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Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.

Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.
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Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.






Bedroom Confidence & Pleasure Positivity

Caitlin V, sex & relationship coach, gets real about what's happening in the bedroom from overuse of porn to being pleasure positive. Headlines include JLo giving dating advice, the impact of paternity leave, and which dating app is popular in your state. Questions of the week include what "casually dating" means on Tinder and how to give positive encouragement when you're getting oral pleasure. Then, Damona does a diatribe on desiring qualities in a mate that you don't really...


Election Day & Dating

In honor of Election Day, Cyberdating Expert Julie Spira shares tips from her research on dating across party lines and talks about her book “Love in the Age of Trump: How Politics is Polarizing Relationships.” Headlines: Why fertility rates are declining in the US, Meghan Markle’s “pre-pup” pregnancy contract, and Bumble’s plan to end ghosting. Questions from listeners include: what to do when you are no longer attracted to your spouse and when to consider yourself to have been ghosted....


Happy Halloween & Dating Horror Stories

The annual Halloween episode is back with all new dating horror stories from Karrine Steffans, Troy from LA, Brett of the Open Mic Podcast with Brett Allan, Amber, and fan favorite from last year Tavishya. After handling the headlines including a celebrity pregnancy, the reason why people stay in bad relationships, and what your sexual fantasies say about you, Damona dives into crazy first dates and offers advice on how you can avoid suffering the same fate. Green Chef is giving Dates &...


Dating Safety & You've Got Mail

In honor of National Cyber Security Month, LA Times contributor Elise Oberliesen share tips from her research on online dating safety. Millennial dating coach Evin Rose joins to comment on the headlines: Pete Davidson got the ring back but Ariana kept the pig, why you and your partner look alike, Hillary Clinton debates Monica Lewinsky, and how dating apps may be spreading racism. Questions include: is it ok to ask out your professor and what can you do if your boyfriend says he's...


Cuffing Season & Swipe With Spirit

Cuffing season, the time when we crave relationships is here and Dominique Clark, matchmaker & love guru gives tips on how to level up your romantic liaisons. Headlines: Relationship tips from Big Bang Theory's Kaley Cuoco, how to spot a Sneater, and should you survey your exes for feedback. Questions from listeners include: how to navigate broken promises in a long distance relationship and what are the rules on social media representation for your significant other. Damona wraps the show...


Gender Identity & Astrology of Love

Love Astrologer Carol Allen guest co-hosts while Jasmine Luna and Harry Caldwell share their experiences with the fluidity of sexuality and gender identity. Headlines include: why the divorce rate is declining, what Gen Z is getting right about dating and Bert & Ernie's relationship status. Questions of the week include how to handle dating multiple people online and how to know if you're being blown off for a second date. Get Carol's compatibility report half off HERE using the offer code...


Man School & The Guy Spy

The Guy Spy, Jonathon Aslay co-hosts with Damona to interview the author of Man School: Relating With Women in the #MeToo Era, Matthew Solomon. Headlines include Kourtney Kardashian challenges the double standards about age and dating, how your relationship could be making you fat, and why so many people will not disclose to a new partner that they have an STI. Questions of the week include what to do if your man no longer wants sex and when is the right time to have "the talk" to...


Yoga For Love & Textationships

Yoga teacher & doula Rebecca Benenati of gives insights on how yoga can impact your relationship or your dating disposition in honor of Yoga Awareness Month. Headlines include the most right-swiped jobs on Tinder, the 7 traits your long-term partner should have, and how Wiz Khalifa and Amber Rose co-parent successfully. Technically Dating questions include how to stop dating unavailable men, how to tell if someone has a crush, and what workaholics need to do to find...


What Women Want & Seeking Arrangement

Millennial Dating Coach Evin Rose joins Damona to discuss the headlines including why Tinder dates aren't turning into relationships, what to wear on a first date, and are sugar babies bad for feminism. A panel of single women say what they really in a man and Damona delivers a message to Ariana Grande, Mac Miller fans, and anyone in a toxic relationship. Questions of week include should you tell your dates that you're going out with other people, how can you ask your partner for a threesome...


The Mind of Men & Dating App Stats

Relationship Expert Brett McGinn of handles headlines with Damona including surprising new dating app statistics, the dangers of on again off again relationships, and why John Krasinski is the best dad ever. Plus we go inside the mind of men with two single guys in LA who discuss what it's really like dating today then everyone addresses your questions in Technically Dating including should you have sex with your significant other even if you don't feel like it plus...


