Old Ladies Know Stuff with Rhonda Stoppe & Friends

GUEST CAST EPISODE: Show notes iWork4Him How to Affair proof your marriage iWork4Him is a show solely focused on the intersection of our Faith in Jesus and our Work. When these two collide – fantastic things happen all around us. People start to benefit from you following Jesus whether they believe in Jesus or not. That’s when the enemy goes full on frontal attack. He wants to compromise your reputation at work so that your testimony is no longer attractive. What is one way he does this? An Affair with an office mate. Whether you are a man or a woman, A committed follower of Jesus or one just finding their way in being a Jesus Follower, the enemy wants to see you fail. How do we protect our reputation and the reputation of our savior? We need to affair proof our marriages. We need to have a solid ground to stand on at home so that our steadfastness isn’t compromised at work. Even if you are not married, an affair at work will significantly dismantle your witness as a Christian. Today joining Martha and Jim Brangenberg is Rhonda Stoppe with www.NoRegretsWoman.com Rhonda Stoppe returns to iWork4Him for another great interview about marriage. Rhonda and Steve have been married for 42 years and she knows that they continue to need to be transparent with each other and take their advice from scripture. When they were new parents Rhonda found herself dressing up for church on Sundays and appreciated the compliments of a gentleman there. After a few weeks of getting compliments she approached Steve and basically explained the situation and told him he needs to compliment her more, as she was looking forward to the compliments of the man at church. She knew this behaviour could have bad consequences and that is how most affairs get started. Applying that story to the workplace is pretty easy. We need to set good boundaries and clearly protect our marriages. We can do this by strengthening our marriages and making them a priority. We shared the 72-hour intimacy rule with her and Rhonda is going to add that to her messaging. Rhonda encouraged women to pursue their husbands. This is a successful way to affair proof your marriage. There is a road to recovery for an affair. God has forgiven us as far as the East is from the West. Don’t stop protecting your marriage. When the kids leave and our lives change we shouldn’t look elsewhere for attention. Rhonda encouraged marriages to be careful even in our virtual relationships while we work distantly. It can quickly get out of control. Books: The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be A Christian Woman's Guide to Great Sex in Marriage Listen HERE to the original episode at iWork4Him Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

MOPs MomCon Part 1 Motherhood Matters - YOU Matter! Billy Graham’s mother Luke Smallbone’s Mum Sibling Rivalry the one secret that changed everything! Quote: “If we celebrate their differences, they become best friends, and they celebrate each other’s differences.” Foster/Adopted Mom - The influence of a few years SEX - DRUGS - ROCK n ROLL Insights… How to talk to your son about SEX Always use the phrase: “Husband & Wife in the Marriage Bed” (rather than man and woman/boy and girl.) Word Picture: Pink Heart/Blue Heart The Number One Mother/Son Communication Secret you don’t want to miss! "Shoulder to Shoulder" Pornography - How to equip your son to withstand the temptation/addiction Thank you for joining this episode. Please take a moment to rate the podcast/write a review and SHARE this episode with a friend. Your support means SO much in helping us mentor others. TRANSCRIPT: Find complete transcript HERE (00:00): I'm gonna say that again. Motherhood matters. God has chosen us to influence this generation through motherhood because motherhood matters like really, really matters Down through history, the first teachers of men that God raised up in their generation were not scholars. They were their mothers. We are the makers of men, the architects of the next generation. Let that sit with you. Luke Smallbone of Fourth King and Country. Do you guys know them? Love the Smallbone family. He says this about his mom. I probably owe all that I am to my mom because when a man is loved by his mother, he can end up doing great things. And there's an amazing story of him and his mother in mom's raising sons to be men. And go to the next slide. Ruth Graham, who was the mother of Billy Graham, think of her influence on her culture. Every person who came to Jesus Christ because of Ruth Graham's influence on her son, Billy Graham, that's fruit of her work. Helen's Helen's Smallbone was Luke's mom. Every song you hear written, every worship note that he sings. Did you know she's also the mom of Rebecca St. James. Back in the olden days, there was a a singer hold Rebecca St. James (01:52): Inspiring, terrifying Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

