Sex With Emily

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice. In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one! In this episode, you’ll learn: Why taking a break from dating can reset your emotional boundaries How to embrace authenticity in relationships Practical tips to avoid awkward bedroom moments Show Notes: Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"! More Violet Benson: @DaddyIssues_ | @VioletBenson | Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

‘Tis the season to give and receive! In this episode, I’m unwrapping the 2024 Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide to help you bring more pleasure to your loved ones—and yourself—this year. From wellness essentials to stocking stuffers and, of course, must-have sex toys, there’s something for everyone on your list (yes, even your grandparents!). I’ll share my top picks, tips for introducing a partner to toys, and why the gift of pleasure is truly the gift that keeps on giving. In this episode, you’ll learn: When and how to gift a sex toy. Tips for introducing toys into your relationship. Emily’s favorite pleasure-filled gifts for the holidays. Show Notes: Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide: 2024 Edition Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Episode Sponsored By: Try Popstar Volume + Taste Supplement! (Use code "EMILY" for 20% off (excl. 3-pack)) ILY Pebble Vibrator by Je Joue (Use Code "EMILY30" for 30% off your order) VIIA High Love Gummies + Vape Bundle (11/19-12/3: 25% Off Sitewide & Up to 50% Off Other Select Items & Bundles Sitewide (No Code)- After 12/3: Use code "EMILY" for 15% off) Morgasm CBD- Infused Lube & "O" Lube (11/19 - 12/2: Purchase any single tube or discounted bundle and receive a free lube with code "EMILYBF" Solaray Her Life Stages ( Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 15% off your order) Just Thrive Total Body Boost (11/23-12/3: Use code "SWE" for 25% off sitewide) Je Joue Hera Flex Rabbit Vibrator (Head to sexwithemily.com/hera and use code “EMILY30” at checkout for 30% off.) Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic (Visit lelo.com and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.) Bathmate Penis Pumps( 11/25-12/4: Up to 35% off all pumps (no code); After 12/4: Use code EMILY for 10% off your order) See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases. Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why open conversations about finances are just as crucial as discussing intimacy in relationships The power of the “prenup conversation” for a stronger relationship Why understanding each other’s relationship expectations can prevent major conflicts down the line Show Notes: More Laura Wasser: Instagram | Office Divorce.com: Instagram | Website | Facebook | Twitter (X) | Youtube | Tiktok Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused. Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there. In this episode, you’ll learn: Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it Show Notes: Try the LELO ENIGMA Wave Today! (Use code "EMILY20" at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.) More Jen Winston: Instagram | Twitter (X) | Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy. In this episode, you’ll learn: Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy Show Notes: Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code "EMILY"! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires. Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife. Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life.​ Show Notes: More Dr. Wednesday Martin: Instagram | X | Website | Book Enter the Solaray giveaway now! Entries end on 10/21 at 11:59 PM PT and the winner will be chosen on 10/22. Follow @solarayvitamins and @sexwithemily on instagram Like our giveaway post on our Instagram Tag your friends in the comments – each tag gets you an entry, so go ahead and tag all your people! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to talk to your partner about sex or trying something new How to get better at oral How to spice up your sex life How to increase your sex drive How to last longer during sex Show Notes: WIN FREE VIBRATORS! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Try VIIA Hemp! https://bit.ly/viiaemily and use code EMILY! Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SWE Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

Setting boundaries within your relationships is not only necessary—it’s hot AF. In today’s episode, psychological astrologer, therapist, and sex educator Dr. Jennifer Freed joins me to discuss how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. We discuss the definition and different types of boundaries (including sexual and financial), what makes them important, how they affect our sex life, and why they might be difficult for some folks to create. We also dive into your email questions like how to avoid drama when you’re the third in a threesome relationship, how to let someone know you’re not into them without ghosting, if talking to escorts is considered cheating, and what to do if your partner is more interested in meeting their sexual desires than yours. For more information about Dr. Jennifer Freed, visit: jenniferfreed.com For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Communication will get you everywhere, but what to do when your partner refuses to talk about your sex life? Today learn how to talk through your communication roadblocks, even if your partner won’t go down on you or breaks the cardinal rule in your open relationship. Dr. Oz also joins me to share his communication secrets that have helped strengthen his 35-year marriage. Anne Hodder-Shipp & Sarah Tomchesson from SexPlusSummit.com also join me to discuss tips for bringing up your needs...

Did you know you can align your sex drive with your partner by keeping track of your cycle? This doesn’t have to be a mystery! Your body will tell you what kind of sex you’re craving in each stage of your cycle. Alisa Vitti joins me for part two of our series dispelling all the myths and mysteries around women’s hormonal cycles. Alisa’s a nutrition and hormone expert who’s FLOLiving community, books and app has helped thousands of women reclaim their cycles. We also dive into the health...