Super Mamas & Relationship Standards

Super Mamas Podcast host Paulina Lopez and guest co-host psychotherapist Rhonda Richards-Smith join Damona to discuss how moms can still be sexy. Rhonda takes on the headlines including: How dating apps have affected the rate of STDs, Aziz Ansari's comedy in the #MeToo era, and how your relationship standards change once you're couple up. Questions from listeners include: how to avoid strange requests on dating apps, should you see your ex again, and is it ok for your man to DM an instagram...


Bossip TV & The Tinder Trick

We TV's Bossip TV hosts Danielle 'Dani' Canada & Alana Danielle Gatling hit the headlines with Damona including the Tinder social experiment that swept NYC, Bumble Bizz & Bumble BFF, and the engagement of Priyanka Chopra & Nick Jonas (which Dates & Mates predicted back in episode 220.) Questions from listeners include how to Facebook sleuth on your man and how much makeup a woman should wear to a date. Try and get $10 off your first box with the code DatesandMates Visit...


Marriage Secrets & Out of Your League

Storyteller Shannon Cason (Homemade Stories & WBEZ Chicago's The Trouble with Shannon Cason) joins with his wife Cindy to share the secrets that almost tore their marriage apart and how they've weathered the relationship storms. Plus, Relationship Scientist Ryeal Simms handles the headlines with Damona including how dating apps can score you a job, the impact of working from home on your relationship, and Iggy Azalea's whiplash dating week. Questions from listeners include how long your...


Summer Date Ideas & FWB Feelings

International Matchmaker Jessica Fass joins Damona in studio along with Producer J to share great summer date ideas to heat things up in love while the weather is still warm. Headlines include: harsh criticism for The Bachelor and dating shows in the era of #MeToo, what your date's texting habits mean, and Facebook's new dating app. Plus questions from listeners like what do you do if you are catching feelings for a friend with benefits (FWB) and how can you get a $1000 loan back from...


Season 6 Teaser

TV Dating Expert Damona Hoffman is back with the dating advice and relationship tips you need. In this teaser, she shares the deeper reason why she does this show and gives a sneak peek of what's to come this season. Weekly episodes return August 13th.


Game Dating & Hookup Culture

More's new dating app Crown is launching in LA and Andrew Lee Miller, head of marketing for the app gives us the inside scoop. Plus, Lea Rose Emery from Bustle shares her thoughts on dating feminism and hookup culture. Headlines include the differences between how men and women fall in love, a new literary dating term, and scientific data on how men can appear more attractive. Questions from listeners cover how to handle your parents giving money to your boyfriend and getting busy at...


Single Moms & Summer Solstice

Rachel DeAlto, relationship expert from the hit show Married at First Sight shares tips on flirting, dating after divorce, and more. Headlines include Chris Pratt's romantic life, a new dating term for the summer, and The Proposal on ABC. Plus questions from listeners including dealing with long distance love and how long does it take after divorce for someone to fall in love again? Get free shipping and free gifts at using the offer code GIFT21 has a...


Dating While Disabled & Pride Month

Dating While Disabled author Christy Goldstein shares her tips for dating with a disability or mental illness. Plus, headlines on why most women cheat, drinking and dating, new dating terminolgy, and Survivor's Zeke Smith is dating Superstore's Nico Santos. Plus questions from listeners like how to handle a crush on an older man and handling a narcissist partner. Then, the romance rollback reviews the orgins of Pride Month. Find more advice from Christy Goldstein at...


Breaking Up & Bouncing Back

The Millennial Love Expert, Samantha Burns, discusses strategies from her new book Breaking Up & Bouncing Back for overcoming the loss of a relationship and learning to love again. Headlines include: Bustle's study on people's top dating frustrations, how people change through marriage, and the real deal on Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas. Questions from listeners cover how to respond to requests for full body pics and what to do if you have a crush on a guy who already has a...


Love Addiction & Dating Intuition

Sherry Gaba, psychotherapist and star of Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew and Sober House, joins to discuss her new book The Marriage and Relationship Junkie: Kicking Your Addiction. Headlines of the week include depressions link to dating apps, marriage rates in millennials, and a romance brewing between Eminem and Nicki Minaj. Questions from listeners include does your dating pool shrink over 50 and what to do if you find compromising photos on your husband's phone. Take the love addiction...