(c) 2018 Music & Lyrics by Brandon Stoppe Watch the slide show on Rhonda's YouTube Channel: Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Part 2 *Teachable Moments Come in Times of Disobedience. 20:26 Control Freaks Raise Freaks! “Let me live my own life” Men Learn from their Mistakes Pick them up when they fall Ask God for Discernment Show them How to Recover from their mistake I AM NOT ALONE Isaiah 41:10 Quote: If God calls us to this mission of motherhood - He will help us. Mentors Matter Titus 2 Older women teach the younger women how to love their husbands and love their children. What I learned from Older Mentors: Quote: “You will never know yourself more clearly than through the lens of scripture.” “Get in the word and you will see a reflection of yourself that God can transform” Scripture “Do not be conformed to this world… be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” -Social media conforms us to the world’s view -Scripture transforms our minds to a biblical world view. DAVID’S MOM: Helicopter Moms - Don’t fight his battles for him Quote: “Sometimes God sends the giant and he sends the bear to equip your child to fight a giant that you know nothing about.” Scripture: “As high as the heavens are above the earth so My ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:9). Special Needs Child Quote: “Mom’s Kiss: He knows you kiss him while he’s sleeping” Scripture: “I have stored up Your word in my heart, that I might not sin against You”(Psalm 119:11). “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Quote: “Sometimes your trial is not about you. Your trial is to show your children, to verify, that what you say you believe you really believe.” Miscarriage: Quote: “You will hold it in heaven” Quote: “We raised our children to direct each other to Christ in a crisis.” “Your children will feel most secure when your love for each other is most genuine.” “Your son will likely marry someone who is like you.” APATHY is our Enemy. Single Moms: God promises to be a father to the fatherless. (Psalm 68:5) We see you. We are here for you. Quote: “No other calling influences our culture as powerful as motherhood.” "It’s terrifying to raise our sons in this culture. And yet, God has called us to change the culture through the raising of our sons.” I AM NOT ALONE Motherhood Matters! Mother’s Day Song… It's All in a Mother's Love (C)Music&Lyrics Brandon Stoppe WATCH the slideshow on my YouTube channel Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Abortion - What Does the Bible Say? Oh wow, this was not an easy episode to upload. I know how controversial the subject of abortion can be. I get it. But, I also know how often women ask me, "What does the Bible Say about Abortion?" So, I feel like it's a timely topic. And I also realize that posting this episode has the potential to make or break my podcast subscriber list. But with God's courage, I press on as I press: "Publish" Prayers appreciated my friends. Please pray for the women who will listen. Pray that God stirs in us His compassion and longing to share the hope of the gospel with women who are looking for answers. Please pray that our love for Christ will spill over onto them and show them how Jesus is the one who washes us whiter than snow. And please pray that we will be like Naomi (an old lady who knows stuff) was to Ruth. May our love for God, and compassion for them draw women to trust Him too. Resource Mentioned in this episode: Crosswalk Article: What Does the Bible Say About Abortion? Focus on the Family Resources: by Rhonda Stoppe Lessons From a Teen Abortion Accomplice by Kristie Piper: Abortion Survivors: Does God Forgive Abortion? Post Abortion Emotional Struggles Focus on the Family Counselors - Free Resource Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

