Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast

Recorded: Feb 18th, 2024 / Published: March 24th, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “Top 10 Reasons NOT to Join Your Local Community-S05E23?”We realize that all communities have their own ups and downs and overall cultures. We are not saying that all communities have all, some, or any of these issues. We are speaking generally.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreonhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Kuldrin Entertainment 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: February 4, 2024 / Published: March 19, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disordershttps://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorderhttps://www.psychdb.com/personality/histrionic#:~:text=DSM%2D5%20Diagnostic%20Criteria&text=Interaction%20with%20others%20is%20often,to%20draw%20attention%20to%20selfFor people with histrionic personality disorder, their self-esteem depends on the approval of others and doesn’t come from a true feeling of self-worth. They have an overwhelming desire to be noticed and often behave dramatically or inappropriately to get attention.People with histrionic personality disorder often don’t realize their behavior and way of thinking may be problematic. https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9743-histrionic-personality-disorderImportant Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/522https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.com

Recorded: January 21, 2024 / Published: March 10, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “Professional BDSM Domination: Mistress Mia Darque-S05E21”https://www.justsayred.com/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/521National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: January 7, 2024 / Published:February 25, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disordershttps://neurodivergentinsights.com/blog/dsm-5-criteria-for-borderline-personality-disorderDialectical thinking is the ability to view issues from multiple perspectives and to arrive at the most economical and reasonable reconciliation of seemingly contradictory information and postures. https://www.amazon.com/Hate-You-Dont-Leave-Understanding-Personality/dp/0399536213https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Sobriety-Relationship-Resilience-Balance/dp/0757306098Important Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/520https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701

Recorded: December 17, 2023 / Published: Feb 17, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202009/5-signs-you-might-be-drama-queen#:~:text=Creating%20drama%20was%20one%20way,%2C%20psychopathic%2C%20and%20narcissistic%20disordersImportant Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/519https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: Nov 3rd, 2023 / Published: Fed 4th, 2024 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comImportant Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/518https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Dec 1st, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/15927

Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: , 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comImportant Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/517https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: November 5, 2023 / Published: Dec 31, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://uk.news.yahoo.com/68-women-had-non-consensual-143800598.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAEe7ATbsKgO0pty6e4qxTl1ehc0fP1U7B7LOJ6PUXD52kER9UTWkRS3kf4PVHMrYtFQt-FHvg9wiuZB0IGKnunZkdBZO9jH0XhPfyig5KZjhwQ7kADroYigntXg5WYfsi3NCj-PM3G7b42TSk8nHtttimTjq3O1Se9xfuL28E0XJThe research, carried out by KinkD – a dating app for BDSM and kink enthusiasts, showed that 68% of female respondents claimed to have had a non-consensual kinky experience with people they’d met online who claimed to be into BDSM. Of more than 3,000 women who use online dating apps, more than half said they had experienced a violent or degrading act that hadn’t been agreed upon with prior consent. As BDSM grows in popularity thanks to kinky dating apps, sex clubs and movies like Fifty Shades hitting the mainstream, knowing how to practice kink safely is more important than ever. According to Bedbible, ownership of BDSM equipment, such as ropes and whips, has increased, with 23% having used some form in 2023 compared to only 14% in 2017. So, if you’re planning to allow someone to tie you up because it turns you on, it’s vital that you feel safe. Kink, arguably, is not something that should be practiced with a stranger as it requires a level of trust and a clear understanding of your partner’s interests, intentions and boundaries. However, the internet is a great place to connect with like-minded people who might be into the same stuff as you or have the same sexual fantasies, and that’s why kinky dating apps work so well. "In the diverse landscape of alternative relationship dating, these statistics underscore the importance of constant evolution and vigilant safety measures,” says John Martinuk, the founder of KinkD. “Our commitment isn't just to connect individuals with shared interests but to ensure that their interactions remain consensual and secure. "The kink community is serious about safety, but if you’re new to it, how are you supposed to know who is a safe person to hook up with and who isn’t, and whether someone is being honest about their level of experience? If you’re looking to broaden your horizons and you’re curious about BDSM or trying new kinks or rough sex, there are several things you need to bear in mind before you dive in. This checklist isn’t just about personal responsibility, it’s about ensuring your partner knows the importance of personal respect, safety and boundaries, and the consequences of ignoring these things too. Always have a conversation with your partner before a “scene”, especially if you’re meeting them for the first time. Discuss what you would like to happen, step by step and that any deviations from the plan that haven’t been discussed will require consent before they happen. Agree on a safeword and agree that you’ll use the traffic light system during the session. If something traumatic is happening to you, a common response is to freeze, which makes using your words a challenge. So make sure your partner knows your hand signals too. It’s also important to state before anything happens that you expect the other person to respect you and your boundaries, and if they don’t or if they intend to hurt you, that person will be responsible. Ask them if they’re aware of the laws around consent and if they’re happy to proceed. 68% is a shocking number and with BDSM and kink on the rise in the bedroom – and why not, it can be very fun when practiced properly – it’s up to everyone taking part to have a conversation about consent before, during and after sex. If you've been impacted by the information in this article or think you've been the victim of sexual assault or rape, in the U.S. you can contact National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-4673 if you live in the U.K. contact the 24/7 Rape & Sexual Abuse Support Line 24 hours a day on 0808 500 2222 or...

