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How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.

How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.

Location:

United States

Genres:

Romance

Description:

How did Treva and Robby Scharf know it was time to settle down? Because they were done being single. Before getting married for the first time in their 50's, Treva and Robby did it all, dated it all, and lived to tell. Treva and Robby are dating survivors. They’re the authorities on being single and finding love later in life. Treva and Robby don’t just offer empty platitudes and promises, they offer dating intervention. From dating apps to dating gaffes, from getting a second date to getting laid, Treva and Robby have a toolbox of tips, and a guest list of dating coaches, relationship experts, therapists, personal growth influencers, and thought leaders to help people get out of dating hell and find real love. If you’re a dating hater ready to up your dating game, then you’re ready for DONE BEING SINGLE.

Language:

English

Contact:

310-740-5973


Episodes

Keeping Sex Alive & Well During COVID

3/9/2021
Science geeks and horny bastards, this episode is for you! Sexpert and sexy brainiac Susan Bratton bares it all with her newest techniques, hottest tips, latest science, and reveals her own struggles and recovery from COVID. From cock rings to hyperbaric oxygen therapy, Susan knows all. Whether you're looking to spice things up, enhance your intimacy, or are curious about COVID treatments and ways to stay healthy and sexually active during the pandemic, there are takeaways for...

Duration:01:00:41

The "It Factor" And How To Get It

2/19/2021
What does business and dating have in common? The highly desirable, very elusive "It Factor." It's more than charm, looks, and charisma, it's about having conviction and passion about what you do, and who you are. Our guest this week, author and professor Suneel Gupta, cracks the code on how to pick a winner, how to stand out, and how to get someone to take a chance on you. In other words, how to be "Backable," the name of his forthcoming new book. Click Here To View This Episode On Our...

Duration:01:08:25

Get Rid Of Dating Anxiety Once and For All!

2/4/2021
This episode is like Xanax for dating jitters. Get rid of nerves and performance anxiety by understanding your attachment style, honoring your needs, and practicing science backed coping mechanisms. With Chris Rackliffe's expert guidance and insights, you'll recognize your core gifts, and get the love and affection you deserve--all without a doctor's prescription! Click Here To View This Episode On Our YouTube Channel!

Duration:00:59:27

How To Stop Chasing Love

12/15/2020
We've all chased love at one time or another, some of us still do. We do it when we're lonely or insecure, when we're seeking approval or need connection. We chase love because we don't trust it will come on its own. And the harder we try to catch it, the further it stays away. Not even a pandemic will stop people from chasing! On this episode, Dasha Schindler, author of the new book "Don't Chase Love, Cut To The Chase: Or, How To Google Your Way To A Happy Relationship," shares her story...

Duration:00:44:02

(Single) Parenting In A Pandemic

10/16/2020
Robby and Treva aren't parents, but they're tipping their hats to the (single) parents doing the heavy lifting. Managing home, work, life, kids AND a love life is never easy, but doing it in a pandemic takes mad skills and patience. This week's guest, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristin MacDermott, shares her tips, tools, and strategies for successful pandemic parenting. From knowing your roles, to managing expectations and setting healthy boundaries, to instilling respect,...

Duration:00:52:47

Politics & Love: The State of the Union

9/18/2020
In an election year that's more contentious than ever, is it possible to hate someone's politics but still love them? According to our guests Jeanne Safer and Richard Brookhiser, it is. Jeanne is a Liberal, and the author of the book, "I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics." Richard is a Conservative, and the Sr. Editor of the National Review, the leading conservative journal of opinion. Despite being on opposite sides of the aisle, they've been happily married for 40 years! There's a...

Duration:01:00:17

Older Women/Younger Men, Why The Hell Not?

9/3/2020
Cougars are having a moment. Not that midlife women dating and marrying younger men is anything new, it's just that midlife isn't what it used to be. Gone are the rules, parameters, restrictions, and judgement. Today's post-50 women are free to be who they want, date who they want, and be equal partner with the ones they love. Older women/younger men, your time has come. Joining the discussion is Vicki Larson, award-winning journalist, and co-author of the book "The New I Do: Reshaping...

Duration:00:41:34

How To Slay Your Pandemic Anxiety

8/21/2020
When you slay your anxiety, you slay your need for control. Dealing with the unknowns and tolerating the uncertainty of a pandemic are skills that need learned and practiced. On this week's episode, we've got the perfect teacher, Lisa Gornall. A spiritual medium, healer, mindset & energy coach, and author, Lisa has the tools to help you slay anxiety, and connect with your power. Because when it comes to beating back any monster, you're stronger than you think. Click Here To See Video Of...

Duration:00:39:29

Look For A Spouse Like You Would A House

7/24/2020
Who knew dating and real estate had so much in common! Whether it's a looking for a spouse or buying/selling a house, you need to assess the property, stage it properly, be ready to show, make the necessary repairs, and know the worth. The same rules apply for picking the right partner. In fact, there are 99 rules to be exact. Not only a funny episode, you'll learn a lot about real estate at the same time! With top-selling real estate agent, Brian Belefant, author of the new book "Spouse...