GuestCast: PostPartum/PMS/Balancing Hormones and The Kindness of God with Samantha M Newman and Rhonda Stoppe. BIO: Samantha NEWMAN helps ignite momentum for mothers going through postpartum depression and anxiety. She is a mother, wife and writer who passionately shares her heart while linking arms with those struggling. SAMANTHA lives in QUEENSLAND, AUSTRALIA To date, this is by far one of my favorite GuestCast Episodes, because it offers real hope to real women who find themselves wrestling with PostPartum and hormonal imbalances. If you are struggling, Samantha and Rhonda want you to know they have both been in your shoes and you are not alone. Listen to hear their insights that come from their own experiences. ORIGINAL EPISODE: This interview first aired on the amazing podcast: PostPartum Empowerment with host Samantha Newman Episode 106 You can also listen HERE to Part 1 ( Episode 105 ) of my interview with Samantha Newman. QUOTE: "Don't give up until you find what works for you." MENTIONS: Focus on the Family Article by Rhonda: How to Deal with Hormonal Imbalances that Effect Your Marriage If you're a woman in need of a community to understands your hormonal stuff, you'll find your tribe when you subscribe & follow the Postpartum Empowerment Podcast Show Notes can be found at SamanthaMNewman.com *NOTE: Samantha admits she is not a doctor or healthcare professional. Just a momma who has been there and who wants to link arms with those who are struggling. We advise (as you'll hear in this episode) that you find professional help by seeking out a doctor or nutritionist specializing in hormonal imbalances. And of course, connecting with an older woman who's been in your shoes can be of great support as well, because, "Old Ladies Know Stuff!" Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Is Over Parenting Turning Your Kids Away from Faith? "Control Freaks Raise Freaks" but how can a parent know the difference between controlling and concern? Resources Mentioned: Crosswalk.com Is Over Parenting Turning Your Kid Away from Faith? Moms Raising Sons to Be Men Over-parenting can feel like the right thing to do, but it's important to learn to parent in a way that helps your child mature away from dependence upon you and more upon faith In Christ. NOTE: The Opportunity to virtually attend your book club (FREE) has expired. But valid through April 30, 2023 for podcast subscribers - If you start a book club with at least 10 friends who all order a copy of the 10th Anniversary Revised Edition of Moms Raising Sons to Be Men We didn't get to this in the episode... but it's super important: So, let’s break down Deuteronomy 6:4-9: Verse 4-5: You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. Your wholehearted commitment to God and His Word will demonstrate to your child how much you love God and value Scripture. Verse 6: Think about, meditate on, and memorize Scripture, so your obedience to God will be a response based upon biblical precepts. When you transform your thinking with Scripture you will be prepared to teach your kids how to speak and act in God-honoring ways, without hypocrisy. Verse 7-9: Relate your child’s everyday experiences to the Bible. This practice will make talking about spiritual matters a normal part of your conversations. When you arm your children with godly knowledge, they will learn to recognize when others are attempting to deceive them. God said, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge (Hosea 4:6). So, to keep your children from being destroyed by worldly influences and deceptions, impart knowledge from the Bible as often as the opportunity arises. This will grow their faith more than the practice of over-parenting attempts to manipulate or control their actions. The world would instruct your children to achieve their goals for their own pleasure and fame, rather than God’s glory. That is why it’s vital for you to train them to filter their opportunities and achievements through a biblical mindset. One way to lay a biblical foundation in your child’s mind is through music. (And realize that ungodly music can also be the thing that woos your child’s heart away from a godly mindset.) For example, Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