What if you could understand your sex drive, desire, moods, and energy levels every day of the year? On today’s show (part one of two) I’m joined by Alisa Vitti, a functional nutritionist and women’s hormone expert whose FLOLiving community, books, and app have helped thousands of women reclaim their cycles and navigate their internal clock and rhythms. Getting your hormonal timing down will revolutionize your life. Following Alisa’s protocol, you can give your body exactly what it needs...

Happy International Non-binary People's Day! In this episode, Emily talks to the charming non-binary actor Vico Ortiz about how they keep dating interesting during COVID. Vico’s gone to great lengths to keep themselves busy and satisfied while stuck at home so if you’re missing human connection, this one’s for you. They also discuss the difference between gender and sexuality, what to do if you get someone’s pronouns wrong and healthy ways to make time for yourself. Later in the show, Emily helps a caller find perspective on his long-term relationship. Are you wondering if it’s time to end things? Tune in to learn the communication tools you need to figure it out. Plus, how to find community if you’re dipping your toes into BDSM. For more information about Vico Ortiz, visit: www.imdb.me/vico-ortiz For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s been 15 years of Sex With Emily and what better way to celebrate than to bring back Emily’s first podcast episode ever. In 15 years she’s covered everything from communication to masturbation, but in this very special episode we dive into uncharted territory - Sex With the host herself, Emily. Emily tells us how she got into podcasting, decided to talk about sex and we even get to hear the first episode she recorded 15 years ago. You’ll come for the sex, but stay for the stories and there’s plenty. She talks to her 3 guests about bikini waxing, polyamory and what it’s like to live a single girl’s life and have sex on her terms. You don’t want to miss this anniversary episode! For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, joining Dr. Emily is women’s hormone expert & founder of FLO Living, Alisa Vitti & they’re talking about how hormones affect our lives. They discuss how to understand women’s cycles, hormones, & periods, why having more information about how your body works can be crucial to having a great sex life, & exactly what you need to know about having sex after menopause. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For...

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking with her team about some of the greatest sex toys on the market that everyone can enjoy & how to use them to achieve the most pleasure possible. They discuss all types of new toys – from butt plugs to clitoral vibes, to different tasting lubes – & what they’re best used for, personal reviews & hacks that will improve your masturbating game, and guides on how to navigate your body by switching up your routine. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by entrepreneur, writer, media personality, & founder of The Satisfied Mama’s, Dana B. Myers. They discuss the importance of reclaiming your sexuality and ways to become fully present with your body. They talk about discovering your mojo – with or without kids in the picture, why mom guilt exists and how to get over it, as well as hacks to keep sex top of mind. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Womanizer, Apex, Veritas Farms, SiriusXM, Promescent Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com For more information on Dana B. Myers, click HERE. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about ways to switch up your masturbation routine – because even solo sex can get stale – and she’s answering your emails. She shares with you why making changes to your masturbation routine can vastly improve your sex life, ways that prove sex is more than just penetration, and how to move forward in your relationship after learning new things about your partner’s sexuality. Plus, you got lube – but where do you put it? Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: SiriusXM, Woo More Play, Apex, Promescent, We-Vibe. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is talking about condoms – because it is STD/STI Awareness Month – and she’s answering your emails on all the sex things. She discusses why condoms get a bad rap, but why it’s more in our heads than it is reality, how to let a partner know that you haven’t had sex yet, and what to do when you need a little more help around the house. Plus, how to deal when you laugh and cry during orgasm. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: We-Vibe, Apex, Promescent, SiriusXM, Woo More Play Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily is joined by speaker, business coach & best selling author Alicia Dunams to help Emily figure out her next book! Plus, she’s answering your emails. The two discuss how to create a “Bestseller in a Weekend,” as well as why saying you “get to” instead of you “have to” can change your perspective on a lot. Then Emily answers emails on what to do when you just can’t seem to get past date #3, you don’t mind getting spanked – but don’t know how to react, and how to get your partner into sexting. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Apex, uberlube, Good Vibrations, SiriusXM, Womanizer Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For more info on Alicia, click HERE. To attend Bestseller in a Weekend, click HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Emily’s discussing snooping – because lots of us do it and it’s not serving us. Plus, she’s taking your calls. She talks about the good old google search/social media stalk many of us are guilty of doing, what to do when you were having great sex – then you went on vacation and your partner’s not into it, backdoor play – your partner’s ready, but you’re not sure, you’re married, you like giving head to other men, but your wife is unsure about it – what’s next? Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Good Vibrations, Just Fab, Jopen, SiriusXM, We-Vibe Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.