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Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.

Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.
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Dating Expert Damona Hoffman (TV Personality, Huffington Post and JDate columnist) talks about love in the modern world with experts in dating, marriage, breakups and hookups.






Intimacy for Men & Rebel Love: Bonus Episode

Dr. Chris Donaghue, host of the Loveline Radio show "Amber Rose show with Dr. Chris", Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist, talks intimacy for men, gender norms, and feminist dating in a special bonus episode of Dates & Mates. Damona and Dr. Chris also answer a listener question about getting ghosted on a date. Get Dr Chris's new book Rebel Love: Break the Rules, Destroy Toxic Habits, and Have the Best Sex of Your Life


Addiction & Love

Dr. Cali Estes, an addiction therapist and life coach, tells us the truth about addiction and love. What are the signs you might be in love with a junkie? How do you get your partner help? Headlines include: Is Demi Lovato's new relationship with her sober companion unhealthy, the perfect time to date online in 2019 and how much pre-date research is too much. Damona and Dr. Cali Estes also answer questions from listeners including: how to avoid a co-dependent relationship and how to talk...


Religion & Relationships

Damona is joined by Evan Marc Katz, one of the foremost dating experts for women in the world, to talk about their own experiences in interfaith relationships and lead a panel on navigating cross-cultural romance. Tiffany Renee shares her experiences dating in LA as a Muslim woman and Katy & Matt Snyder, celebrate their 15th wedding anniversary by sharing insights on how they've managed a PerJewvian relationship and raised their two children. Headlines include: Who is responsible for the...


Master Class: How to Meet Your Match

Damona puts her certified dating coach skills to the test by leading a master class with tips, tools, and techniques to meet your match. Whether you are single because you are tired of wasting time on bad dates, you work too much to date or you are just picky, this show is for you. Headlines include what going down in Rihanna's DMs, the most important quality for a long term relationship to last, and your secret Tinder score revealed. Questions from listeners include: how long it should take...


Masculine & Feminine

Barry Selby, relationship attraction expert, shares his insights on male and female dynamics, self love, and how to transform through a unique type of meditation. Headlines of the week include Michelle Williams' interracial relationship, hereditary relationship patterns, and BumbleSpots. Questions from listeners include what to do if your boyfriend's mom meddles in your relationship and when to reveal a crush. Get Barry's meditation at Get the Texting 10 Commandments...


Bedroom Confidence & Pleasure Positivity

Caitlin V, sex & relationship coach, gets real about what's happening in the bedroom from overuse of porn to being pleasure positive. Headlines include JLo giving dating advice, the impact of paternity leave, and which dating app is popular in your state. Questions of the week include what "casually dating" means on Tinder and how to give positive encouragement when you're getting oral pleasure. Then, Damona does a diatribe on desiring qualities in a mate that you don't really...


Election Day & Dating

In honor of Election Day, Cyberdating Expert Julie Spira shares tips from her research on dating across party lines and talks about her book “Love in the Age of Trump: How Politics is Polarizing Relationships.” Headlines: Why fertility rates are declining in the US, Meghan Markle’s “pre-pup” pregnancy contract, and Bumble’s plan to end ghosting. Questions from listeners include: what to do when you are no longer attracted to your spouse and when to consider yourself to have been ghosted....


Happy Halloween & Dating Horror Stories

The annual Halloween episode is back with all new dating horror stories from Karrine Steffans, Troy from LA, Brett of the Open Mic Podcast with Brett Allan, Amber, and fan favorite from last year Tavishya. After handling the headlines including a celebrity pregnancy, the reason why people stay in bad relationships, and what your sexual fantasies say about you, Damona dives into crazy first dates and offers advice on how you can avoid suffering the same fate. Green Chef is giving Dates &...


Dating Safety & You've Got Mail

In honor of National Cyber Security Month, LA Times contributor Elise Oberliesen share tips from her research on online dating safety. Millennial dating coach Evin Rose joins to comment on the headlines: Pete Davidson got the ring back but Ariana kept the pig, why you and your partner look alike, Hillary Clinton debates Monica Lewinsky, and how dating apps may be spreading racism. Questions include: is it ok to ask out your professor and what can you do if your boyfriend says he's...


Cuffing Season & Swipe With Spirit

Cuffing season, the time when we crave relationships is here and Dominique Clark, matchmaker & love guru gives tips on how to level up your romantic liaisons. Headlines: Relationship tips from Big Bang Theory's Kaley Cuoco, how to spot a Sneater, and should you survey your exes for feedback. Questions from listeners include: how to navigate broken promises in a long distance relationship and what are the rules on social media representation for your significant other. Damona wraps the show...