Recorded: October 15, 2023 / Published: Dec 20, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://nypost.com/2023/08/30/zodiac-signs-secret-sex-fantasy/ Important Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/515https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023): Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: , 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://elle.in/navigating-bsdm-and-kink-with-trauma/1: Understanding Trauma 2: Navigating BDSM 3: Where Kink and Trauma Connect 4: Realizing The Role Kink Plays In Trauma Recovery Important Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/514https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023): Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: September 17, 2023 / Published: Nov 30, 2023 - - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt athttps://kuldrinskrypt.com. - - In this episode, we are all learning together as this was something I never heard of until last night. Depth Play?!?!?! - - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com) - 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed - 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity - 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young - - “What is BDSM Depth Play?-S05E13” - “What Is Depth Play: The Ultimate Guide” - by J Station X: Sports, Video Games and More - https://jstationx.com/what-is-depth-play/ Exploring the world of BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling journey for individuals who are open to exploring their deepest desires. Within the realm of BDSM, there are numerous activities and practices that cater to various interests, one of which is depth play. In this article, we will delve into the concept of depth play, its purpose, and common FAQs associated with it. What Is Depth Play? Depth play is a term used to describe a specific type of BDSM activity that focuses on exploring intense psychological and emotional experiences. It involves delving into the depths of one’s mind and emotions to create intense connections and sensations. Depth play can encompass a wide range of activities, such as intense role-playing scenarios, mind games, sensory deprivation, and more. The Purpose of Depth Play: The primary purpose of depth play is to challenge and explore the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM. It allows participants to push their boundaries, experience intense emotions, and develop a deeper understanding of themselves and their partners. Depth play can create a strong sense of vulnerability, trust, and connection between individuals involved. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs): - Is depth play only for experienced BDSM practitioners? No, depth play can be enjoyed by individuals at any level of experience. However, it is crucial to have open and honest communication with your partner(s) and establish clear boundaries before engaging in any depth play activities. - Is depth play safe? Like any BDSM activity, safety is paramount. It is crucial to engage in depth play with a trusted partner(s) who respects your limits and consent. Establishing a safe word and practicing aftercare are essential aspects of ensuring a safe and consensual experience. - Are there any risks associated with depth play? While depth play can be emotionally intense, it is essential to engage in activities that are within your emotional and psychological limits. Pushing boundaries is encouraged, but it should be done gradually and with the utmost care, ensuring the well-being of all involved parties. - Can depth play be done in a long-distance relationship? Yes, depth play can be adapted to long-distance relationships through various means such as virtual role-playing, intense messaging, or webcam sessions. However, it is crucial to establish clear communication channels and ensure the emotional well-being of all parties involved. - What are some common activities involved in depth play? Common activities may include intense role-playing scenarios, psychological mind games, sensory deprivation, humiliation play, consensual non-consent, and more. The possibilities are extensive and depend on the interests and boundaries of the participants. - How can one prepare for depth play? Preparation for depth play involves open communication, establishing boundaries, and discussing desires, limits, and potential triggers with your partner(s). Engaging in aftercare activities, such as emotional support and debriefing, is also crucial for a positive experience. - Can depth play be therapeutic? For some individuals, depth play can be therapeutic, as it allows them to explore and process deep-seated...