This amazing interview with Dr. James Dobson's Family Talk first aired July 6, 2021. You can catch the all of Rhonda's interviews with Dr. James Dobson's Family Institute HERE:* Listen Here: Part 1 Read Part 1 Full Transcript Here: Dr. James Dobson's book Mentioned: Bringing Up Boys Rhonda's Resources Mentioned: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men Listen Here: Part 2 Read Part 2 Full Transcript Here: Dr. James Dobson's Books Mentioned: When God Doesn't Make Sense The New Dare to Discipline Rhonda's Resources Mentioned: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men If My Husband Would Change I'd Be Happy The Marriage Mentor I Sleep with the Pastor *Please consider making a donation to Dr. James Dobson Family Institute so they can continue their vital ministry to families in this generation. Click Here to Donate to Dr. James Dobson Family Institute Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Your Marriage Can Survive Toddlers & Teens - Guest Cast with Rhonda Stoppe presenting this message at the Awesome Marriage Online Marriage Retreat* INTRO: (00:00-4:43) -Postpartum -Feeling like I had failed my husband and my children -Temptation to run away and find my worth in my career -Loneliness of motherhood -"Trying to Keep the Love Alive in Marriage while Keeping your kids alive one more day" LOL -Toddler Tantrums and Teen mood swings can make it feel like connecting with your spouse is impossible. -Grin & Bear it... Fake it til you make it? Not the Best Course of Action. -Imposter syndrome -God loves when we cry out and admit we are at the end of our rope and don't have it all together 4 WAYS YOUR MARRIAGE CAN SURVIVE TODDLERS & TEENS (04:44) 1. Be Still -God is for you building a better marriage -Who can be against you? -Stop Striving to Do Better -Overly Committed QUOTE: "Being Still may feel counter productive, but God will meet you in the quiet." 2. Be Real (07:02-09:19 ) -Honesty with gentle words -Don't shame or blame your spouse -Acknowledge the real difficulty of raising toddlers & teens -Realize that you need help -You GET ONE SHOT AT THIS marriage & parenting thing... ONE 3. BE GENUINE (07:50-09:19) 4. BE DETERMINED TO BE UNITED (09:19-12:20 ) QUOTE: "Decide together how you will respond when your kids attempt to create turmoil." QUOTE: "Kids who can divide their parents are filled with insecurity" Ecclesiastes 4:12 "Two are better than one..." QUOTE: "God is your source of wisdom & strength" TAKE AWAY: "If we want our kids to follow Christ they must see the testimony of His love in our marriages" CONCLUSION: One more story (12:23) RESOURCES MENTIONED: *To WATCH Rhonda giving this presentation and to register for the conference Click Here: Awesome Marriage Virtual Retreat 2023 DISCOUNT Code: RHONDA10 Moms Raising Sons to Be Men - Rhonda Stoppe, Harvest House Publishers The Marriage Mentor - Rhonda Stoppe, Harvest House Publishers Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Moms Raising Sons Book Quote: Your son's generation is longing to see what genuine Christianity looks like #MomsRaisingSonstoBeMen - Available now! Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

How to Rekindle Intimacy in Your Marriage Bed In this short episode (6:46) Rhonda offers practical insights to help you rekindle the romance in your marriage. Steps to Build Intimacy in Marriage 1. A Close Warm Friendship - Play together 2. Pursue Each Other 3. Ask God for Help 4. View s❤️x as a supernatural way God knits your souls together as one. 5. Connect on an emotional level -Make her feel seen & heard -Help her with the everyday chores -Giver her time to unwind 6. Rhonda’s resource: Ebook “A Christian Woman’s Guide to Great S❤️X in marriage 7. Building Trust is Crucial - believe the best about each other -love them for who they are 8. Affirming Words 9. Make time to make love This episode is in no way a comprehensive resource. I am not a professional counselor, but as an older woman I offer these valuable insights. I pray the steps you learn here will help you reconnect and rekindle intimacy with your spouse. For professional help please reach out to a free counselors at Focus on the Family. Resources mentioned in this episode: Crosswalk Article: Are S❤️X and intimacy the Same thing? -Article -Video ebook: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Great S❤️X in Marriage The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be Real Life Romance Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

GUESTCast Episode with Steve Stoppe. Our LOL True Love Story - Listen and laugh as we try to recall our Real Life Romance Love Story that began over 40 years ago ❤️ Listening Time: (14:35) Original Audio Interview : Engaging Story - Strengthening Your Marriage One Story at a Time YouTube Video Has over 34K Views! You can WATCH Steve & Rhonda’s Love Story video here: Watch Here - Other couples tell their love stories from Rhonda’s Book: RealLifeRomance Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