Gender Identity & Astrology of Love

Love Astrologer Carol Allen guest co-hosts while Jasmine Luna and Harry Caldwell share their experiences with the fluidity of sexuality and gender identity. Headlines include: why the divorce rate is declining, what Gen Z is getting right about dating and Bert & Ernie's relationship status. Questions of the week include how to handle dating multiple people online and how to know if you're being blown off for a second date. Get Carol's compatibility report half off HERE using the offer...


Man School & The Guy Spy

The Guy Spy, Jonathon Aslay co-hosts with Damona to interview the author of Man School: Relating With Women in the #MeToo Era, Matthew Solomon. Headlines include Kourtney Kardashian challenges the double standards about age and dating, how your relationship could be making you fat, and why so many people will not disclose to a new partner that they have an STI. Questions of the week include what to do if your man no longer wants sex and when is the right time to have "the talk" to...


Yoga For Love & Textationships

Yoga teacher & doula Rebecca Benenati of gives insights on how yoga can impact your relationship or your dating disposition in honor of Yoga Awareness Month. Headlines include the most right-swiped jobs on Tinder, the 7 traits your long-term partner should have, and how Wiz Khalifa and Amber Rose co-parent successfully. Technically Dating questions include how to stop dating unavailable men, how to tell if someone has a crush, and what workaholics need to do to find...


What Women Want & Seeking Arrangement

Millennial Dating Coach Evin Rose joins Damona to discuss the headlines including why Tinder dates aren't turning into relationships, what to wear on a first date, and are sugar babies bad for feminism. A panel of single women say what they really in a man and Damona delivers a message to Ariana Grande, Mac Miller fans, and anyone in a toxic relationship. Questions of week include should you tell your dates that you're going out with other people, how can you ask your partner for a...


The Mind of Men & Dating App Stats

Relationship Expert Brett McGinn of handles headlines with Damona including surprising new dating app statistics, the dangers of on again off again relationships, and why John Krasinski is the best dad ever. Plus we go inside the mind of men with two single guys in LA who discuss what it's really like dating today then everyone addresses your questions in Technically Dating including should you have sex with your significant other even if you don't feel like it plus...


Super Mamas & Relationship Standards

Super Mamas Podcast host Paulina Lopez and guest co-host psychotherapist Rhonda Richards-Smith join Damona to discuss how moms can still be sexy. Rhonda takes on the headlines including: How dating apps have affected the rate of STDs, Aziz Ansari's comedy in the #MeToo era, and how your relationship standards change once you're couple up. Questions from listeners include: how to avoid strange requests on dating apps, should you see your ex again, and is it ok for your man to DM an instagram...


Bossip TV & The Tinder Trick

We TV's Bossip TV hosts Danielle 'Dani' Canada & Alana Danielle Gatling hit the headlines with Damona including the Tinder social experiment that swept NYC, Bumble Bizz & Bumble BFF, and the engagement of Priyanka Chopra & Nick Jonas (which Dates & Mates predicted back in episode 220.) Questions from listeners include how to Facebook sleuth on your man and how much makeup a woman should wear to a date. Try and get $10 off your first box with the code DatesandMates Visit...


Marriage Secrets & Out of Your League

Storyteller Shannon Cason (Homemade Stories & WBEZ Chicago's The Trouble with Shannon Cason) joins with his wife Cindy to share the secrets that almost tore their marriage apart and how they've weathered the relationship storms. Plus, Relationship Scientist Ryeal Simms handles the headlines with Damona including how dating apps can score you a job, the impact of working from home on your relationship, and Iggy Azalea's whiplash dating week. Questions from listeners include how long your...


Summer Date Ideas & FWB Feelings

International Matchmaker Jessica Fass joins Damona in studio along with Producer J to share great summer date ideas to heat things up in love while the weather is still warm. Headlines include: harsh criticism for The Bachelor and dating shows in the era of #MeToo, what your date's texting habits mean, and Facebook's new dating app. Plus questions from listeners like what do you do if you are catching feelings for a friend with benefits (FWB) and how can you get a $1000 loan back from...


Season 6 Teaser

TV Dating Expert Damona Hoffman is back with the dating advice and relationship tips you need. In this teaser, she shares the deeper reason why she does this show and gives a sneak peek of what's to come this season. Weekly episodes return August 13th.