Recorded: Aug 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comImportant Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/512https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Oct. 18, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “So, You're Not Kinky, What Now?-S05E11”https://hellogiggles.com/i-tried-being-kinky/I’ve had hundreds of sex partners, yet I’ve always been a bit hesitant about venturing into the world of fetishes. A lot of my sexually liberated friends think you’re not really good at sex until you’ve tried everything in the book: sex parties, swinging, furries, pony play, wax play… the list goes on and on.But sometimes I get overwhelmed just visiting a sex shop. Will a latex bodysuit chafe my nipples? How many calories are in edible panties? Does a leather whip really need a bluetooth speaker?And then there’s the question of why even bother with all this off-the-wall stuff when the simple act itself is pretty damn good. My therapist once told me kink is always rooted in something much deeper than the act of sex itself.“It’s why all these CEOs are into dominatrixes and humiliation,” she explained. “They spend their days screaming at lower level employees and manipulating people into doing what they need to build their business. They want to be dommed because they want someone else to make the decisions for once.”I certainly am not looking to sex to alleviate work-related imbalances. But I did wonder, am I really not sexually adventurous if I’m kink-averse? Am I missing out? I decided to explore it more, and this is what I learned. Apparently, butt stuff isn’t kinky BDSM is such a head trip Costumes are expensive .And then there are some things I just flat out won’t doI Stop telling me I’ll “find my kink” eventually Important Links: Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/511National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated Aug 13, 2023): Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are podcast sponsors.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin

Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: Oct 4, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/23/i-am-kinky-but-my-partner-is-not-should-i-end-our-secure-loving-relationshipI have been in a loving relationship for three years. When I first met him, I told a close friend that I thought I’d met the love of my life. That initial infatuation gave way to a more realistic affection, but he’s smart, handsome and caring. I enjoy our time together and feel secure and trusting. Sexually, things were enjoyable at the beginning. That calmed down into a less frantic dynamic but we still have sex once per week.I am kinky and he is not. We have discussed this and he doesn’t feel comfortable doing the things that I enjoy. Initially, I thought this would be OK – relationships always have compromise – but as time has gone on I am not sure it is something I can forgo. He has made clear that an open relationship would not be acceptable to him.I have an anonymous online profile on a kink dating site. I started talking with someone who shared my interests. We met, and the sexual encounter was satisfying to a level I have never experienced before. We have continued to meet on a weekly basis for six months. Neither party knows about the other.I do not want to end my relationship, but I cannot live without this aspect of my sexuality. I feel guilt about being unfaithful but exploring in this way has enabled me to stay in the relationship. Should I leave my partner because of the gap between our sexual tastes? Should I give up my kink desires for what is otherwise a relationship I would have no reason to leave? My boyfriend’s aggressive dog has stalled our plans to move in together. How can we move forward? Eleanor says: Listen, it’s fine to feel that this part of your sexuality is something you can’t live without. It’s also fine to decide that a relationship isn’t going to work because of that. We get to leave relationships when staying would mean being bereft over missing out on something. That doesn’t get less true just because the thing in question is sexual. You could leave if you wanted kids and your partner didn’t; if you wanted to live in a particular country and your partner didn’t. Continuing a relationship isn’t just a question of whether you like this person, it’s a question of whether your lives can really dovetail. But what’s never going to be fine is continually deceiving your partner into staying in a relationship that isn’t the way they think it is or the way they want it to be. You say your partner has been clear that he wouldn’t be alright with an open relationship. Unbeknown to him, though, he’s already been in one, and continuing these meetups is continuing to keep him in an arrangement you know he wouldn’t be OK with. Your partner will be making sacrifices to be in this relationship. They might differ from the sacrifices you make in their content and exact contours, but all of us change our lives and reorder our priorities to be in a relationship. So far as I can tell, you’re accepting this person’s sacrifices – monogamy, commitment, support, cooperation, friendship. He’s making considerable alterations to his life in order to have a certain kind of relationship with you, which, in fact, he isn’t getting. It is not deviant or selfish to decide that you have to have this part of yourself satisfied. For many of us, sexuality isn’t an optional extra to a life well-lived, it’s just as crucial an ingredient in wellbeing as friends or exercise or time with family. The fact that it’s called “kink” and gets relegated to the sidelines of subculture doesn’t mean you have to relegate it to the sidelines of your life. But it’s just never going to be the case that the best thing to do would be to carry on deceiving someone who you respect. Quite aside from the obvious unfairness, it also won’t get you what you want – not really. You want to feel electric. You don’t want to...