THRIVE & REST! DON’T MISS this power packed Conversation. An excerpt from the exciting Spiritual Growth Conference: Thrive with Me 2023 Join Rhonda and Marnie to hear insights and inspiration to help you discover how to Thrive while Learning to Rest. Rhonda’s Acronym: REST Remember Eliminate Savor the Savior Tell (Listening Time: 12:48) Marnie’s speaker profile: WomenSpeakers.com Buy Marnie’s New Book: Spiritual Growth Experience self-awareness at a whole new level. Honestly assess your true feelings, beliefs, concerns, and spiritual options. Gain the clarity you need to get going in a clearly defined direction. The book also includes a Relgion Comparison Guide to further convince you of your choice, and encourage you to fully invest. You'll explore the top 20 religions at your own pace, coming to your own conclusions, because nobody else's opinion about this really matters. BIO: Marnie Swedberg is an international leadership mentor, the author of 13 books, the host of her own radio talk show, a media expert, and a keynote speaker for organizations around the world. Fun and fast-paced, yet peaceful and approachable, her history includes fires, floods, a tornado, car wrecks, business set-backs, a burglary, lightning strike, ambulance rides and more. She models come-back behavior, possibility thinking, and profound faith. As the webhostess of www.WomenSpeakers.com, the largest online directory of Christian Women Speakers in the world, she connects event planners with speakers Links Mentioned in this Episode: Thrive With Me Conference Replay Marnie’s Speaker Profile & Booking InfoWatch Rhonda & Marnie’s conversation hereEveryone Can Live an Extraordinary Life!Rhonda’s Resources Mentioned: The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to BeMoms Raising Sons to Be MenHow to Have a Relationship with Jesus Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets WomanOld Ladies KnThank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

10 Reasons to Go to Church - Even When You Don't Feel Like it These 10 points are taken from a popular article I wrote for Crosswalk.com For a more detailed breakdown of each point you can read the article here: 10 Reasons to Go to Church - Even When You Don't Feel Like it Happy New Year Friends. I'll see you in church! Soli Deo Gloria Rhonda Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

Part 3 of 4 This conversation will blow your mind! Rhonda's son, Brandon Stoppe shares what is going on in the mind of your adolescent son! Wow. Just wow! Don't miss this. And then please SHARE IT with your boy mom friends in the thick of adolescence. QUOTE: "What do I do with him? Where do I send him?" QUOTE: "As sons, how we see God is how we see our parents." STORY: The last straw. The Ditch Digger ADVICE TO DADS: from Brandon. QUOTE: "As I was digging it was a kind of natural type of moment. I'm getting better at this... It was something to be really proud of myself in...and I wanted to show my dad... Work for my dad made all the difference for me." STORY: Moses, Miriam and Aaron. SINGLE MOMS: Mothers of sons without dads... Brandon shares great hope! QUOTE: "Talk so he listens. And listen so he talks...Be willing to give him the reasons why..." Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE to catch the rest of the story in the next Episode. (I apologize for the abrupt ending of this episode! But please stay tuned for the Final Episode: Part 4 of 4 "Insights into Adolescence ) Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

GuestCast! BoyMom Podcast Host Monica Swanson & Rhonda Stoppe discuss Sons & Dating. Today's episode is packed with great insights where we talk about helping our sons navigate relationships, dating, s*x, and finding a spouse. This power packed episode first aired: BoyMom Podcast Chapter Titles: Monica Swanson Monica and her husband Dave raise boys and tropical fruit on the North Shore of Oahu. Monica has homeschooled their four sons (two who are currently in college in Southern California.) Monica is the author of Boy Mom: What Your Son Needs Most from You, and host of the Boy Mom Podcast. Monica has been blogging for over 10 years and has encouraged over 10 million visitors to her website with articles on parenting and family, healthy living, and (mostly) healthy recipes. The Swanson boys are all surfers, (Luke, who is 17, surfs professionally) which keeps Monica on her knees. Monica loves good coffee, running trails with her husband and dog, Thor, the Word of God, and connecting with women all over the world through the crazy gift of the internet. Monica's Books: BoyMom - What Your Son Needs from You Raising Amazing - Bringing up Kids Who Love God, Like their Family, and Do the Dishes - without being asked. Rhonda's Books (mentioned in this episode): Moms Raising Sons to Be Men - Guiding them Toward Their Purpose & Passion Real Life Romance - Inspiring Stories to Help You Believe in True Love The Marriage Mentor - Becoming the Couple You Long to Be Learn more about Monica at: MonicaSwanson.com Register for Monica's Character Training Course Subscribe to The Boy Mom Podcast "This pod Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