Duration:00:59:53

How To Love With Sobriety

7/6/2020
If you're dating or in a relationship with someone who's sober, what do you need to know? Does loving a sober person require special protocols or understanding? What are the perils? How can you be a better partner to someone who's sober? How do you protect yourself? Answering all your questions about loving with sobriety is Dr. Robert Navarra, PsyD, LMFT, MAC, and Certified Gottman Therapist & Master Trainer in addiction recovery.

Duration:00:45:42

Perfectly Hidden Depression

6/25/2020
You may be able to mask your depression behind a happy face, a good marriage, or a successful career, but in the middle of a pandemic, it becomes much harder. That's because a crisis like COVID--with the fear, anxiety, and trauma that comes with it--makes Perfectly Hidden Depression more difficult to hide. On this episode of Done Being Single, clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford explains the 10 characteristics of Perfectly Hidden Depression (PHD), teaches us the five C's of...

Duration:00:40:24

Divorce Pandemic Style: What Every Couple Needs To Know

6/18/2020
One of the many symptoms of COVID19 is a massive spike in divorce rates. If your marriage was already teetering, and you're in lockdown, chances are, you want out. Since there's no vaccination for a bad marriage, divorce might be the only cure. So what to expect? Famed divorce lawyer and author James Sexton joins us to discuss the down and dirty of divorce during a pandemic. From hardship changes, to alimony and custody, this "courtroom gunslinger" has all the best practices you'll need for...

Duration:00:48:10

Go From Fear To Here

5/19/2020
Acclaimed personal development thought leader Katie Hendricks joins Done Being Single to talk about fear: how to face it and conquer it. In this episode, you'll learn about the five responses to fear: fight, flight, flee, faint, and flee. You’ll learn breathing and movement techniques, plus you’ll get the skills you need to maintain your sense of agency, reclaim your power, and get back into your body. A must-hear/see show for the times we're living in! Click here to see the video of this...

Duration:00:50:29

How To Know When Someone's Lying

5/7/2020
Recorded before the pandemic, but always a relevant issue in life, love, and DATING! You can be your own detective, here's how. Former FBI Special Agent and counterintelligence specialist Robin Dreeke tells you how to catch a liar using his Five Steps to trust and Six Signs of predicting behavior. Learn how to size people up and recognize manipulation, control, subterfuge, and lack of transparency. Don’t be fooled again! HOT TIP: If someone’s overcomplicating their answers, they’re...

Duration:00:49:47

“Who Will You Be After Coronavirus?”

4/27/2020
When COVID19 is over, how will your life look? New job? No job? Dating or divorced? If there was ever a time to reinvent your life, and design your future YOU it’s now. This is the time to plan, pivot, and put the pieces into place. Giving you the skills and tools you need to jumpstart your reinvention, is the mother of reinvention herself, Kathi Sharpe-Ross, brand & lifestyle guru, and author of the new book, "RE: Invent Your Life! What Are You Waiting For?” Her takeaways for reinvention...

Duration:00:46:07

Mars & Venus Quarantined with John Gray

4/10/2020
Author of the best-selling relationship book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, John Gray joins Done Being Single to discuss what happens when Mars & Venus are quarantined. How does the power dynamic change when you're quarantined? Can you find balance? What do men need in time of need? What do women need to feel safe? How do you give each other space? Get great tips and takeaways on keeping your sanity, and your love alive in the time of coronavirus. Click here to see video of our...

Duration:00:47:57

The Surprising Secret About Habits

4/2/2020
Even though this episode of Done Being Single was recorded just before the coronavirus hit, its message and lessons are right on time. Building habits, maintaining structure, keeping a sense of normalcy is EVERTHING right now. From dating habits to living habits, your survival depends on how well you adapt, change, and rewire. The question is, can you do it? Our guest, behavioral scientist and New York Times best-selling author BJ Fogg, shares small, actionable and science-backed steps to...

Duration:00:45:22

Mastering Chaos With Phil Morris

3/26/2020
Known for his many roles on TV and film, but probably best known for his role as "Jackie Chiles" on "Seinfeld," Phil Morris is way more than a talented actor: he's a martial arts guru, a spiritual seeker, and fountain of wisdom when it comes to mastering a zen attitude in the face of crazy and chaos. He's also Treva & Robby's lifelong friend, and a great guy to talk to when all hell is breaking loose. On this episode, Phil shares his go-to tips and best practices for dealing with panic,...

Duration:00:58:54

Being Single & COVID19: A Doctor And Dating Expert Speak

3/19/2020
There's nothing like a pandemic to cramp your dating style. Should you keep swiping? Get tested before meeting? Can you go on a date and stay 6ft. away? When is it safe to hug, kiss, or get intimate? Physician Dr. Andre Berger and dating expert Sandy Weiner give you the 411 on ways to stay safe AND socially connected in the time of COVID19. Click here to see the video of our show with Dr. Andre Berger & Sandy Weiner!

Duration:00:49:35

How To Care For Aging Parents And Still Have A Life

3/12/2020
At a certain age, most of us will find ourselves caring for aging parents or elderly loved ones. How do you do it and still have a life? If you're single, how do you balance caring for a parent with dating and relationships? Even if you’re married, how do you find balance and set proper boundaries? What kind of self-care techniques should you be practicing to save your love life and sanity? On this episode, Treva and Robby open up about their aging parents, the challenges they’re facing, and...

Duration:00:51:01