Recorded: July 2, 2023 / Published: August 10, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://stylecaster.com/lifestyle/love-sex/1388127/what-is-edging/Important Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/508https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.

Recorded: June 18, 2023 / Published: Sept. 2, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “Most Things to Know About BDSM Brats-S05E07”“A beginner's guide to being a 'brat' in BDSM”https://mashable.com/article/bdsm-brats-explained“Make me.” According to the Fetlife Kinktionairy, a brat is defined as “A person who likes to exhibit one or more of the following behaviors: teasing, playful, sneaky, mischievous, stubborn, rebellious, disrespectful, or disobedient. This behavior may be a component of their power exchange relationship and should be consented to beforehand”Emerson Karsh, a kink educator, said “A "brat" is a delightfully disobedient sub within the Dom/sub dynamic in BDSM. "Brats enjoy questioning dominance, as well as like for dominance to be proven to them."- Why would you want to be a brat during play or sex? Why wouldn't you? Being cheeky, disobedient, snarky, and naughty can be fun. It creates a sense of playfulness that is often missing in sex. Being a brat is a very fun way to engage with your submissive side, without being a stereotypical sub. Brats are mouthy, badly behaved, and keen on punishment."Brats get great enjoyment from playing [a game of] cat and mouse, defying authority, and in turn receiving a ‘punishment’ from their Brat Tamer," explains Julieta Chiaramonte, another kink instructor and sex expert.If you’re turned on by disobedience, this might be something you want to explore.-What it means to be a 'brat.'The brat can be a very fun submissive persona. A brat intentionally misbehaves in order to get a rise out of their Dom, often eliciting "punishments." The brat enjoys driving the Dom a bit mad with their naughtiness. It’s all centered around defying authority, which can be very hot.A brat will taunt, push boundaries, and test their Dom’s limits and patience in hopes of causing a reaction. The Brat Tamer/brat dynamic is typically very playful and easily adjusted for nearly any consenting dynamic. -How is this submission?Brats offer their submission in a way that is amusing, consensual, and done for a reaction. You’re not being obedient in the traditional D/s way, but a brat will submit when their Dom decides to punish them.-The Dom is the 'brat tamer.'They may choose to go by a different name like Sir, Daddy, Mommy,or whatever but the brat tamer is their style of Domination.Their 'role' is to put their brat in their place, remind them of the rules, and enforce punishments and order that was negotiated. While it may not appear like it to some Brat Tamer is an authoritative and patient role that one must be comfortable and confident with accepting.Brat Tamer is not a soft roll. You can not be afraid to put your foot down. It takes a lot of skill and development. You have to hone your skills in giving your brat space to be a brat and maintain a healthy power exchange. It could be through punishments, orders, ignoring the brat or the behavior, or something else.-How brats act out and how they get punished.Ask a thousand people and get a thousand answers. However, here are a few common examples for each:-How to engage in brat play in a safe way.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/507National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the...

Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”“Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink KEY POINTSCriminal Conflict With BDSM EPP: Explicit Prior PermissionImportant Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/506https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: May 21, 2023 / Published: August 12, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.com- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)- “Let’s Talk about Rough Sex-S05E05”https://theface.com/life/why-is-everyone-so-into-rough-sex-right-now-dating-relationships-advice Important Links: Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/505National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift: Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC 257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168 Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3https://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: May 7, 2023 / Published: August 5, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/504Important Links: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/504https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.) http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3https://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Recorded: July 16, 2023 / Published: July 21, 2023 https://kuldrinskrypt.comhttps://inclusionwoodworks.comhttps://AllMyLinks.com/RedAndBlackMoviehttps://www.indiegogo.com/projects/red-and-black-heist-movie/x/33237469Important Links:https://kuldrinskrypt.com/509https://www.kapprofessionals.orghttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationhttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/surveyhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublicShow Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701 Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)http://bdsmcontracts.orghttp://whippingstripes.comhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimberhttps://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonisthttps://darkdelightsshop.com/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShopContact info:MasterKuldrin@gmail.comhttps://fetlife.com/groups/159275@MasterKuldrinhttps://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinkuldrinskrypthttps://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt