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557 The Wet Coast Confessions of an Anxious Slut

6/21/2018
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We chat with Kat Stark, blogger, podcaster, and author of Yelling in Pasties: the Wet Coast Confessions of an Anxious Slut 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Host chat Episode 555 intro music has been fixed—thanks to those who wrote in to let me know of the errorThank you to everyone who bought our books—we’re coming to Paris this fall, thanks to your purchases!Come to the Life on the Swingset LGBTQIA+ takeover of the...

Duration:00:32:23

556 Are shared calendars enough?

5/28/2018
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A listener writes in to ask why she was surprised with her partner's dating someone else, even with shared calendars. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Host chat The Netflix Party Chrome plugin lets you watch the same Netflix show simultaneously at different locations, and it has a chat feature! 3:00 Are shared calendars enough? A listener is in a closed triad of eight months, joining a married couple (D and Y) of...

Duration:00:17:17

555 How to weed out the jerks

5/13/2018
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A listener writes in to ask how to weed out the jerks when dating. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Host chat Kevin Patterson Love’s Not Color Blind 3:10 How to weed out the jerks Heather writes in to ask whether she should leave “poly” off her dating profile, since the last few guys either dumped her for someone else or might have been lying about being divorced. How does one weed out the creeps when dating? No...

Duration:00:17:32

554 Grief and loss in relationships

5/6/2018
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Dr. Liz Powell shares advice on dealing with grief and loss in relationships 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements We had a great time and debuted our new class,, The Art of the Breakup, at RelateCon in Boise, Idaho. Thanks for having us! 3:00 Dealing with grief and loss in relationships Dr. Liz Powell shares insights from her class at RelateCon on dealing with grief and loss in relationships, both in terms...

Duration:00:35:30

553 What if my metamour won't meet me?

4/22/2018
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What if my metamour won't meet me? My metamour asked my partner to uninvite me to an event he'd invited me to to avoid meeting me, and now I feel displaced. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Southwest Love Fest April 6-8The Art of the Breakup 5:00 What if my metamour won’t meet me? Nick from New Orleans wants to meet his metamours, but his partner’s lovers don’t want to meet him, and she would typically...

Duration:00:32:17

552 My wife chose her lover over me

3/25/2018
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Cesar's wife told him she missed him and then left to be with her lover. Is the solution to tell her not to say she misses him? 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Southwest Love Fest April 6-8The Art of the Breakupstreaming on Hulu The Secret History of Wonder Woman Americanah 7:45 Poly in the News A poly quad was on the Today show on March 1 and holy crap it was great 10:00 My wife chose her lover over...

Duration:00:29:39

551 Dating the strong, silent type

3/13/2018
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Is it OK to date someone who doesn't communicate well if he's all that's available and I like him? 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Take the Relations Decisions Lab survey and click Participants>Open Relationship survey if you are currently monogamous and looking to open up your relationshipCome to Poly Dallas Millennium in Dallas this year! 4:15 Listener question: is it OK to date the strong, silent...

Duration:00:17:33

550 Ask a poly lawyer

3/4/2018
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Ben Shenker, a lawyer practicing in Maryland and D.C., answers your poly questions 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Take the Relations Decisions Lab survey and click Participants>Open Relationship survey if you are currently monogamous and looking to open up your relationshipWe’ll be at Southwest Love Fest next month! 3:15 Ask Benjamin Shenker, a poly lawyer Listeners call and write in to ask: Besides...

Duration:00:31:27

549 How to get what you want out of swinging

2/25/2018
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Diana Ryan and Kieland McClellan advise on how to get the most out of swinging as a person of color. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Email PolyLoveStudy@gmail.com if you are 18 or over, live in Canada or the US, are poly with at least one partner, and are willing to participate in a study that requires 12 monthly surveys. 2:30 How to get what you want out of swinging Diana Ryan and Kieland McClellan...

Duration:00:30:17

548 How I used science to hack my love life

2/18/2018
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Brenda Wiebe discusses her new book, Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love Life 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:15 Announcements Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack My Love LifeKitty Chambliss’ Patreon for her new podcast on Love Without Boundaries 3:20 Poly in the News podcast on marriage com article on a poly dad Polyamory in Iceland 8:05 Brenda Weibe: Catch & Release: How I Used Science to Hack...

Duration:00:35:18

547 Reassurances in long distance relationships

2/13/2018
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How to you reassure your new poly partner when you're going to be 8,000 miles away for the next three years? 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:15 Announcements Congratulations to Brooklynn Clark on winning an advance copy of Love’s Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative CommunitiesWe'll be at Southwest Love Festin Tucson, AZ April 7-9And we'll be at RelateCon in Boise, ID April...

Duration:00:21:49

546 Hierarchies and power dynamics in poly

2/4/2018
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Erich Viedge interviews Chris Deaton about polyamory and BDSM 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:15 Announcements Southwest Love FestRelateCon 2:00 Poly in the news The tabloids are loving poly story packages 6:30 Interview: Chris Deaton on hierarchy and power dynamics in polyamory Our South African correspondent Erich Viedge interviews researcher Chris Deaton on hierarchy and power dynamics in polyamory. He is doing a...

Duration:00:29:04

545 Kevin Patterson on Love's Not Color Blind

1/25/2018
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Kevin Patterson discusses his soon-to-be-released new book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamory 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Announcements Solo Poly Con is in Seattle in April with early bird pricing until January 31 #sopoco18Take the Relations Decisions Lab survey and click Participants>Open Relationship survey if you are currently monogamous and looking to open up your relationshipLush’s...

Duration:00:31:50

544 Sisterhood in poly with Iris Muscarella

1/11/2018
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Educator, business owner, and burlesque performer Iris Muscarella discusses the importance of nurturing sisterhood in polyamory 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Interview: Iris Muscarella on sisterhood in polyamory New insights on relationship anarchy Andie Nordren on relationship anarchywhat is sisterhood exactly, and what does that look like in polyamory?What advice would you give to women who feel they aren’t good...

Duration:00:34:54

542 When your partner is dating a drama queen

12/28/2017
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Is it OK to use your veto power if your metamour is a drama queen to the point that your needs aren't being met? 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Intro and host chat Lusty Guy cohosts, and we talk over how our polycule handled the holidays this year. Also, Threadfinder writes in to let us know the Baton Rouge Open and Poly (BROP) group is doing well, and they are also hosting Drums in the Swamp. 9:00 My partner is...

Duration:00:24:09

541 French poly filmmaker Isa Lutine

12/17/2017
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Erich Viedge interviews French poly filmmaker Isa Lutine, a.k.a. Isabelle Broué, about her latest poly film. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Intro and host chat Nurse, counselor and poly educator Kathy Labriola shares her poly holiday survival guide tips in a guest blog post. 2:45 Poly in the news Sudden abundance of black and poly web series and filmsPolyamory is one of the most popular relationship search terms...

Duration:00:34:06

540 Jealousy Survival Guide with Kitty Chambliss

12/8/2017
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Kitty Chambliss shares her insights on jealousy and the Jealousy Survival Guide 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Intro and host chat We’re on Spotify! 1:50 Poly in the news Polyamory in Sicilon Valley 4:10 Interview: Kitty Chambliss, author of the Jealousy Survival Guide Kitty Chambliss is a #1 Amazon best selling author, relationship coach, polyamorous and sex-positive speaker, activist, and founder of Loving...

Duration:00:35:02

539 Guide to Nonmonogamy for Men Into Women

11/30/2017
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Pepper Mint discusses his new book, Playing Fair: Guide to Nonmonogamy for Men Into Women 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Intro and host chat Minx apologizes for not publishing the last two weeks due to work and family obligations, but yay, we have an interview with Pepper this week! 2:00 Interview: Pepper Mint Pepper Mint is an activist, educator, and community organizer in the polyamory and BDSM communities in...

Duration:00:31:59

538 Coming out as poly to your kids

11/9/2017
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South African correspondent Erich Viedge interviews sex educator Casey Blake for tips on how to talk about your poly relationships and your general polyamory with your kids: 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Intro and host chat So excited to bring you another piece out of South Africa. The audio line wasn’t the best, but we hope the great interview shines through! 2:30 Interview: Casey Blake Casey Blake is a South...

Duration:00:24:38

537: Consensual sex ed with Ignacio Rivera

11/2/2017
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Ignacio Rivera shares their latest work on a variety of topics, including consensual sex education 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:30 Sponsorship: Relationship Decisions Lab is looking for survey respondents! The University of Utah Relationship Decisions Lab is looking for survey respondents who are looking to open up their relationships for the first time or who have opened it up before but are looking to open up...

Duration:00:38:55