This is Part 1 of a 4 part message Rhonda taught at a Homeschool Convention. (I know I talk real fast in this but please remember, I was speaking at a convention in California. LOL. We talk fast out here on the West Coast. And I was trying to share a one hour message in 30 minutes to make time for Brandon to join me for a Q & A at the end (Part 4) So please gear up to listen fast dear friends. 🥴 I promise I slow down as I get into my groove. You can also watch me telling the story here on Focus on the Family. STORY: When my 4 year old daughter said, "I know you can't wait til we are grown so you can do whatever you want, I knew I needed help. I looked for mentors. The women who mentored me helped me become the woman I hoped to be, the mom I meant to be. They were real, genuine and honest. Their stories gave me hope and unfolded incredible wisdom. That's why I am so passionate now about mentoring women. And that's why I am inviting you to become a faithful subscriber of Old Ladies Know Stuff. Together we will laugh and cry and unpack incredible insights to guide you toward a no regrets life. In this 4 Part Message you will discover the secret that changed the trajectory of my life. And I know it will do the same for you! POINTS: QUOTE: "Your children aren't an imposition on your ministry, they are your ministry" I am SO EXCITED to start this new journey with you. Together let's build a tribe of NO REGRETS WOMEN! PLEASE SUBSCRIBE & SHARE with your friends ❤️ Resources Mentioned: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men "This podcast is for the purpose of education only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.” Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”

This episode is Part 2 of a Four Part Message. Listen to discover the secret that changed the trajectory of my life. And I know it will do the same for you! Note: I apologize for the abrupt intro/outro. This episode picks up in the midst of the story that began in Episode 1. I'm still learning the technical stuff. But if I wait until I'm dialed in I'd probably never actually publish a show 😊 Thanks for your patience, friends. Listen to Part 1 in: Season 1 - Episode 1 Episode 1 Review: POINTS: QUOTE: "Your children aren't an imposition on your ministry, they are your ministry" Episode 3 SHOW NOTES; POINTS: Hope for ProdigalsPeople Pleasing isn't PleasingTools to Your Son's AutonomySecrets to Raising Adolescent SonsControl Freaks Raise FreaksHope for Prodigals STORY: The prodigal son Adonriam Judson. Listen to how God's miraculous providence brought about this young man's repentance. And became a missionary who led over 7,000 people to Christ. People Pleasing isn't pleasing QUOTE: "Never raise your kids for what people think of you or you will ruin them." "Raising your kids for your own reputation makes us a glory stealer" STORY: Luke Smallbone - For King & Country - his mother's response to his poor behavior. Tools to autonomy QUOTE: Godly mentors will help you discern your motives because: Old Ladies Know Stuff STORY: God sent the lion and bear to prepare David to fight the giant. His mom wasn't fighting his battles for him. Epilepsy. STORY: Charles and James Spurgeon's mother. QUOTE:My mother is strong, compassionate and caring all in one. I probably owe all I am and have achieved to my mom, because when a man is loved by his mom he can end up doing great things. LUKE SMALLBONE - For King & Country Secrets to Raising Adolescent Sons Men Crave Respect. Coming of Man rituals. Control Freaks Raise Freaks PLEASE SUBSCRIBE to hear PART 3 in our next episode! Please help us help your friends by SHARING this podcast. Thank you for joining us. Please SUBSCRIBE & SHARE Sign up for Rhonda's Monthly Newsletter @ NoRegretsWoman.com CONNECT with Rhonda @RhondaStoppe Facebook Page: Rhonda Stoppe No Regrets Woman NoRegretsWoman.com "This podcast is for the purpose of mentoring only and is not a replacement for therapy. We suggest you seek out the help of a trained biblical counselor for help with your specific situation.”