Become New with John Ortberg

How long can you carry something before it breaks you? And what do you do when God feels… silent? In this teaching on Psalm 13, John Ortberg walks us through one of the most honest prayers in Scripture: “How long, O Lord?” When pain lingers, when answers don’t come, and when God feels distant, we face a choice. We can grumble—turning inward in bitterness and withdrawal—or we can groan—bringing our pain honestly before God. This Psalm shows us how to lament in a way that leads somewhere. Not by denying pain, but by bringing it fully into God’s presence. If you’re carrying something heavy right now—a relationship, anxiety, loss, or a long unanswered prayer—this teaching will help you turn that pain into prayer. 📚 Today's Resources: Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team DOWNLOAD FREE STUDY GUIDES: BecomeNew.com/study-guides 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Vikersund by RØRE - MB01V0UASAACPKE Alta by RØRE - MB01IWZVJASGKHF 00:00 – Opening Prayer 00:18 – Psalm 13: Bring Your “How Long” 00:53 – “Will You Forget Me Forever?” 01:30 – What “How Long” Really Means 01:59 – When You Don’t Know the Finish Line 02:15 – When God Feels Hidden 02:36 – The Panic of Not Finding What Matters 03:20 – How the Body Holds Pain 03:46 – Why Pain Lingers in Us 04:15 – What Is Your “How Long”? 04:34 – Naming Real-Life Pain 05:05 – Two Ways to Respond to Pain 05:18 – Grumbling vs Groaning 05:58 – What Grumbling Does to the Soul 06:19 – What Groaning Looks Like 06:51 – Groaning = Honest Faith 07:18 – How This Plays Out in Real Life 07:37 – Warning Against Grumbling 08:02 – Groaning for the World’s Pain 08:23 – Creation Is Groaning 08:56 – When You Don’t Have Words 09:28 – God Groans With You 09:53 – The Turning Point: “But I Trust…” 10:25 – What Actually Changes? 10:56 – Lament Opens the Door to Praise 11:23 – Bring Your “How Long” to God 11:46 – When Hope Begins to Rise 12:04 – From Lament to Praise

Everyone’s talking about mindfulness… but what if we’ve missed the most important part? What if the key isn’t your mind being focused—but God’s mind being focused on you? In this teaching on Psalm 8, John Ortberg explores a deeper kind of mindfulness—one that begins not with your attention, but with God’s. While we often struggle with distraction, anxiety, and rumination, Psalm 8 reveals something surprising: God is fully, constantly mindful of you. His attention never drifts. His care never wavers. Through reflection, Scripture, and guided prayer, this teaching invites you to step into praise, re-center your mind, and experience what it means to live in the awareness of God’s presence. You’ll also learn how to pray the Psalm—turning your attention from distraction to delight, and from anxiety to awe. Music Credits: Vikersund by RØRE - MB01V0UASAACPKE Alta by RØRE - MB01IWZVJASGKHF 📚 Today's Resources: Thomas Merton, Praying the Psalms (1956) Mark Ralls, “Mindful: Psalm 8,” The Christian Century, 15 May 2007. Eugene Peterson, Answering God: The Psalms as Tools for Prayer (1991) C.S. Lewis, Reflections on the Psalms (1958) Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Psalms: The Prayer Book of the Bible (1940) Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller, The Songs of Jesus: A Year of Daily Devotions In the Psalms (2015) James W. Sire, Praying the Psalms of Jesus (2007) Walter Bruggeman, Praying the Psalms: Engaging Scripture and the Life of the Spirit (1995) 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team DOWNLOAD FREE STUDY GUIDES: BecomeNew.com/study-guides 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ 00:00 – Opening Prayer 00:18 – Learning to Pray the Psalms 00:42 – From Wisdom → Lament → Praise 01:02 – Do You Struggle With Your Mind? 01:27 – Resources on Praying the Psalms 02:17 – “Lord, Our Lord…” (Starting With God) 02:50 – What “God’s Name” Really Means 03:22 – God’s Glory in All the Earth 03:49 – The Power of Childlike Praise 04:25 – “What Is Mankind?” (The Big Question) 04:55 – Why Praise Feels So Empty Today 05:46 – Why We Struggle to Praise God 06:08 – Do You Actually Want God? 06:54 – No Blueprint for Ecstasy 07:23 – Practicing Attention and Reflection 07:54 – What Is Mindfulness (Really)? 08:20 – The Universe Exists in God’s Mind 08:42 – God Is Mindful of You 09:11 – The Acorn Illustration (Are You Paying Attention?) 09:54 – God Is Never Distracted 10:14 – Because God Is Mindful… We Can Be Too 10:25 – Practicing Presence (Breath + Spirit) 10:57 – “Present to the Presence in the Present” 11:15 – Why Psalm 8 Ends Where It Begins 11:32 – You Are Held in God’s Attention 11:52 – Seeing Others as Image Bearers 12:02 – Living With Joy, Gratitude, and Praise

We live in a world obsessed with predicting the future… and terrified of it. So how do you actually live when everything feels uncertain? In this teaching on Psalm 3, John Ortberg explores one of the most universal human struggles: uncertainty. We don’t know what’s coming next—and instead of trusting God, we often try to control, predict, or even “gamble” on the future. But Psalm 3 offers a different way. It begins in fear and pressure—real enemies, real anxiety—and moves toward trust, surrender, and confidence in God’s presence. This teaching will help you name the “foes” in your life (both internal and external), bring your honest thoughts to God, and discover what it means to live with courage—even when the future is unclear. You’ll also be guided to pray the Psalm yourself, learning how to turn anxiety into conversation with God. 📚 Today's Resources: McKay Coppins, “Sucker: My Year as a Degenerate Gambler,” The Atlantic, 12 March 2026 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team DOWNLOAD FREE STUDY GUIDES: BecomeNew.com/study-guides 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ ⏱️ Chapters (retention-focused) 00:00 – Opening Prayer 00:15 – The Big Question: How Do You Handle Uncertainty? 00:30 – We Understand Life Backwards, Live It Forwards 00:49 – How We Try to Control the Future 01:12 – The Explosion of Gambling Culture 02:39 – Even Betting on the Second Coming?! 03:04 – A Better Way: Turn to God 03:32 – Psalm 3: Where Prayer Begins 03:58 – Start With One Word: “Lord” 04:23 – Practicing God’s Presence (Candle + Chair) 05:07 – “How Many Are My Foes?” 05:44 – Naming Your Real Enemies (Anxiety, Hurry, Envy…) 06:40 – Personal and Relational Pain 07:01 – When You Can’t Fix What’s Broken 07:26 – God as Shield, Glory, and Lifter of Your Head 08:20 – You Don’t Have to Prove Yourself 08:43 – From Shame to Confidence 09:27 – The Real Test of Your Life 09:48 – Can You Sleep in Peace? 10:14 – Waking Up: Life Is a Gift 10:34 – “Arise, Lord” (Resurrection Power) 10:56 – What Does “Break Their Teeth” Mean? 11:18 – Pray What You Actually Feel 11:46 – Where Deliverance Comes From 11:57 – Make This Psalm Your Prayer Today

What if your life is already headed in a direction… and you didn’t choose it? Psalm 1 says there are only two ways to live and only one leads to flourishing. In this opening teaching of a new series on the Psalms, John Ortberg invites us into one of the most important questions we can ask: What is my way of life leading to? Psalm 1 describes a person who is “blessed”—not just happy, but deeply rooted, steady, and flourishing. And it contrasts that life with another path we can slowly drift into without even noticing. Through reflection, story, and guided prayer, this teaching helps you examine your own direction and begin to re-center your life around God. You’ll also be invited to actually pray the Psalm—to let it shape your thoughts, your desires, and your daily decisions. 📚 Today's Resources: Thomas Merton, Praying the Psalms Markham Heid, “The Number of Words You Say in a Day is Shrinking,” Time, 28 April 2026. McKay Coppins, “Sucker: My Year as a Degenerate Gambler,” The Atlantic, 12 March 2026 Music Credits: Vikersund by RØRE - MB01V0UASAACPKE Alta by RØRE - MB01IWZVJASGKHF 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team DOWNLOAD FREE STUDY GUIDES: BecomeNew.com/study-guides 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ 00:00 – Opening Prayer: “May the words…” 00:22 – Why Prayer Matters to God 01:25 – The Psalms: Every Emotion with God 02:41 – Why the Psalms Transform Us 03:02 – Do You Need Wisdom Right Now? 03:32 – What Does “Blessed” Really Mean? 04:18 – Everyone Has a Way of Life 04:44 – Flourishing vs. Drifting 05:09 – The Danger of Slow Drift 05:40 – Walking → Standing → Sitting (The Progression) 06:29 – Modern Life Is Forming You (More Than You Think) 07:13 – Even “Religious” Lives Can Miss This 07:40 – The Tree Planted by Water 08:10 – What It Means to Meditate on God 08:52 – Training Your Mind to Delight 09:21 – What You Fill Your Mind With Shapes You 09:43 – Two Ways to See People: Exploit or Love 10:35 – The “Wicked” vs “Righteous” (In All of Us) 10:58 – Guided Prayer: Ask God for Flourishing 11:37 – Where Do You Need Wisdom Today?

Did you enjoy this teaching on Forgiveness? Download the free print and go study guide to experience the journey in its fullness: becomenew.com/study-guides Is reconciliation really possible… after betrayal? In one of the most powerful stories in the Bible, we see the answer: yes—but it’s complicated. In today’s teaching, we walk through the story of Joseph and his brothers—a story filled with jealousy, betrayal, suffering, and ultimately… forgiveness and reconciliation. This is not a neat or easy process. It’s messy, emotional, and deeply human. But it reveals something extraordinary: God can bring healing even to the most broken relationships. Because forgiveness is powerful… but reconciliation? That’s a miracle. 📚 Today's Resources: Workbook resource by Everett Worthington (forgiveness process): https://bit.ly/REACHWorksheet 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What is forgiveness… really? And what if most of us have been getting it wrong? In today’s teaching, we define forgiveness in a clear and powerful way: replacing ill will with goodwill. But that raises big questions—Does forgiveness excuse wrongdoing? Does it ignore justice? Should we forgive everything? Drawing from Scripture, real-world examples, and the work of Everett Worthington, this message untangles the confusion and reveals a deeper, stronger, more honest vision of forgiveness. Because forgiveness isn’t pretending something didn’t matter it’s choosing a different kind of response. 📚 Today's Resources: Workbook resource by Everett Worthington (forgiveness process): https://bit.ly/REACHWorksheet 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Most of us think unforgiveness is something we choose. But what if it’s actually something that slowly grows inside of us… without us even realizing it? In today’s teaching, we explore the road to NOT forgiving—how small hurts turn into resentment, how rumination fuels bitterness, and how unforgiveness quietly takes hold of your heart. Drawing from Scripture, personal reflection, and the research of Everett Worthington, this message exposes the hidden patterns that keep us stuck—and offers hope that change is possible. Because unforgiveness doesn’t just affect others…it shapes you. 📚 Today's Resources: Workbook resource by Everett Worthington (forgiveness process): https://bit.ly/REACHWorksheet 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What does it take to forgive the unforgivable? In this powerful conversation, Everett Worthington shares his personal story of facing unimaginable loss—and the journey toward forgiveness that followed. Blending deep emotional honesty with practical wisdom, this teaching explores the darkness of the human heart, the reality of anger and rage, and the surprising path that leads to healing. You’ll discover why forgiveness is not about excusing harm, but about transforming your own heart—and how even small steps can begin that process. Because forgiveness doesn’t start with others… it starts within you. Welcome home. Change starts today. 📚 Today's Resources: Workbook resource by Everett Worthington (forgiveness process): https://bit.ly/REACHWorksheet 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Forgiveness sounds simple… until you actually have to do it. In today’s teaching, we begin a powerful journey into forgiveness—not as a vague idea, but as a real, practical process that leads to healing and freedom. Because the truth is: we all carry wounds… and we all need to forgive. Drawing from Scripture, the teachings of Everett Worthington, and real-life experience, this message introduces a proven pathway to forgiveness—one that is honest, challenging, and deeply transformative. Because forgiveness isn’t natural… it’s supernatural. But it is possible. Welcome home. Change starts today. 📚 Today's Resources: Work and research of Everett Worthington (REACH model) Hannah Arendt (on forgiveness in human affairs) Workbook resource by Everett Worthington (forgiveness process): https://bit.ly/REACHWorksheet 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Did you enjoy this teaching? We have a free study guide on this entire series if you'd like to walk through it with a friend or small group! Just download, print and go! Get it here... Becomenew.com/study-guides Submission. Just hearing that word can feel… uncomfortable. In a culture that prizes independence, autonomy, and “doing life your way,” the idea of submitting to someone else can sound outdated—or even dangerous. But what if submission, rightly understood, is actually a pathway to freedom? In today’s teaching, we explore the spiritual discipline of submission—not as control or coercion, but as a humble, intentional decision to learn from those who are further along in wisdom and character. Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of Dallas Willard, and real-life examples, this message reframes submission as a powerful tool for growth, accountability, and transformation. Because sometimes the fastest way forward… is learning to follow. Welcome home. Change starts today. 📚 Today's Resources: The Spirit of the Disciplines — Dallas Willard Story reference connected to The Sound of Music (Maria von Trapp) Concept parallels with Alcoholics Anonymous (sponsor model) 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What if the thing you most want to hide… is the very thing keeping you stuck? In today’s teaching, we explore the powerful (and often avoided) spiritual practice of confession—the act of telling the truth about your life to God and to a trusted person. It may feel uncomfortable, even painful, but it might also be the key to real freedom. Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of Dallas Willard, and insights from recovery communities like AA, this message shows how confession breaks the cycle of shame, removes hidden burdens, and restores connection with God and others. Because healing begins the moment you stop pretending. Welcome home. Change starts today. 📚 Today's Resources: The Spirit of the Disciplines — Dallas Willard Alcoholics Anonymous (The Big Book) — Alcoholics Anonymous 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What if worship isn’t just something you do at church… but something that could transform your entire life? In today’s teaching, we explore the true meaning of worship—not as music or a moment, but as a way of seeing and responding to the goodness, beauty, and greatness of God in everyday life. Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of Dallas Willard, and even the simple joy of things like coffee and nature, this message shows how worship awakens awe, restores your heart, and reconnects your life to what really matters. 📚 Today's Resources: Dallas Willard, The Spirit of the Disciplines 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What if the reason you feel anxious, exhausted, or constantly “on”… is because you’re living for other people’s approval? In today’s teaching, we explore the powerful and often overlooked spiritual discipline of secrecy—doing good without anyone knowing. It sounds simple… but it might be one of the hardest things you’ll ever try. Drawing from the teachings of Dallas Willard and the words of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount, this message reveals how secrecy frees you from approval addiction, comparison, and the exhausting need to manage your image. Because the goal isn’t to be seen as good…it’s to become good—quietly, deeply, and freely. 📚 Today's Resources: Dallas Willard, The Spirit of the Disciplines 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Silence might be the most uncomfortable… and most transformative… practice in your life. In a world filled with constant noise, distraction, and the pressure to always say something, the discipline of silence feels almost impossible. But what if silence is actually the doorway to peace, trust, and deeper connection with God? In this teaching, we explore why silence matters, how it reshapes your inner life, and why learning not to speak can bring surprising freedom. Drawing from the wisdom of Dallas Willard and the example of Jesus, you’ll discover how silence helps you let go of control, release the need for approval, and experience a deeper sense of being “at home” with God. If your life feels noisy, anxious, or driven by the need to prove yourself… this might be exactly what you need. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 4.12.23 ORIGINAL SERIES: Home 📚 Today's Resources: The Spirit of the Disciplines — Dallas Willard 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Enjoying these teachings on CHARACTER? Get the Free Study Guide: BecomeNew.com/study-guides - Download, print, and go! Is life actually fair? It’s a question we all wrestle with—at home, at work, in culture, and deep in our own stories. But what if fairness isn’t just something we demand… what if it’s something we’re called to become? In today’s teaching, we explore the biblical vision of fairness and justice, tracing a powerful theme throughout Scripture: God does not show favoritism. From Cain and Abel to David to Jesus Himself, we see a God who consistently elevates the overlooked and challenges human systems of privilege and power. This message will challenge you to examine your own biases, confront favoritism in your life, and ask one simple but profound question: Who am I overlooking? Because the way you treat people matters more than you think. 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Why is self-control so hard? You’re not alone. Research shows that among all character strengths, self-control ranks dead last in how people rate themselves. But what if the problem isn’t just your willpower… what if it’s how you’re using it? In this teaching, we explore the deeper truth behind self-control—why willpower gets depleted, how habits shape your life, and why “white-knuckling it” isn’t the solution. Drawing from Scripture, psychology, and spiritual wisdom, you’ll discover a surprising secret: The key to self-control isn’t trying harder… it’s learning to surrender your will to something greater. If you feel stuck in cycles of frustration, temptation, or burnout, this message offers a better way forward. 📚 Today's Resources: Willpower by Roy Baumeister Insights from Allan Willes Commentary from Ezra Sullivan 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Most of us think we’re pretty good at reading people. Research says… we’re not. In today’s teaching, we explore the powerful and often overlooked skill of social intelligence, the ability to understand your own emotions and accurately read what’s happening in others. From facial expressions to tone of voice to body language, this skill shapes every relationship you have. Through biblical insight (including the story of Joseph), practical exercises, and a powerful reflection practice, you’ll learn how to grow in awareness, ask better questions, and become someone who truly sees people. Because when you learn to read faces…you learn to love people better. 📚 Today's Resources: The Opposite of Depression by David M. Carreon MD Spiritual practice of the Examen Prayer, from Ignatius of Loyola Research from Martin Seligman ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 8.15.23 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Life doesn’t always give you the path you would choose... There’s a race set before you, shaped by your circumstances, your story, and the challenges you didn’t ask for. The question isn’t whether you chose it… the question is: will you run it with perseverance? In this powerful teaching, we explore what it really means to persevere—not just through willpower, but through purpose. Drawing from Scripture, philosophy, and real-life stories of suffering and resilience, this message shows how perseverance is fueled by hope, vision, and a deep sense that your life matters. If you’re tired, discouraged, or wondering if it’s worth it to keep going… this is for you. Because sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is just to take the next step. 📚 Today's Resources: The Strengths of a Christian — Robert C. Roberts Writings of Søren Kierkegaard (commitment, maturity) Reflections on Bertrand Russell (contrast in perseverance and commitment) Original Air Date: 8/10/23 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

What if the key to real character growth isn’t fixing your weaknesses… but fully living into your strengths? In today’s teaching, Dr. John Ortberg explores the idea of signature character strengths — those unique qualities God has wired into you that, when used intentionally, can transform your life and the lives of others. Drawing from research in positive psychology and the example of Barnabas, the “son of encouragement,” this message invites you to discover how you’re uniquely designed to grow and make an impact. You’ll hear a powerful story of quiet encouragement, learn how your daily choices shape who you are becoming, and be challenged to take one simple step: start using your God-given strengths on purpose today. Because change doesn’t happen someday. Change starts today. ORIGINAL AIR DATE: July 24, 2023 📚 Today's Resources: VIA Character Strengths Survey (via VIA Institute on Character) https://www.viacharacter.org/survey Work of Martin Seligman Mention of C. S. Lewis (idea of becoming something glorious or monstrous) 🙌 New episodes every weekday. 📲 Subscribe, like, and share to help others grow spiritually. One day at a time. Become New is here to help you grow spiritually one day at a time. TEXT us at 51504 EMAIL US at connect@becomenew.com GET OUR WEEKDAY EMAILS WITH EXTRA GOODIES at becomenew.com/subscribe GET A TEXT REMINDER FOR NEW VIDEOS: text NEW to 51504 SEND US PRAYER REQUESTS: via text or email; we'll send you a written prayer from our team 😊 Join Our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1CnqywVp9s/ 🤳Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/become.new/ Music Credits: Beyond by Waes Hael MB01C7DBTWRVYUQ

Tell us what you thought of NO CONDEMNATION: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/NYQZHPD Here's what's coming up... 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼 - We have a new phone number! 51504 If you subscribe to our texts you'll start hearing from us at 51504 soon - FormationPodcast.com launches April 22nd We will continue with the daily 10 minute teachings here - Formation Newsletter and Podcast are a new offering. - New Study Guides coming your way...stay tuned No Condemnation, Character, Home, Forgiveness...in the works - New series will begin May 4th - The Psalms John will walk through some of the Psalms as a guide for prayer