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The world feels chaotic right now. Here is how I am maintaining my peace amidst the chaos. My email: gerdungmelinda@gmail.com Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

In this episode, I give a hack to dramatically reduce the effort required in mind management. If you want to learn even more about this topic, this book is a great resource: Willpower Doesn't Work by Benjamin Hardy Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

Trust can be a complicated thing for survivors of abuse. In this episode, I describe how I personally have navigated this issue and how I've found it possible to trust people, including a romantic partner. Link to rat study: https://news.uchicago.edu/story/helping-your-fellow-rat-rodents-show-empathy-driven-behavior Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

We all end up facing things we didn't want. This episode is all about staying in your power when that happens. Option B by Sheryl Sandberg Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

In this episode I address why you can't have a true relationship with a narcissist. I also give a technique I use when I have to deal with people with narcissistic tendencies and am not able to completely avoid them. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

A real life example/template for dealing with your own shit. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

We don't always choose the circumstances we find ourselves in, but in this episode we talk about how to avoid heaping suffering on top of bad situations. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

An honest conversation about mental health and the things that I have found helpful in dealing with chronic anxiety. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

Outsourcing the validation of your experiences to other people can fuck you up. This episode talks about how to give yourself the validation you crave. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

Why focusing on yourself is not only not selfish, but also benefits everyone around you. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode dives into a thinking trap that gets people stuck and prevents them from healing and how you can avoid this trap. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode talks about what a relationship post-mortem is and how to successfully conduct one that will leave you better. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode talks about the neuroscience behind getting triggered and covers a technique to break yourself out of a triggered state. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode talks about the most important work you can do to feel better after leaving a toxic relationship. What we all discover upon leaving is that you don't bounce back to being a happy person again. It takes work to get to that place again. This episode will give you a starting place for doing this work and feeling better. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode talks about regret free decision making and moving past fear based decisions. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

Some reminders about the nature of the ups and downs in life. This book called Peaks & Valleys has really helped me to whether the storms of life. I hope it will help you as well. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

The way your ex treated you had nothing to do with you. It was all a reflection of their own internal shit. This episode dives into this. Rejection Proof by Jia Jiang Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

This episode contains the reminder that I have to keep giving to myself in my own healing journey. May it also help you in yours. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

I don't like condensing something as complex as healing into something trite like a "Top 3 Steps", but if you had to focus your efforts on something, these are the top 3 things I would recommend for healing from a toxic relationship. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---

A couple of techniques to try when you feel haunted by the past. Find out more about my work: www.melindagerdungcoaching.com Book a session with me: https://calendly.com/gerdungmelinda/coaching-session --- Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io Produced By White Hot ---