duration:00:45:06

#214 Healing Alone After an Affair

12/12/2017
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Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage. They consider the choices of both the injured partner and involved partner when talking about these issues: 1. Introduction (0:00) 2. When is it time to heal alone? (4:08) 3. Legal Issues (22:46) 4. Emotional Issues (26:40) 5. Parenting & Relationship Issues (39:22) 6. Spiritual Issues (49:58) 7. Final Comments (56:21) Podcast Notes & Resources:...

Duration:00:59:41

Crossing the Line: When Does Infidelity Begin?

10/25/2017
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Counselor Tim Tedder considers the line between fidelity and infidelity and examines two affair stories to gain insight into when and how the lines are crossed. 1. Introduction (0:00) 2. Defining Affairs & Infidelity (1:55) 3. A process of compromise & self-justification (4:26) 3. Tim's Story: Crossing Lines (7:05) 4. Amanda's Story: Crossing Lines (18:15) 5. Conclusions (36:08) Podcast Notes & Resources: AffairHealing.com/podcast213 Get the Book: AffairHealingBook.com Phone Coaching:...

Duration:00:41:20

#212 "Affair Recovery Myths"

10/2/2017
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Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about common affair recovery myths including: 1. Affairs are evidence of a bad marriage. (4:27) 2. The first step in affair recovery should be marriage counseling. (7:00) 3. Hiding painful information is better than causing more hurt. (11:19) 4. Forgiveness requires trusting. (14:47) 5. An affair is too personal to talk about. (18:54) 6. The betrayed spouse will feel relieved once they get an answer to WHY the affair happened. (22:46) Podcast Notes &...

Duration:00:28:45

#210 "7 Things Your Betrayed Partner Wishes You Knew"

8/22/2017
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Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood. Podcast Notes & Resources: http://AffairHealing.com/podcast210 Get the Book: http://AffairHealingBook.com Phone Coaching: http://AffairHealing.com/coaching Couples Retreats: http://AffairHealing.com/retreats

Duration:00:20:59

#205 "8 Affair Counseling Cautions"

4/17/2017
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Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity. Podcast Notes: AffairHealing.com/podcast205 Phone Coaching: AffairHealing.com/coaching Couples Retreats: AffairHealing.com/retreats Online Community: http://Community.AffairHealing.com

Duration:00:22:28

#123 Convo: "Handling the Holidays"

12/23/2016
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Counselors Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras discuss the difficulties often experienced when trying to navigate holiday celebrations while recovering from the trauma of an affair. They also share advice from members of our Community forum. Podcast Archives: http://AffairHealing.com/podcast Phone Coaching: http://AffairHealing.com/phone-coaching Online Community: http://Community.AffairHealing.com Music used in intro: Josh Woodward, Under the Stairs (instrumental), ccmusic.co,...

Duration:00:22:56

#121 Convo: "How Did She Really Feel About Her Affair Partner?"

10/31/2016
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Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder answer a caller's question about how his wife describes her feelings for the affair partner, and recommend a recovery resource for betrayed spouses. Podcast Shownotes: affairhealing.com/podcast121 Phone Coaching with Tim or Sharon: affairhealing.com/coaching Leave a question or comment on our podcast hotline: (407) 536-7398

Duration:00:23:27

#120 "Reaction-Clarity" (Relationship Renewal Stages 2-3)

10/18/2016
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Tim Tedder, an affair recovery counselor, discusses stages 2 and 3 of relationship renewal after an affair: REACTION and CLARITY. He is joined by his wife and co-worker, Sharon, to further discuss some of the issues couples face during these stages. For podcast notes, episode resources, and information about the Relationship Renewal Guide: AffairHealing.com/podcast120 Information about phone coaching with Tim Tedder: AffairHealing.com/coaching Couple's Affair Healing Retreats:...

Duration:00:51:11

#112 "He Said He Didn't Love Me Anymore"

6/5/2016
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Counselor Tim Tedder interviews Robin, whose husband announced one day that he wanted a divorce. As she tells her story, we discuss finding out about an affair, Trickle Truth, snooping, forgiving, trusting, and change.

Duration:00:22:42

#110 "Signs of Real Affair Recovery"

5/20/2016
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Counselor Tim Tedder discusses the evidences to look for in determining whether healthy recovery is happening in a marriage after an affair and talks to a betrayed husband about his part in their marriage healing. [Note: This is a combined re-recording of two earlier podcasts due to the high level of microphone static present in those recordings.]

Duration:00:26:21

#109 Convo: "Needing Affair Closure"

5/15/2016
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Counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder discuss one betrayed spouse's desire for her husband to send a final message to the affair partner nine months after the affair ended and consider the pros and cons of doing so. They also recommend a good book on boundaries along with talking about powdered donuts and Sharon's favorite restaurant.

Duration:00:13:15

#108 Convo: "Reality vs Fantasy"

5/9/2016
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A conversation between husband-and-wife counselors Tim & Sharon Tedder as they discuss a recent forum post about the euphoric feelings in an affair and recommend a good book to read.

Duration:00:12:15

#107 "Children and Affairs"

4/27/2016
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A father talks to his children about their past experience of being in a family that was being torn apart by his affair.

Duration:00:27:28

#105 "One Couple's Affair Healing Story"

4/3/2016
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Tim Tedder interviews Tim & Lori about their journey of recovery from Lori's affair.

Duration:00:47:56

#104 "Ping Pong Effect: The Unfaithful Partner's Indecision"

3/25/2016
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Tim Tedder discusses the pattern of indecision often experienced by a partner who has been unfaithful, swinging back and forth between choosing their spouse or the affair partner.

Duration:00:47:09

#103 "Dealing with Anger After an Affair"

3/20/2016
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Tim Tedder, counselor an d founder of AffairHealing.com, talks about ways in which destructive anger can be used to lead toward healing and connection instead.

Duration:00:20:34